FabSwingers.com forum: Do you actually cmon be truthful now

By *ris Gray OP Man
41 weeks ago

Dorchester

Like swinging or would you rather have a relationship with great sex and cuddles?

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
41 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

Both

The smug couple answer!

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By *educing_EmCouple
41 weeks ago

Tipperary

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Lol have you not seen how many couples are on here?

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By *educing_EmCouple
41 weeks ago

Tipperary

Ummm.... We can do both

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
41 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I have multiple relationships with great sex and cuddles. Why would this be an either or question?

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By *ris Gray OP Man
41 weeks ago

Dorchester

"Lol have you not seen how many couples are on here?"
really omg i thought many of them were just guys

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
41 weeks ago

Basingstoke

"Like swinging or would you rather have a relationship with great sex and cuddles?

I'd love a relationship with cuddles and great sex. Even better if that sex wasn't limited to just my partner.

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By *ris Gray OP Man
41 weeks ago

Dorchester

"I have multiple relationships with great sex and cuddles. Why would this be an either or question?

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every question is an either or question

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By *eliWoman
41 weeks ago

I'm not a swinger. I like sex and friendships with others and the relationship I have with my fiancé. Quite lucky really.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
41 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"I have multiple relationships with great sex and cuddles. Why would this be an either or question?

every question is an either or question

Oh.

Then both

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By *herry delightWoman
41 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I do NOT want a relationship or a friendship.

I just want great sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

The grass is always greener ….

I was in a relationship, and I wanted to swing. I’m now not in a relationship swinging I suppose, and I’d like somebody to fucking cuddle!!!!!

One day, I might get it right

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By *ris Gray OP Man
41 weeks ago

Dorchester

Roses are red violets are blue and i love you

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
41 weeks ago

Essex

I’ve said it before, I’ll say it again.,

Spoony sex has both

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By *ris Gray OP Man
41 weeks ago

Dorchester

"The grass is always greener ….

I was in a relationship, and I wanted to swing. I’m now not in a relationship swinging I suppose, and I’d like somebody to fucking cuddle!!!!!

One day, I might get it right

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really you asked her to swing or she was in lifestyle already?

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By *olfandtazCouple
41 weeks ago

Bristol

We have both so win, win for us

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By *ris Gray OP Man
41 weeks ago

Dorchester

"I do NOT want a relationship or a friendship.

I just want great sex. "
well said

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Oh. Erm. I’ll take both, please

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
41 weeks ago

Worcester

Why not both?

Like, seriously. Ethical non-monogamy exists and anyone can do it.

I have long-term partners, and I also swing and do kink with casual partners.

It's not a one or the other situation.

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By *wingAway79Couple
41 weeks ago

Surrey

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"The grass is always greener ….

I was in a relationship, and I wanted to swing. I’m now not in a relationship swinging I suppose, and I’d like somebody to fucking cuddle!!!!!

One day, I might get it right

really you asked her to swing or she was in lifestyle already?

There’s not enough alcohol in my house to open that box Fred.

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By *ris Gray OP Man
41 weeks ago

Dorchester

"The grass is always greener ….

I was in a relationship, and I wanted to swing. I’m now not in a relationship swinging I suppose, and I’d like somebody to fucking cuddle!!!!!

One day, I might get it right

really you asked her to swing or she was in lifestyle already?

There’s not enough alcohol in my house to open that box Fred.

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lol cmon its only me thats listening

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
41 weeks ago

Bradford

Can I ask because I don't understand this wanting to have sex with other people if you got great sex with you partner.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
41 weeks ago

Leeds

Absolutely both.

Cuddles and a great relationship with my man & swing with others.

Mrs

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
41 weeks ago

Essex

"Can I ask because I don't understand this wanting to have sex with other people if you got great sex with you partner."

So if you’re a great cook you never have takeaway or go out to dinner?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
41 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"Can I ask because I don't understand this wanting to have sex with other people if you got great sex with you partner."

Because I have great sex with my other partners too

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By *hirleyMan
41 weeks ago

somewhere

I'd say many do, but swinging isn't the same meaning for most. 100s of people aren't into moresomes I find on here, which is a very swinger trait, I'd say. I'd say many singles here are also cheating, which I'm not judging, because there's possibly a lot of reasons for that too.

The only thing I find morally bad here is the various forms of kink shame you see. Unconsciously or intentionally, it shows. Feel like it's hypocrisy in a way that.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Can I ask because I don't understand this wanting to have sex with other people if you got great sex with you partner."

And it’s different and more great sex with other people.

My partner is giving me something else other people could not possibly give me.

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By *ellhungvweMan
41 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Relationship free zone here - definitely not signing up for another 500 years of the cold shoulder and being generally treated like shit.

Just here for the sex. And the laughs. But mainly the sex with fun people.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

just swinging for me thanks

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
41 weeks ago

Bradford

OK fair enough . I can understand

That

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By *ellinever70Woman
41 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"Why not both?

Like, seriously. Ethical non-monogamy exists and anyone can do it.

I have long-term partners, and I also swing and do kink with casual partners.

It's not a one or the other situation."

To answer your first question, I think maybe forming and sustaining one relationship is the limit of what many people have capacity to manage

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By *cott14Man
41 weeks ago

Essex & SW Exeter/Taunton

Happy with swinging . I prefer this dynamic x

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By *hirleyMan
41 weeks ago

somewhere

"I'd say many do, but swinging isn't the same meaning for most. 100s of people aren't into moresomes I find on here, which is a very swinger trait, I'd say. I'd say many singles here are also cheating, which I'm not judging, because there's possibly a lot of reasons for that too.

The only thing I find morally bad here is the various forms of kink shame you see. Unconsciously or intentionally, it shows. Feel like it's hypocrisy in a way that."

Just to clarify that people are entitled to their preference, but you will see people with a preference that doesn't align with all on this site, which I'm guessing we're subconsciously expecting everyone to think the same as ourselves maybe.

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By *ddie1966Man
41 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

I'll take both.

It's not a question of this or that, but if whoever I'm with is comfortable with the cuddles afterwards, then I'm more than happy to oblige and something I adore.

All part of the aftercare if you ask me.

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By *iss DevilWoman
41 weeks ago

Bedford

I like variety, and swinging offers that.

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By *ittleRed18Woman
41 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Always both!

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By *outhern man.Man
41 weeks ago

Weymouth

Both.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I have relationships with great cuddles.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
41 weeks ago

Maidstone

Both please

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By *heGateKeeperMan
41 weeks ago

Stratford

Today is a cuddles day most certainly

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By *ris Gray OP Man
41 weeks ago

Dorchester

"just swinging for me thanks

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yes i guess you are built for sin

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
41 weeks ago

Neath valley.

"Like swinging or would you rather have a relationship with great sex and cuddles?

We have and want both. Why is this even a question to ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Like swinging or would you rather have a relationship with great sex and cuddles?

What about you op?

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By *hitehotguyMan
41 weeks ago

Manchester

For my lifestyle at the moment I’d like a FWB, or couple I’m a regular third with, so I can have a bit of both - the swinging scene and some cuddles but have our own vanilla lives.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
41 weeks ago

Reading

No desire for a relationship.

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By *hrek101Man
41 weeks ago

Herts

I'm not a swinger, so the latter if I had a choice

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
41 weeks ago

chichester

"Like swinging or would you rather have a relationship with great sex and cuddles?

I would like to be with just one person relationship etc but I am not , so casual hookups it is until something better happens

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Can I ask because I don't understand this wanting to have sex with other people if you got great sex with you partner."

Great sex with many partners makes for immense greatness.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

A relationship. I'm not a swinger anyway.

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