FabSwingers.com forum: Alpha or Sigma Males

By *uzie69x OP TV/TS
42 weeks ago

Maidstone

Men who ask themselves "am I part of the problem?" is something Sigma Males ask themselves and if so, might want to adjust his approach. Alpha males bludgeon their way through their lives and it's no wonder if they find it such a slog.

I've just had an exchange with a man who asked me if I can meet now (Monday lunchtime), when it clearly states on my profile that I ONLY meet on Saturday or occasionally Friday evenings.

When I suggested he may do better to read profiles so don't need to ask pointless questions, his response was "wow"...

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By *oodmessMan
42 weeks ago

yumsville

Do you want my long (slightly ranty) reply or short (hey ho) reply

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By *uzie69x OP TV/TS
42 weeks ago

Maidstone

"Do you want my long (slightly ranty) reply or short (hey ho) reply"

Feel free... It's an open discussion.

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By *oodmessMan
42 weeks ago

yumsville

All of this Alpha, beta, sigma, gamma stuff really gets under my nob. People don't know people from the back of their hand, so to impress an A, B, S, G personality profile onto someone after a (single) message is either an acute sense of peoples state, giving people too much credence, or subscribing to bollocks you or they don't understand.

Yeah, people have different traits, yeah people are attracted or put off by what they see or perceive but a message is a message - you were online, you could have been horny, he shot his shot and you swatted it away.

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By *oodmessMan
42 weeks ago

yumsville

Long and ranty and hey ho together.

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By *odgerMooreMan
42 weeks ago

Fulwood

People love to label i think - hey… im an alpha male as an opening msg should be an instant block as no true alpha views themself in that way. best type of guy to be is an open and honest one - a touch of humility goes a long way too and the ability to hold a conversation and eye contact. Add a little respect ( youll be singing that now!!) and the rest is down to fate…

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By *esparate danMan
42 weeks ago

glasgow

I think you are just trying to out passive aggressive each other

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By *ea monkeyMan
42 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

This Alpha crap again?

I wish that people would crack a book from time to time

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

the original post is funny

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

As a certified Sigma Butch and Sigma Bale (Patty B) I have nothing to say ngl xx

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By *izandpaulCouple
42 weeks ago

merseyside

"All of this Alpha, beta, sigma, gamma stuff really gets under my nob. People don't know people from the back of their hand, so to impress an A, B, S, G personality profile onto someone after a (single) message is either an acute sense of peoples state, giving people too much credence, or subscribing to bollocks you or they don't understand.

Haha.

I agree, these "Alpha" males who honestly believe they are somehow the top of the pecking order and god forbid if they can't perform on the night !!

Such sad, delusional men.

My husband was given a bit of advice as a young man, something like this..

"When you believe your own bullshit, you are really in trouble"

Just be nice, kind, open and smile, tend to go a long way.

Don't be something you're not or what you think others want you to be.

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By *naswingdressWoman
42 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"This Alpha crap again?

I wish that people would crack a book from time to time "

that sounds like liberal oppression. down with that sort of thing.

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
42 weeks ago

manchester

"Men who ask themselves "am I part of the problem?" is something Sigma Males ask themselves and if so, might want to adjust his approach. Alpha males bludgeon their way through their lives and it's no wonder if they find it such a slog.

I've just had an exchange with a man who asked me if I can meet now (Monday lunchtime), when it clearly states on my profile that I ONLY meet on Saturday or occasionally Friday evenings.

When I suggested he may do better to read profiles so don't need to ask pointless questions, his response was "wow"..."

Outdated and unhelpful disproven stereotypes

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By *oodmessMan
42 weeks ago

yumsville

"As a certified Sigma Butch and Sigma Bale (Patty B) I have nothing to say ngl xx"

Wtf does all this stuff mean

, I could google but I'd never be so cool to attempt sentences, which never goes well anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

"As a certified Sigma Butch and Sigma Bale (Patty B) I have nothing to say ngl xx

Wtf does all this stuff mean

, I could google but I'd never be so cool to attempt sentences, which never goes well anyway. "

Butch = butch dyke (me)

Sigma Bale = Christian Bale fan / Patrick Bateman (who’s literally me)

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By *oodmessMan
42 weeks ago

yumsville

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

"As a certified Sigma Butch and Sigma Bale (Patty B) I have nothing to say ngl xx

Wtf does all this stuff mean

, I could google but I'd never be so cool to attempt sentences, which never goes well anyway.

