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"I was reading an interesting article about narcessists and it was about what they dislike. I already know quiete a lot about narcissists and some of the things that they often dislike is criticism and rejection. What is your view sboug it and do you know any more signs, also have you or living with one? Did you also know that most of the world leaders are narcessists too? "They like to be center of attention and post the same threads over and over again. T | |||
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"Narcissism - under it's true definition, is a mental health condition. The word is bandied about a lot and is mis used to describe someone who 'wasn't very nice to you.' at some point in your life. True, I wouldn't want to associate a narcissist if they were harmful to my everyday being but there are worse relationships to be had with , 'the non mentally ill,' who have no inbuilt reason for the way they are other than piss poor behaviour, selfishness and disregard for others. The word narcissist is VERY WRONGLY used on these forums, across the internet and in Joe public in general. "  and the some more | |||
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"Narcissism - under it's true definition, is a mental health condition. The word is bandied about a lot and is mis used to describe someone who 'wasn't very nice to you.' at some point in your life. True, I wouldn't want to associate a narcissist if they were harmful to my everyday being but there are worse relationships to be had with , 'the non mentally ill,' who have no inbuilt reason for the way they are other than piss poor behaviour, selfishness and disregard for others. The word narcissist is VERY WRONGLY used on these forums, across the internet and in Joe public in general. " Fantastic reply to the post. I have to agree with you. It's funny how this word was never. Heard of let alone used 20 years ago. No it's used to label someone because they have a bad attitude or generally not a nice person. Let's not for get guys. It's a mental condition. It's really upsetting to hear it used so often in life now | |||
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"Narcissism - under it's true definition, is a mental health condition. The word is bandied about a lot and is mis used to describe someone who 'wasn't very nice to you.' at some point in your life. True, I wouldn't want to associate a narcissist if they were harmful to my everyday being but there are worse relationships to be had with , 'the non mentally ill,' who have no inbuilt reason for the way they are other than piss poor behaviour, selfishness and disregard for others. The word narcissist is VERY WRONGLY used on these forums, across the internet and in Joe public in general. " Agreed. Of course there are people who have genuinely experienced it but more often than not it's being used to describe someone you're not friends with/dating any more. And that's a real shame and dampens the true meaning of it. | |||
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"Tom would say that a really good communicator and friend makes you feel like the most important person in the room. A narcissist tries to make you believe that they are the most important person in the room" 100% | |||
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"Don’t engage at all it’s what a narcissist thrives on and you won’t win, best thing is just saying something like “whatever” and walk away. If you live with one it can be extremely difficult " That is right and yes, it must be very difficult to live with one, especially with their controlling nature of things too. | |||
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"Who makes these mental health conditions up these days haha .. so thinking highly of yourself and believing you are of some form of importance in this world is bad then ? Of course world leaders have this belief otherwise they would be working in a dead end job.. I love to a knowledge people's achievements and salute them for it !! Hard work pays off !! Why should they be labelled for it haha crazy world full of Envious people waiting to cut people down who achieve goals they can't comprehend " That’s not what narcissism is. | |||
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"Who makes these mental health conditions up these days haha .. so thinking highly of yourself and believing you are of some form of importance in this world is bad then ? Of course world leaders have this belief otherwise they would be working in a dead end job.. I love to a knowledge people's achievements and salute them for it !! Hard work pays off !! Why should they be labelled for it haha crazy world full of Envious people waiting to cut people down who achieve goals they can't comprehend " A narcissist is someone who doesn't care who they have to walk over to achieve those things or about the consequences and then they expect those they trample to acknowledge their greatness. | |||
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"Who makes these mental health conditions up these days haha .. so thinking highly of yourself and believing you are of some form of importance in this world is bad then ? Of course world leaders have this belief otherwise they would be working in a dead end job.. I love to a knowledge people's achievements and salute them for it !! Hard work pays off !! Why should they be labelled for it haha crazy world full of Envious people waiting to cut people down who achieve goals they can't comprehend That’s not what narcissism is." Interesting if you look at the list of things that supposedly makes someone a narcissist.. every celebrity will have these every successful person will.. all the influencers .. anyone who's made it to the top of their game | |||
