FabSwingers.com forum: Whats your chat game like?

By (user no longer on site) OP
48 weeks ago

I find when talking to someone I keep it pretty innocent just banter and friendly chat.

If they push it in a flirty direction I normally play to their level.

But I don't normally instigate as I don't wanna come across as innopropes

How do you guys get down? Keep it friendly untill the other ups the levels?

Or are you in pretty early with the "let me insert myself inside you"

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

There’s a time and place for sexy chat.

The time is this afternoon - at my place.

* looks towards camera, takes a bow. #theyknowho

Add agree with you okay I kind of match at the moment. A bit like if you were sat on the sofa together, and you can feel the tension in the air, one of you has to lean in to see if the other is going to respond. And when you see them close their eyes and open their selves to the first kiss. Within minutes, your every button on each other’s clothing and sticking your tongue into every hole, you can find.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

My chat is poor, particularly when I try to be sexy.

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By *amie HantsWoman
48 weeks ago

Atlantis

I keep it non sexual for as long as possible. I don’t like endless sexual message I like to build chemistry in person. After we’ve had sex then it’s completely different and I quite like a filthy message but I find if sex chat happens before we meet, that’s all the conversation is going to be and I find it tedious

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By *affron40Woman
48 weeks ago

manchester

I don’t ever do sexual chat. I’m not a huge chatter so anyone who knows me knows that I do sporadic nonsense.

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By *eliWoman
48 weeks ago

If I've not met them I try to not be too sexual.

The chemistry might not be there in person. I like getting to know a person and find it difficult if we're constantly talking about sex.

Plus, I'm well aware I have a very high libido. Too high. The majority of the time I try and repress it because I don't want to give off the impression that I'm a bit of a harlot. I like when the conversation organically builds up to that sort of chat but I don't really start it.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
48 weeks ago

London

I'm like you in that I don't instigate the flirtatious messages in a chat. I take my cue from the other party although often it can be difficult to judge the intent through the basic text function on here.

I'd hate to misconstrue a message and bring the chat to a crashing halt.

Saying that, I'm chatting to a couple of lovely folk on here where the chat has taken a turn into the suggestive. My inability to believe that anyone thinks of being naughty with me always makes it tricky.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"I don’t ever do sexual chat. I’m not a huge chatter so anyone who knows me knows that I do sporadic nonsense. "

Very.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
48 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Shit man, I can waffle.

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By *sWyldWoman
48 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I try to keep it fairly innocent and non sexual until I meet someone. Don't want any awkwardness if we don't hit it off in person.

Once I've met them and there's clearly some chemistry I'm much more receptive to it

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
48 weeks ago

Bradford

I can talk shite for England I can talk on any subject .I can talk knowable about sex. I can be funny

I can be serious . I pretty good all round but very few here actually want to engage in conversation .

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

I try and avoid starting any sexual chats. I find if we haven’t already met and the chat jumps straight into that it usually dies a slow death.

I don’t mind a little flirting back and forth but if I’m intending on meeting them I want to get to know them a little and that’s difficult when the conversation is purely sexual.

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
48 weeks ago

My Own Little World

Have had few chats with women on hear non sexual can be funny at times and very knowledgeable not one has turned sexual so far just been nice chats

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

I don’t know if I have game on here. But generally I’m pretty confident in my game.

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By *o_yeur_eyes_onlyMan
48 weeks ago

Londontown

"I don’t know if I have game on here. But generally I’m pretty confident in my game. "

Modest Pickles...... You ooze rizz!!

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By *eyond PurityCouple
48 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Chatting online, to me, is easy.

I can flirt, be serious, have a laugh and when the heat needs turning up, slowly ease it in to chat until it’s at max (get round here now) filth.

Simple rule is just stay at the level the other person is. Too many guys are just wanting to get to sex chat or show their cock, when the conversation didn’t warrant it. Teasing is so much more sexier and gets the mind working than graphic.

After a lot of chats on here, I’ve realised it’s an art, as you need to understand the other person(s) and where they are at to know where the conversation needs to go or just let it flow.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
48 weeks ago

Leeds

I hate people who start with sexy chat, especially during the day, I'm working or parenting or anything but thinking about some randomer.

Time and place for that, I need to get to know someone on a normal basis before any sexy chat and then it's when the time is right.

I've done the whole yeah I'm so turned on wearing my lingerie while I'm reality washing the pots, it's just not hot.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

There has to be some sort of attraction beforehand, it could be something that I have read within their bio that stands out or it could be someone here on the forums that I have a secret ‘crush’ on for example.

That is when lust takes over and I don’t tend to hold back either

In general though I tend to be well behaved

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By *elix SightedMan
48 weeks ago

Cloud 8

Message 1)

Hey bb wuu2

Message 2)

I wanna fuck your fucking fanny off you twat

Message 3)

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"Message 1)

Hey bb wuu2

Message 2)

I wanna fuck your fucking fanny off you twat

Message 3)

Why?"

I just do not even respond to such messages, txt talk is an absolute ‘no’ for me, it is awful and a big turn off straight away.

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By *ruceyyMan
48 weeks ago

London

I genuinely think I'm pretty good.

