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"A wand buzzing against his balls or my throat during a bj is great fun. " | |||
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"Him fucking me while he has a vibrator in his ass so I can feel the vibrations. X fabulous X" God I love that as well | |||
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"Him fucking me while he has a vibrator in his ass so I can feel the vibrations. X fabulous X" T loves a vibrator in her ass one in her pussy and a cock too and a clit buzzing along a erotic concert lol | |||
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"Never been with a woman that used them...in my presence. My first thought is that they're intrusive, and leave me unmoved. That I'd much prefer a woman use her digits But I suppose I'm persadable " What's the difference between using digits or a toy? | |||
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"Most guys are comfortable with it. The ones that aren't are weirdly threatened by them and say you won't need a toy with me- which is an instant turn off. Mrs " Yes totally agree.Its so nice to have guys who have confidence & are happy to try out stuff. | |||
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"I wouldn't be a fan of a woman whipping out vibrators the first or first few times we get it on... Good for a partner to bring something new to the table. A few months into a relationship we'd go shopping for vibrators, lingerie and a cock ring. That type of thing. Whipping out a dildo or some toys I'd play and enjoy it but I wouldn't want that... I can please a woman without the help of toys." I am old-school in the fact I like a woman to keep her lady like appearance especially if we are looking for a connection. Whipping out toys is too gung-ho !! | |||
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"Never been with a woman that used them...in my presence. My first thought is that they're intrusive, and leave me unmoved. That I'd much prefer a woman use her digits But I suppose I'm persadable " Digits don't buzz & get tired | |||
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"I wouldn't be a fan of a woman whipping out vibrators the first or first few times we get it on... Good for a partner to bring something new to the table. A few months into a relationship we'd go shopping for vibrators, lingerie and a cock ring. That type of thing. Whipping out a dildo or some toys I'd play and enjoy it but I wouldn't want that... I can please a woman without the help of toys." You don't please woman they cum & please themselves.That is the point guys thinking they make us cum. | |||
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"Most guys are comfortable with it. The ones that aren't are weirdly threatened by them and say you won't need a toy with me- which is an instant turn off. Mrs " That's your opinion. It isn't a case of being threatened by them for me... but in the beginning it is all new and fresh what do we need toys for?? You can use them in your own time! Maybe after a few months we spice things up... whip out a dildo from your handbag after dinner and I'd have my fun and call the next girl who acts lady like | |||
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"Never been with a woman that used them...in my presence. My first thought is that they're intrusive, and leave me unmoved. That I'd much prefer a woman use her digits But I suppose I'm persadable " I think you should give it a go…! I think it’s impossible to be left unmoved if you get to feel the impact together. It’s pretty amazing! E x | |||
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"I wouldn't be a fan of a woman whipping out vibrators the first or first few times we get it on... Good for a partner to bring something new to the table. A few months into a relationship we'd go shopping for vibrators, lingerie and a cock ring. That type of thing. Whipping out a dildo or some toys I'd play and enjoy it but I wouldn't want that... I can please a woman without the help of toys. I am old-school in the fact I like a woman to keep her lady like appearance especially if we are looking for a connection. Whipping out toys is too gung-ho !! Lady lol you need to have more confidence & stop putting ladies in these old fashioned boxes " | |||
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" You don't please woman they cum & please themselves.That is the point guys thinking they make us cum." I've had plenty of experience pleasing a woman physically and mentally. Some men get their pleasure from pleasuring their partner. | |||
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"Never been with a woman that used them...in my presence. My first thought is that they're intrusive, and leave me unmoved. That I'd much prefer a woman use her digits But I suppose I'm persadable What's the difference between using digits or a toy? " For me? Sexual imagery.. watching a woman mastebate with their own fingers is arousing...basic, primitive and very horny for me | |||
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"I wouldn't be a fan of a woman whipping out vibrators the first or first few times we get it on... Good for a partner to bring something new to the table. A few months into a relationship we'd go shopping for vibrators, lingerie and a cock ring. That type of thing. Whipping out a dildo or some toys I'd play and enjoy it but I wouldn't want that... I can please a woman without the help of toys. I am old-school in the fact I like a woman to keep her lady like appearance especially if we are looking for a connection. Whipping out toys is too gung-ho !! " Why is it unlady like to whip out a toy? Also it's a swingers site and not tinder- so I don't get it? | |||
