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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swanage

Like swinging or would you rather have a relationship with great sex and cuddles?

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Both The smug couple answer!

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol have you not seen how many couples are on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ummm.... We can do both

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I have multiple relationships with great sex and cuddles. Why would this be an either or question?

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swanage


"Lol have you not seen how many couples are on here?"
really omg i thought many of them were just guys

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Like swinging or would you rather have a relationship with great sex and cuddles? "

I'd love a relationship with cuddles and great sex. Even better if that sex wasn't limited to just my partner.

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swanage


"I have multiple relationships with great sex and cuddles. Why would this be an either or question? "
every question is an either or question

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I'm not a swinger. I like sex and friendships with others and the relationship I have with my fiancé. Quite lucky really.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"I have multiple relationships with great sex and cuddles. Why would this be an either or question? every question is an either or question "

Oh.

Then both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do NOT want a relationship or a friendship.

I just want great sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The grass is always greener ….

I was in a relationship, and I wanted to swing. I’m now not in a relationship swinging I suppose, and I’d like somebody to fucking cuddle!!!!!

One day, I might get it right

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swanage

Roses are red violets are blue and i love you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve said it before, I’ll say it again.,

Spoony sex has both

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swanage


"The grass is always greener ….

I was in a relationship, and I wanted to swing. I’m now not in a relationship swinging I suppose, and I’d like somebody to fucking cuddle!!!!!

One day, I might get it right "
really you asked her to swing or she was in lifestyle already?

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By *olfandtazCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We have both so win, win for us

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swanage


"I do NOT want a relationship or a friendship.

I just want great sex. "
well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh. Erm. I’ll take both, please

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Worcester

Why not both?

Like, seriously. Ethical non-monogamy exists and anyone can do it.

I have long-term partners, and I also swing and do kink with casual partners.

It's not a one or the other situation.

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By *wingAway79Couple
over a year ago

Surrey

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The grass is always greener ….

I was in a relationship, and I wanted to swing. I’m now not in a relationship swinging I suppose, and I’d like somebody to fucking cuddle!!!!!

One day, I might get it right really you asked her to swing or she was in lifestyle already? "

There’s not enough alcohol in my house to open that box Fred.

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swanage


"The grass is always greener ….

I was in a relationship, and I wanted to swing. I’m now not in a relationship swinging I suppose, and I’d like somebody to fucking cuddle!!!!!

One day, I might get it right really you asked her to swing or she was in lifestyle already?

There’s not enough alcohol in my house to open that box Fred. "
lol cmon its only me thats listening

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Can I ask because I don't understand this wanting to have sex with other people if you got great sex with you partner.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Absolutely both.

Cuddles and a great relationship with my man & swing with others.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I ask because I don't understand this wanting to have sex with other people if you got great sex with you partner."

So if you’re a great cook you never have takeaway or go out to dinner?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Can I ask because I don't understand this wanting to have sex with other people if you got great sex with you partner."

Because I have great sex with my other partners too

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By *hirleyMan
over a year ago

London

I'd say many do, but swinging isn't the same meaning for most. 100s of people aren't into moresomes I find on here, which is a very swinger trait, I'd say. I'd say many singles here are also cheating, which I'm not judging, because there's possibly a lot of reasons for that too.

The only thing I find morally bad here is the various forms of kink shame you see. Unconsciously or intentionally, it shows. Feel like it's hypocrisy in a way that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I ask because I don't understand this wanting to have sex with other people if you got great sex with you partner."

And it’s different and more great sex with other people.

My partner is giving me something else other people could not possibly give me.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Relationship free zone here - definitely not signing up for another 500 years of the cold shoulder and being generally treated like shit.

Just here for the sex. And the laughs. But mainly the sex with fun people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just swinging for me thanks Px

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

OK fair enough . I can understand

That

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Why not both?

Like, seriously. Ethical non-monogamy exists and anyone can do it.

I have long-term partners, and I also swing and do kink with casual partners.

It's not a one or the other situation."

To answer your first question, I think maybe forming and sustaining one relationship is the limit of what many people have capacity to manage

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By *cott14Man
over a year ago

Essex

Happy with swinging . I prefer this dynamic x

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By *hirleyMan
over a year ago

London


"I'd say many do, but swinging isn't the same meaning for most. 100s of people aren't into moresomes I find on here, which is a very swinger trait, I'd say. I'd say many singles here are also cheating, which I'm not judging, because there's possibly a lot of reasons for that too.

The only thing I find morally bad here is the various forms of kink shame you see. Unconsciously or intentionally, it shows. Feel like it's hypocrisy in a way that."

Just to clarify that people are entitled to their preference, but you will see people with a preference that doesn't align with all on this site, which I'm guessing we're subconsciously expecting everyone to think the same as ourselves maybe.

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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

I'll take both.

It's not a question of this or that, but if whoever I'm with is comfortable with the cuddles afterwards, then I'm more than happy to oblige and something I adore.

All part of the aftercare if you ask me.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

I like variety, and swinging offers that.

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By *ittleRed18Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Always both!

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By *outhern man.Man
over a year ago

Weymouth

Both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have relationships with great cuddles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both please

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Today is a cuddles day most certainly

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swanage


"just swinging for me thanks Px "
yes i guess you are built for sin

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"Like swinging or would you rather have a relationship with great sex and cuddles? "

We have and want both. Why is this even a question to ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like swinging or would you rather have a relationship with great sex and cuddles? "

What about you op?

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By *hitehotguyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

For my lifestyle at the moment I’d like a FWB, or couple I’m a regular third with, so I can have a bit of both - the swinging scene and some cuddles but have our own vanilla lives.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

No desire for a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a swinger, so the latter if I had a choice

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester


"Like swinging or would you rather have a relationship with great sex and cuddles? "

I would like to be with just one person relationship etc but I am not , so casual hookups it is until something better happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I ask because I don't understand this wanting to have sex with other people if you got great sex with you partner."

Great sex with many partners makes for immense greatness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A relationship. I'm not a swinger anyway.

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