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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all I was just chatting with someone, going well then it said I cannot message with the yellow fab typing then her profile is completely gone including all the chat history. Does anybody know what that means, perhaps suspended by I can’t see why or perhaps she deleted her profile which doesn’t seem to make sense either. Thanks to anyone who has an idea

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

They left the site most likely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks weird we just arranging a when and where

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

They've deleted their profile. All trace of them disappears if they do that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks ouchy think I might have got stalked ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They've had their wank. They'll probably join again and do it to someone else

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Probably a he pretending to be a she x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hehe well I don’t mind that just felt weird and a bit spied on by someone. Thanks for the reply x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the way

Welcome to the forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interesting thought thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you lovely x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for the replies muchly appreciated x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

People decide to delete their profile for all sorts of reasons not always bad ones

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks I know this too, I have deleted and rejoined a few times, but a bit odd she just joined found me chattered, we arranged a meet then boom all gone.. too good to be true dammit. Lol thanks for your reply x

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Thanks I know this too, I have deleted and rejoined a few times, but a bit odd she just joined found me chattered, we arranged a meet then boom all gone.. too good to be true dammit. Lol thanks for your reply x"

If it was a new profile, odds are they just signed up for a quick thrill, got their rocks off and jumped ship.

And by 'they' I mean 'he'.

The perils of engaging with newbies. It's often best to leave them to settle in for a while. That way you know if they're planning on sticking around.

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW

That is exactly what puts me off newbies. Its a shame though because its also why many newbies struggle to get the first meet with no verifications. Parties/socials and clubs are the best places for newbies to head to get a few verifications to get them started. Sorry this has happened to you OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Floss you could be right and she was a new women just past 50 she she was saying her messages were going mad. Perhaps she was genuine but just overwhelmed or unsure. Idk. It’s hard to get past the veri bit tho I do understand. I have had some meets person to person and clubs but so far no veris lol. It does put people off.

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW

If someone has met you i cant see why they wont verify you. They dont need yo say loads. Its ok for you to ask them if you have met. Most people wont mind.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"People decide to delete their profile for all sorts of reasons not always bad ones"

Too many sites doing the same thing, only so much time and juggling skills: modern world problems.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Hi all I was just chatting with someone, going well then it said I cannot message with the yellow fab typing then her profile is completely gone including all the chat history. Does anybody know what that means, perhaps suspended by I can’t see why or perhaps she deleted her profile which doesn’t seem to make sense either. Thanks to anyone who has an idea"
You feel disappointed let down, did you send personal pics? Was it a woman or was it somebody yanking your chain, this site can be about disappointment, rudeness, opinions that don't match with yours but mostly about leaving and coming back UNLOS

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Worcester

It might be that she’s got stuck in the “photo verification” loop. The profile disappears while the site forces them to photo verify, and sometimes it can take days or weeks for it to go through.

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