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"Never been with a woman that used them...in my presence. My first thought is that they're intrusive, and leave me unmoved. That I'd much prefer a woman use her digits But I suppose I'm persadable What's the difference between using digits or a toy? For me? Sexual imagery.. watching a woman mastebate with their own fingers is arousing...basic, primitive and very horny for me" See, I don't get as turned in with my fingers as I do a toy. | |||
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" Lady lol you need to have more confidence & stop putting ladies in these old fashioned boxes " Pot calling the kettle black? You need to start putting men into these old fashioned boxes. I'm not here for an argument. I stated my case, I'm being perfectly reasonable. If I'm old school thats on me ill find the lady who suits me thank you. | |||
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"Most guys are comfortable with it. The ones that aren't are weirdly threatened by them and say you won't need a toy with me- which is an instant turn off. Mrs That's your opinion. It isn't a case of being threatened by them for me... but in the beginning it is all new and fresh what do we need toys for?? You can use them in your own time! Maybe after a few months we spice things up... whip out a dildo from your handbag after dinner and I'd have my fun and call the next girl who acts lady like" Hahaha! Killing me... especially when on a swinging site. | |||
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"Never been with a woman that used them...in my presence. My first thought is that they're intrusive, and leave me unmoved. That I'd much prefer a woman use her digits But I suppose I'm persadable Digits don't buzz & get tired " Well if we're gonna be practical about it | |||
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" Why is it unlady like to whip out a toy? Also it's a swingers site and not tinder- so I don't get it? " You're very right miss it is just my opinion and how I see it. I'm not saying it's fact or gospel because a lot of men on here will think different to me... Sorry if I come across as a know-it-all or chauvinist because I'm definitely not. I'm just stating my case of it not being a confidence issue or an insecurity thing... it isn't that deep its just how i myself see that situation | |||
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" Why is it unlady like to whip out a toy? Also it's a swingers site and not tinder- so I don't get it? You're very right miss it is just my opinion and how I see it. I'm not saying it's fact or gospel because a lot of men on here will think different to me... Sorry if I come across as a know-it-all or chauvinist because I'm definitely not. I'm just stating my case of it not being a confidence issue or an insecurity thing... it isn't that deep its just how i myself see that situation " Nothing wrong having your own opinion but I think saying it's unlady like and saying you are old school can appear chauvinistic especially when you say you would look for a new girl if she done that. Anyway whatever makes you happy - it would be boring if we were all the same | |||
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"I don't mean to ruffle anyone's feathers. I can be a swinger without the use of tools..." I think it was the insinuation that those of us who enjoy toys aren't ladylike. You keep moving along to that next lady and we'll keep having our fabulous orgasms J | |||
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"I don't mean to ruffle anyone's feathers. I can be a swinger without the use of tools..." Sorry I don't mean it that way- sounds like more relationship based then swinging ( shopping for toys, dinner etc) I dont see singles as swingers. | |||
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" Nothing wrong having your own opinion but I think saying it's unlady like and saying you are old school can appear chauvinistic especially when you say you would look for a new girl if she done that. Anyway whatever makes you happy - it would be boring if we were all the same " You're right it wasn't right to phrase that, poor choice of words. | |||
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"I love sex toys & like using them with guys inserting a vibrator at the same time as a cock & using clit toys too.Wondering how many guys are comfortable in this situation? as have found some are reluctant. Toyah here " Very comfortable with this. Ailsa enjoys toys at the same time Xx | |||
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"I love sex toys & like using them with guys inserting a vibrator at the same time as a cock & using clit toys too.Wondering how many guys are comfortable in this situation? as have found some are reluctant. Toyah here " If it makes it more fun then bring it on, what is there to be reluctant about? Mr DD | |||
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"The best orgasm I’ve ever had is when I had a buttplug in…still think about it to this day " | |||
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"A wand buzzing against his balls or my throat during a bj is great fun. " Ella! Ella! ELLA! Look at this! #justsaying..... G | |||
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"Love sex toys used on me especially butt plugs and dildo " | |||
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"Most guys are comfortable with it. The ones that aren't are weirdly threatened by them and say you won't need a toy with me- which is an instant turn off. Mrs " Cant have much self confidence if they feel their masculinity is threatened by a piece of plastic or rubber and 2 AA batteries | |||
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"A wand buzzing against his balls or my throat during a bj is great fun. Ella! Ella! ELLA! Look at this! #justsaying..... G" | |||
