FabSwingers.com forum: Being Lady Like or Gentlemanly

By *sWyld OP Woman
42 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I'm wondering what this means to you wonderful fab people.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
42 weeks ago

kent

Honour, integrity, truthfulness, consideration, empathy, patience, compromise, grace and charm Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

*just my opinion.

Lady like us simply being feminine.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Not much. Gentlemanly means being considerate.

Ladylike, idk tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Remembering to open doors for women, but slam them in the face of the poor.

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By *elix SightedMan
42 weeks ago

Cloud 8

Trying not to get skid marks on the bed sheets. But, if you do, own up to it and spray it with febreeze.

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By *ortyairCouple
42 weeks ago

Wallasey

"Remembering to open doors for women, but slam them in the face of the poor."
What about poor women?, Mrs x

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
42 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

After I fart, I always say ‘better out than in’ I consider this to be the gentlemanly thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

"Remembering to open doors for women, but slam them in the face of the poor.What about poor women?, Mrs x"

This is why revolving doors were invented.

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By *ea monkeyMan
42 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

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By *ea monkeyMan
42 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

Oh I’m not getting into that today!

Defining those is like trying to pin mist to the wall

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By *agnar73Man
42 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

‘Don’t be a dick’ basically

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
42 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

Was this inspired by the toys thread?

By that standard I'm as unladylike as they come!

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

To me being gentlemanly means respectfulness, honesty, gentleness but firm, assertive but not controlling, etc. Typical good masculine traits.

Being lady like is simply all the typical good feminine traits.

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By *isterMushroomMan
42 weeks ago

Warrington

Being Gentlemanly is asking the lady where she would prefer me to cum. A true gent never assumes

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By *ris GrayMan
42 weeks ago

Dorchester

"I'm wondering what this means to you wonderful fab people.

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you can really only tell these things in person

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By *enk15Man
42 weeks ago

Evesham

"I'm wondering what this means to you wonderful fab people.

Returning the orgasm favour

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I find them both meaningless. Especially here where a bloke will call himself a gentleman and send me 3 increasingly revolting dick pics.

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By *sWyld OP Woman
42 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"Was this inspired by the toys thread?

By that standard I'm as unladylike as they come!

Yes!

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By *sWyld OP Woman
42 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"I find them both meaningless. Especially here where a bloke will call himself a gentleman and send me 3 increasingly revolting dick pics. "

Yup but equally they might berate a woman for some of her photo choices

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By *isterMushroomMan
42 weeks ago

Warrington

"I find them both meaningless. Especially here where a bloke will call himself a gentleman and send me 3 increasingly revolting dick pics.

Yup but equally they might berate a woman for some of her photo choices "

Exactly, i’ve been sent some pretty disgusting and unwanted gaping pics from both genders. I’m no saint though, I have sent cock pics too

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By *parkle1974Woman
42 weeks ago

Leeds

I'm neither so wouldn't know

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By *ou only live onceMan
42 weeks ago

London

"I find them both meaningless. Especially here where a bloke will call himself a gentleman and send me 3 increasingly revolting dick pics.

Yup but equally they might berate a woman for some of her photo choices

Exactly, i’ve been sent some pretty disgusting and unwanted gaping pics from both genders. I’m no saint though, I have sent cock pics too"

I'm shocked by this as your profile pics are so demure!

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

"I find them both meaningless. Especially here where a bloke will call himself a gentleman and send me 3 increasingly revolting dick pics.

Yup but equally they might berate a woman for some of her photo choices "

Equally a woman might call herself a lady and send a video of herself with a butternut squash shoved somewhere it probably ought not to venture. So I guess I can define that as not ladylike?

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Dunno really

Depends what I'm wearing at the time

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By *ou only live onceMan
42 weeks ago

London

For me there's much in common between the two: being kind, considerate, respectful.

Qualities I like in all humans.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

"For me there's much in common between the two: being kind, considerate, respectful.

Qualities I like in all humans.

Isn't that just being a nice human then - rather than gentlemanly or ladylike?

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By *isterMushroomMan
42 weeks ago

Warrington

"I find them both meaningless. Especially here where a bloke will call himself a gentleman and send me 3 increasingly revolting dick pics.

Yup but equally they might berate a woman for some of her photo choices

Exactly, i’ve been sent some pretty disgusting and unwanted gaping pics from both genders. I’m no saint though, I have sent cock pics too

I'm shocked by this as your profile pics are so demure!

Why, thank you kind sir!

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By *ou only live onceMan
42 weeks ago

London

"For me there's much in common between the two: being kind, considerate, respectful.

Qualities I like in all humans.

Isn't that just being a nice human then - rather than gentlemanly or ladylike? "

Yeah, I think so.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

It’s a gendered way of saying “have a little class”

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By *ealitybitesMan
42 weeks ago

Belfast

They have a whole different meaning in the great big world than they do on fab.

Within these walls many refer to themselves as ladies or gentlemen but their actions project a totally different image and I don't mean that usual mantra about being a lady in the street etc.

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By *ris GrayMan
42 weeks ago

Dorchester

"I'm neither so wouldn't know

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really you seem lady like

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I have no idea anymore. Aren't they rather archaic terms? If a man tells me he's gentlemanly I assume he wants to mollycoddle me, as he would a fond pet or his favourite teddy. And the ladylike response would be to gratefully accept his attentions with yearning admiration in my eyes.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
42 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"They have a whole different meaning in the great big world than they do on fab.

Within these walls many refer to themselves as ladies or gentlemen but their actions project a totally different image and I don't mean that usual mantra about being a lady in the street etc.

I agree. I know what my definitions are. Hard to explain really and not sure I even want to.

I like a gentleman though, or what I think is one

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
42 weeks ago

St Leonards

I proceed very cautiously whenever I'm called a gentleman.

Sometimes it's simply people using a word without thinking it through, and that's OK. Sometimes it's a whole unspoken volume of expectations of medieval chivalry and anachronistic behaviour, drilled into their psyche over decades (either by themselves or social pressures).

I'm not fond of anachronisms, so I watch that person closely for other signs of incompatibility.

I can't use the term "lady-like" because it runs parallel to "gentlemanly".

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

"It’s a gendered way of saying “have a little class” "

Essentially

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By *a LunaWoman
42 weeks ago

South Wales

A gentleman is someone who doesn’t ask you to pull his finger or cock his leg when he farts.

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By *ife NinjaMan
42 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Being a decent human being

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

No burps

No farts

No profanities

No nastiness

Non judgemental..

Ladylike. Open doors. Pull chair out. Be honest

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