FabSwingers.com forum: Reading A Lover’s Body

By *ensuallover1000 OP Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Ey up good folks

Following on from Brucey’s recent thread about convulsion/shaking during orgasm;

How skilled are you at ‘reading’ a partners body?

Do you consider yourself adept at discerning their arousal (and in turn, subsequently acting upon said cues to augment their sexual fulfilment) via their physical responses to your attentions of touch, kissing, oral stimulation and indeed, if applicable, penetration?

I personally find that a partners physical response to any given stimulus I administer (god - that sounded dreadfully clinical, didn’t it?!) actually augments my sexual gratification ten fold; a mirror effect in essence - the more aroused they become, the more manifest/exaggerated their physical responses, drives me ever sexually wilder.

It is…..very bloody nice in fact to put it mildly!

Any way, enough of my gibber jabber; over to you my fine folks.

Please discuss

By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I agree. I’ve always said that. Turning someone on is the biggest turn on for me. I think it takes time to learn someone’s body. That’s why I’ve never done one offs. The more you meet someone the better it is in my opinion.

By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

There was a time i was the world greatest orgamic orchestral conductor but my time has passed its someone elses time to take that title its no longer my desire i see it like a tuning fork you try things until you get the right frequency and boom

By *ensuallover1000 OP Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"I agree. I’ve always said that. Turning someone on is the biggest turn on for me. I think it takes time to learn someone’s body. That’s why I’ve never done one offs. The more you meet someone the better it is in my opinion. "

Absolutely!

The best sex is derived through ‘learning’ over time; we’re all unique rather than mere templates and one size certainly does not fit all.

Indeed, the exploration of a partner is one of the most amazing things

By *ensuallover1000 OP Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"There was a time i was the world greatest orgamic orchestral conductor but my time has passed its someone elses time to take that title its no longer my desire i see it like a tuning fork you try things until you get the right frequency and boom "

That’s a splendid analogy and I agree wholeheartedly; It’s a learning curve but one that both pays back dividends and is additionally, incredible to undertake