FabSwingers.com forum: Not your type

By *ilthycoupleabz OP Couple
41 weeks ago

Aberdeen

I have been pondering this - if you have a specific body type you prefer, do you stray from that?

If so is it something that would last with that person or just a one off?

If it lasted, would you find that over time you want someone who matches your type more and begin to lose interest?

A pondering MrsAbz

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By *2000ManMan
41 weeks ago

Worthing

Women have a type and rarely move from that. Men don't have a type.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
41 weeks ago

Staffordshire

We both have a type, we rarely stray from that unless there’s a really good connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I don't think your ideal ever changes, you just become more open to different body types if other attributes shine through

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By *ilthycoupleabz OP Couple
41 weeks ago

Aberdeen

"Women have a type and rarely move from that. Men don't have a type."

I see the opposite on here all the time that men have types.

Often has been said that men don't always state their type but clearly have one.

For the record I don't have a type my past partners all vary greatly.

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I have a body type I’d need for a long term thing

Plenty of other body types are fine for recreational fun only though

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By *avexxMan
41 weeks ago

cheshire

i like curvy athletic slim, whats important to me is a good sense of humour and personality

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By *ilthycoupleabz OP Couple
41 weeks ago

Aberdeen

"We both have a type, we rarely stray from that unless there’s a really good connection."

Do you both share the same type?

MrsAbz

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By *ilthycoupleabz OP Couple
41 weeks ago

Aberdeen

"I don't think your ideal ever changes, you just become more open to different body types if other attributes shine through "

So you end up liking someome despite them not meeting your preference?

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Women have a type and rarely move from that. Men don't have a type."

I do. Slim petite shorter than me women. .. on paper, that is my type. But I cannot tell you how many times a hot sexy woman that isn’t my type has been able to manipulate me with her sheer sexiness and confidence that will trump that body type I’ve mentioned above, quickly and easily.

Which means a woman’s attitude, and her personality is the first box she will be ticking that will keep her mans interest.

Body shapes change, her body will age as will mine. But her mind and her kindness is what will keep me there forever.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
41 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"We both have a type, we rarely stray from that unless there’s a really good connection.

Do you both share the same type?

MrsAbz "

With women, 100%.

I’m not so opinionated about any men we meet but I can tell immediately if H will like them.

She’s very steadfast in her taste in men.

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By *sWyldWoman
41 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I'm never sure what my type is really I just know that some things put me off people and other things draw me to them.

However if I look at a profile and all their verifications are from slim women with small perky boobs I'm positive I'm not what they want!

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I don’t have a type when it comes to body shape, size or any physical features on a woman actually. I just love women. They’re beautiful.

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By *ilthycoupleabz OP Couple
41 weeks ago

Aberdeen

"I have a body type I’d need for a long term thing

Plenty of other body types are fine for recreational fun only though "

Thanks for the honesty - what happens over time though? Your 20nyr old body isn't the same as your 40 or 60 yr old one?

Does that mean you leave to find a new person?

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I have a body type I’d need for a long term thing

Plenty of other body types are fine for recreational fun only though

Thanks for the honesty - what happens over time though? Your 20nyr old body isn't the same as your 40 or 60 yr old one?

Does that mean you leave to find a new person?

MrsAbz "

An aging body doesn’t bother me. It’s more to do with proportions which won’t change massively over time to the point I’d leave them

If they gain/lost a significant amount of weight that’s a different story though. That might end it for me

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By *ilthycoupleabz OP Couple
41 weeks ago

Aberdeen

"i like curvy athletic slim, whats important to me is a good sense of humour and personality"

So that's someone for the long haul - you like the person to have your personality type

MrsAbz

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
41 weeks ago

Leeds

I don't really have a specific body type so can't comment on that - it's all about the face, eyes, smile & personality - if I like that I'll generally like the rest.

