FabSwingers.com forum: Unfriending people

By *na64 OP Woman
42 weeks ago

Manchester

Hello all

Just out of curiosity, is there a limit to the amount of friends you can have on Fab.

I’ve noticed some people have unfriended me, but not blocked so I’m thinking, did they need to to accept more?

Or does this mean they never plan on meeting again/seeing ever?

And apologies if I’m sounding really naive, I’m wondering what peoples opinions are

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By *illy IdolMan
42 weeks ago

Midlands

I like to think there's a limit as the same has happened to myself.

Must be

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By *itygamesMan
42 weeks ago

i un friend when i see a true to life pic and think.......actually , not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I don't know, I generally don't go past 10.

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By *na64 OP Woman
42 weeks ago

Manchester

"i un friend when i see a true to life pic and think.......actually , not for me

Oh, errr.. this isn’t good

Joking they’ve both seen me and one has met me several times

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By *ullyMan
42 weeks ago

Near Clacton

Hello all

Just out of curiosity, is there a limit to the amount of friends you can have on Fab.

I’ve noticed some people have unfriended me, but not blocked so I’m thinking, did they need to to accept more?

Or does this mean they never plan on meeting again/seeing ever?

And apologies if I’m sounding really naive, I’m wondering what peoples opinions are

Probably just having a spring clean, or have moved on, I wouldn't take umbrage, they may have decided they won't meet you again, for innocent reasons, perhaps they fell head over heels with you and feel guilty.

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By *na64 OP Woman
42 weeks ago

Manchester

"I don't know, I generally don't go past 10.

Personally, you’ll only invest time into this many? Or does fab do this?

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By *a LunaWoman
42 weeks ago

South Wales

Maybe not interacting as much so deleted?

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By *ealitybitesMan
42 weeks ago

Belfast

I've never had more than 10 or 12 friends at any one time on here and I delete some now and again if we haven't spoken in a long time or something happens and I no longer wish to have them as friends

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By *na64 OP Woman
42 weeks ago

Manchester

"Hello all

Just out of curiosity, is there a limit to the amount of friends you can have on Fab.

I’ve noticed some people have unfriended me, but not blocked so I’m thinking, did they need to to accept more?

Or does this mean they never plan on meeting again/seeing ever?

And apologies if I’m sounding really naive, I’m wondering what peoples opinions are

Ha, yeah I suppose I’m okay with them moving on. Can’t take that personally

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By *imisugarWoman
42 weeks ago

Rugby

Not aware of a limit.

I unfriend when I don't interact with the person anymore or a meeting seems unlikely.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

One in, one out maybe ??

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By *arkus1812Man
42 weeks ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

You will still be a friend just that Fab will only list the latest 20 friends.

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By *oxy jWoman
42 weeks ago

somerset

people use there friend list differently .... i use mine just for people i have met and wish to stay in contact with ... i use my hotlist for people that im talking to and getting on with..

i know alot of people remove friends when they realise that nothing is going to happen ...everyone use them different i would not try to over think it jus accept it and move on

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By *oxy jWoman
42 weeks ago

somerset

i dont think there is a limit is there ?

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By *na64 OP Woman
42 weeks ago

Manchester

"You will still be a friend just that Fab will only list the latest 20 friends."

Ahh okay

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By *izandpaulCouple
42 weeks ago

merseyside

We generally unfriend if we have not met in 12 months.

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By *elix SightedMan
42 weeks ago

Cloud 8

The word friend means different things to different people on fab. It may just be they haven’t interacted with you for a while and don’t see it happening anytime soon.

Or they’ve decided to keep their tally very low and ditched all but the closest.

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By *na64 OP Woman
42 weeks ago

Manchester

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By *eroLondonMan
42 weeks ago

Covent Garden

I've never truly grasped the notion of the friends facility on here. In any case I've never had more than a dozen¹² friends on my list. I keep that circle close and carefully curated, jettisoning anyone I haven't spoken to in a very long time or for any other reason.

