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By *r Sprout OP   Man
42 weeks ago

the middle

How would it change your life? Would it be for the better or worse? How deeply have you invested your personal identity in this site?

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Wouldn't make any difference to me

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Bloody hell I'd get so much done!!

No procrastinating, I'd be fit as a butchers dog, house would be decorated, I'd connect with real life friends and probably do a lot more

I'd also get more work done

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By *eyond PurityCouple
42 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I’d have to throw sausages over my face to mimic all the dick pics in our inbox

K

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By *aramel.desiresMan
42 weeks ago

Heathrow

I would probably be more productive and less frustrated.

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By *ris GrayMan
42 weeks ago

Dorchester

I'd be devastated

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By *r Sprout OP   Man
42 weeks ago

the middle


"Bloody hell I'd get so much done!!

No procrastinating, I'd be fit as a butchers dog, house would be decorated, I'd connect with real life friends and probably do a lot more

I'd also get more work done "

You deleted before I could say you would be able to work on your spelling too

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Farnborough

I’d spend more time doing productive stuff … and less time hoping!

R xx

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By *hrimper36Couple
42 weeks ago

Central France dept 36

We would carry on using the other sites that we also use.

T

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By *luebell888Woman
42 weeks ago

Glasgowish

I would just go to clubs more.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
42 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I'd end up going to more kink events and less swing events.

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By *ealitybitesMan
42 weeks ago

Belfast

It's a hobby not a lifestyle choice so I'd take up knitting instead.

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By *aomilatteCouple
42 weeks ago

Visiting Blackpool

We could still go to clubs, but what else would we do for entertainment?

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By *illy IdolMan
42 weeks ago

Midlands


"Bloody hell I'd get so much done!!

No procrastinating, I'd be fit as a butchers dog, house would be decorated, I'd connect with real life friends and probably do a lot more

I'd also get more work done "

Same as this^

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By *ruceyyMan
42 weeks ago

London

I had a nice break!

Then I got horny again...

Its a fun outlet for sexy chat and I'm speaking to some stunners from here x

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By *mf123Man
42 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Im here but im not this is just a shadow i cast of myself to empty my mind of nonesense and look at gaping vaginas i no longer invest anything as i desire nothing

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
42 weeks ago

St Leonards

It would probably take longer and be more onerous to find what I'm looking for with sexual intimacy if FAB didn't exist.

So it covers a lot of ground, more of the time.

Its existence has next to no impact on the majority of the other things I enjoy doing.

Forum posts are a fun distraction (mostly), and can be a bit more outrageous than other social media. That's a positive too.

Personal identity invested? Don't think so. Washing winter through my system, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I’d do something more useful with my time.

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By *ecky and justCouple
42 weeks ago

Godalming


"Bloody hell I'd get so much done!!

No procrastinating, I'd be fit as a butchers dog, house would be decorated, I'd connect with real life friends and probably do a lot more

I'd also get more work done "

Same for us, although it wouldn’t stop us swinging.

We’ve built up an excellent network of kinky friends.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

It was always just supposed to be a distraction for me. I'd get on with something else. It's not like I meet anyone off it.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
42 weeks ago

Leeds

It wouldn't change a thing, I'm not overly invested it's a bit of fun.

Mrs

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By *mf123Man
42 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

On another note its a bit important as its that last hope emergency contact but the fact it took me this long to realise is progress

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By *r_GreyscaleMan
42 weeks ago

North Hertfordshire

I'd waste way less time and get a new hobby like stamp collecting or train spotting

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By *viatrixWoman
42 weeks ago

Redhill

I’ve always had an internet presence since the early 90s- be it vanilla or otherwise- so I’d probably find a similar outlet. **

**Didn’t last 5 minutes on M*msnet so boring!

I’d go to clubs more to satisfy the horn.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
42 weeks ago

Reading

I would have a whole lot less of the sex

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

42 weeks ago

East Sussex

My personal identity would remain unaffected I think.

We'd have a whole lot of photos that nobody else ever looked at though

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By *parkle1974Woman
42 weeks ago

Leeds

It wouldn't change my life in the slightest as I'm not that invested in the site these days x

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
42 weeks ago

Sheffield

I’d just carry on going to clubs like I do. Fabs just a social tool for me these days. X

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By *oiluvfunMan
42 weeks ago

Penrith

I would miss the forum in here for sure. The other sites I use just don’t have one, although I suppose I would probably jump over to that new app that’s been launched, the one with a fruit for its name, and which is basically mimicking everything Fab does?

A day without the offer of a bj from a bloke, would be every bit as incredible as the day a woman offers, so I wouldn’t miss that if Fab was no longer available to me…..

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By *lder.Woman
42 weeks ago

Not Local

I would probably be hoovering the spiders from my car not writing about it.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
42 weeks ago

barnstaple

I'd have to find some other entertainment. Ms

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By *inchyorksMan
42 weeks ago

huddersfield

The better, I might shit done instead of procrastinating on here on a Tuesday morning!

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"Bloody hell I'd get so much done!!