Mrs

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By *ilthycoupleabz OP Couple
41 weeks ago

Aberdeen

"Women have a type and rarely move from that. Men don't have a type.

Which means a woman’s attitude, and her personality is the first box she will be ticking that will keep her mans interest.

Body shapes change, her body will age as will mine. But her mind and her kindness is what will keep me there forever.

I love that answer, very well explained

MrsAbz

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
41 weeks ago

Maidstone

My type is dickhead apparently...

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By *ilthycoupleabz OP Couple
41 weeks ago

Aberdeen

"I'm never sure what my type is really I just know that some things put me off people and other things draw me to them.

However if I look at a profile and all their verifications are from slim women with small perky boobs I'm positive I'm not what they want! "

Haha that is how I think too - deffo wouldn't approach someone if I knew all they liked was the opposite of me.

MrsAbz

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By *anted by NightMan
41 weeks ago

Shangri-La

"I have been pondering this - if you have a specific body type you prefer, do you stray from that?

If so is it something that would last with that person or just a one off?

If it lasted, would you find that over time you want someone who matches your type more and begin to lose interest?

A pondering MrsAbz "

I’m not bothered about body types or looks but personality and attitude.

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By *viatrixWoman
41 weeks ago

Redhill

I have been known to stray, but it will probably be a one off, and many times it’s been because personality has won…

Sadly I am very, very shallow atm and i am only enthused by the body type I adore (very lean and toned and tall), a gorgeous face and a gorgeous personality- which is making it damn hard to play with new people haha

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By *ilthycoupleabz OP Couple
41 weeks ago

Aberdeen

"I have a body type I’d need for a long term thing

Plenty of other body types are fine for recreational fun only though

Thanks for the honesty - what happens over time though? Your 20nyr old body isn't the same as your 40 or 60 yr old one?

Does that mean you leave to find a new person?

MrsAbz

An aging body doesn’t bother me. It’s more to do with proportions which won’t change massively over time to the point I’d leave them

If they gain/lost a significant amount of weight that’s a different story though. That might end it for me "

Thanks for the honest answet again. It is good to know what one wants

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

So interesting - i absolutely thought i did, but soon realised that what i am drawn to is actually the mind, intelligence and wit... That comes in all sorts of interesting packages

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By *ilthycoupleabz OP Couple
41 weeks ago

Aberdeen

"I don’t have a type when it comes to body shape, size or any physical features on a woman actually. I just love women. They’re beautiful. "

A man after my own heart! Women are just bloody lovely

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Oh but they must be my height or taller.. I guess that is my 'type'

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By *edeWoman
41 weeks ago

the abyss

I don't have a body type I go for at all. I go for the person. If they can engage my mind then I'm theirs, looks have nothing to do with that

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By *ilthycoupleabz OP Couple
41 weeks ago

Aberdeen

"I don't really have a specific body type so can't comment on that - it's all about the face, eyes, smile & personality - if I like that I'll generally like the rest.

Mrs "

Ah a good personality you can connect with does seem to be a priority. Confidence too is something I like. Not arrogance but just being assured in who you are

MrsAbz

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By *ilthycoupleabz OP Couple
41 weeks ago

Aberdeen

"My type is dickhead apparently...

You need to change that one

MrsAbz

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By *mmaleiaWoman
41 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

I’ve surprised myself & strayed from my type just recently, but mentally there’s a great connection & we seem to want the same things sexually

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I tended to be drawn to fat birds, I rarely deviated from that.

Now I've no interest in anyone at all.

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By *ilthycoupleabz OP Couple
41 weeks ago

Aberdeen

"Oh but they must be my height or taller.. I guess that is my 'type' "

I see that a lot but I guess as I'm not that tall it hasn't really been something that bothers me. If you found the utterly perfect, ideal man but he was 2" shorter than you, would it be a deal breaker?

MrsAbz

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By *agnar73Man
41 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Open minded.

I guess I’m used to bbw from past relationships, so I’m curious about petite and slim women but I don’t think they’re into me.

