FabSwingers.com forum: how many here have never swung

By *asterR and slut maya OP Man
41 weeks ago

Bradford

Or been to a club .

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By *izzibeth9Couple
41 weeks ago

Loughborough

47.

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By *asterR and slut maya OP Man
41 weeks ago

Bradford

"47. "

Very good no this thread not

What number am I thinking of

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"47.

Very good no this thread not

What number am I thinking of

What number are you thinking of?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
41 weeks ago

Leeds

173002

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I think 98% of the people on here

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By *utdoorfun7474Couple
41 weeks ago

armagh

We have never been to a club

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By *umagain58Man
41 weeks ago

London

Yes a lot fantasise about swinging and clubs but never actually do. I could not tell you numbers but have come across them. I don’t mind as long as they are honest and don’t waste time

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By *eyond PurityCouple
41 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Judging by the amount of ‘teenage wanking fantasy’ messages we get from men on here, I’d say it’s 2/3rds of the site.

This site is split into 4 parts - those that swing, those that meet for additional sex needs, those that are dipping their toes in to see if they like it and the complete fantasists who will never meet or do anything sexual with anyone else other than in their mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Moi, im hoping to go to a club soonish, and meet a lovely couple

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By *ruceyyMan
41 weeks ago

London

To swing you need to be in a couple no?

I have met couples...does that count? But not from here!

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By *iaisonseekerMan
41 weeks ago

Liverpool

What definition of "swung" is being used? If it's strictly swapped partners then no.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"To swing you need to be in a couple no?

I have met couples...does that count? But not from here! "

I agree. The way I see the definition of swinging is COUPLES.

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By *sWyldWoman
41 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I'm not really a swinger, but have been to a club

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By *ig and MangoCouple
41 weeks ago

Burnley

"Judging by the amount of ‘teenage wanking fantasy’ messages we get from men on here, I’d say it’s 2/3rds of the site.

I think there's the PW's too

Professional Wankers

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By *oo..Woman
41 weeks ago

Boo's World

I've been to a club but won't describe myself as a "swinger".

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

probably about 80% on this site, most people seem to use it for sex dating one-on-one.

Btw, women's lifestyle mags have articles and tips on how to arrange threesomes so even that has become mainstream

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

From a chandelier?

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"To swing you need to be in a couple no?

I have met couples...does that count? But not from here!

I agree. The way I see the definition of swinging is COUPLES. "

Swinging in the 1960s was about not being in couples, free love, no attachments. Then people grew up, got jobs, got married had kids, realised their lives were mundane and looked for that spark of fun again. In the 1970s it was dubbed 'wife swapping' by the tabloids. That's where the couples element comes in.

Single people swing, probably more so than some swinging couples do.

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By *hMeOhMyOhCouple
41 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

"Judging by the amount of ‘teenage wanking fantasy’ messages we get from men on here, I’d say it’s 2/3rds of the site.

That’s about right. Other than a very few, presumably most of those in group one will have started in group 2 or 3 and taken time to find their groove. Always worth remembering for the truly committed.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Stockport

Have done clubs, although stopped when pandemic hit. Depending on your definition of swinging, yes, as a TV joining couples and singles in NSA sexual activities. For my part though generally hands/mouth only, or even just being photographer for a couple. Again very little since the pandemic. Also pre-pandemic, used to enjoy a bit of dogging with friends.

So yes, I have taken part in the sex opportunities facilitated by fab, but no I've not been part of a couple doing traditional swinging with other couples.

As for the future, my hope is for fwb type connections and/or more-than-one-off-meets with couples. To allow getting to properly know people and have mutual enjoyment, rather than spending months/years trying to find people for single meets.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
41 weeks ago

kent

We don't consider ourselves swingers, and have never pretended to be. Have we been to clubs? Yes. Do we have genuine friends that we meet socially and sometimes get naked with and enjoy threesome and foursome fun? Yes. Do we sometimes meet alone for FwB type connections? Yes to this as well.

Does this make us swingers? No, not as far as we're concerned. It takes a lot for us to feel comfortable with people, and it's aways about an actual friendship rather than a brief experience Xx

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By *electableicecreamMan
41 weeks ago

The West

I'm not a swinger but l have met people through fab and I do attend social events and clubs.

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By *ice_couple2012Couple
41 weeks ago

Leicester

"We don't consider ourselves swingers, and have never pretended to be. Have we been to clubs? Yes. Do we have genuine friends that we meet socially and sometimes get naked with and enjoy threesome and foursome fun? Yes. Do we sometimes meet alone for FwB type connections? Yes to this as well.