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"Who makes these mental health conditions up these days haha .. so thinking highly of yourself and believing you are of some form of importance in this world is bad then ? Of course world leaders have this belief otherwise they would be working in a dead end job.. I love to a knowledge people's achievements and salute them for it !! Hard work pays off !! Why should they be labelled for it haha crazy world full of Envious people waiting to cut people down who achieve goals they can't comprehend A narcissist is someone who doesn't care who they have to walk over to achieve those things or about the consequences and then they expect those they trample to acknowledge their greatness. " Unfortunately it's a dog eat dog world we live in now.. I don't make the rules I can just see how it is with my own eyes.. I can tell you now the people who you might brand this are doing far more important things with their life than discussing who or who isn't a narcissist.. they are too busy making it and securing their families futures regardless of what the fuck people think .haters will hate .. if you don't have haters go and get yourself some then you'll know your doing something right | |||
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"Who makes these mental health conditions up these days haha .. so thinking highly of yourself and believing you are of some form of importance in this world is bad then ? Of course world leaders have this belief otherwise they would be working in a dead end job.. I love to a knowledge people's achievements and salute them for it !! Hard work pays off !! Why should they be labelled for it haha crazy world full of Envious people waiting to cut people down who achieve goals they can't comprehend A narcissist is someone who doesn't care who they have to walk over to achieve those things or about the consequences and then they expect those they trample to acknowledge their greatness. Unfortunately it's a dog eat dog world we live in now.. I don't make the rules I can just see how it is with my own eyes.. I can tell you now the people who you might brand this are doing far more important things with their life than discussing who or who isn't a narcissist.. they are too busy making it and securing their families futures regardless of what the fuck people think .haters will hate .. if you don't have haters go and get yourself some then you'll know your doing something right " You obviously don't understand what a narcissist is then if you think they are securing someone else's future. | |||
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"Other narcissists? The hate competition. Also being left. If you want to really hurt a narcissist leave them." Then what would that make you or me ? | |||
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"Who makes these mental health conditions up these days haha .. so thinking highly of yourself and believing you are of some form of importance in this world is bad then ? Of course world leaders have this belief otherwise they would be working in a dead end job.. I love to a knowledge people's achievements and salute them for it !! Hard work pays off !! Why should they be labelled for it haha crazy world full of Envious people waiting to cut people down who achieve goals they can't comprehend A narcissist is someone who doesn't care who they have to walk over to achieve those things or about the consequences and then they expect those they trample to acknowledge their greatness. Unfortunately it's a dog eat dog world we live in now.. I don't make the rules I can just see how it is with my own eyes.. I can tell you now the people who you might brand this are doing far more important things with their life than discussing who or who isn't a narcissist.. they are too busy making it and securing their families futures regardless of what the fuck people think .haters will hate .. if you don't have haters go and get yourself some then you'll know your doing something right You obviously don't understand what a narcissist is then if you think they are securing someone else's future." I'll give you an example .. I'm running my own business.. someone I know is in competition with me.. either him or I will get the customers.. I'll walk all over that Fucker to make sure I secure my income and work which pays for the house over my families head and pays for my kids future.. Because if I don't he'll do it to me and I'm fucked.. | |||
