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Too old for a relationship but not too old for sex

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By *dinburghWoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Suppose (yes it’s happened to me) that you’re too old to have a relationship with but not too old to have sex with - if you were told that how would it make you feel ?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Like I was talking to a fucking moron and should go find someone worth my time instead

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’d think what a load of cobblers!

Never too old to date - people in their 70,80’s, 90’s meet people and get married!

It’s an excuse used by unpleasant folk who are trying to make you feel grateful for the small attention they show you.

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By *dinburghWoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Like I was talking to a fucking moron and should go find someone worth my time instead "

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By *dinburghWoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I’d think what a load of cobblers!

Never too old to date - people in their 70,80’s, 90’s meet people and get married!

It’s an excuse used by unpleasant folk who are trying to make you feel grateful for the small attention they show you."

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I guess it would depend how big the age gap was. You're never too old to date but realistically, I'd prefer to date someone a similar age to myself

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By *dinburghWoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I guess it would depend how big the age gap was. You're never too old to date but realistically, I'd prefer to date someone a similar age to myself "

I agree though still a blow to the ego to be told I don’t want a relationship as you’re too old but i want to **** you.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Tosh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suppose (yes it’s happened to me) that you’re too old to have a relationship with but not too old to have sex with - if you were told that how would it make you feel ?"

I wouldn’t believe them. I find the older women a lot more interesting and sexy these day. 61 is not too old.

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By *dinburghWoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


" I wouldn’t believe them. I find the older women a lot more interesting and sexy these day. 61 is not too old. "

Ah, where are all the men in Scotland who think like this ?

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
over a year ago

Hell

I get it all the time lol

Too ugly to go out with but not too ugly to fuck

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"I guess it would depend how big the age gap was. You're never too old to date but realistically, I'd prefer to date someone a similar age to myself

I agree though still a blow to the ego to be told I don’t want a relationship as you’re too old but i want to **** you. "

That's fair enough. But I do think it's a risk you run when you're actively looking for men 20-40 younger than you

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"Like I was talking to a fucking moron and should go find someone worth my time instead "

This is the right answer. Dont waste time on weasly shits.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

You ladies have met some real shitebags

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

ok going to be contraversial here but I think we all have different criteria for those we fuck versus those we want a relationship with.

Now pointing this out is fucking rude unless you asked the question.

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By *dinburghWoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"You ladies have met some real shitebags "

The awesome ones make up for it

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By *dinburghWoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


" That's fair enough. But I do think it's a risk you run when you're actively looking for men 20-40 younger than you"

Exactly and I didn’t say to him I wanted a relationship, why would I, good job, roof over my head, enough money to pay bills and fab for fun. Perfect life

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


" That's fair enough. But I do think it's a risk you run when you're actively looking for men 20-40 younger than you

Exactly and I didn’t say to him I wanted a relationship, why would I, good job, roof over my head, enough money to pay bills and fab for fun. Perfect life "

Happy days

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Did they mean too old for a relationship *with them*?

I think most of the people on here she like older women don't want a relationship with one

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

^^ who like older women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d have a relationship with someone older than me. I’m in relationships with women older than me. Usually they’re the ones with hang ups though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just too old for both.

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By *hrimper36Couple
over a year ago

Central France dept 36


"Like I was talking to a fucking moron and should go find someone worth my time instead "

^^^^^ I can’t argue with this.

T

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Depends how old they were. Someone in their thirties won’t be interested in a relationship with someone my age. I wouldn’t either though. At least they’re being honest. I prefer honesty, even if I don’t like what they say.

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By *dinburghWoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Did they mean too old for a relationship *with them*?

I think most of the people on here she like older women don't want a relationship with one"

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By *dinburghWoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Depends how old they were. Someone in their thirties won’t be interested in a relationship with someone my age. I wouldn’t either though. At least they’re being honest. I prefer honesty, even if I don’t like what they say. "

I like honesty if I ask a question, in his case I didn’t ask.

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By *dinburghWoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Thanks you lovely fab people.

I’m sticking to guys that only open their mouths to eat.

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford


"Like I was talking to a fucking moron and should go find someone worth my time instead "

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Depends how old they were. Someone in their thirties won’t be interested in a relationship with someone my age. I wouldn’t either though. At least they’re being honest. I prefer honesty, even if I don’t like what they say.

I like honesty if I ask a question, in his case I didn’t ask."

I’m a bit like that though, I’m very clear on what I want from the start. I think I probably scare people off to be honest . I’m not saying what he said wouldn’t piss me off though. I’d tell him to poke it.

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
over a year ago

St Leonards

I would feel fucking amazing!

I mean, the relationships I want aren't typically called relationships, so great but infrequent fucking with people I give a shit about too (without the space invasion that has 100% happened thus far) would be the zenith of my ambitions.

