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By *ltr OP   Man
42 weeks ago

sheffield

Iam in a bit of a pickle , I've been asked out by a carer who looks after my disabled son (quadriplegic long story) all good you would think but the issue is what if we get on at first then it goes sour then I could lose the best friend my sons got or do I just decline and keep looking .

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
42 weeks ago

manchester


"Iam in a bit of a pickle , I've been asked out by a carer who looks after my disabled son (quadriplegic long story) all good you would think but the issue is what if we get on at first then it goes sour then I could lose the best friend my sons got or do I just decline and keep looking ."

Don’t mix business and pleasure

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By *imisugarWoman
42 weeks ago

Rugby

Decline and keep looking.

You're right to put your child first.

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By *ltr OP   Man
42 weeks ago

sheffield

Thanks that's confirmed my thoughts just needed a second opinion will let her know when home later cheers ??

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Explain to her that you don't want to affect her relationship with your kid if it doesn't work between you and her

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By *parkle1974Woman
42 weeks ago

Leeds

She should know her boundaries...not very professional

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By *olfandtazCouple
42 weeks ago

Bristol

It's got the potential to do alot of damage, always put your kids first before yourself. Politely decline.

If you are paying her to look after your son then this crosses professional boundaries as well. She should know better

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
42 weeks ago

East Sussex

Unfortunately she's already made things awkward. Hopefully you can get back to the previous status quo

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By *allySlinkyWoman
42 weeks ago

Leeds

Who would look after your son while you were out with her ?

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By *illy IdolMan
42 weeks ago

Midlands


"Who would look after your son while you were out with her ?"

It's only a guess but perhaps family.

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By *ltr OP   Man
42 weeks ago

sheffield

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By *ltr OP   Man
42 weeks ago

sheffield


"Who would look after your son while you were out with her ?"
she does have days off I do have a good team of carer's but I've decide to decline the invite

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By *eamus1956Man
42 weeks ago

Dagenham

Your son should be your priority

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By *ltr OP   Man
42 weeks ago

sheffield


"Your son should be your priority "

He is that's why iam going to decline the invite.

Just need a second opinion

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
42 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Your son should be your priority

He is that's why iam going to decline the invite.

Just need a second opinion "

I think you're doing the right thing. It's a shame because in other circumstances you'd have no qualms about dating her.

Hopefully things can continue as they were.

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By *ltr OP   Man
42 weeks ago

sheffield


"Your son should be your priority

He is that's why iam going to decline the invite.

Just need a second opinion

I think you're doing the right thing. It's a shame because in other circumstances you'd have no qualms about dating her.

Hopefully things can continue as they were. "

I would date her in a heart beat but he's my primary concern.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
42 weeks ago

Leeds

Do you think she was actually asking you out on a date or maybe just wanted to discuss issues about your son out of his earshot ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
42 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Your son should be your priority

He is that's why iam going to decline the invite.

Just need a second opinion

I think you're doing the right thing. It's a shame because in other circumstances you'd have no qualms about dating her.

Hopefully things can continue as they were.

I would date her in a heart beat but he's my primary concern. "

That's very clear

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"Who would look after your son while you were out with her ?she does have days off I do have a good team of carer's but I've decide to decline the invite "

If she did date you she would lose her job. Dating clients and or family is a sackable offence.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"Iam in a bit of a pickle , I've been asked out by a carer who looks after my disabled son (quadriplegic long story) all good you would think but the issue is what if we get on at first then it goes sour then I could lose the best friend my sons got or do I just decline and keep looking ."

Decline. Or, if you can handle it, go out for coffee, literally just coffee, have a chat and say no to any suggestion of dating.

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By *ycanNightsMan
42 weeks ago

Workington


"Iam in a bit of a pickle , I've been asked out by a carer who looks after my disabled son (quadriplegic long story) all good you would think but the issue is what if we get on at first then it goes sour then I could lose the best friend my sons got or do I just decline and keep looking ."

Don't cross the streams....

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By *iasubTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Ilkeston

As per everyone elses feedback. Dont mix personal with professional as most of the time it will bit you back and its not worth it in my view

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Central

Best to only be friendly and to decline the offer

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
42 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Don't shit where you eat

Mr

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By *mf123Man
42 weeks ago

with one foot out the door


"Iam in a bit of a pickle , I've been asked out by a carer who looks after my disabled son (quadriplegic long story) all good you would think but the issue is what if we get on at first then it goes sour then I could lose the best friend my sons got or do I just decline and keep looking ."
does steve know your stuck in him hope he consented

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