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"Who makes these mental health conditions up these days haha .. so thinking highly of yourself and believing you are of some form of importance in this world is bad then ? Of course world leaders have this belief otherwise they would be working in a dead end job.. I love to a knowledge people's achievements and salute them for it !! Hard work pays off !! Why should they be labelled for it haha crazy world full of Envious people waiting to cut people down who achieve goals they can't comprehend A narcissist is someone who doesn't care who they have to walk over to achieve those things or about the consequences and then they expect those they trample to acknowledge their greatness. Unfortunately it's a dog eat dog world we live in now.. I don't make the rules I can just see how it is with my own eyes.. I can tell you now the people who you might brand this are doing far more important things with their life than discussing who or who isn't a narcissist.. they are too busy making it and securing their families futures regardless of what the fuck people think .haters will hate .. if you don't have haters go and get yourself some then you'll know your doing something right You obviously don't understand what a narcissist is then if you think they are securing someone else's future. I'll give you an example .. I'm running my own business.. someone I know is in competition with me.. either him or I will get the customers.. I'll walk all over that Fucker to make sure I secure my income and work which pays for the house over my families head and pays for my kids future.. Because if I don't he'll do it to me and I'm fucked.. " And that’s not narcissism. | |||
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"Who makes these mental health conditions up these days haha .. so thinking highly of yourself and believing you are of some form of importance in this world is bad then ? Of course world leaders have this belief otherwise they would be working in a dead end job.. I love to a knowledge people's achievements and salute them for it !! Hard work pays off !! Why should they be labelled for it haha crazy world full of Envious people waiting to cut people down who achieve goals they can't comprehend A narcissist is someone who doesn't care who they have to walk over to achieve those things or about the consequences and then they expect those they trample to acknowledge their greatness. Unfortunately it's a dog eat dog world we live in now.. I don't make the rules I can just see how it is with my own eyes.. I can tell you now the people who you might brand this are doing far more important things with their life than discussing who or who isn't a narcissist.. they are too busy making it and securing their families futures regardless of what the fuck people think .haters will hate .. if you don't have haters go and get yourself some then you'll know your doing something right You obviously don't understand what a narcissist is then if you think they are securing someone else's future. I'll give you an example .. I'm running my own business.. someone I know is in competition with me.. either him or I will get the customers.. I'll walk all over that Fucker to make sure I secure my income and work which pays for the house over my families head and pays for my kids future.. Because if I don't he'll do it to me and I'm fucked.. " That's not narcissism. A narcissist wouldn't give a fuck about their family and kids future. Only their own. | |||
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"Who makes these mental health conditions up these days haha .. so thinking highly of yourself and believing you are of some form of importance in this world is bad then ? Of course world leaders have this belief otherwise they would be working in a dead end job.. I love to a knowledge people's achievements and salute them for it !! Hard work pays off !! Why should they be labelled for it haha crazy world full of Envious people waiting to cut people down who achieve goals they can't comprehend A narcissist is someone who doesn't care who they have to walk over to achieve those things or about the consequences and then they expect those they trample to acknowledge their greatness. Unfortunately it's a dog eat dog world we live in now.. I don't make the rules I can just see how it is with my own eyes.. I can tell you now the people who you might brand this are doing far more important things with their life than discussing who or who isn't a narcissist.. they are too busy making it and securing their families futures regardless of what the fuck people think .haters will hate .. if you don't have haters go and get yourself some then you'll know your doing something right You obviously don't understand what a narcissist is then if you think they are securing someone else's future. I'll give you an example .. I'm running my own business.. someone I know is in competition with me.. either him or I will get the customers.. I'll walk all over that Fucker to make sure I secure my income and work which pays for the house over my families head and pays for my kids future.. Because if I don't he'll do it to me and I'm fucked.. And that’s not narcissism." He knows he's not a narcissist....... He's explaining the difference between a narc and someone who has a goal and keeps pursuing it ..... He does not want the label narcissist attached to a determined person. I'd apologise for speaking for you James but my narcissism allows me to unapologetically do so.  | |||