A prolific fab user once said it was 6.5/10 which you know, I'd take

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By *urora1912Woman
48 weeks ago

Norfolk East anglia

Flirty yes

but sex chat no, I'm not a fan of it

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
48 weeks ago

kent

Only sexual messages gets old really fast. It only works well if you've both taken the trouble to build and an organic connection, so you can talk about all kinds of things as well. It works best if you know and fancy each other in real life. I used to enjoy messaging, but these days it's rare I take the trouble to keep conversations alive. That isn't to say that I don't want to talk to people - I do - or that there aren't any people I'd like to get to know better - there are - I just don't have... whatever it is you need to fully engage with people at the moment. Xx

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By *a LunaWoman
48 weeks ago

South Wales

Mmmm. Well, I’m pretty uncouth so chat can get a bit sexual at any given moment. But in a tongue in cheek “ooooh matron” kind of way.

That said. I don’t like sleazy messages or long winded “I’m going to do this that and the other” messages.

I like earthy men. Matter of fact. Rude but not sleazy.

Probably makes no sense but I know what I mean

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By (user no longer on site) OP
48 weeks ago

"Message 1)

Hey bb wuu2

Message 2)

I wanna fuck your fucking fanny off you twat

Message 3)

Why?

I just do not even respond to such messages, txt talk is an absolute ‘no’ for me, it is awful and a big turn off straight away. "

Don't listen to her mate, you had me at "hey bb wuu2"

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
48 weeks ago

Stockport

I'm fucking useless at it. I do have a few friends I've made through fab where a bit of sexual innuendo* can slide into** the conversation - often along the lines of "dogging spot!" when in a car with them*** - but only because I've got decidedly non-sexual relationships with them. Normally though I have no idea how to move past normal conversation into sex chat.

* Why is it that "innuendo" sounds like some kind of Italian kinkiness?

** See, you can't even mention innuendos without making one!

*** No, when driving to places with them. It is possible to be in a car with someone without parking up and shagging. Not everything is an innuendo.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"I don’t know if I have game on here. But generally I’m pretty confident in my game.

Modest Pickles...... You ooze rizz!! "

Rizz God

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By *o_yeur_eyes_onlyMan
48 weeks ago

Londontown

"I don’t know if I have game on here. But generally I’m pretty confident in my game.

Modest Pickles...... You ooze rizz!!

Rizz God"

IYKYK

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
48 weeks ago

Cumbria

Awful, we’re both terrible at small talk, it’s just really dull.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Terrible till I get in the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"If I've not met them I try to not be too sexual.

The chemistry might not be there in person. I like getting to know a person and find it difficult if we're constantly talking about sex.

How do you gauge chemistry from a text?

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
48 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"There’s a time and place for sexy chat.

The time is this afternoon - at my place.

* looks towards camera, takes a bow. #theyknowho

#theyknowho has done me in, Woody

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"Mmmm. Well, I’m pretty uncouth so chat can get a bit sexual at any given moment. But in a tongue in cheek “ooooh matron” kind of way.

That said. I don’t like sleazy messages or long winded “I’m going to do this that and the other” messages.

I like earthy men. Matter of fact. Rude but not sleazy.

Probably makes no sense but I know what I mean

No-that doesn’t make any sense

(The Emojis are crap on this platform aren’t they?)

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

I've got mad rizz

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By *ensualbicockMan
44 weeks ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

I can chat for England me

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"I've got mad rizz

You have

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By *TG3Man
44 weeks ago

Dorchester

I never talk sex until we meet...... Now get yer keks doon

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By *hristopherd999Man
44 weeks ago

Brentwood

When chatting to a woman I find if she starts talking dirty to me and asking what I'm going to do her, it's a man

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
44 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

I'm terrible at talking full-stop. I don't know how to interact with people.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"I've got mad rizz

Man likeeeeeeeee

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By *ipped_TartanMan
44 weeks ago

north east

I go fully descriptive and filthy but this happens when I get the encouragement

Try not to overstep and I am always respectful

Cheeky but respectful

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By *heGateKeeperMan
44 weeks ago

Stratford

Joe beans taught me everything I know

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
44 weeks ago

chichester

I am smoother talking than a slippery politician

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By *ames_HertsMan
44 weeks ago

North Hertfordshire

It would appear my chat is shit and I don't get banged

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By *rill PhilMan
44 weeks ago

Crediton

Fucking useless

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By *andy 1Couple
44 weeks ago

northeast

my names dick do u like it

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By *a LunaWoman
44 weeks ago

South Wales

Shit. As anyone who has ever pm’d me on here will tell you!

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
44 weeks ago

Southampton

Rubbish lol

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By *r MzchiefMan
44 weeks ago

Derbyshire

Ive attempted to start

chats, tried many approaches with mixed results. Ive decided not to bother to try and initiate a conversation. Most couples dont appreciate it. I think waiting for a couple to message me is the way to go. With that unlikely eventuality in mind im looking at forums more where I can at least get some form of interaction and a laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"I can talk shite for England I can talk on any subject .I can talk knowable about sex. I can be funny

I can be serious . I pretty good all round but very few here actually want to engage in conversation ."

It’s a miracle anyone is ever born!

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By *tsJustKateWoman
44 weeks ago

London

"I find when talking to someone I keep it pretty innocent just banter and friendly chat.

If they push it in a flirty direction I normally play to their level.

But I don't normally instigate as I don't wanna come across as innopropes

How do you guys get down? Keep it friendly untill the other ups the levels?

Or are you in pretty early with the "let me insert myself inside you"

I'm not very good at chatting to be honest and my one or two word replies puts some people off.

I'm more of an doer than a talker!

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By *issBellaWoman
44 weeks ago

Wales

I tend to keep it friendly at first with the odd suggestive flirt. Keeping filth for those who I've met or built a bit of a connection with.

My chat game is pretty dire though, if rather my actions do the talking

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