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By *j74 OP   Man
42 weeks ago

near

Need some advise? Never know what the say in the first message ?? any tips

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By *ee VianteWoman
42 weeks ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Why you decided to message that specific person and how you fit what they're looking for. Show you read their profile.

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By *j74 OP   Man
42 weeks ago

near

So simple yet didn’t think of that

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"Need some advise? Never know what the say in the first message ?? any tips "

Most definitely only send a one or two, three at the most, opening message

‘Hi’

‘Hey’

‘How’s things’

‘Friend request’

‘Fancy a fuck’

All massively appreciated by roughly 90% of the ladies on Fab and you will be getting offers left, right and centre

Good luck, OP

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By *j74 OP   Man
42 weeks ago

near

Funny fucker

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

When the simple Hello, how are you? Ice breaker is just not good enough anymore…..

How do you say whatever you write as important OP as a face pic.

Just imagine you’ve just sat down in front of somebody, and you want to break the ice. A little bit about you a little bit about what you like about their profile. And a lot of luck.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
42 weeks ago

ashford

Just b yourself I would say! X

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By *hrimper36Couple
42 weeks ago

Central France dept 36


"Just b yourself I would say! X"

^^^^^^^^ This is great advice because we are not you and if you can’t show someone who you are then maybe this lifestyle is not for you.

Best of luck.

T

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
42 weeks ago

East Sussex

I'd say introduce yourself, say a little about why you like their profile and ask if they'd like to chat with a view to meeting.

I know a lot of people ask for interesting first messages and tell people to make themselves stand out but they never say exactly how they think anyone should do that or give any clue to what they find interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I find this tricky too, but I think being who you naturally are is the key. Trying to be someone else isn't going to work out in the long run. As others have said too, try and be as compatible as you can with them, and match what you and they are looking for.

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By *TG3Man
42 weeks ago

Dorchester


"Need some advise? Never know what the say in the first message ?? any tips "
yes say hi how are you, what you here for that always goes down a treat

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By *j74 OP   Man
42 weeks ago

near

Thanks guys

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