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"Who makes these mental health conditions up these days haha .. so thinking highly of yourself and believing you are of some form of importance in this world is bad then ? Of course world leaders have this belief otherwise they would be working in a dead end job.. I love to a knowledge people's achievements and salute them for it !! Hard work pays off !! Why should they be labelled for it haha crazy world full of Envious people waiting to cut people down who achieve goals they can't comprehend A narcissist is someone who doesn't care who they have to walk over to achieve those things or about the consequences and then they expect those they trample to acknowledge their greatness. Unfortunately it's a dog eat dog world we live in now.. I don't make the rules I can just see how it is with my own eyes.. I can tell you now the people who you might brand this are doing far more important things with their life than discussing who or who isn't a narcissist.. they are too busy making it and securing their families futures regardless of what the fuck people think .haters will hate .. if you don't have haters go and get yourself some then you'll know your doing something right You obviously don't understand what a narcissist is then if you think they are securing someone else's future. I'll give you an example .. I'm running my own business.. someone I know is in competition with me.. either him or I will get the customers.. I'll walk all over that Fucker to make sure I secure my income and work which pays for the house over my families head and pays for my kids future.. Because if I don't he'll do it to me and I'm fucked.. And that’s not narcissism. He knows he's not a narcissist....... He's explaining the difference between a narc and someone who has a goal and keeps pursuing it ..... He does not want the label narcissist attached to a determined person. I'd apologise for speaking for you James but my narcissism allows me to unapologetically do so. "And if someone attached the label incorrectly, that’s on them. Narcissism is a defined mental condition. | |||
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"Who makes these mental health conditions up these days haha .. so thinking highly of yourself and believing you are of some form of importance in this world is bad then ? Of course world leaders have this belief otherwise they would be working in a dead end job.. I love to a knowledge people's achievements and salute them for it !! Hard work pays off !! Why should they be labelled for it haha crazy world full of Envious people waiting to cut people down who achieve goals they can't comprehend A narcissist is someone who doesn't care who they have to walk over to achieve those things or about the consequences and then they expect those they trample to acknowledge their greatness. Unfortunately it's a dog eat dog world we live in now.. I don't make the rules I can just see how it is with my own eyes.. I can tell you now the people who you might brand this are doing far more important things with their life than discussing who or who isn't a narcissist.. they are too busy making it and securing their families futures regardless of what the fuck people think .haters will hate .. if you don't have haters go and get yourself some then you'll know your doing something right You obviously don't understand what a narcissist is then if you think they are securing someone else's future. I'll give you an example .. I'm running my own business.. someone I know is in competition with me.. either him or I will get the customers.. I'll walk all over that Fucker to make sure I secure my income and work which pays for the house over my families head and pays for my kids future.. Because if I don't he'll do it to me and I'm fucked.. And that’s not narcissism. He knows he's not a narcissist....... He's explaining the difference between a narc and someone who has a goal and keeps pursuing it ..... He does not want the label narcissist attached to a determined person. I'd apologise for speaking for you James but my narcissism allows me to unapologetically do so. "Thank you so much I appreciate that that's exactly my point I'm making .. you cannot just say someone with these qualities is a narcissist.. are we all meant to stop trying to be the best at what we do and when we do enjoy knowing we have done so ? You go to a football game player scores thousands of fans go crazy because of what he's done and he loves it as he knows he's achieved his goal.. too many haters in this world | |||
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"They dont like when people see through them. The hurt they display is comical." Why comical ? | |||
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"Is it “frost”? Ah on second reading I’m answering regarding narcissus. Everyone loves a Daffodil" An orthodox narcissist does not do daffodils. | |||
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"They dont like when people see through them. The hurt they display is comical. Why comical ? " Because its fake. They are just pissed that they wont be able to manipulate you. | |||
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"Who makes these mental health conditions up these days haha .. so thinking highly of yourself and believing you are of some form of importance in this world is bad then ? Of course world leaders have this belief otherwise they would be working in a dead end job.. I love to a knowledge people's achievements and salute them for it !! Hard work pays off !! Why should they be labelled for it haha crazy world full of Envious people waiting to cut people down who achieve goals they can't comprehend A narcissist is someone who doesn't care who they have to walk over to achieve those things or about the consequences and then they expect those they trample to acknowledge their greatness. " Like Homelander? He's one isn't he. | |||
