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By *ools and the brain OP   Couple
43 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

In general about everything but mainly (maybe I have too much free time) about why guy's seem to be obsessed with making a woman "squirt" the amount of times I have had to intervene when a guy seems to be what basically look's like plunging a drain with the back and forth hand movement on Mrs.

It's like some sort of gold star is going to be awarded for the largest volume of pee they can persuade out of a bag.

Ironically it's the guy's who pay more attention to pleasing my wife through sensual and passionate play they attain the greatest rewards if that's what you are after.

Ladies does this become tedious with guy's trying to turn your insides into soup or do you actually enjoy it?

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago


"In general about everything but mainly (maybe I have too much free time) about why guy's seem to be obsessed with making a woman "squirt" the amount of times I have had to intervene when a guy seems to be what basically look's like plunging a drain with the back and forth hand movement on Mrs.

It's like some sort of gold star is going to be awarded for the largest volume of pee they can persuade out of a bag.

Ironically it's the guy's who pay more attention to pleasing my wife through sensual and passionate play they attain the greatest rewards if that's what you are after.

Ladies does this become tedious with guy's trying to turn your insides into soup or do you actually enjoy it?"

Not a female, but I totally understand why it's frustrating you OP. Unless it's something that's been discussed and spoken about either prior or during any fun, I don't see why people hold so much value on to that specific activity.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

From a man’s perspective, I feel like most women that can squirt make a big deal of it and place quite the challenge on the guy to make it happen. That’s just my experiences though

Ultimately though, it just shows he’s very interested and turned on by knowing he’s giving his partner pleasure. Which is surely a step above the usual where the guy couldn’t give 2 fucks if she cums or not, he’s just there to get his

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

We know what they’re trying to do and it’s just off putting.

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By *a LunaWoman
43 weeks ago

South Wales

Yes *sighs dramatically*

I don’t squirt. Never have. Does that mean I’ve had shit sex all my life? No it does not. I’ve had some top shagging in my life and I get wetter than an otters pocket. I just don’t squirt.

Trying to finger bang the bejesus out of me isn’t going to make it happen.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
43 weeks ago

Leicester

Personally I find it more appealing when they squirt around my cock. Some like to pull out and see it, I prefer to leave it in and keep going so their eyes spin like fruit machines and we soak the bajeesus out of the room.

And even if they don't squirt, a few good orgasms is still a possibility.

(Mr)

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
43 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

I hate that some men see making you squirt as a challenge.

I can't do it, I don't have a desire to do it yet guys see it as a mission....I can't think of anything worse than being fingerbanged into oblivion

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By *aturefunswTV/TS
43 weeks ago

bristol

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
43 weeks ago

Reading

I enjoy it when it's done right and when its done right I squirt.

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By *aturefunswTV/TS
43 weeks ago

bristol


"In general about everything but mainly (maybe I have too much free time) about why guy's seem to be obsessed with making a woman "squirt" the amount of times I have had to intervene when a guy seems to be what basically look's like plunging a drain with the back and forth hand movement on Mrs.

It's like some sort of gold star is going to be awarded for the largest volume of pee they can persuade out of a bag.

Ironically it's the guy's who pay more attention to pleasing my wife through sensual and passionate play they attain the greatest rewards if that's what you are after.

Ladies does this become tedious with guy's trying to turn your insides into soup or do you actually enjoy it?"

Bravo well said !

Had a couples meet pre CoVid and the other guy had made her squirt for first time earlier in month x he was obsessed x she squirted again with us watching and he tried to do it again x my mrs took her outside for a cigerette came back in I had changed the sheet ( funnily enough I lost my erection shock ! ) my ex came back and she was wearing her strap x so the girls had and the other didn’t squirt but orgasmed . He said to her you enjoyed that more than the one I gave you . I smirked and both girls in unison said squirting isn’t orgasm ! He was crestfallen .

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By *gent CoulsonMan
43 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

It's definitely not the prime objective, if it happens, it happens.

My partner does regularly and the precautions we have to take because of the volume is ridiculous.

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By *ohnny_ThunderMan
43 weeks ago

LLandudno

I don't know much about squirting, but I did make a lady cum once, I think.

At least I presume she came. I mean, she didn't say "is that it" when I finished, like they usually do, so I'm taking that one as a win.

Yours sincerely, Mr Lover Lover.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago


"I don't know much about squirting, …

….."

but I know it’s not pee. …

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By *olfandtazCouple
43 weeks ago

Bristol

Some men don't understand how the female body works, when they are going at her with her pussy being a punchbag I step in... respect her body and you will reap the rewards

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By *ycanNightsMan
43 weeks ago

Workington

But I want the gold star ...

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
43 weeks ago

Essex

If I get asked the question “do you squirt” it’s usually the end of the conversation.

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By *sWyldWoman
43 weeks ago

Edinburgh

It's off putting for sure. I can, I wish I didn't sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Guys trying to do things beyond what was discussed and agreed are the bane of meets. They must be thinking they get what they want regardless, because they are already in bed.

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By *orny-DJMan
43 weeks ago

Leigh-on-Sea

I also don't understand the obsession with it. Surely the most important thing is to make sure she has a pleasurable experience and comes away fully satisfied

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By *naswingdressWoman
43 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think it's a very Marmite issue. If it's your thing, great. It's not mine. Some people try to sell themselves as the gods of squirt and I'm like... I don't think we're compatible. Not, what you're doing is wrong, but you might have better luck with someone who's into that.

But apparently I'm wrong... about my own body. Strangely that doesn't go well for them.

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By *adyBugsWoman
43 weeks ago

cognito

A cheese grater in the Vag is far more appealing than some tool frantically rubbing their fingers about as if they are trying to start a fire with two sticks in the wilderness down there…

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By *teve261970Man
43 weeks ago

Gateshead

I knew a woman once she couldn't squirt through vaginal play, but be did she when she was gagging on cock, we found this out totally by accident one night, hubby didn't like to make her gag, but she enjoyed the being dominated bit.

So I did it. Not a boast just confirming that not all women are the same & not all will squirt.

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago


"It's off putting for sure. I can, I wish I didn't sometimes. "

Same, not all the time but when a guy makes it his mission then its usually end of convo

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By *naswingdressWoman
43 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"A cheese grater in the Vag is far more appealing than some tool frantically rubbing their fingers about as if they are trying to start a fire with two sticks in the wilderness down there…"

yeah, my experience with this sort of thing is that they're mining for gold.

The only thing you'll get is blood doing that, my friend, and no, my period is not due, you hurt me.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
43 weeks ago

Leeds

Urgh....the guys & the squirt, there's nothing more off-putting, I've had guys in the last say they'll make me, I've never squirted I've no desire to I have absolutely no idea why they seem so obsessed it's just a big red flag for me.

Mrs

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