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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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On Fab, what's your personal unicorn?

That person/people you occasionally stumble across/wish you did and are very much what you're looking for.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
42 weeks ago

Leeds

A woman who's equally attracted to us both, 90% of the time they like one or the other it's very rare for them to fancy us both & I've done the social/chat where it's clear they are only interested in him and it kinda does make you feel a little used

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
42 weeks ago

Manchester-ish


"A woman who's equally attracted to us both, 90% of the time they like one or the other it's very rare for them to fancy us both & I've done the social/chat where it's clear they are only interested in him and it kinda does make you feel a little used

Mrs "

Jx

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
42 weeks ago

Cambs

Good question xx

Someone (gender irrelevant) that I can really be myself around, Someone who gets me so I can really be myself without holding parts back... Someone who pays attention to the little things that turn me on and can communicate openly..

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By *lexm87Man
42 weeks ago

Various

Someone who replies to messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

For us, it’s a female who’s willing to play with both of us equally so nobody feels left out.

We are currently on the lookout for one on our couples profile

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"A woman who's equally attracted to us both, 90% of the time they like one or the other it's very rare for them to fancy us both & I've done the social/chat where it's clear they are only interested in him and it kinda does make you feel a little used

Mrs "

Oh Mrs K.

I don't think it's the case they're using you, I think it's hard to find couples where you're equally attracted to both. That chemistry can't be predicted can it? If it's very clear that they're using you to get to your husband? That's crappy. I have a couple who are close friends of mine - I'm always disappointed when I hear that things move to the bedroom and it's very obvious that's the case.

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By *lmost TouchingMan
42 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat.

Pregnant couple who want me to be with them in the lounge or bedroom.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
42 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We were lucky enough to have a FWB for a year who completely fitted our dynamic and us theirs and we completed a lot of fantasies - he got himself a GF recently so that’s ended now.

We’ve also currently got a female FWB who completely fits with everything we want.

But we’d love a couple of locals FWB…singles, couples so we can go out with and also have play sessions with, without the need to plan too far in advance and for when we want an third person sooner

K

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

A trans guy who wants to fuck me and be fucked...

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"We were lucky enough to have a FWB for a year who completely fitted our dynamic and us theirs and we completed a lot of fantasies - he got himself a GF recently so that’s ended now.

We’ve also currently got a female FWB who completely fits with everything we want.

But we’d love a couple of locals FWB…singles, couples so we can go out with and also have play sessions with, without the need to plan too far in advance and for when we want an third person sooner

K"

Greedy!!

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By *issmorganWoman
42 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

On this profile, when I'm meeting it would be a single male, over 35 who I'm attracted to and connect with (not as easy as it sounds).

On our couple profile a couple who are looking for partner swapping, soft or full. Where there's 4 way 4 way attraction which is so hard to get.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

For me it would be a hot husband who could meet with no planning, on a spontaneous whim, who lived no more than 15 mins away, who gave me everything i needed and invested in me emotionally and mentally, without crossing any lines...and was also on my wavelength in terms of life... He'd also love photos +video sessions and occasionally do sleep overs

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"Good question xx

Someone (gender irrelevant) that I can really be myself around, Someone who gets me so I can really be myself without holding parts back... Someone who pays attention to the little things that turn me on and can communicate openly.. "

Oh that sounds dreamy. I like that. Yes, when people allow you that space to be your authentic self, that's something truly special. Deserving of unicorn status.

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By *electableicecreamMan
42 weeks ago

The West

Local friends with benefits is my personal unicorn on fab.

I enjoy hanging out with the person I'm sleeping with. A movie or a walk or a meal and over night stays.

I've found it more likely to make those connections on apps' as fab is quiet in my region.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Not sure that profile exists as depends on how I feeling to what I am looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

A friend with benefits. Someone who wants a bit more than just to suck my cock.

