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Have you ever had a one night stand?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. A beautiful night of hot passion and great sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had a couple. As has my wife in the past - hopefully to be replicated in the future

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Oh.

So very many

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

Took part in a few

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By *afkaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham (ish)

Some wonderful ones

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
over a year ago

Hell

Lots of them

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield


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Yes, several, some I knew would be, some I didn’t but ya gotta speculate to accumulate

What about you op?

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW

Yes and enjoyed every one of them.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

Absolutely, yes. They can be beautiful things. Especially if you have some one night standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *ostindreamsMan
over a year ago

London

Yes. Met someone about 10 years older than me in a kink party just a few months before COVID hit. She had a hotel nearby where we went and had fun.

She never told her name. She doesn't even have a permanent profile on any of these sites. She said she worked in a public facing high profile job and hence has to keep her identity secret, which I tend to believe because the hotel she stayed was pretty expensive.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

I've never had the sex so no.

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
over a year ago

IPSWICH

Not as many as I'd like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've never had the sex so no."

Don’t you get bored of lying

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I've never had the sex so no.

Don’t you get bored of lying "

I can't take certain threads seriously so I post to amuse myself. It works, I think I'm a riot.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Worcester

A handful.

(I have massive hands.)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A handful.

(I have massive hands.)"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've never had the sex so no.

Don’t you get bored of lying

I can't take certain threads seriously so I post to amuse myself. It works, I think I'm a riot."

I like riots. Which won’t surprise anyone

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

Yeah, here and there

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By *_Mia_XTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Lots of them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You guys are so cool and fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I've never been lucky enough to be picked

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Here I come again with my rhyming slang.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enough that they are boring to me now

Far too risky, far too much work, for not nearly the amount of enjoyment I’d get out of someone I love in a commit relationship

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Both of us had many prior to meeting. It was the late 70s things were very much less intense.

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By *weetCherryWoman
over a year ago

London

Yes, never again though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, several. I'm done with them.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes... It was terrible

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By *otuseater11Man
over a year ago

kilwinning

Yep had a few weeks in my younger days

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By *sWyldWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yes. Wouldn't recommend

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

Lots of times as a younger man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I should think we all have. Whether it was our fault or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been around the world with numerous bands and acts so enjoyed quite a few wonderful encounters with many different wonderful nationalities.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

I have never had one in all honesty. I’m way too angelic and wholesome to be hanging out with you heathens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many, though most I’d hoped at the time would have been more.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Yes back in my youth

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By *itygamesMan
over a year ago

UK

yes , moved into a new build , no bed no carpets , floor dusty , so i stood up all night in the kitchen.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Many in my youth

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Yeah, but can’t say I look back fondly on the great majority of them…

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By *xbabyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Bradford

Yes n I'll never do it again not for me

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Yes quite a few

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Never - until this lifestyle I’d never had sex straight away with someone. I haven’t still now either as I chat to people and get to know a bit about them.

I’ve never ‘pulled’ on a night out either - I wouldn’t buy clothes in the dark so why would I choose women in that way

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we have both had quite a few and some were better than others.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Not intentionally no. Or not since i was a student. But sometimes things end up that way.

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By *ookingforfun9970Man
over a year ago

wilts

Does it count if it happened again a few months later? And again after that

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

A couple. But I like to think of them as very short relationships instead...

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By *o scandalousWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes in my youth.

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Yes, when I was younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

When I was younger but I realised it rarely was satisfying for me

MrsAbz

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

No, I haven’t.

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

No but I have had a one elevenses time stand.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

No

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

Plenty

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By *lue dolphinMan
over a year ago

Gateshead

Yes but a long time ago

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Lots. And most were great.

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By *untimeswithme69Man
over a year ago

London

Yep

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By *quirrel!Man
over a year ago

x

Only by accident!