Yes, yes, yes!

And did I say yes?

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"I would feel fucking amazing!

I mean, the relationships I want aren't typically called relationships, so great but infrequent fucking with people I give a shit about too (without the space invasion that has 100% happened thus far) would be the zenith of my ambitions.

Yes, yes, yes!

And did I say yes?

"

What's it called, beastiality?

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
over a year ago

St Leonards


"I would feel fucking amazing!

I mean, the relationships I want aren't typically called relationships, so great but infrequent fucking with people I give a shit about too (without the space invasion that has 100% happened thus far) would be the zenith of my ambitions.

Yes, yes, yes!

And did I say yes?

What's it called, beastiality?"

Ask yer Mam x

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Load of bollocks!

I'd tell them to fuck off!

Mrs

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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago

Fairytale Wood


"Suppose (yes it’s happened to me) that you’re too old to have a relationship with but not too old to have sex with - if you were told that how would it make you feel ?"

One of the the main reasons I would never see a younger guy especially from a site like this. From my experiences, so many saying they like older women - but exactly we are old enough to have sex with but too old to date.

Which is a contrast as I'm in a FWB relationship with a younger woman - certainly it seems younger women are just as happy (I hope) in a relationship with an older woman as having sex

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Finedon ,

I am too bloody old for anything and that includes both relationships and sex.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"I would feel fucking amazing!

I mean, the relationships I want aren't typically called relationships, so great but infrequent fucking with people I give a shit about too (without the space invasion that has 100% happened thus far) would be the zenith of my ambitions.

Yes, yes, yes!

And did I say yes?

What's it called, beastiality?

Ask yer Mam x"

Ahhh, no you didn't?!

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
over a year ago

St Leonards


"I would feel fucking amazing!

I mean, the relationships I want aren't typically called relationships, so great but infrequent fucking with people I give a shit about too (without the space invasion that has 100% happened thus far) would be the zenith of my ambitions.

Yes, yes, yes!

And did I say yes?

What's it called, beastiality?

Ask yer Mam x

Ahhh, no you didn't?! "

Lol. I have no idea who Mummy Idol is, and probably "wouldn't" either, even if she wanted to.

Too weird...even for me .

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"Did they mean too old for a relationship *with them*?

I think most of the people on here she like older women don't want a relationship with one"

I've definitely had these vibes from some guys on here - not that they'd actually verbalise it (that is so rude!)

It would bother me if I had wanted a relationship with them, but then, I'd prefer a long term partner to be nearer my age anyway.

Tell him to knob off, OP! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suppose (yes it’s happened to me) that you’re too old to have a relationship with but not too old to have sex with - if you were told that how would it make you feel ?"

Your never too old for a relationship or sex!!

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else


"Like I was talking to a fucking moron and should go find someone worth my time instead "

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else


"Depends how old they were. Someone in their thirties won’t be interested in a relationship with someone my age. I wouldn’t either though. At least they’re being honest. I prefer honesty, even if I don’t like what they say.

I like honesty if I ask a question, in his case I didn’t ask."

Then you shouldn’t have had to hear the opinion. That’s super rude

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Lanzarote


"Suppose (yes it’s happened to me) that you’re too old to have a relationship with but not too old to have sex with - if you were told that how would it make you feel ?"

It would make me feel like an object rather than a person.

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

I don't think I'd appreciate it being said to me and it would firmly take sex off the table.

Would fully understand if both parties were are different stages of life, for example considering children in the future whilst yours are fully grown. Just think more tact and consideration could be used.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suppose (yes it’s happened to me) that you’re too old to have a relationship with but not too old to have sex with - if you were told that how would it make you feel ?"

Fuck. … that’s quite direct. It would make me feel like….. so at least I’m still shaggable.

*i’m joking.

That’s actually like, odd shag you, but I wouldn’t take you home to meet my parents. Type thing.

It’s shitty.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"I get it all the time lol

Too ugly to go out with but not too ugly to fuck "

Innit... Don't want to be seen in public with, but happy to fuck on the down low

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By *empest2KMan
over a year ago

Derby


"I get it all the time lol

Too ugly to go out with but not too ugly to fuck "

Wait... what?! You mean folk have told you you're too old to go out with at 34, and yet more than happy to fuck you?!?! If so, that's just plain rude, in my humble opinion

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By *heonixrising500Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

Best is a relationship with sex nice and comfy with each other xx

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By *empest2KMan
over a year ago

Derby


"Suppose (yes it’s happened to me) that you’re too old to have a relationship with but not too old to have sex with - if you were told that how would it make you feel ?"

Personally, OP, I think if someone said that to me, I'd find them a bit rude and tell them to jog on.

I'm baffled by what possesses these kinds of people, I really am

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