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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Today I voluntarily helped friends move house, driving the van and generally helping.

I offered in the spirit of friendship, when we were finished they wanted to pay me which of course I refused. This offended my friends so after much discussion I accepted the money.

I now feel guilty having been the one who initially offered my help.

How should I have handled the situation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Red nose day! Tell your friends you are donating it to charity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he wanted you to take the money so you had too realy.

maybe you could buy him a preasant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Red nose day! Tell your friends you are donating it to charity. "

Great idea! thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree on the Donation idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy them a house-warming present.

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"Buy them a house-warming present. "

I like this idea.

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By *upitersmileCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

No reason why you can't do both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Takeaway and a bottle and round to theirs for a night of pass the parcel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go kick down the door, then give the money back for them to get someone to fix it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks one and all situation resolved. House warming present and the rest to a particular charity I know to be close to their hearts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks one and all situation resolved. House warming present and the rest to a particular charity I know to be close to their hearts."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take the cash and go and get wankered.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

just say no, "i wont here of it, i offered so have it on me" simples

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Well done for helping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You were right to take the money even though you offered, if you don't want to keep it, maybe buy them a welcome to your new home gift or take them out for a meal, save them cooking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have moved house a few times with friends help, they offered like you did but we still gave them something for helping us.

We did it to ensure the help if we ever moved again . So dont take offense to it at all, as someone suggested if you feel strong enough get them a house warming gift.

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