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

If you mean gone for night out, met someone and had sex? Then no

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By *un couple 2Couple
over a year ago

Tynemouth.

oh yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A couple. But I like to think of them as very short relationships instead...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple a looooong time ago. It really didn't do anything for me.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

A few yes x

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Yes

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

Many. Some I wish were multiple night stands, some I wish were zero night stands

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Yes, I’ve had quite a few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many to remember in my youth. I'm not into the slag lifestyle now though. Fun then, undesirable now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you mean gone for night out, met someone and had sex? Then no"

I’ve met people from dating apps, met, had sex and then messaged a bit before agreeing it wasn’t going to work out but I do not count it as a one night stand. I’d say a one night stand is what you describe yeah

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By *lan0797Man
over a year ago

shropShire

Genuinely can’t remember how many I have had or most of the names of the girls ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many to remember in my youth. I'm not into the slag lifestyle now though. Fun then, undesirable now. "

"Slag lifestyle"? Mate you're on a swinger website where people often fuck once in clubs.

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"If you mean gone for night out, met someone and had sex? Then no"

Really? Thats some restraint you have shown!

MrsAbz (formerly unrestrained)

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts


"If you mean gone for night out, met someone and had sex? Then no

Really? Thats some restraint you have shown!

MrsAbz (formerly unrestrained) "

lol, it wasn't restraint.

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By *idnightMischiefMan
over a year ago

London

Loads, but most of them when I was in my thirties.

Most of my relationships started off as intended one-nighters that just seemed to continue. :D

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Is it a one night stand if they don't stay the night?

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"If you mean gone for night out, met someone and had sex? Then no

Really? Thats some restraint you have shown!

MrsAbz (formerly unrestrained) lol, it wasn't restraint. "

Then you must have been out in the wrong places

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a half night stand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many to remember in my youth. I'm not into the slag lifestyle now though. Fun then, undesirable now.

"Slag lifestyle"? Mate you're on a swinger website where people often fuck once in clubs. "

I'm not your mate.

Yes, I was a slag. Dress it up any way you want, I know what I was.

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By *otguy555Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Plenty of them.

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts


"If you mean gone for night out, met someone and had sex? Then no

Really? Thats some restraint you have shown!

MrsAbz (formerly unrestrained) lol, it wasn't restraint.

Then you must have been out in the wrong places

MrsAbz "

Just a wall flower. They always had better options I guess. No one ever showed interest. Is what it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many to remember in my youth. I'm not into the slag lifestyle now though. Fun then, undesirable now.

"Slag lifestyle"? Mate you're on a swinger website where people often fuck once in clubs.

I'm not your mate.

Yes, I was a slag. Dress it up any way you want, I know what I was. "

You do you, but referring to it that way implies others are slags if they indulge in one night stands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many to remember in my youth. I'm not into the slag lifestyle now though. Fun then, undesirable now.

"Slag lifestyle"? Mate you're on a swinger website where people often fuck once in clubs.

I'm not your mate.

Yes, I was a slag. Dress it up any way you want, I know what I was.

You do you, but referring to it that way implies others are slags if they indulge in one night stands. "

Then others can use any label they please to describe what they do. I'm talking about myself, I know how I behaved, it's the correct label for me.

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Literally hundreds. From 1974 to to 1980. Great years.

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By *ust curvyCouple
over a year ago

The moon

Kinda x I ended up marrying him tho

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By *hestyCharlotteWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

One night stands, 2 hour stands , 20 minute stands , 2 minute stands and even 10 second and less stands ( lots of each). Probably most on here have had all of the above too haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have! It looks great next to my bed

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By *ubadubdubWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

Good lord what a question, yes!... hasn't everyone?

Or am I to question my idea of 'normal' in yet another area

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have! It looks great next to my bed "

Boooooooooooooooo!

*throws tomatoes*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both of us

Yep many times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have! It looks great next to my bed

Boooooooooooooooo!

