FabSwingers.com forum: moving on

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

you tink you have been had by someone one here. example.... cant meet. but you see a new verification after a few days,

1.do you block?

2ask why?

3 dont bother and ignore?

so how o you move on without ranting?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I do number 4.

Hunt them down and kill them RIGHT IN THE FACE!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep 3 from us too

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I do number 4.

Hunt them down and kill them RIGHT IN THE FACE!"

really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3"

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I do number 4.

Hunt them down and kill them RIGHT IN THE FACE!

really?

I think the punishment fits the crime View I honestly do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do number 4.

Hunt them down and kill them RIGHT IN THE FACE!"

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

No2,and put it through their letter box.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Accept for whatever reason they have a new verfi up. It could be from someone from weeks ago it could also not.

As long as you had no feelings for the person just move on from it x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I do number 4.

Hunt them down and kill them RIGHT IN THE FACE!

really?

I think the punishment fits the crime View I honestly do."

I had you as a lover not a fighter

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

im now learning to breathe deeply and ignore then 1 shot as a warning

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"I do number 4.

Hunt them down and kill them RIGHT IN THE FACE!"

your scary avatar is bring out the worst in you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't dream of mailing someone to question them about a meet

To be honest I wouldn't even look, if I mailed someone and they said they couldn't meet, why would I then keep looking at their profile?

I find it a bit weird of someone that they would keep checking to see if people meet, if someone says no for whatever reason just accept that, not everyone can tell people they don't fancy then so use polite excuses and to put them on the spot by then mailing them saying 'you have met them but told me you wasn't meeting' when its obvious they was giving you a polite brush off is wrong, it may be seen as lying to some but you cant change peoples personalities and if people don't have it in them to say, your not my type, bullying then for say no in anther way wont change their mind, so why do it?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

No one has any right to take umbrage at people meeting others on a swinging site....that is what it is for.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

I would ask for a written explanation within 24 hours !

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

5 realise you are on a swingers site and people are free to meet who they want when they want and that they don't have to answer to anyone on here.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I do number 4.

Hunt them down and kill them RIGHT IN THE FACE!

really?

I think the punishment fits the crime View I honestly do.

I had you as a lover not a fighter

Shhhhhh it's Thursday! I'm being all evil and ting.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I do number 4.

Hunt them down and kill them RIGHT IN THE FACE!

really?

I think the punishment fits the crime View I honestly do.

I had you as a lover not a fighter

Shhhhhh it's Thursday! I'm being all evil and ting."

ok... no worries, this secret is safe with me, along with your other

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I do number 4.

Hunt them down and kill them RIGHT IN THE FACE!

your scary avatar is bring out the worst in you.

It's my Thursday face it will grow on you Ruggas... like an unpleasant skin complaint.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I do number 4.

Hunt them down and kill them RIGHT IN THE FACE!

really?

I think the punishment fits the crime View I honestly do.

I had you as a lover not a fighter

Shhhhhh it's Thursday! I'm being all evil and ting.

ok... no worries, this secret is safe with me, along with your other

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Use a Acme 42-Watt Timewaster Annihilator Laser Mk. III and blast their sorry ass into mext Thursday...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just accept that they are having a good time which is what we are all here for and not worry about it. I certainly wouldn't message someone to question them, that's a bit weird!

Alternatively though, you could start a thread about them and potentially make them embarrassed.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"I do number 4.

Hunt them down and kill them RIGHT IN THE FACE!

your scary avatar is bring out the worst in you.

It's my Thursday face it will grow on you Ruggas... like an unpleasant skin complaint."

Please be naughty every Thursday so I can ban you saves me looking at your scary face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this a few weeks ago. Guy arranged a meet a hour befor when I'm almost ready just mailed him to check he was still coming over. He mailed back saying he was busy couldn't make it. I was very cheesed of as I don't get much free time. He then had a veri from meeting someone else that same night, I reported sent him a shitty mail!! Blocked him too. Couple a weeks later I got into trouble by admin, don't waste ur time just block and forget it not worth the agro! Funny he told them no meet had been arranged yet another 10 people in chat saw him make arrangements. My night wasn't lost I ended up out with a friend from here who didn't waste time and had a blinding night. First time I've been let down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do number 4.

Hunt them down and kill them RIGHT IN THE FACE!

your scary avatar is bring out the worst in you.

It's my Thursday face it will grow on you Ruggas... like an unpleasant skin complaint.

Please be naughty every Thursday so I can ban you saves me looking at your scary face

Ruggers can you make him put his bum back on? His avatar looks scarier than a Dr Who baddy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move on, let them get on with having fun as should you x

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

You are displaying bunny boiler characteristics

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

To be honest im not constantly looking at people i chat to verifications.So what if they chose to meet someone else. Its a swingers site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are displaying bunny boiler characteristics

"
. Who is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one has any right to take umbrage at people meeting others on a swinging site....that is what it is for.

or, as we say darn sarf... get over yerself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you tink you have been had by someone one here. example.... cant meet. but you see a new verification after a few days,

1.do you block?

2ask why?

3 dont bother and ignore?

so how o you move on without ranting?

You should think its not your business what someone does with someone else. It could have been arranged weeks or more ago and going back and questioning someone shouts stalker to many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3, why should it matter to you? It's a swinging not dating site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3, why should it matter to you? It's a swinging not dating site.

*site*

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

If someone has arranged to meet with me but gets a better offer I hope they will just say so. Nothing lost except a little bit of pride.

I have had it the other way around where I have an arrangement to meet someone else, the other person has time on that day and hasn't accepted that it's not a no for another date just that one. If I say I can't meet I don't expect people to assume that means I can't meet anyone.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"You are displaying bunny boiler characteristics

. Who is?"

The op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go round their house lie on their front path drumming your heels and scream and scream till you make yourself sick. Bastardos!

Alternately chalk it up to experience and shrug it off.

It isn't wise to take very much on this site personally, therein lies heartache. xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

just a general question , nothing to be be had by it,ooooooh some people get the wrong end of a stick

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"just a general question , nothing to be be had by it,ooooooh some people get the wrong end of a stick

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Surely you have been here long enough to know how the thread would be reacted to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the same opinion as NN a couple of posts back. If I chat, people can't meet, I don't look at the profile, so I wouldn't really know. I'm not an avid profile and verification reader anyway, so I'm hardly gonna go back and waste time reading it

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"I would ask for a written explanation within 24 hours !

A note from their mum?

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Perhaps they are still a little undecided about you and are giving themselves a breathing/thinking space before they commit to a meet?

I can go for ages and have no meets then everyone wants to meet over the same few days. I can only meet So many so i have to chose who. I would never dump one meet for another so i have to priorities. And some guys i like the look of but some instinct tells me to go slowly.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Perhaps they are still a little undecided about you and are giving themselves a breathing/thinking space before they commit to a meet?

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish

I had someone last week having a go at me calling me all sorts because I said I was not able to meet at the moment but I do have my one off birthday going to chams...I just said I was not looking to arrange a meet then either,but was just stating I was going to be there if they were too,say hi sort of thing...bit more abuse after that so introduced him to my VIP list(very ignorant people...LOL) and blocked him...

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