FabSwingers.com forum: Recognised

By *heekyCharm OP Man
41 weeks ago

Colne

What do you do if someone recognises you? And what could the ramifications of that be?

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Lie. And say it isn’t me.

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By *rofessor ElementalMan
41 weeks ago

Durham

I’m accepting of my lifestyle choices and keep a sensible balance.

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By *ildo_swagginsthe3rdWoman
41 weeks ago

Wales

I'd act bewildered as if I had no clue what they were talking about....

...no change from my general demeanour then

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Lie. And say it isn’t me.

Aahhh, shaggy was the real OG with this

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I’m not really bothered about being recognised considering I have a face pic on our public gallery. It’s just a bit ‘eww’ that they’ve seen me half naked and I’ll usually block them.

My friends and family probably wouldn’t be surprised and I highly doubt it would affect my job in any way.

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By *ruceyyMan
41 weeks ago

London

"I’m not really bothered about being recognised considering I have a face pic on our public gallery. It’s just a bit ‘eww’ that they’ve seen me half naked and I’ll usually block them.

My friends and family probably wouldn’t be surprised and I highly doubt it would affect my job in any way. "

Why wouldn't they be surprised Mrs?

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By *heekyCharm OP Man
41 weeks ago

Colne

I was messaging a couple, sent a face pic and then suddenly their profile was unavailable.

Maybe they just didn't like my mush

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Denial, showing complete surprise, and asking "What on earth is that website then?", and feigning that you've recently been the victim of identity fraud, sounds like good advice Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Lie. And say it isn’t me.

Aahhh, shaggy was the real OG with this

lol"

I would, I would completely deny it and try to make them look like an idiot and question their sanity.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

im recognised quite often.

for example, about 20 minutes ago, someone messaging me with my actual name as the subject line

It is what it is.. if someone is recognising me, it's because they're indulging in the same lifestyle i am. and we're all grown up enough to be quiet about other people's business. Px

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
41 weeks ago

Hell

I’ve always had face pictures on here so I’ve always been recognised. All my friends, family and colleagues know I’m a swinger. I’m not ashamed of it. So nobody can out me

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I’m not really bothered about being recognised considering I have a face pic on our public gallery. It’s just a bit ‘eww’ that they’ve seen me half naked and I’ll usually block them.

My friends and family probably wouldn’t be surprised and I highly doubt it would affect my job in any way.

Why wouldn't they be surprised Mrs?"

They’ve joked about us being swingers in the past. God knows what gave them that idea. I must give off the vibes

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
41 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

The colleague that recognised me was very good at not being a creep about it and was a lot more embarrassed than I was when he brought it up in person. That was fine.

When people message me on here about seeing me at the bus stop and all the things they want to do to me, that's a skin crawl and instant block

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
41 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

Someone came up to me in the CO OP when I was getting my groceries, and , having recognised me, made a very childish comment , I just told them to grow up and fuck off.

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By *heekyCharm OP Man
41 weeks ago

Colne

"Someone came up to me in the CO OP when I was getting my groceries, and , having recognised me, made a very childish comment , I just told them to grow up and fuck off. "

You're my hero!

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I think I'd have to front it out. I've got face pics on the profile after all. People who do recognise me will have explain their own presence on fab if try to embarrass or out me

..not sure what it would mean for work, if there'd be any fallout

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By *anManCoolMan
41 weeks ago

Camborne

I did and we just gave each other a slight smile and carried on with our shopping

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By *parkle1974Woman
41 weeks ago

Leeds

Say "oh I didn't recognise you with your clothes on"

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By *sWyldWoman
41 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I was once outed by someone in my team at work, he was a complete dick about it by telling other people we worked with (particularly someone quite vulnerable)

I wasn't embarrassed at all I was just cross he could try and upset others about it.

Glad to say I no longer work there!

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By *apiomanMan
41 weeks ago

Shipley

I decided to live with the possibility that someone may recognise me. If they have they are being discreet.

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By *AYENCouple
41 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

"What do you do if someone recognises you? And what could the ramifications of that be? "

So what? We're adults, we like exciting sex! I'm pretty sure most people do, or would if they were honest and open to it.