Given my age, i think its really more about having a connection and mutual sort of trust/inderstanding rather than chasing after the ‘hotties’

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
41 weeks ago

Newcastle

I would say I more stick to type with women. With men I have found I am more varied. A physical attribute I find attractive with one person doesn’t mean I’ll find that same thing attractive with someone else. Some people can just carry a look off better than others or just make it sexy to me.

People definitely become more attractive to me through their personality and our connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I don't have a specific body type, although very slim men have never done it for me. The men I've slept with have had very different bodies and looks. It's more about their personality and how we gel.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Oh but they must be my height or taller.. I guess that is my 'type'

MrsAbz "

In reality it just wouldn't happen.... I wear 3/4 inch heels - so it would feel like having a child with me?

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By *ruceyyMan
41 weeks ago

London

I have strayed away from it. Womens personalities account for alot and if they sound sexy and have a hot little giggle, I'm easily swayed.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I don’t have a type when it comes to body shape, size or any physical features on a woman actually. I just love women. They’re beautiful.

A man after my own heart! Women are just bloody lovely

MrsAbz "

You guys really are

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

At the risk of over-analysing, I have a physical attraction to certain body types and looks. However, I’ve come to understand that whilst that creates a certain feeling it’s not related to making a sexual connection and being mentally and emotionally aroused in the way someone else can who is on the same wavelength.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I dont have a body type as such for me its about attraction ive played with skinny guys, muscular guys and dad bods but its the face i go for, shallow? Yep i am great sex wont happen if i dont fancy them

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
41 weeks ago

Worcester

"Women have a type and rarely move from that. Men don't have a type."

Genuinely chooked on my croissant at that comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Women have a type and rarely move from that. Men don't have a type.

Genuinely chooked on my croissant at that comment."

Croissant. You’re so fancy

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
41 weeks ago

Worcester

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
41 weeks ago

Worcester

"Women have a type and rarely move from that. Men don't have a type.

Genuinely chooked on my croissant at that comment.

Croissant. You’re so fancy

Look, Waitrose is my nearest supermarket ok? I don’t know why there’s one on a council estate but there is.

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
41 weeks ago

London

"Women have a type and rarely move from that. Men don't have a type.

Which means a woman’s attitude, and her personality is the first box she will be ticking that will keep her mans interest.

Body shapes change, her body will age as will mine. But her mind and her kindness is what will keep me there forever.

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By *ruceyyMan
41 weeks ago

London

"Women have a type and rarely move from that. Men don't have a type.

Genuinely chooked on my croissant at that comment.

Croissant. You’re so fancy

Look, Waitrose is my nearest supermarket ok? I don’t know why there’s one on a council estate but there is.

I'm on your side, they're banging!

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Women have a type and rarely move from that. Men don't have a type.

Genuinely chooked on my croissant at that comment.

Croissant. You’re so fancy

Look, Waitrose is my nearest supermarket ok? I don’t know why there’s one on a council estate but there is.

You shop in Waitrose?

God

you’re hot!

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By *oneybadger147Man
41 weeks ago

St Neots

I have a type but sometimes a woman that isn't necessarily my type catches the eye

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By *ris GrayMan
41 weeks ago

Dorchester

"Women have a type and rarely move from that. Men don't have a type."
i have a type

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
41 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

Interesting ponderings Mrs Abz

I don't think I have a type. Things are very much about facial attraction for me. Which then has to be followed by a certain in person spark. I'm a nightmare.

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By * and R cple4Couple
41 weeks ago

swansea

When I was younger my type was set in stone but as I've gotten older and some what wiser

it's not all about physical types.

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
41 weeks ago

London

I do have a type, but at the end of the day, the guys I have fallen for never met the requirements.

They are chubby, sweet and clever and not the big Viking I was expecting. Life always surprises you.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Oh but they must be my height or taller.. I guess that is my 'type' "

I fancy the pants off you midnight, and without looking at your profile, I could not tell you your height.