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By *urora1912Woman
42 weeks ago

Norfolk East anglia

If I don't interact with someone after a while then I unfriend

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By *na64 OP Woman
42 weeks ago

Manchester

"If I don't interact with someone after a while then I unfriend "

One was a very recent interaction, just very far away from me so I think that’s why, plus we’re speaking on another app

And I think the other just has that many friends. He has an insane amount of Veri’s, so think he’s just moved on. Which is fine

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By *olfandtazCouple
42 weeks ago

Bristol

We just had a cull on ours so quite possibly the same thing happened for you

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

For me it's as others have said already. If I send messages to a person on my friends list and they go unread/ignored or they spend days or weeks between being online. I cease to pursue and remove for those reasons.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
42 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

Wait, what……. you folks still have friends on here.

I thought that function on the site had been removed , at least that’s what everyone told me when my friends list had gone when I logged on one day……….. Bastards!

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By *affron40Woman
42 weeks ago

manchester

Every now and again I’ll just delete anyone I’ve not spoken to in ages.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
42 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

'Friends' on Fab? No way, just sneaky fuckers that want to see your juicy pics and videos.

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By *hunky GentMan
42 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I haven't been through my friends list in a long time.

I've probably been un-friended by loads.

Un-friend Chunky???????? Naaah.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

She hasn't spoken to me since I did

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By *eyond PurityCouple
42 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We have over 400 of the finest pics in our friends folder so people want to be friends with us as they are perverts

We unfriend people when conversations stop or there’s no chance of meeting so no point being friends.

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By *dc1Man
42 weeks ago

essex and all over the south

"We have over 400 of the finest pics in our friends folder so people want to be friends with us as they are perverts

We unfriend people when conversations stop or there’s no chance of meeting so no point being friends.

I agree with this. I knock them out if the conversation runs dry. No point.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
42 weeks ago

chichester

I clear out friends after couple of weeks non contact usually

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

"I clear out friends after couple of weeks non contact usually "

So If we were ever to friend, I just need to send a 'Hows you' message before the 14 days is up..... I can do that.

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By *elix SightedMan
42 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"We have over 400 of the finest pics in our friends folder so people want to be friends with us as they are perverts

We unfriend people when conversations stop or there’s no chance of meeting so no point being friends.

I agree with this. I knock them out if the conversation runs dry. No point."

Mildly excessive to knock someone out!

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By *mf123Man
42 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Some folks only want friends they talk with or meet regular

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By *tsJustKateWoman
42 weeks ago

London

I try to keep my friends list to about 15-20. But I do unfriend if someone goes quiet on me for a couple of weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Friends come and friends go.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
42 weeks ago

Leeds

I don't think there's a limit, I frequently remove people that we aren't chatting to or planning to meet.

Mrs

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By *dc1Man
42 weeks ago

essex and all over the south

"We have over 400 of the finest pics in our friends folder so people want to be friends with us as they are perverts

We unfriend people when conversations stop or there’s no chance of meeting so no point being friends.

I agree with this. I knock them out if the conversation runs dry. No point.

Mildly excessive to knock someone out!"

Not really. Just means they are picture collectors. Its why i dont have any

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By *ora the explorerWoman
42 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Haven’t looked at my list for god knows how long. I know I’ve got people on there who haven’t been on line for years. I may have a look now

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By *eroLondonMan
42 weeks ago

Covent Garden

Her ^ friends list is still written on granite tablets with pieces of flint.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
42 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"Her ^ friends list is still written on granite tablets with pieces of flint."

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Gosh, do people have lots of friends on here? I only have three, but I find it tricky making new friends on here. I find people tend to switch off pretty easily with me or perhaps I'm not what they're looking for. To answer the question though, I feel if you have good reciprocity and/or connection with them, then there isn't really a limit so to speak. I'd only unfriend if there is a lack of keeping in touch/talk.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
42 weeks ago

Somewhere else

I don’t even notice if someone has unfriended me.

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By *ealitybitesMan
42 weeks ago

Belfast

My funniest unfriending experience didn't actually happen.

I was told off in the forums by someone for unfriending them and not giving a damn about our friendship.

The fact we had never been fab friends, had only exchanged a total of 3 messages and I had blocked her 18 months before didn't seem to register.

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By *izandpaulCouple
42 weeks ago

merseyside

We only do friends with people we have actually met.

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