FabSwingers.com forum: More for the ladies

By (user no longer on site) OP
42 weeks ago

Question more for the ladies

Has the attention / high volume of messages boosted your confidence ?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
42 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Nah.

Men wanting a wet hole to stick it in and doling out 'compliments' to get there doesn't make me feel any more valuable or important.

Being a potentially viable orifice isn't the confidence boost some men seem to think it is

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
42 weeks ago

Leeds

No, from men that compliment 500 women a day that would stick their cock in anything that moves isn't a real compliment.

Mrs

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By *VineMan
42 weeks ago

The right place

"Nah.

Men wanting a wet hole to stick it in and doling out 'compliments' to get there doesn't make me feel any more valuable or important.

Being a potentially viable orifice isn't the confidence boost some men seem to think it is

You had me at ‘viable orifice’

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By *naswingdressWoman
42 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Absolutely not.

I recognise that it's about as sincere, in a lot of instances, as the Nigerian prince who has chosen me for his millions based on my charm, intellect, and gullibility.

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By *eroLondonMan
42 weeks ago

Covent Garden

"Nah.

Men wanting a wet hole to stick it in and doling out 'compliments' to get there doesn't make me feel any more valuable or important.

Being a potentially viable orifice isn't the confidence boost some men seem to think it is

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Prêy, dårling, the question was aimed at the ladies and not the women.

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
42 weeks ago

London

"Nah.

Men wanting a wet hole to stick it in and doling out 'compliments' to get there doesn't make me feel any more valuable or important.

Being a potentially viable orifice isn't the confidence boost some men seem to think it is

I couldn't agree more

Also, copy-paste messages are so obvious

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By *ycanNightsMan
42 weeks ago

Workington

"Nah.

Men wanting a wet hole to stick it in and doling out 'compliments' to get there doesn't make me feel any more valuable or important.

Being a potentially viable orifice isn't the confidence boost some men seem to think it is

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Prêy, dårling, the question was aimed at the ladies and not the women.

To be fair...she's a princess

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
42 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

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Prêy, dårling, the question was aimed at the ladies and not the women.

Nero. Sweetheart.

Are you implying that I am not a lady?

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By *ongandharderMan
42 weeks ago

Rotherham

Some guys make it a lot harder for the normal nice ones who see women as more than just meat

As per meets I have had it has been chat , chill , and relax then go upstairs

People who are just trying to get their end away are the worst sorts sometimes as its dehumanising to both men and women

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Not really, as I go from 'wow, you're hot, I want to fuck you so badly.' to 'Ugly git,' in the time it takes to point out someone is 300 miles away

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By *eroLondonMan
42 weeks ago

Covent Garden

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Prêy, dårling, the question was aimed at the ladies and not the women.

Nero. Sweetheart.

Are you implying that I am not a lady?"

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I'm implying — and in agreement with your Gentle Fellow — that you are a Princess †

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By *luebell888Woman
42 weeks ago

Glasgowish

Yes it has. I had hit rock bottom before joining fab due to a bad relationship and thought I was old and undesirable to the male species. Fab has given me the confidence to pick myself up and hold my head high.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
42 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"•

Prêy, dårling, the question was aimed at the ladies and not the women.

Nero. Sweetheart.

Are you implying that I am not a lady?

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I'm implying — and in agreement with your Gentle Fellow — that you are a Princess †

I'm honestly more offended by the implication that that Tyrant is ever gentle.

But okay.

I shall go readjust my tiara in peace

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
42 weeks ago

East Sussex

What boosted my confidence in my appearance was seeing photos of myself. I realised that I wasn't too bad for an old bird.

As far as self esteem and self confidence goes fab hasn't had any impact on that either

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
42 weeks ago

Reading

initially yes but then I recognized things for what they are. Flattery is always overplayed.

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By *essaMayWoman
42 weeks ago

Fairytale Wood

Nah it just shows desperation and very shallow and empty intent. A confidence boost would come from a genuine and sincere compliment from someone'sopinion you value.