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"They dont like when people see through them. The hurt they display is comical. Why comical ? Because it's fake. They are just pissed that they wont be able to manipulate you." So you've just described a manipulative person.. that's failed to manipulate.. | |||
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"They dont like when people see through them. The hurt they display is comical." so true | |||
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"Marmite? Fucking love marmite !! " Watching you closely. Do you like aubergines? | |||
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"Marmite? Fucking love marmite !! Watching you closely. Do you like aubergines?" Creepy | |||
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"Marmite? Fucking love marmite !! Watching you closely. Do you like aubergines? Creepy " Just answer the question, James | |||
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"Is Tom a narcissist,?" Tom, everybody in the world is a narcissist don’t you know. Embrace it. | |||
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"Is Tom a narcissist,? Tom, everybody in the world is a narcissist don’t you know. Embrace it." But he has not trained to be one. | |||
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"I bet they hate that everyone’s a narcissist these days " Probably it’s no longer unique lol | |||
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"Marmite? Fucking love marmite !! Did you know if you put marmite by windows it stops spiders coming inside " If you put a spider plant on the window sill it stops Tigers getting in. Mines been on there since I moved in and not one Tiger has got in! | |||
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"Who makes these mental health conditions up these days haha .. so thinking highly of yourself and believing you are of some form of importance in this world is bad then ? Of course world leaders have this belief otherwise they would be working in a dead end job.. I love to a knowledge people's achievements and salute them for it !! Hard work pays off !! Why should they be labelled for it haha crazy world full of Envious people waiting to cut people down who achieve goals they can't comprehend A narcissist is someone who doesn't care who they have to walk over to achieve those things or about the consequences and then they expect those they trample to acknowledge their greatness. Unfortunately it's a dog eat dog world we live in now.. I don't make the rules I can just see how it is with my own eyes.. I can tell you now the people who you might brand this are doing far more important things with their life than discussing who or who isn't a narcissist.. they are too busy making it and securing their families futures regardless of what the fuck people think .haters will hate .. if you don't have haters go and get yourself some then you'll know your doing something right You obviously don't understand what a narcissist is then if you think they are securing someone else's future. I'll give you an example .. I'm running my own business.. someone I know is in competition with me.. either him or I will get the customers.. I'll walk all over that Fucker to make sure I secure my income and work which pays for the house over my families head and pays for my kids future.. Because if I don't he'll do it to me and I'm fucked.. That's not narcissism. A narcissist wouldn't give a fuck about their family and kids future. Only their own. " That is absolutely 100% true | |||
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"They don’t like losing your attention or failing at anything or being wrong about anything although they typically are unable to accept any of these has happened when when it does they invent a different version of events for themselves and others. This is why they never grow and mature. " This. 100000% | |||
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" ... That's not narcissism. A narcissist wouldn't give a fuck about their family and kids future. Only their own. That is absolutely 100% true " Definitely me. I don't have any kids who I have been told about! | |||
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"They don’t like losing your attention or failing at anything or being wrong about anything although they typically are unable to accept any of these has happened when when it does they invent a different version of events for themselves and others. This is why they never grow and mature. " Exactly right. | |||
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"Is Tom a narcissist,? Tom, everybody in the world is a narcissist don’t you know. Embrace it. But he has not trained to be one. " This weeks narcissist is next week’s pacifist…. Mark my words Tom. | |||
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"Is Tom a narcissist,? Tom, everybody in the world is a narcissist don’t you know. Embrace it. But he has not trained to be one. This weeks narcissist is next week’s pacifist…. Mark my words Tom." Don't go on the politics forum admitting to be a pacifist or you will get branded as a 'woke leftie'! | |||
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"They don't like when you stop being their "supply" " Yes, you are right there, if one stops being their supply too, they dont like that | |||