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By *jg83Man
41 weeks ago

BURNLEY

Doesn't bother me tbh if they've seen me then they've been on the site themselves so what can they really? Lol

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By *aughtyPeepzMan
41 weeks ago

London

If it's via fab, I wouldn't worry, they're obviously here for the same reason as you

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By *lizabethhotMan
41 weeks ago

Norton

We would DIE on the spot if we were recognised .. blur our faces out on every pic , its easier for men to show there faces as they don't get called .. different when your a female .

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By *iss.Bella.Woman
41 weeks ago

Wales

This is something that worries me a lot. But specifically being recognised by certain people (I work in the education sector). One person has recognised me before, luckily he kept it to himself as I did about him being here. I can't help smiling to myself when I see him around town though

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By *heekyCharm OP Man
41 weeks ago

Colne

"This is something that worries me a lot. But specifically being recognised by certain people (I work in the education sector). One person has recognised me before, luckily he kept it to himself as I did about him being here. I can't help smiling to myself when I see him around town though

It's risky but we're humans with needs. We're all entitled to a private swinging life

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By *amie HantsWoman
41 weeks ago

Atlantis

If I’m recognised, I’m recognised. My friends know I’m on here. I send them pictures before I post them online to get hyped up. My friends are real hype girls.

My family wouldn’t care as my sex life isn’t their business and theirs isn’t mine

I don’t know any job that would fire me for being on here!

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By *ycanNightsMan
41 weeks ago

Workington

I've been recognised a few times...

Once a friend on Instagram found me on F3TLIFE and then messaged me on Instagram to say they had found me...I'm not really sure what she was wanting to achieve.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"What do you do if someone recognises you? And what could the ramifications of that be? "

It depends on how mature the person(s) recognising me would be.

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By *ris GrayMan
41 weeks ago

Dorchester

"What do you do if someone recognises you? And what could the ramifications of that be? "
earth shattering

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By *ighland couple 99Couple
41 weeks ago

Inverness

We’re not hurting anyone, so it’s nobody’s business

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
41 weeks ago

Wirral.

The only issue I have with being recognised are the daft messages from faceless profiles telling me where they've just seen me.

What do they expect me to say?? Well done you!?

It's creepy xx

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By *heekyCharm OP Man
41 weeks ago

Colne

"The only issue I have with being recognised are the daft messages from faceless profiles telling me where they've just seen me.

What do they expect me to say?? Well done you!?

It's creepy xx"
Yeah that's out of order!

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By *ingerrNutsMan
41 weeks ago

Poole

I worked with someone who was on here with her husband. We both acknowledged that we had seen each others profiles and pics and haven't mentioned it since

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
41 weeks ago

London or Bedford

Only happened once.

They immediately looked away & kept walking

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

It’s not happened to me but I’d deny it

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By *heekyCharm OP Man
41 weeks ago

Colne

"I worked with someone who was on here with her husband. We both acknowledged that we had seen each others profiles and pics and haven't mentioned it since"

Too close to home to swing with them?

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

If someone recognises you on here then they are swingers like you and hopefully they are open minded enough to accept any of your life choices.whst i would say is if you are worried about being recognised only put face pics as private or if you enjoy crossdressing or any kinds of kinks and worried someone could recognise you don't put picks on where someone could easily identify you

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By *heekyCharm OP Man
41 weeks ago

Colne

"If someone recognises you on here then they are swingers like you and hopefully they are open minded enough to accept any of your life choices.whst i would say is if you are worried about being recognised only put face pics as private or if you enjoy crossdressing or any kinds of kinks and worried someone could recognise you don't put picks on where someone could easily identify you "

This is all very sound advice.

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By *ongandharderMan
41 weeks ago

Rotherham

I'd deny it and advise that isn't me

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I was messaging a couple, sent a face pic and then suddenly their profile was unavailable.

Maybe they just didn't like my mush

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ha ha.you will find thats how a lit of people are on here.they either can't be bothered to reply as they have that many messages or are just rude people with no manners and think they are better than you.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I was once outed by someone in my team at work, he was a complete dick about it by telling other people we worked with (particularly someone quite vulnerable)

I wasn't embarrassed at all I was just cross he could try and upset others about it.

Glad to say I no longer work there!

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but surely that person would have been on this site too because how would they have known

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