And I suppose that’s where people who have types are definitely different.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
41 weeks ago

Essex

I 100% don’t have a physical type.

I definitely have a personality type.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Women have a type and rarely move from that. Men don't have a type."

Ahem! I have a type...I just happen to be flexible

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By *estarossa.Woman
41 weeks ago

Flagrante

"Women have a type and rarely move from that. Men don't have a type.

Which means a woman’s attitude, and her personality is the first box she will be ticking that will keep her mans interest.

Body shapes change, her body will age as will mine. But her mind and her kindness is what will keep me there forever.

If someone had a type that was short and petite, I would avoid them like the plague though, as I am the diametric opposite of this.

Being compared to someone who is small and light enough for them to pick up and fuck against a wall, is soul-destroying, believe me.

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By *adyBugsWoman
41 weeks ago

cognito

No type here. Just be a decent human being with a good sense of humour.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
41 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"… However if I look at a profile and all their verifications are from slim women with small perky boobs I'm positive I'm not what they want! "

But what if what they want is a change?

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By *ornycougaWoman
41 weeks ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

"I have a body type I’d need for a long term thing

Plenty of other body types are fine for recreational fun only though "

I am the absolute opposite of this. I have a definite type and if I am just looking for a one off or casual fun then I don't often deviate. Everyone that I have had an enduring connection with hasn't conformed to my preferred physical type.

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By *parkle1974Woman
41 weeks ago

Leeds

Going by previous encounters/relationships, it seems I don't have a specific "type".

They have all been different shapes and sizes. They only thing (apart from one) they have in common is their demeanor x

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By *affron40Woman
41 weeks ago

manchester

I’m drawn to big strapping men with chunky thighs and something to grab round the middle… but I have been attracted to men nothing like this.

For me the attraction is the interaction between 2 people, not necessarily what they look like.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"….

If someone had a type that was short and petite, I would avoid them like the plague though, as I am the diametric opposite of this.

Being compared to someone who is small and light enough for them to pick up and fuck against a wall, is soul-destroying, believe me."

But that’s why I’d never compare two different people. They are literally two different people.

I know my ex had a thing for tall and well built blokes. Also attracted to a few black guys too. I could never be those men…. So some women I’ve been with, I’m completely not their type. But I also am in some way.

I think if you’re able to get your head around that the person who is attracted to you is attracted to you because of who you are, and also they then become attracted to how thry then see you, your doing better than me.

When somebody really thinks you’re amazing, they will ignore everything you are conscious about. And I personally know this, because I’m conscious about a lot of things about myself, but for some strange reason, I’ve been very lucky to have someone in my life. ….

and if I can’t pin a woman against the wall, I can certainly throw her around the bed

A woman’s size is never ever the first box to get ticked, it’s just on paper, that would be my type of someone asked.

Just like when I read ‘I like taller men!’

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By *cottish guy 555Man
41 weeks ago

London

"I 100% don’t have a physical type.

I definitely have a personality type."

If only I had a personality. Damn.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I 100% don’t have a physical type.

I definitely have a personality type.

If only I had a personality. Damn.

If only I could type ….

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
41 weeks ago

I have a type - and that’s why we don’t ever meet anyone

Sasha

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
41 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I'm pretty sure I don't have a type.

The physical traits that I connect with most often are the most common physical traits. It's just a matter of the people that excite me happen to have those. But the people I'm attracted to have been all shapes amd sizes.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I'm pretty sure I don't have a type.

My type ^

sexy as fuck!

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
41 weeks ago

Worcester

My therapist a while back said to me “a type is a habit you can’t kick.”

And I can’t help but feel she’s very right.

