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By *ames-77 OP   Man
43 weeks ago

milton keynes

That saying "win or loose you tried your best that's all you can do " if you genuinely try your best day in day out ..not pretend to try your best.. no making excuses.. get up every day try your hardest and give it your best every day.. you cannot fail, you will not fail

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By *ellaboo400Couple
43 weeks ago

Gorebridge

You doing 75 hard?

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By *ames-77 OP   Man
43 weeks ago

milton keynes


"You doing 75 hard? "

No

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By *ames250122Man
43 weeks ago

Worcester


"That saying "win or loose you tried your best that's all you can do " if you genuinely try your best day in day out ..not pretend to try your best.. no making excuses.. get up every day try your hardest and give it your best every day.. you cannot fail, you will not fail "

Sad you still can and many do and get know where. While all the above is a must there still an element of chance, right place right time and in most cases, who you know

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By *ames-77 OP   Man
43 weeks ago

milton keynes


"That saying "win or loose you tried your best that's all you can do " if you genuinely try your best day in day out ..not pretend to try your best.. no making excuses.. get up every day try your hardest and give it your best every day.. you cannot fail, you will not fail

Sad you still can and many do and get know where. While all the above is a must there still an element of chance, right place right time and in most cases, who you know "

That's the way you've chosen to view life bud

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Thanks

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By *ames-77 OP   Man
43 weeks ago

milton keynes


"Thanks "

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago


"That saying "win or loose you tried your best that's all you can do " if you genuinely try your best day in day out ..not pretend to try your best.. no making excuses.. get up every day try your hardest and give it your best every day.. you cannot fail, you will not fail "

So that's like.. not stopping at 348 cock pics.. surely you can hit 400

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By *ames-77 OP   Man
43 weeks ago

milton keynes


"That saying "win or loose you tried your best that's all you can do " if you genuinely try your best day in day out ..not pretend to try your best.. no making excuses.. get up every day try your hardest and give it your best every day.. you cannot fail, you will not fail

So that's like.. not stopping at 348 cock pics.. surely you can hit 400 "

All the best fella

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By *ea monkeyMan
43 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)


"That saying "win or loose you tried your best that's all you can do " if you genuinely try your best day in day out ..not pretend to try your best.. no making excuses.. get up every day try your hardest and give it your best every day.. you cannot fail, you will not fail "

I’m sorry but that’s rubbish.

It’s a fact of life that sometimes you do your best, make no mistakes and still lose. Reconciling that is part of being an adult.

The belief that the loss is somehow always someone’s fault is damaging and kinda narcissistic. Not everything is about you

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By *ames-77 OP   Man
43 weeks ago

milton keynes


"That saying "win or loose you tried your best that's all you can do " if you genuinely try your best day in day out ..not pretend to try your best.. no making excuses.. get up every day try your hardest and give it your best every day.. you cannot fail, you will not fail

I’m sorry but that’s rubbish.

It’s a fact of life that sometimes you do your best, make no mistakes and still lose. Reconciling that is part of being an adult.

The belief that the loss is somehow always someone’s fault is damaging and kinda narcissistic. Not everything is about you"

Have a good day

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By *ad NannaWoman
43 weeks ago

East London

Fail at what though.

I can do my best walking every day and never be able to run a marathon.

I can do my best at making cakes and still fail at many of them.

The only thing we won't fail at is doing our best.

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By *ames-77 OP   Man
43 weeks ago

milton keynes

Aim to be the best possible version of yourself

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
43 weeks ago

Essex

I think the point OP may be trying to make is that if you try you won’t fail. Things outside of your control may happen. Things can go wrong. Disasters do happen. But that’s not a failure on your part.

There’s a distinction there. Failure to try is different to failing to try.

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By *ris GrayMan
43 weeks ago

Dorchester

Fail to prepare prepare to fail sort of thing

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
43 weeks ago

Leeds

No you got it all wrong. Do 100% all day everyday and you get taken for granted.

If you do 50% a day, then when you need to do 100% it’s gets noticed.

The mr

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By *mall.sausageMan
43 weeks ago

Rochdale


"No you got it all wrong. Do 100% all day everyday and you get taken for granted.

If you do 50% a day, then when you need to do 100% it’s gets noticed.

The mr "
depends on what aspect. At work if you give 100% they may thank u for a short while . Then after a bit your 100% might not be good enough and you get a bollocking or end up putting yourself under more pressure and fuck up big style. At home what ever you do will probably be wrong its called being male and married .

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By *stbury DavenportMan
43 weeks ago

Nottingham


"That saying "win or loose you tried your best that's all you can do " if you genuinely try your best day in day out ..not pretend to try your best.. no making excuses.. get up every day try your hardest and give it your best every day.. you cannot fail, you will not fail "

Oh look, it's the just-world fallacy again.

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
43 weeks ago

Hell

I hate reading stuff like this. Most days, some of us are just trying to survive.

When I get to the end of the day and I’m alive, I think “well done me”. Because there are days when that’s hard enough.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
43 weeks ago

East Sussex

Am I right in interpreting this as

'if you fail you didn't try hard enough'?

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
43 weeks ago

chichester

Failure leads to growth and improvement

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By *ildo_swagginsthe3rdWoman
43 weeks ago

Wales

People fail at stuff all the time...I'd suggest if you're not failing at anything you're not becoming the best version of yourself.

There is no absolute best version of anyone, always room for growth.

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43 weeks ago


"People fail at stuff all the time...I'd suggest if you're not failing at anything you're not becoming the best version of yourself.

There is no absolute best version of anyone, always room for growth. "

This exactly

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By *ames250122Man
42 weeks ago

Worcester


"That saying "win or loose you tried your best that's all you can do " if you genuinely try your best day in day out ..not pretend to try your best.. no making excuses.. get up every day try your hardest and give it your best every day.. you cannot fail, you will not fail

Sad you still can and many do and get know where. While all the above is a must there still an element of chance, right place right time and in most cases, who you know

That's the way you've chosen to view life bud "

Very true

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By *idlandiaMan
42 weeks ago

Birmingham

It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. That is not a weakness. That is life.

Jean-Luc Picard

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"That saying "win or loose you tried your best that's all you can do " if you genuinely try your best day in day out ..not pretend to try your best.. no making excuses.. get up every day try your hardest and give it your best every day.. you cannot fail, you will not fail "

Hahaha. Yeh right!!!

It’s like the pep talk that sets me up to feel like shit after I’ve tried my hardest and still not succeeded in what I tried for.

Of course try your best, that’s the message right there, but somethings can’t be done no matter how hard you try.

You’ve got to know what battles to fight.

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