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By *ickinNottsMan
42 weeks ago

Hucknall

Ideally a couple who both want to play with me and can do weekday daytime. And who are willing to explore their limits and mine.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Stockport

A female fwb who enjoys being with me no matter how I'm dressed, who has no reservations about being seen in public with me while I'm female, who is happy to introduce me to their friends and family the same as any normal female friend. Someone who doesn't really care whether sex with me fits any particular gender norm, doesn't expect me to act one way or another, just is interested in us learning the best routes towards our mutual pleasure. Someone where there will be no expectations of exclusivity either way, no jealousy about either person maybe having other FWBs or partners, but there can still be genuine affection or even love (* for some particular interpretation of love). Any physical attributes of a fwb for me will always be a secondary consideration, less important than emotional and intellectual connection.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
42 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"A woman who's equally attracted to us both, 90% of the time they like one or the other it's very rare for them to fancy us both & I've done the social/chat where it's clear they are only interested in him and it kinda does make you feel a little used

Mrs "

It might not be that they're less into you.

I struggle to flirt with women, I get very stuck in my head and tongue tied if I like them. With boys it's simple. I'm probably guilty of seeming more into the male half simply because I can run on autopilot to flirt with a man, and I feel like less of an idiot if I can express interest at all rather than just stuttering and being nervous at both

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
42 weeks ago

Aberdeen


"A woman who's equally attracted to us both, 90% of the time they like one or the other it's very rare for them to fancy us both & I've done the social/chat where it's clear they are only interested in him and it kinda does make you feel a little used

Mrs

It might not be that they're less into you.

I struggle to flirt with women, I get very stuck in my head and tongue tied if I like them. With boys it's simple. I'm probably guilty of seeming more into the male half simply because I can run on autopilot to flirt with a man, and I feel like less of an idiot if I can express interest at all rather than just stuttering and being nervous at both "

Flirting with women is much harder and because women are used to complimenting each other, hard to tell if they are flirting!

MrAbz has had to inform me I am being flirted with before now.

Him "she literally had a hand on your boob"

Me "oh, she wanted to feel how silky my top was!"

Him

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

A bigger bi couple like us who can meet at clubs in the day for some hot tub chat and then some play afterwords on the regular

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

A woman who isn’t a million miles away, who is into me as much as I’m into her. Her ideas are as fluid as mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"A woman who's equally attracted to us both, 90% of the time they like one or the other it's very rare for them to fancy us both & I've done the social/chat where it's clear they are only interested in him and it kinda does make you feel a little used

Mrs

It might not be that they're less into you.

I struggle to flirt with women, I get very stuck in my head and tongue tied if I like them. With boys it's simple. I'm probably guilty of seeming more into the male half simply because I can run on autopilot to flirt with a man, and I feel like less of an idiot if I can express interest at all rather than just stuttering and being nervous at both

Flirting with women is much harder and because women are used to complimenting each other, hard to tell if they are flirting!

MrAbz has had to inform me I am being flirted with before now.

Him "she literally had a hand on your boob"

Me "oh, she wanted to feel how silky my top was!"

Him

MrsAbz "

Haha ... Can relate.... "her hand was down your jeans - she was just agreeing how tight my jeans were"

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"Someone who replies to messages? "

Unicorn, not some make believe thing. Geez.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
42 weeks ago

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There are a couple of single Women who we both class as friends they're attracted to both of us (I think) Briefly played with both of them but not a proper MFF,

Being friends and attracted to both of is a must for it to work

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By *heekyDemandCouple
42 weeks ago

Leicester

A man or woman that will play equally with both of us and will top and bottom for both of us.

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By *oupleus30Couple
42 weeks ago

Minster


"A woman who's equally attracted to us both, 90% of the time they like one or the other it's very rare for them to fancy us both & I've done the social/chat where it's clear they are only interested in him and it kinda does make you feel a little used

Mrs "
we seem to get the opposite where F is only interested in the Mrs

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
42 weeks ago

Staffordshire


"On Fab, what's your personal unicorn?

That person/people you occasionally stumble across/wish you did and are very much what you're looking for."

There’s not really a set thing.

It just happens sometimes, you know?

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By *edplusoneCouple
42 weeks ago

West Midlands

People who are easy to arrange meets with, reliable and open with their feelings.

I get why people aren't always open about their attraction but it’s nice to hear it nonetheless.

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"For us, it’s a female who’s willing to play with both of us equally so nobody feels left out.

We are currently on the lookout for one on our couples profile "

Fingers crossed you find one soon.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
42 weeks ago

Leicester


"People who are easy to arrange meets with, reliable and open with their feelings.

I get why people aren't always open about their attraction but it’s nice to hear it nonetheless. "

We are always reliable, just limited on meet dates

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By *olfandtazCouple
42 weeks ago

Bristol

A couple or single woman that wants to play with both of us.

