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By *TG3 OP   Man
43 weeks ago

Dorchester

They approach every message with sex, they send sexual pics, which in my opinion shows a lack of respect, how should guys approach women with a new message or does an erect penis win it for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

My erect penis has never won anything.

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By *a LunaWoman
43 weeks ago

South Wales

I like a penis pic. But to get me interested in their penis I need a bit of chat, a bit of humour, a bit of sass.

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By *TG3 OP   Man
43 weeks ago

Dorchester


"My erect penis has never won anything. "
well you have a tin of squirty cream as a stand in

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By *eroLondonMan
43 weeks ago

Covent Garden

They should approach like a Paladin on his steed, ready to whisk them away to some enchanted isle across the calm waters of desire.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
43 weeks ago

Reading

I prefer it when those who do are honest about it. we all come here for different reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

I tell them that they’re sexy in the first message.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

I compliment photos in a message and expect nothing in return.. odd really as sometime i get blocked - my messages are ALWAYS polite and never vulgar

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By *TG3 OP   Man
43 weeks ago

Dorchester


"I compliment photos in a message and expect nothing in return.. odd really as sometime i get blocked - my messages are ALWAYS polite and never vulgar "
Yes and we are told time and time again that a block means they are not interested do you believe they should be?

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago


"My erect penis has never won anything. well you have a tin of squirty cream as a stand in "

I’ve been known to have a back up can too.

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By *TG3 OP   Man
43 weeks ago

Dorchester


"My erect penis has never won anything. well you have a tin of squirty cream as a stand in

I’ve been known to have a back up can too. "
always in date for the mouth watering endings i hope

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
43 weeks ago

Basingstoke


"They approach every message with sex, they send sexual pics, which in my opinion shows a lack of respect, how should guys approach women with a new message or does an erect penis win it for you? "

I think it only shows lack of respect if the individual receiving the message/pic has explicitly stated they don't want sexual/dick pics sent to them. In which case the sender has clearly not bothered to read the profile.

For me, it's important that the first message is more than just 'Hi' or 'Hey', and has clearly been based on something I've said in my profile. It doesnt need to be witty or lengthy - just something that shows some degree of intelligence and an ability to think with the big brain as well as the little brain.

Anything generic suggests a carpet bombing approach to me, and would at best get the message deleted immediately.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago


"I compliment photos in a message and expect nothing in return.. odd really as sometime i get blocked - my messages are ALWAYS polite and never vulgar Yes and we are told time and time again that a block means they are not interested do you believe they should be? "

A polite thanks but not interested would suffice for me.. as i said i expect nothing in return but i like viewing the photos - so why block me if i dont suggest or want anything but to express my opinion ?

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By *o scandalousWoman
43 weeks ago

Glasgow

I like someone to message me with humour. Which shows they’ve read my profile. Copy and paste messages and penis pics do nothing for me.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
43 weeks ago

Reading


"I compliment photos in a message and expect nothing in return.. odd really as sometime i get blocked - my messages are ALWAYS polite and never vulgar "

it's not personal

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
43 weeks ago

Basingstoke


"I compliment photos in a message and expect nothing in return.. odd really as sometime i get blocked - my messages are ALWAYS polite and never vulgar "

I don't often block after an initial message. But I can understand why people do - it stops them coming up on your feed/search again and so prevents you messaging them again if you've not remembered that you did so previously.

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By *TG3 OP   Man
43 weeks ago

Dorchester


"I compliment photos in a message and expect nothing in return.. odd really as sometime i get blocked - my messages are ALWAYS polite and never vulgar Yes and we are told time and time again that a block means they are not interested do you believe they should be?

A polite thanks but not interested would suffice for me.. as i said i expect nothing in return but i like viewing the photos - so why block me if i dont suggest or want anything but to express my opinion ?"
who knows I'm with you on that one, maybe teleconetics

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By *ou only live onceMan
43 weeks ago

London

Not me, OP. No, siree. I "friend zone" myself from my very first message. Even before that, sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago


"I compliment photos in a message and expect nothing in return.. odd really as sometime i get blocked - my messages are ALWAYS polite and never vulgar

it's not personal "

Hard not to take it personal when a simple compliment is sent and they block.. but hey im an adukt and can see it from both sides. Thanks

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By *TG3 OP   Man
43 weeks ago

Dorchester


"I compliment photos in a message and expect nothing in return.. odd really as sometime i get blocked - my messages are ALWAYS polite and never vulgar

it's not personal "
To you but it may seem so to them unfortunately

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By *enelope2UWoman
43 weeks ago

Fife

I view it as a place where like minded people SHOULD be.. They see my pics read my profile so know simply are we sexually compatible in interest if yes then the game playing is over. The rewards there earn it..

Let me see the personality to want to fuck them so no dick pic alone means zero if he's a dick personality too, and can't be bothered to show no effort it will be same sexually and a disappointment.

A dating site I might love who they are physically and end up finding they think a girl who loves MMF is a no go or they are simply too vanilla for me.. I've wasted my time and my emotions and my wetness.

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By *ife NinjaMan
43 weeks ago

Dunfermline

My one and only penis pic is for friends

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago


"I compliment photos in a message and expect nothing in return.. odd really as sometime i get blocked - my messages are ALWAYS polite and never vulgar "

Women can’t win with this. Sometimes I reply a gentle no thanks and get an argument about how i should be open minded etc.

So to save myself the grief, i don’t reply and then get whinged at for that too.

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By *ife NinjaMan
43 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"I compliment photos in a message and expect nothing in return.. odd really as sometime i get blocked - my messages are ALWAYS polite and never vulgar

Women can’t win with this. Sometimes I reply a gentle no thanks and get an argument about how i should be open minded etc.

So to save myself the grief, i don’t reply and then get whinged at for that too.

"

Would you like a back rub?

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
43 weeks ago

chichester

It is a sex site ultimately though for adults to meet like minded folk to meet for sex at its core …

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
43 weeks ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

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By *umagain58Man
43 weeks ago

London

It varies. I find most like to chat first to see how might be attractive to each other. That always best when respect and ask what others might like or not. End results for all also much better. On occasion some our attracted to my cock on cam and meet quickly to satisfy needs. That can also be good but I prefer the former most times

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
43 weeks ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

By reading my profile and tailoring their message to me rather than thinking it's instafuck is a good start

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By *ife NinjaMan
43 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"By reading my profile and tailoring their message to me rather than thinking it's instafuck is a good start"

You have a great taste in overlook patterned carpet

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By *olfandtazCouple
43 weeks ago

Bristol

No cock shots, it says on our profile!

Because its a couples profile, we both check the messages, addressing messages just to taz is an instant no from us.

We want something more interesting than a hi or hello or even Oi.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
43 weeks ago

Central

There's obviously a difference between a website and a person.

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
43 weeks ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk


"By reading my profile and tailoring their message to me rather than thinking it's instafuck is a good start

You have a great taste in overlook patterned carpet "

Like your tie you mean

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By *apiomanMan
43 weeks ago

Shipley

Having just come off here as a couple, dick pics didn't do it for us. Showing that you are interested in us and get where we were at.

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By *ife NinjaMan
43 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"By reading my profile and tailoring their message to me rather than thinking it's instafuck is a good start

You have a great taste in overlook patterned carpet

Like your tie you mean "

Indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Treat a woman like a person, not a sex dispenser - that's all.

I've responded positively to several messages today - none were essays, just polite chatty messages from men who fit what I'm looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago


"Not me, OP. No, siree. I "friend zone" myself from my very first message. Even before that, sometimes."

4D chess player. Rizz God

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