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"Is Tom a narcissist,? Tom, everybody in the world is a narcissist don’t you know. Embrace it. But he has not trained to be one. This weeks narcissist is next week’s pacifist…. Mark my words Tom. Don't go on the politics forum admitting to be a pacifist or you will get branded as a 'woke leftie'!" Thing is, next weeks pacifist is next month dentist. | |||
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"I was reading an interesting article about narcessists and it was about what they dislike. I already know quiete a lot about narcissists and some of the things that they often dislike is criticism and rejection. What is your view sboug it and do you know any more signs, also have you or living with one? Did you also know that most of the world leaders are narcessists too? "They hate being told NO. say it to them and watch the fireworks go off. The hardest narcissist to detect is the Covert Narcissist because they are nice to people but behind closed doors they change into the devil. The idealise you phase, mirror you and love bomb you initially. The speed of the relationship at the beginning is off the scale. The devalue phase. They insult you with rude and insulting comments from nothing and blame you for it all. They lie, manipulate and Gaslight at an Olympic level. Somewhere in the relationship the narcissist gets a narcissist injury. This injury can't be reversed as they feel you have betrayed them. They only see the world as black and white and don't ever compromise. It's all about them or nothing. Then the discard phase. They start to look for a new supply during the devalue stage. They are cheating and feel nothing about it. They leave you with no explanation and confuses the victim. Hoovering phase can happen anytime. This phase is when they come back for you. Hoovering can happen time and time again. No contact is the way to go. Block them from all social media. The idealisation and devalue phase can go on for years. Switching places every other day. They become like jekyll and hide. Covert passive aggressive Narcissists have no empathy so its easy for them to discard you and feel nothing from it. They have a personality disorder that can't be cured because they don't go for help. As they know better than the doctors. They are so self absorbed and nothing else matters but their ego. Their self esteem is at rock bottom if they don't have a supply to make them feel good. They crave their dopamine hit and hate being alone. | |||
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"Narcissism - under it's true definition, is a mental health condition. The word is bandied about a lot and is mis used to describe someone who 'wasn't very nice to you.' at some point in your life. True, I wouldn't want to associate a narcissist if they were harmful to my everyday being but there are worse relationships to be had with , 'the non mentally ill,' who have no inbuilt reason for the way they are other than piss poor behaviour, selfishness and disregard for others. The word narcissist is VERY WRONGLY used on these forums, across the internet and in Joe public in general. " When I think of narcissist I think of Donald Trump, as an example. If his pattern of behaviour and of other people who share those traits matches the clinical definition of narcissist, that I don't know. If it doesn't, then I wonder what's the term to be used for people with similar behaviour to Trump (they are never wrong, nothing is ever their fault, other people are always totally awful or totally awesome, see things in black and white, etc). | |||
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"I was reading an interesting article about narcessists and it was about what they dislike. I already know quiete a lot about narcissists and some of the things that they often dislike is criticism and rejection. What is your view sboug it and do you know any more signs, also have you or living with one? Did you also know that most of the world leaders are narcessists too? "Could never live with one but I fell foul of a narcasistic. He made me feel like I was shitty, told me I was not beautiful and hurt my cat. Telling me how much to spend, what to wear and eat. Yes, very much like NEW WORLD ORDER leaders op. | |||
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"Lots of differing opinions on what a narcissist is. Do the medical professionals and mind doctors agree. And what treatment do you give a narcissist?" Narcissists won't go for help or think there is something wrong with them. They know better than the doctors and any psychologist would only be manipulated by the narcissist. Have a read of my explanation above and the traits of a COVERT PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE NARCISSIST. | |||
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"I was reading an interesting article about narcessists and it was about what they dislike. I already know quiete a lot about narcissists and some of the things that they often dislike is criticism and rejection. What is your view sboug it and do you know any more signs, also have you or living with one? Did you also know that most of the world leaders are narcessists too?
Could never live with one but I fell foul of a narcasistic. He made me feel like I was shitty, told me I was not beautiful and hurt my cat. Telling me how much to spend, what to wear and eat.