Looking at building friendship and hanging out when we can

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By *eyond PurityCouple
42 weeks ago

Lincolnshire


"We were lucky enough to have a FWB for a year who completely fitted our dynamic and us theirs and we completed a lot of fantasies - he got himself a GF recently so that’s ended now.

We’ve also currently got a female FWB who completely fits with everything we want.

But we’d love a couple of locals FWB…singles, couples so we can go out with and also have play sessions with, without the need to plan too far in advance and for when we want an third person sooner

K

Greedy!! "

Prefer the word opportunistic

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
42 weeks ago

Leeds


"A woman who's equally attracted to us both, 90% of the time they like one or the other it's very rare for them to fancy us both & I've done the social/chat where it's clear they are only interested in him and it kinda does make you feel a little used

Mrs

Oh Mrs K.

I don't think it's the case they're using you, I think it's hard to find couples where you're equally attracted to both. That chemistry can't be predicted can it? If it's very clear that they're using you to get to your husband? That's crappy. I have a couple who are close friends of mine - I'm always disappointed when I hear that things move to the bedroom and it's very obvious that's the case. "

Yeah there's been a couple of occasions it's been very clear & to be honest really put me off, we've had the same the other way too & it's just not a nice feeling - we've not made it to the bedroom on these occasions I couldn't, I wouldn't want to feel like a spare part.

Maybe part it what Prey says too, I'm also a useless flirt with anyone women moreso.

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
42 weeks ago

Leeds


"A woman who's equally attracted to us both, 90% of the time they like one or the other it's very rare for them to fancy us both & I've done the social/chat where it's clear they are only interested in him and it kinda does make you feel a little used

Mrs

Jx"

You are a sweetheart

Mrs

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
42 weeks ago

chichester

An actual single woman that is attracted to trans women Not part of a couple / fwb / has a mate that meets with them.

Very unique to find one indeed

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By *adyBugsWoman
42 weeks ago

cognito

Ooooh that’s a tough one…

Ummm, a best friend that I can fuck regularly as well as cuddle on the sofa with, go out for dinner with, watch bands with and generally just chill and giggle with

I think I just described a boyfriend but those feel like hard work

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By *adyBugsWoman
42 weeks ago

cognito


"Local friends with benefits is my personal unicorn on fab.

I enjoy hanging out with the person I'm sleeping with. A movie or a walk or a meal and over night stays.

I've found it more likely to make those connections on apps' as fab is quiet in my region."

I like cheese

But you are faaaar away *sobs*

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By *andPextraCouple
42 weeks ago

North West

A very feminine TS with natural looking (fake ) boobs, curvy figure, long hair and a functioning cock who wants to penetrate me whilst i watch their boobs jiggle

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
42 weeks ago

Manchester-ish


"A woman who's equally attracted to us both, 90% of the time they like one or the other it's very rare for them to fancy us both & I've done the social/chat where it's clear they are only interested in him and it kinda does make you feel a little used

Mrs

Jx

You are a sweetheart

Mrs "

I was trying to flirt with you both in an obvious manner. Not be a sweetheart. Doh.

J

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
42 weeks ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow


"A woman who's equally attracted to us both, 90% of the time they like one or the other it's very rare for them to fancy us both & I've done the social/chat where it's clear they are only interested in him and it kinda does make you feel a little used

Mrs "

Same for us tbh

Tinder x

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By *mf123Man
42 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

What was before but im not sure im even the guy i was to take advantage of such a thing my unicorn riding days i think are gone never to be seen again

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"We were lucky enough to have a FWB for a year who completely fitted our dynamic and us theirs and we completed a lot of fantasies - he got himself a GF recently so that’s ended now.

We’ve also currently got a female FWB who completely fits with everything we want.

But we’d love a couple of locals FWB…singles, couples so we can go out with and also have play sessions with, without the need to plan too far in advance and for when we want an third person sooner

K"

The audacity of your former fwb finding a gf. Shocking behaviour.

Yes localish can really work well, can't it? Fingers crossed you're able to find that soon K, I'm sure you will. x

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By *emidemiWoman
42 weeks ago

basingstoke

Honestly, just someone who is as interested in me as I am in them. No matter the dynamic- friends, occasional partner, regular fwb etc.

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