Not - i really don't care anything about you, you're just hole to stick my cock, fancy a shag - how would that boost confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Nope

Taking and posting photos helps though

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Initially yes. Once you realise how hollow the compliments actually are and how many others they are saying exactly the same thing to. It gets old fast.

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By *ustBoWoman
42 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

No it hasn't. I take the compliments I get from people I don't know with a very big pinch of salt. Getting genuine compliments is a different matter and yes they help a little bit with confidence.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
42 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

The taking pics to post on places like FAB has given confidence but not the ‘I think you’re hot until you say no’ types of messages.

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By *naswingdressWoman
42 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Initially yes. Once you realise how hollow the compliments actually are and how many others they are saying exactly the same thing to. It gets old fast. "

Any delusions I had were punctured by the "most beautiful woman in the world" thing - before I'd uploaded a single photo

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
42 weeks ago

Worcester

No. The vast majority of comments on here aren’t really compliments, they’re sales patter to get laid.

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By *lder.Woman
42 weeks ago

Not Local

No, they can say what they like, but I know what I look like when I glance in the mirror, or when the kids take an impromptu photo. Dear lord

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
42 weeks ago

Worcester

"Some guys make it a lot harder for the normal nice ones who see women as more than just meat

Actually, I suspect they make it easier for decent guys. Because when a guy who might be decent comes along they’re very easy to recognize.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
42 weeks ago

Worcester

"Initially yes. Once you realise how hollow the compliments actually are and how many others they are saying exactly the same thing to. It gets old fast.

Any delusions I had were punctured by the "most beautiful woman in the world" thing - before I'd uploaded a single photo

I love it when I get a message telling me how beautiful I am when all I have on my profile is a picture of my butt.

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By *naswingdressWoman
42 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Initially yes. Once you realise how hollow the compliments actually are and how many others they are saying exactly the same thing to. It gets old fast.

Any delusions I had were punctured by the "most beautiful woman in the world" thing - before I'd uploaded a single photo

I love it when I get a message telling me how beautiful I am when all I have on my profile is a picture of my butt."

Probably even worse was just after I uploaded my very first photo. Apparently my stockings were driving men so wild that they had to come hundreds of miles to meet me.

Thanks, they come from M&S. Do you not have them in Exeter/Kent/Aberdeen?

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

"Initially yes. Once you realise how hollow the compliments actually are and how many others they are saying exactly the same thing to. It gets old fast.

Any delusions I had were punctured by the "most beautiful woman in the world" thing - before I'd uploaded a single photo

Ugh the LIES just roll of their tongue so naturally! Like, how do you know? Stop being silly

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
42 weeks ago

Worcester

"Initially yes. Once you realise how hollow the compliments actually are and how many others they are saying exactly the same thing to. It gets old fast.

Any delusions I had were punctured by the "most beautiful woman in the world" thing - before I'd uploaded a single photo

I love it when I get a message telling me how beautiful I am when all I have on my profile is a picture of my butt.

Probably even worse was just after I uploaded my very first photo. Apparently my stockings were driving men so wild that they had to come hundreds of miles to meet me.

Thanks, they come from M&S. Do you not have them in Exeter/Kent/Aberdeen?"

They just hit differently in Manchester babe.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
42 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

No. But it has made me realise a lot mess men than I thought prefer slim and perfectly toned.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

No ... most are cut and paste messages to all women lol

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By *issmorganWoman
42 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Nah, I use filters anyway to reduce mail and I don't tend to belive what people say here, unless I know them well.

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By *olfandtazCouple
42 weeks ago

Bristol

You mean with all the

Copy and paste

One word messages

Nothing on profile

No pics

Yeah that's not going to work as a compliment, when you also look at that all they want really is a hole to fuck

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By *parkle1974Woman
42 weeks ago

Leeds

Definitely not.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Actually - the first marriage proposal was quite a boost

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