Yes, very much like NEW WORLD ORDER leaders op. "Hi becs, that is good you got out of it and yes, like the leaders too. | |||
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I've recently become acquainted with one such person & she has a few people wrapped right around her finger for now....But some of us have her decked & can see right through her....A too sweet to be wholesome senario also....(I'm a good judge of character).... | |||
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"Tom would say that a really good communicator and friend makes you feel like the most important person in the room. A narcissist tries to make you believe that they are the most important person in the room" As one woman once told me " I bet you are glad you met me " | |||
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"I don’t like aubergines, does that help? Yes "As pineapples are the sign of a swinger, are aubergines the sign of a narcissist ? | |||
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"I used to know someone who accused her ex of being a narcissist. She brought it up in every conversation about him and claimed it was the reason they were no longer together. Strangely though she spent almost every night in online forums discussing narcissism and followed him and others around their social media accounts making snide comments and quoting from one of the 20+ groups she was involved in. Despite all this he never once responded or bit back. Others, including me, then became targets when we told her she needed to speak to someone about her obsession and that she was guilty of all the things she accused him of being. As others have said, it's a word like many others these days that are bandied about without understanding what they really mean. " plot twist she was the narcissist all along | |||
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"I used to know someone who accused her ex of being a narcissist. She brought it up in every conversation about him and claimed it was the reason they were no longer together. Strangely though she spent almost every night in online forums discussing narcissism and followed him and others around their social media accounts making snide comments and quoting from one of the 20+ groups she was involved in. Despite all this he never once responded or bit back. Others, including me, then became targets when we told her she needed to speak to someone about her obsession and that she was guilty of all the things she accused him of being. As others have said, it's a word like many others these days that are bandied about without understanding what they really mean. plot twist she was the narcissist all along" Oh my gawd, that example a bit too close to a previous experience. | |||
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"I don’t like aubergines, does that help? Do you like marmite?" Lurve it! | |||
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"I don’t like aubergines, does that help? Yes
As pineapples are the sign of a swinger, are aubergines the sign of a narcissist ?"I was joking. | |||
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"Being misspelt drives us crazy !" Never had you down as a narkycistist Granny | |||
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"I was reading an interesting article about narcessists and it was about what they dislike. I already know quiete a lot about narcissists and some of the things that they often dislike is criticism and rejection. What is your view sboug it and do you know any more signs, also have you or living with one? Did you also know that most of the world leaders are narcessists too?
They hate being told NO. say it to them and watch the fireworks go off.
The hardest narcissist to detect is the Covert Narcissist because they are nice to people but behind closed doors they change into the devil.
The idealise you phase, mirror you and love bomb you initially. The speed of the relationship at the beginning is off the scale.
The devalue phase. They insult you with rude and insulting comments from nothing and blame you for it all. They lie, manipulate and Gaslight at an Olympic level. Somewhere in the relationship the narcissist gets a narcissist injury. This injury can't be reversed as they feel you have betrayed them. They only see the world as black and white and don't ever compromise. It's all about them or nothing.
Then the discard phase. They start to look for a new supply during the devalue stage. They are cheating and feel nothing about it. They leave you with no explanation and confuses the victim.
Hoovering phase can happen anytime. This phase is when they come back for you. Hoovering can happen time and time again. No contact is the way to go. Block them from all social media.
The idealisation and devalue phase can go on for years. Switching places every other day. They become like jekyll and hide.
Covert passive aggressive Narcissists have no empathy so its easy for them to discard you and feel nothing from it.
They have a personality disorder that can't be cured because they don't go for help. As they know better than the doctors. They are so self absorbed and nothing else matters but their ego.
Their self esteem is at rock bottom if they don't have a supply to make them feel good. They crave their dopamine hit and hate being alone.
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"I was reading an interesting article about narcessists and it was about what they dislike. I already know quiete a lot about narcissists and some of the things that they often dislike is criticism and rejection. What is your view sboug it and do you know any more signs, also have you or living with one? Did you also know that most of the world leaders are narcessists too? "They don’t like not being the centre of attention or being able to control people. In my experience, when a narcissist encounters a person who doesn’t fall under their spell, they are suspicious of them, vindictive, and seek to undermine them. | |||
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"I think throwing around complex diagnoses is unhelpful. I don't like that. Am I a narcissist? dunno. Think what you like "I agree, to a point, but narcissism is so common, most of us know people who display narcissistic traits, so I think it is fair enough to comment. It’s not as though we are naming individuals and giving uninformed diagnoses | |||
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"I think throwing around complex diagnoses is unhelpful. I don't like that. Am I a narcissist? dunno. Think what you like
I agree, to a point, but narcissism is so common, most of us know people who display narcissistic traits, so I think it is fair enough to comment.