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By *entleswinger69Man
41 weeks ago

exeter

I do have a type,

Someone that’s funny and can hold a conversation,I definitely steer away from intense people that’s just not for me but yeah funny, intelligent and I suppose has some class about them

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
41 weeks ago

Southampton

"I do have a type,

Someone that’s funny and can hold a conversation,I definitely steer away from intense people that’s just not for me but yeah funny, intelligent and I suppose has some class about them

I put the arse in class if that helps

I'm also quite funny

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By *apiomanMan
41 weeks ago

Shipley

Good brain, interesting conversations, liberal/ left view point.

With women I am fairly varied in my tastes. With men I definitely go for slim.

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
41 weeks ago

Kent

I don't have a specific type. There are a small number of features I don't like and wouldn't meet a guy who had those, but that's about it. I don't focus on height, ethnicity, body size, muscles, age etc. I like a guy who can make me laugh and makes me feel sexy, he doesn't have to be an Adonis as long as we're both attracted to each other.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
41 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We both have types - but like most they are the standard types - nice body, attractive to us and ultimately once we’ve chatted and shared face pics, the eyes are the defining feature.

Would we deviate from this - yes, even just seeing the gents C has played with shows there’s no particular type other than someone who looks after themselves - oh and short/no hair!

The women we’ve played with again, are all different in terms of looks but they had nice curvy bodies.

But it’s personality, connection and respect for us both that are high on our list of have to have‘s

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By *sWyldWoman
41 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"My therapist a while back said to me “a type is a habit you can’t kick.”

And I can’t help but feel she’s very right.

Emotionally unavailable, walking red flags

. No wonder I end up back here

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By *entleswinger69Man
41 weeks ago

exeter

"I do have a type,

Someone that’s funny and can hold a conversation,I definitely steer away from intense people that’s just not for me but yeah funny, intelligent and I suppose has some class about them

I put the arse in class if that helps

I'm also quite funny

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
41 weeks ago

Southampton

"I do have a type,

Someone that’s funny and can hold a conversation,I definitely steer away from intense people that’s just not for me but yeah funny, intelligent and I suppose has some class about them

I put the arse in class if that helps

I'm also quite funny

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By *en JerkinoffMan
41 weeks ago

whitehaven

I know in my profile I say I have a type but this is not the be end all.

It's difficult really because I recently fell for a woman who does not match what I describe in my profile. In the end it turned out that I wasn't her type and that was the end of it.

For me, the vanity side of things, I do sway to a type BUT as I need to feel a connection with the person I'm feeling horny for then this can change. I am often feeling the most attracted to women who I can feel uncomfortable with. So if I do have a type, more than anything then it's for women who make me feel comfortable.

Alot of little contradictions above but hey, life is full of em.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I dont have a type.. the way photos are taken, the pose, the way they carry themselves,the way someone moves is the turn on not what size or shape for me anyway

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
41 weeks ago

London or Bedford

Oh I DEFINITELY have a type & rarely stray from it.

But standards drop the longer the drought goes on.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Oh I DEFINITELY have a type & rarely stray from it.

But standards drop the longer the drought goes on.

I'm sure the next woman on your radar is delighted to read that

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By *parkle1974Woman
41 weeks ago

Leeds

"Oh I DEFINITELY have a type & rarely stray from it.

But standards drop the longer the drought goes on.

Oops

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By *ellinever70Woman
41 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"I dont have a type.. the way photos are taken, the pose, the way they carry themselves,the way someone moves is the turn on not what size or shape for me anyway

What if they move or pose altogether differently in real life?

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By *ris GrayMan
41 weeks ago

Dorchester

"I have a type - and that’s why we don’t ever meet anyone

Sasha"
lol oh well

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I dont have a type.. the way photos are taken, the pose, the way they carry themselves,the way someone moves is the turn on not what size or shape for me anyway

What if they move or pose altogether differently in real life?"

Walk like a duck you mean? Lol

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By *ellinever70Woman
41 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"I dont have a type.. the way photos are taken, the pose, the way they carry themselves,the way someone moves is the turn on not what size or shape for me anyway

What if they move or pose altogether differently in real life?