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"Most guys are comfortable with it. The ones that aren't are weirdly threatened by them and say you won't need a toy with me- which is an instant turn off. Mrs Cant have much self confidence if they feel their masculinity is threatened by a piece of plastic or rubber and 2 AA batteries " | |||
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"Bring on the toys….. why not use them to enhance the experience They’re just an addition to, what is already hopefully a very enjoyable and satisfying meet…. Embrace them as your team Player " Love this totally agree | |||
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"I had a lover who adored me using a vibrator on us both when he was inside me." | |||
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"I also haven't found a man who likes a vibrating cock ring yet " Mmmm you've just given me some new research material... My favourite is inserting a vibrating egg followed by his cock... Then pump up the volume! Wowza! | |||
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"I love a woman using toys (and have one myself too). Surely anything that makes the orgasm better is a good thing so if toy play with a partner does that then bring it on " Oh what toy do you have? I'm being nosey. | |||
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"I love a woman using toys (and have one myself too). Surely anything that makes the orgasm better is a good thing so if toy play with a partner does that then bring it on Oh what toy do you have? I'm being nosey. " A fleshlight. A gift from a former fwb when she moved away some time ago | |||
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"My first thought is that they're intrusive, and leave me unmoved." May I suggest using higher voltage batteries. | |||
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"I love sex toys & like using them with guys inserting a vibrator at the same time as a cock & using clit toys too.Wondering how many guys are comfortable in this situation? as have found some are reluctant. Toyah here " Protect at all costs | |||
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"I love sex toys & like using them with guys inserting a vibrator at the same time as a cock & using clit toys too.Wondering how many guys are comfortable in this situation? as have found some are reluctant. Toyah here " Sign me up…. Teamwork …. At the end of the day it’s about enjoyable pleasure right? So why not involve all that brings it | |||
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"My fun friend was house sitting for me whilst I was away this week and sent me videos of himself wanking and using some of my toys! I think he's quite comfortable with toy use " Wow!! Love that | |||
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"A wand buzzing against his balls or my throat during a bj is great fun. " Yes please | |||
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"I love sex toys & like using them with guys inserting a vibrator at the same time as a cock & using clit toys too.Wondering how many guys are comfortable in this situation? as have found some are reluctant. Toyah here " Absolutely love it. I really get off on seeing a womans face as she's pleasuring herself whilst I'm inside her too. | |||
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"Using a wand while fucking is absolutely orgasmic!! I feel the vibrations too and I am lost for words at the sensation for both of us. Using a vibrator while giving oral is also amazing, the reaction from G spot and clit stimulation is something else. I have heard some guys don’t like the idea of using toys maybe a male ego thing but I love adding a bit of variety " As is a vibrator on your prostate whilst getting a long slow blowjob | |||
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"Using a wand while fucking is absolutely orgasmic!! I feel the vibrations too and I am lost for words at the sensation for both of us. Using a vibrator while giving oral is also amazing, the reaction from G spot and clit stimulation is something else. I have heard some guys don’t like the idea of using toys maybe a male ego thing but I love adding a bit of variety As is a vibrator on your prostate whilst getting a long slow blowjob " A little back door buzzer is awesome too but only on special occasions with the right person | |||
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"I love sex toys & like using them with guys inserting a vibrator at the same time as a cock & using clit toys too.Wondering how many guys are comfortable in this situation? as have found some are reluctant. Toyah here " I wlways use a bullet on the clit with my mistress as it's what Mistress loves. We've used dildos instead of a third as it's easier that way. Also using my tongue and a vibrater on Mistress to bring her pleasure | |||
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"Using a wand while fucking is absolutely orgasmic!! I feel the vibrations too and I am lost for words at the sensation for both of us. Using a vibrator while giving oral is also amazing, the reaction from G spot and clit stimulation is something else. I have heard some guys don’t like the idea of using toys maybe a male ego thing but I love adding a bit of variety " I agree … a wand can be used on both, and if used in the right places on a man is a wonderful feeling … ie … the underside of the cock, moved slowly around the anus, or pressed against the perineum!! mmm - excites me just thinking about it! Xxx R xx | |||
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"I love using toys with a lady, but if she tries coming near me with a strap-on I'm legging it. " Don’t knock it, until you’ve tried it … it’s a wonderful feeling xxx R xx | |||
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