Butch = butch dyke (me)

Sigma Bale = Christian Bale fan / Patrick Bateman (who’s literally me)

And Patty B and ngl?

Patty B = Patrick Bateman

Ngl = not gonna lie

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By *oodmessMan
42 weeks ago

yumsville

"As a certified Sigma Butch and Sigma Bale (Patty B) I have nothing to say ngl xx

Wtf does all this stuff mean

, I could google but I'd never be so cool to attempt sentences, which never goes well anyway.

Butch = butch dyke (me)

Sigma Bale = Christian Bale fan / Patrick Bateman (who’s literally me)

And Patty B and ngl?

Patty B = Patrick Bateman

Ngl = not gonna lie "

OK thanks .. got Pat.. (deleted above before you, just don't know who he is) (

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By *imi_RougeWoman
42 weeks ago

Portsmouth

If they state that they're alpha, I like to ask them what makes them that. Answers are usually amusing or they're in no way "alpha" at all.

Every other msg I have to ask someone to read the profile

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By *uzie69x OP TV/TS
42 weeks ago

Maidstone

Interesting posts, thanks guys.

Well in terms of message exchanges, there were several, not just the one followed by my swipe. Each reply from him was a duck-n-dive so he painted himself into a corner and the "wow" was his last possible word.

There are people who don't like labels, but they do persist because some people find them useful. It's made me decide I don't like bombastic people like him who lacks humility.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
42 weeks ago

London

The term 'alpha' makes my skin crawl.

It just suggests someone with no emotional development to me.

I think people started using 'sigma' because they realised they didn't meet the alpha architype but didn't want to be labelled as 'beta'. It's all very silly and smells of insecurity.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

opts in -beta testing' ??

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By *riel13Woman
41 weeks ago

Northampton

There are no such thing as any of those things, any more

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I’ not sure Alpha males is the pinnacle of who they could be. Maybe Uber male is better. Or Ultra male.

I’d definitely want to be an Ultra Male!

Surely you can’t better that!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
41 weeks ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Wise man say...

"Ah well"

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I’ not sure Alpha males is the pinnacle of who they could be. Maybe Uber male is better. Or Ultra male.

I’d definitely want to be an Ultra Male!

Surely you can’t better that! "

convert Uber male, to Uber eats lool

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By *ig and MangoCouple
41 weeks ago

Burnley

Why does it always have to be the greek alphabet? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Why does it always have to be the greek alphabet? Lol"

one word, Aphrodite

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By *elix SightedMan
41 weeks ago

Cloud 8

Oo late to the party!

*pulls up a comfy chair to watch.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
41 weeks ago

Cumbria

‘Alpha’ males are hilarious, and the funniest thing of all is they have no idea.

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By *ig and MangoCouple
41 weeks ago

Burnley

"Why does it always have to be the greek alphabet? Lol

one word, Aphrodite"

It is pronounced afrotheetee

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I’ not sure Alpha males is the pinnacle of who they could be. Maybe Uber male is better. Or Ultra male.

I’d definitely want to be an Ultra Male!

Surely you can’t better that!

convert Uber male, to Uber eats lool"

Alpha male or an Uber eats????

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By *obilebottomMan
41 weeks ago

All over

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I’ not sure Alpha males is the pinnacle of who they could be. Maybe Uber male is better. Or Ultra male.

I’d definitely want to be an Ultra Male!

Surely you can’t better that!

convert Uber male, to Uber eats lool

Alpha male or an Uber eats????

Alpha male, that Uber eats

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By *obilebottomMan
41 weeks ago

All over

I will go for theta

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
41 weeks ago

Neath valley.

Anyone with alpha,Dom,bull,stud in their name or mention it in a message gets instantly blocked. Comes across as full of themselves and bigheaded

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Anyone with alpha,Dom,bull,stud in their name or mention it in a message gets instantly blocked. Comes across as full of themselves and bigheaded"

lol its bad, that, 'that' turns me on ha

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By *odgerMooreMan
40 weeks ago

Fulwood

The easiest way to know if a guy is truly an alpha male is Lynx Africa… i honestly have to use a crowbar to get the women off my cock when Im wearing that!! … that’s a true fact that I just invented!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"Anyone with alpha,Dom,bull,stud in their name or mention it in a message gets instantly blocked. Comes across as full of themselves and bigheaded"

Exactly

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
40 weeks ago

St Leonards

"Anyone with alpha,Dom,bull,stud in their name or mention it in a message gets instantly blocked. Comes across as full of themselves and bigheaded

Exactly

Yerrr.

Fuckwits the lot of 'em.

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