Walk like a duck you mean? Lol

Well maybe if they've taken their belt off to pose for a photo

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By *agnar73Man
41 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"I dont have a type.. the way photos are taken, the pose, the way they carry themselves,the way someone moves is the turn on not what size or shape for me anyway

What if they move or pose altogether differently in real life?

Walk like a duck you mean? Lol

Penguin walk is to watch out for

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41 weeks ago

"I dont have a type.. the way photos are taken, the pose, the way they carry themselves,the way someone moves is the turn on not what size or shape for me anyway

What if they move or pose altogether differently in real life?

Walk like a duck you mean? Lol

Penguin walk is to watch out for

Haha

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
41 weeks ago

Essex

"Oh I DEFINITELY have a type & rarely stray from it.

But standards drop the longer the drought goes on.

I'm sure the next woman on your radar is delighted to read that"

Lucky escape there

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I don't think I do have a body type really

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By *cottish guy 555Man
41 weeks ago

London

"Oh I DEFINITELY have a type & rarely stray from it.

But standards drop the longer the drought goes on.

I'm sure the next woman on your radar is delighted to read that

Lucky escape there

But would he meet your personality type?

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By *estarossa.Woman
41 weeks ago

Flagrante

"….

If someone had a type that was short and petite, I would avoid them like the plague though, as I am the diametric opposite of this.

Being compared to someone who is small and light enough for them to pick up and fuck against a wall, is soul-destroying, believe me.

But that’s why I’d never compare two different people. They are literally two different people.

and if I can’t pin a woman against the wall, I can certainly throw her around the bed

A woman’s size is never ever the first box to get ticked, it’s just on paper, that would be my type of someone asked.

Just like when I read ‘I like taller men!’ "

The height thing is an "on-paper" thing too as it turns out, thats why its phrased as a like rather than a hard line.

The more I try to define what I find sexy and attractive, the harder it is!

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
41 weeks ago

Essex

"Oh I DEFINITELY have a type & rarely stray from it.

But standards drop the longer the drought goes on.

I'm sure the next woman on your radar is delighted to read that

Lucky escape there

But would he meet your personality type?

You need to have one

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By *cottish guy 555Man
41 weeks ago

London

"Oh I DEFINITELY have a type & rarely stray from it.

But standards drop the longer the drought goes on.

I'm sure the next woman on your radar is delighted to read that

Lucky escape there

But would he meet your personality type?

You need to have one"

I'll have a look and see if I can pick one up cheap.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I dont have a type.. the way photos are taken, the pose, the way they carry themselves,the way someone moves is the turn on not what size or shape for me anyway

What if they move or pose altogether differently in real life?

Walk like a duck you mean? Lol

Is that a Bangles come back song?

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By *ris GrayMan
41 weeks ago

Dorchester

"I dont have a type.. the way photos are taken, the pose, the way they carry themselves,the way someone moves is the turn on not what size or shape for me anyway

What if they move or pose altogether differently in real life?

Walk like a duck you mean? Lol

Is that a Bangles come back song? "
Thats walk like an egyptian duck

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

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Just like when I read ‘I like taller men!’

The height thing is an "on-paper" thing too as it turns out, thats why its phrased as a like rather than a hard line.

The more I try to define what I find sexy and attractive, the harder it is!"

So we might be thinking the same thing. In our minds, we think we have a type. If you had to, you’d probably describe something physical.

But that isn’t the whole picture of somebody.

So there’s going to be many many times, when somebody turned your head simple because the food, they are and not what they look like.

The one thing I will not move on, I have to think they are pretty, that is my only physical type. And as we all know, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.

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41 weeks ago

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Just like when I read ‘I like taller men!’

The height thing is an "on-paper" thing too as it turns out, thats why its phrased as a like rather than a hard line.

The more I try to define what I find sexy and attractive, the harder it is!