Does this make us swingers? No, not as far as we're concerned. It takes a lot for us to feel comfortable with people, and it's aways about an actual friendship rather than a brief experience Xx"

Interesting. And everyone is of course entitled to define themselves as they wish. But it begs the question of what you think swingers do that is different to what you do

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
41 weeks ago

Lingfield

Never done clubs and have no interest in doing so. I've never met anyone from here either. In the words of Bono, I still haven't found what I'm looking for.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
41 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

Planning on a club in March, doing a social this Saturday, but no, I’ve never been to a swingers club

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By *ealitybitesMan
41 weeks ago

Belfast

I don't class myself as a swinger and I've only ever had one to one meets. We don't have a club scene as such over here so I've never been to one.

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By *ris GrayMan
41 weeks ago

Dorchester

I'd say most single guys and most couples led by the guy with only pics of the women

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By *eyond PurityCouple
41 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Does this make us swingers? No, not as far as we're concerned. It takes a lot for us to feel comfortable with people, and it's aways about an actual friendship rather than a brief experience Xx"

This is us too - some people will say we are swingers but we don’t really meet couples (purely for the fact we’ve not established a connection with both enough to get naked with them). We have plenty of couples as friends in the lifestyle.

In clubs when I see a big bed of writhing people and they are swapping over to different people - they would be my definition of a swinger - who enjoy the act of sex over a connection.

We are after a connection first so it doesn’t feel like we are swingers. We have hardly played in clubs, other than with each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I’m just here to cheat on my wife

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By *parkle1974Woman
41 weeks ago

Leeds

Swung from what??

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Swung from what?? "

The chandelier.

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By *implynaughty1Couple
41 weeks ago

stockport

We have been to a few clubs not really for us

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By *hagTonightMan
41 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonightMan
41 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

I havent done it, but yes. I have been to few clubs too

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By *unlovin72Man
41 weeks ago

BARNSLEY

I have been to a club but never swung with a lovely couple yet hopefully this year

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
41 weeks ago

London

I have been in a club but never swing

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I have been in a club but never swing "

Take me with you next time

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
41 weeks ago

London

"I have been in a club but never swing

Take me with you next time"

No intention to come back

What about a natural spa instead?

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I have been in a club but never swing

Take me with you next time

No intention to come back

What about a natural spa instead? "

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
41 weeks ago

kent

Does this make us swingers? No, not as far as we're concerned. It takes a lot for us to feel comfortable with people, and it's aways about an actual friendship rather than a brief experience Xx

In clubs when I see a big bed of writhing people and they are swapping over to different people - they would be my definition of a swinger - who enjoy the act of sex over a connection.

We are after a connection first so it doesn’t feel like we are swingers. We have hardly played in clubs, other than with each other.

Exactly this. And of the few experiences we've had in clubs with people we first met on the night, those people have now been friends for several years x

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By *otuseater11Man
41 weeks ago

IRVINE

As a single man now I have met couples and been to clubs

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By *na64Woman
41 weeks ago

Manchester

"Or been to a club ."

I really want to be but most people I have met on Fab, even couples on here seem to want one on one

For me and I’m sure a lot of women it’s like a hook up connector

I want to swing but end up with 1 on 1’s

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By *dy-ukTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Alcester

Been to clubs.

Never 'swung' as is penetration sex because I can't do it, as in sex doesn't arouse me so happy to not go there.

Have given great oral though, and love BDSM

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By *dy-ukTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Alcester

"Swung from what??

The chandelier. "

Sia did a song about that

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By *arla SwingerWoman
41 weeks ago

Somewhere

Been to a few clubs, been in the 'lifestyle' (whatever that is) for several years. Do class myself as a swinger, although terminally single, so others may not

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By *inx000Couple
41 weeks ago

Manchester

Never been to a club but really want to go

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Not been to a club but definitely swinging

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By *rofessor ElementalMan
41 weeks ago

Durham

Does a private party in a club count otherwise not been to a club.

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41 weeks ago

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41 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Moi

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By *affron40Woman
41 weeks ago

manchester

I’ve been to a club but I’m not a swinger

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By *eliWoman
41 weeks ago

I've never been a swinger. Nor will be one. Not that there's anything wrong with it. I have been to a club before - a forum takeover is where I met my fiancé. I've never had sex one.

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By *eliWoman
41 weeks ago

*in one. Typing is effort today.

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By *VineMan
41 weeks ago

The right place

I’ve been to lots of clubs. I’ve met with couples.

I wouldn’t say I’m a swinger though.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Swung from what??

The chandelier.

Sia did a song about that

I know! It’s a banger!

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I've not been to a club, other than TG in my vanilla life - although i did have sex there several times

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
41 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

If you take swinging to mean group sex, threesomes etc then we've swung. But wife swapping with randoms, no we've not done that. We have been to clubs.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
41 weeks ago

Stratford

Me, but I’d love to go to a club and hope to tick that off this year

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