*throws tomatoes*"

You loved it, really

But seriously, I haven't. I've always thought of them as always happening after a night out and considering I don't drink, the idea of trying to pull feel predatory as fuck.

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By *ay9971Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Does it count if it happened during daylight? Or is that a one morning/evening stand

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts


"Good lord what a question, yes!... hasn't everyone?

Or am I to question my idea of 'normal' in yet another area "

No...and I know it's not normal, would only ever admit on a faceless forum

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

We used to go out, meet someone, have a laugh, a chat, get along with each other, enjoy sex or sexual activity together then never see each other again. There was no social media, only landlines or if like me you were in rented accommodation only a phone box at the end of the road it wasn't easy to keep in contact. Nobody expected more, nobody analysed it, nobody (or very few) imagined it would lead to anything more. In that respect life was very much simpler.

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

Of course, I spent 10 years at uni

Then it's a hard habit to break

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Many.

The mr

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Both Been known to partake .

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By *r Black 85Man
over a year ago

nottingham

I'm having a one morning stand

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By *udandBryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston

We had one 34 years ago - and we've now been married almost 32 years!

Dave's work mug even says, #youweresupposedtobeaonenightstand

Written exactly like that.

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By *oannesTV/TS
over a year ago

Trafford

I have taken part in my fair share

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By *alm_one4Man
over a year ago

RM16

I can honestly say, no, I have never been out got chatting and ended up in bed.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

It was pretty hard to avoid especially when working away from home, and on holidays. Working away from home was an eye opener because, travelling labour force are here today, gone tomorrow, which meant we would score with women, especially married woman. Like it or not local guys gossip among themselves, but men working away from home who scrubbed up quite well could give a woman all the attention and excitement that they were not getting at home, and we would move on with their reputations untainted. On holidays in Majorca and The Canary islands, providing you look decent arm candy, it's their for the taking.

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By *K lad 89Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

Yes a few, its the buzz of sending a wife back to her husband and he none the wiser

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By *tevieg3222Man
over a year ago

Brighton

Yes with my step mum while my dad was away for work

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By *ung nine inchMan
over a year ago

leeds

Yes with neighbour

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

Yes in the younger years.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I feel like thanos when I see my old threads resurrected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Not yet!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I feel like thanos when I see my old threads resurrected "

Or Jesus?

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"I feel like thanos when I see my old threads resurrected "

Purple and demented?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I feel like thanos when I see my old threads resurrected

Or Jesus? "

My arrogance has its limits

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By *mwirralMan
over a year ago

wirral

Of course, had a couple that ended up being multiple nights too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I feel like thanos when I see my old threads resurrected

Purple and demented? "

inevitable

But those things too I guess

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By *ntense40Man
over a year ago

Rotherhithe

Many. Some became more, a few made me regret not exchanging contacts with the girls because I would have loved to meet them again. One gave me probably the best blowjob I have ever had

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’ve had a couple, but they nearly always lead to more. I’d never one prior to fab

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

most of my meets are one off fucks

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By *sxboy69Man
over a year ago

Rayleigh

yes thanks.

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By *rill PhilMan
over a year ago

Crediton

I've had a few.

Doesn't interest me all that much these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pleaseeee. Asking that question on a site like this? Cmon, man. Haha

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By *asisfan25Man
over a year ago

Stansted

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By *asisfan25Man
over a year ago

Stansted

My first time I had sex was a one-night stand I was state side on a trip across America I lived over there when I was a child it was the first time I’d been back in America again since I moved back to the Uk. I was just walking around the river walk in Downtown San Antonio, one of my favorite cities in Texas. I just happened to start chatting to this much older woman, and we ended up going to different bar’s for the whole night, and then she invited me to her hotel room, and when we were in the elevator up there to her room that’s when it started going to shit. She told me we had to fuck in her bathroom as her friends were staying in the room too I thought I was going to get a threesome lol . Absolutely awful sex and still regret it to this day as we were both totally wasted

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