So we might be thinking the same thing. In our minds, we think we have a type. If you had to, you’d probably describe something physical.

But that isn’t the whole picture of somebody.

So there’s going to be many many times, when somebody turned your head simple because the food, they are and not what they look like.

The one thing I will not move on, I have to think they are pretty, that is my only physical type. And as we all know, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.

*^food!!

I’ll keep that there.

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By *hagTonightMan
41 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"I have a body type I’d need for a long term thing

Plenty of other body types are fine for recreational fun only though "
This

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By *quaman87Man
41 weeks ago

Colchester

"Women have a type and rarely move from that. Men don't have a type."
Men don’t have a type???? Everyone has a type, but that’s someone that attracts them visually to a person! You realise when your conversating, and mentally growing a connection with someone that could be the complete opposite of your type, but your sold not because there looks anymore, but because of the person they are and how you make eachother feel! So do we have a type?? Or a fantasy??

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I have a type but thats just a preference i always stray from it you cant just stick to one thing you have to try new things

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By *ob357Man
41 weeks ago

Oswestry

I dont really have a type though do have a soft spot for curvaceous red heads.

I do however recently have an unusual obsession with massive coks

There are some simply phenomenal ones on the pictures. Lady you are definitely lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Every man I’ve ever been with has been physically different from one another. What keeps my attraction long term is their mind, personality, and views. Intelligence, a complimentary sense of humour to mine, and broad-mindedness have all been present in men I’ve been with long term or not.

As for women, every woman I’ve been with — whether a partner or one offs — has been physically the same pretty much. Petite, large breasts, long hair, long legs, dark eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I defo have a type but if she has a pretty face and good craic then type can go out the window

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By *hrista BellendWoman
41 weeks ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

My body type is rugby build and that's pretty generic, so I'm safe

I definitely do have a specific facial type though and rarely stray from it

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By *ilthycoupleabz OP Couple
41 weeks ago

Aberdeen

"Women have a type and rarely move from that. Men don't have a type. Men don’t have a type???? Everyone has a type, but that’s someone that attracts them visually to a person! You realise when your conversating, and mentally growing a connection with someone that could be the complete opposite of your type, but your sold not because there looks anymore, but because of the person they are and how you make eachother feel! So do we have a type?? Or a fantasy?? "

That is an interesting concept - we have a fantasy of what we want but the reality can be different to that and still be what we want.

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I don’t really have a body type it depends on the person and what they are into

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41 weeks ago

"I have been pondering this - if you have a specific body type you prefer, do you stray from that?

If so is it something that would last with that person or just a one off?

If it lasted, would you find that over time you want someone who matches your type more and begin to lose interest?

A pondering MrsAbz "

I have a body type I like. I sometimes stray, but only if her personality takes first place. Let me explain. I am not into "ample" women mainly because they are sometimes unhappy about their looks and that clouds the mood. But... I have met maybe half a dozen in my lifetime who had such fun attitude that we fucked and had lots of fun.

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By *earditallWoman
41 weeks ago

Lancaster

"I don't think your ideal ever changes, you just become more open to different body types if other attributes shine through "

This for me I have a type but can sway from it if I like other things about a person.

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By *herryEatersCouple
41 weeks ago

East Cheshire

"I have been pondering this - if you have a specific body type you prefer, do you stray from that?

If so is it something that would last with that person or just a one off?

If it lasted, would you find that over time you want someone who matches your type more and begin to lose interest?

A pondering MrsAbz "

We have types as such but are just as (if not more) attracted to their personality and sexuality... We don't tend to go for those too slim or too large yet remember one larger lady who was simply devine, we met a few times but sadly didn't get round to playing.

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By *allandathleticMan
41 weeks ago

Asgard

I don't have a type per se. If I think your attractive it's because of who you are.

However, (cheap bit of marketing coming)

If your type is jason momoa from wish

I'm your guy

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