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By *heekyCharm OP   Man
42 weeks ago

Colne

I have none. It makes for a happy life!

Do you think we should have expectations here?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
42 weeks ago

East Sussex

Realistic ones are the best ones to have.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Yes off course we all should but not in the way off we all expect sex when we want it

But yes there should be some expectation when it comes to meeting

Ie what I mean

Is well groomed clean peresntable and showered

Also there should be expectations when it comes to meeting also

if someone’s went to all the trubble and time off getting ready and such then

They should be expectshoin in the leanth off the meet

So a 5 minute splat and run shouldn’t be on the table

If I am going to the leanths I do to get ready

They I expect a good 3-4 hours seening to with brakes bween rounds off course and not being able to sit right for the next week

just not worth my time getting ready for a 5 minute splat and run

And I am shour the guy wouldn’t like to turn up

Me sitting unshaved and what not in pjs and granny knickers

But heck if someone doesn’t mind that I take a 5 minute splat and run ha ha I got things to do

Easy meet drop pjs blast away and off ha ha

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By *eliWoman
42 weeks ago

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Yes. I think it's fair to expect people to treat you with a basic level of respect when meeting you.

The rest? I'm not sure. I hope for certain things - openness where I'm concerned. That people genuinely want to meet me and not just my quim.

I think because I'm quite naturally an affectionate, excitable soul people put expectations on what I expect. They confuse my general excited and soft nature for expectations of more.

Over the past couple of years I've had to make it very clear that I'm not actively looking to regularly date anyone. I have no expectations about frequency of dalliances, communication. I'm very much a waffler or quiet. I think expectations can murky things. Lead to disappointment, misunderstandings.

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By *ackdaw52Man
42 weeks ago

Chesterfield

I agree that expecting anything can muddy the waters on here. Which is either frustrating or liberating depending on whom you ask.

I think a basic level of courtesy isn't too much to ask, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

The only expectations I have is that the person looks like their photo and are sociable company.

In my experience, the levels of expectations can be commensurate with the levels of enjoyment / disappointment.

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By *heekyCharm OP   Man
42 weeks ago

Colne

Some great attitudes here, it bodes well ! X

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By *ellinever70Woman
42 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I see no issue with having them

If they are wild, then it's probably wise to expect them not to be fulfilled

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
42 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

I expect my Ocado shop to come between 6-7pm tonight.

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By *heekyCharm OP   Man
42 weeks ago

Colne


"I expect my Ocado shop to come between 6-7pm tonight. "
Haha are they usually on time and if it's late, can you handle it?

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
42 weeks ago

Gloucestershire


"I expect my Ocado shop to come between 6-7pm tonight. Haha are they usually on time and if it's late, can you handle it? "

They are usually on time. If it gets to around 6:45, I start to get twitchy!

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By *iasubTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Ilkeston

I suppose it depends on the expectations you have. Its always good to have some ie people turn up on time or that safe sex is practiced. However, when it starts getting into scripted territory thats when i feel its not as helpful as it can take the enjoyment out of it

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By *heekyCharm OP   Man
42 weeks ago

Colne


"I expect my Ocado shop to come between 6-7pm tonight. Haha are they usually on time and if it's late, can you handle it?

They are usually on time. If it gets to around 6:45, I start to get twitchy!"
Hehehe! Dinner time!!

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