It’s not as though we are naming individuals and giving uninformed diagnoses "It’s not that common , you find its common in some executives but in normal population I think the term is over used for all kinds of insecurity& personality disorders. In normal life I’ve only known one. | |||
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"I think throwing around complex diagnoses is unhelpful. I don't like that. Am I a narcissist? dunno. Think what you like
I agree, to a point, but narcissism is so common, most of us know people who display narcissistic traits, so I think it is fair enough to comment.
It’s not as though we are naming individuals and giving uninformed diagnoses
It’s not that common , you find its common in some executives but in normal population I think the term is over used for all kinds of insecurity& personality disorders. In normal life I’ve only known one."So you know one, I’ve known a few … as I said, pretty common. One of the clearest examples I know is a school teacher. Another was a former colleague, an accountant. Yes, it is more prevalent in senior executives … not only being comfortable with attention but craving it, and almost instinctively seeing off and undermining rivals. I agree with you that it an overused as a lay diagnosis in everyday conversation. One woman I know, for example, has at one point or another told me that each of her siblings and both of her parents are narcissists. | |||
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"Narcissism - under it's true definition, is a mental health condition. The word is bandied about a lot and is mis used to describe someone who 'wasn't very nice to you.' at some point in your life. True, I wouldn't want to associate a narcissist if they were harmful to my everyday being but there are worse relationships to be had with , 'the non mentally ill,' who have no inbuilt reason for the way they are other than piss poor behaviour, selfishness and disregard for others. The word narcissist is VERY WRONGLY used on these forums, across the internet and in Joe public in general. " They are as dangerous & as destructive as Psychopaths. | |||
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"As someone who is a narcissist, you have to learn to modify your behaviour and to accept criticism, rejection and people not following your every instruction. Its not easy, but you learn mechanisms to deal with it " So really you can't be trusted coz your manipulative and want it all your way. You don't like to be told NO. So passive aggressive kicks in. You have zero empathy and don't process Love or empathy like a normal human being. | |||
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"Being told no or ignored. Does anybody truly like this ? " Yes people with respect have no issues with it! | |||
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"They dislike marmalade, little known fact, narcissism and marmalade don't mix Mr " Unless you're a narcimarmassist of course . | |||
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"I was reading an interesting article about narcessists and it was about what they dislike. I already know quiete a lot about narcissists and some of the things that they often dislike is criticism and rejection. What is your view sboug it and do you know any more signs, also have you or living with one? Did you also know that most of the world leaders are narcessists too? "Vladimir Putin is definitely one! | |||
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"As someone who is a narcissist, you have to learn to modify your behaviour and to accept criticism, rejection and people not following your every instruction. Its not easy, but you learn mechanisms to deal with it So really you can't be trusted coz your manipulative and want it all your way. You don't like to be told NO. So passive aggressive kicks in. You have zero empathy and don't process Love or empathy like a normal human being. " Yes I can be manipulative and controlling and hate being told no. But with professional help you can learn coping mechanisms But I am devoid of empathy and I don't "love" people (hence 3 ex-wives and fracfured relationships with my children), however I do love myself. But once again you can learn mechanisms to help maintain some form of normal relationships with people. The fact that you commented on my original post in such a way, triggered me. Before I went through some professional help; my reaction would have been very different to this. I still have the same initial "rise", but now take a few moments to realign my thoughts and think constructively before I take action. | |||
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"The NPD condition is incurable. " Very true, but it has varying degrees of severity and one can learn mechanisms to manage it. | |||
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