No procrastinating, I'd be fit as a butchers dog, house would be decorated, I'd connect with real life friends and probably do a lot more

I'd also get more work done

You deleted before I could say you would be able to work on your spelling too "

No flies on me!

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By *eroLondonMan
42 weeks ago

Covent Garden

I actually thought about this the other day. If Fab disappeared then I would be looking for a suitable alternative. I have no intention or desire to join any of the popular mainstream apps or sites. If the demise was sudden then I would be sad to lose a lot of friends and contacts from here.

Fab's disappearance wouldn't cure my procrastination. I also need an outlet for my erections and libido.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I’d have to join fucking Twitter. where else can I blurt out one liners?

I had a short break, my life didn’t change much if I’m honest.

I think I might have text people from here a lot lot less and that was about it.

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By *VineMan
42 weeks ago

The right place

I think I’d mostly be relieved.

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By *ongandharderMan
42 weeks ago

Rotherham

I'd look for another simmalr thing

But more than likely have a wank more

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I've thought about leaving recently, so it wouldn't be an issue. I like the banter on the forums, I'd miss that most.

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By *ongandharderMan
42 weeks ago

Rotherham


"I've thought about leaving recently, so it wouldn't be an issue. I like the banter on the forums, I'd miss that most. "

Yeah fab seems more of a social app for a lot of people nowadays

Rather than a meet for fun app

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By *heGateKeeperMan
42 weeks ago

Stratford


"Bloody hell I'd get so much done!!

No procrastinating, I'd be fit as a butchers dog, house would be decorated, I'd connect with real life friends and probably do a lot more

I'd also get more work done "

Pretty much this.

I’d miss probably 3 people and have random ‘I wonder how [insert name] is getting on’ thoughts about a handful of others. Other than that it would be business as usual

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By *affeine DuskMan
42 weeks ago

Caerphilly

Other places can do everything I get from here, which is keeping in touch with lifestyle buddies, checking out info for socials/events and a healthy dose of exhibitionism.

Though nothing really does it all in one place, so I guess my phone battery would suffer, probably?

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By *tlanshiaWoman
42 weeks ago

Chatham

It may finish me off. I never quite got over the closure of bebo.

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
42 weeks ago

Ryde

We've had a lot more luck on another site than on Fab - naming no names, of course.

Not sure if it's an island-mentality thing (everyone is shit-scared of bumping into someone they know) or just too many talkers. The real boon with Fab is the decent verification system, which other sites are lacking - so that'd be the thing which we'd really miss.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Id probably be happier tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"It may finish me off. I never quite got over the closure of bebo. "

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By *arry monk40Man
42 weeks ago

Telford

I might be able to get some work done

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By *exymarvelMan
42 weeks ago

cardiff

Possibly more productive

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
42 weeks ago

ashford

Probably spend more time on pof and tik tok? X

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By *ustBoWoman
42 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

It would make no difference as I just pop in and out.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
42 weeks ago

chichester

Wouldn’t matter in slightest. Fab is just a tool that I can pick up discard it’s not real life as such for me

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I'd have to sleep with my cousins. That would be awkward.

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By *ongandharderMan
42 weeks ago

Rotherham


"Wouldn’t matter in slightest. Fab is just a tool that I can pick up discard it’s not real life as such for me "

A dick depositary

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
42 weeks ago

chichester


"Wouldn’t matter in slightest. Fab is just a tool that I can pick up discard it’s not real life as such for me

A dick depositary "

It’s just a sex hook up site how I see it mostly. Plus forums are just comical amusement while doing other stuff in day at times.

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By *ongandharderMan
42 weeks ago

Rotherham


"Wouldn’t matter in slightest. Fab is just a tool that I can pick up discard it’s not real life as such for me

A dick depositary

It’s just a sex hook up site how I see it mostly. Plus forums are just comical amusement while doing other stuff in day at times.

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I get people should be respectful

But also not taken stuff to seriously

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By *ot to giggleWoman
42 weeks ago

Coventry

wow be able to keep on top of messages from other forums !! but then most the people i chat to seem to have infiltrated my telegram or whatsapp which ping constantly all day!

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By *rHotNottsMan
42 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’d be disappointed, the people I meet on here are definitely in a different category to those on other apps or RL. They are out there - it’s just much harder than on fab.

Forums I would miss a little bit but it would have a positive impact overall

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By *affron40Woman
42 weeks ago

manchester

I’ve stepped so far back I’m virtually out anyway. So not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Use POF, mostly lightly...I've got a profile on there that I don't use, and haven't even bothered to complete

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
42 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Like so many else, be more productive in work and watch more Netflix lol

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
42 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

I'd cry and wank in the corner, much like it is now...

Mr

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By *arkus1812Man
42 weeks ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

Wouldn't bother me that much, I seem to be drifting away from Fab as it is.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
42 weeks ago

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Been on fab 7-8 years now, I stopped using it for a few months about 5 years ago and I honestly forgot what I used to do during the evening before fab

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By *ife NinjaMan
42 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I'd grow food on an allotment

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

My life wouldn't change whatsoever. My time on here would simple be replaced with time spent on video games or other something like that.

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