FabSwingers.com forum: No kissing

By *heitaliandreamer OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

A question for the women. Why some of you would rather have sex straight away but not kissing? What's the difference between a kiss and a penetration?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

One feels better.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

A cock is a cock. I can happily ride a dildo without emotional connection as long as its the right shape to hit the right spots.

Kissing something I'm not into? Weirdly intimate.

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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"A question for the women. Why some of you would rather have sex straight away but not kissing? What's the difference between a kiss and a penetration?"

There's a fair bit of difference.

Google will help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dog breath.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a choice if they dont want to kiss then they dont have to just like you dont have to meet them if its important to you...

for me if i dont fancy a guy enough to not kiss then me are not meeting let alone playing ... for me kissing is all part of swinging ..

but people should make there own choices 100% no two couples /people will be the same

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Is it mainly couples who prefer no kissing that get than singles?

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Is it mainly couples who prefer no kissing than singles?

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
over a year ago

wonderland.

"A question for the women. Why some of you would rather have sex straight away but not kissing? What's the difference between a kiss and a penetration?"
I often have sex without kissing. I don't avoid it as much as I used to but for me,it's much easier to get to sex than it is to kiss a guy.

Cali

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By *sWyldWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Personally kissing is a deal breaker for me.

I need it, want it and can't actually get enough of it.

And only if that's good, would I want more.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
over a year ago

wonderland.

"Is it mainly couples who prefer no kissing that get than singles?"
i actually find I kiss more since being in a couple. But it's s different level of attraction for me that's needed to kiss a guy.. than it is to have sex

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

There's a whole lot of other sexual things two people can do that don't involve kissing or penetration.

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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

Have you seen the state of the teeth of UK men... NHS is free dental isn't...

2) since most men rely on porn as a sex measurement they barely can fuck let alone can kiss.

3) repeat observations 1&2

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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

"There's a whole lot of other sexual things two people can do that don't involve kissing or penetration. "

Exactly and those others are my preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you seen the state of the teeth of UK men... NHS is free dental isn't...

2) since most men rely on porn as a sex measurement they barely can fuck let alone can kiss.

3) repeat observations 1&2"

Have you tried getting a NHS dentist in England. ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Have you seen the state of the teeth of UK men... NHS is free dental isn't...

2) since most men rely on porn as a sex measurement they barely can fuck let alone can kiss.

3) repeat observations 1&2

Have you tried getting a NHS dentist in England. ?

We have, we gave up and now pay eye watering amounts privately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you seen the state of the teeth of UK men... NHS is free dental isn't...

2) since most men rely on porn as a sex measurement they barely can fuck let alone can kiss.

3) repeat observations 1&2

Have you tried getting a NHS dentist in England. ?

We have, we gave up and now pay eye watering amounts privately. "

Same.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I don't get this either. if i dont want to kiss a guy I sure don't want to fuck him.

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By *ongandharderMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

Conversation, kissing , fucking

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"Have you seen the state of the teeth of UK men... NHS is free dental isn't...

2) since most men rely on porn as a sex measurement they barely can fuck let alone can kiss.

3) repeat observations 1&2"

not unless you are on benefits. it hasn't been free for all.for decades.

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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

"Have you seen the state of the teeth of UK men... NHS is free dental isn't...

2) since most men rely on porn as a sex measurement they barely can fuck let alone can kiss.

3) repeat observations 1&2

not unless you are on benefits. it hasn't been free for all.for decades."

That's my point.... Teeth are neglected because the cost so there's 99% chance his teeth breath etc are rank Vs his dick still being useful. And sadly men here look 20 years older than they are but can still have a good body and character. Kissing is visual and physical emotional attraction sex is purely arousal and that connection for me is not physically based.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Does nobody engage in foreplay anymore ?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

o o OO o o

"Does nobody engage in foreplay anymore ?"

I do, I do!!

Just for a limited time. Half hour tops and then crack on with it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Does nobody engage in foreplay anymore ?

I do, I do!!

Just for a limited time. Half hour tops and then crack on with it

I had a guy genuinely confused when I said I don't like receiving oral. He said "do you just fuck then?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I wasn't attracted enough to someone to want to kiss them, no way would I be having sex with them.

Kissing is a huge part of it all for me personally.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Because they don't want to kiss for whatever reason - that's understandable and their choice.

For me I couldn't have sex with someone I wouldn't want to kiss but not wanting to? It's not weird. Not compatible with me but not weird.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

kissing is must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One feels better."

Which one?

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London

I love kissing x

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

Up North

No kissing = no meet

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By *heitaliandreamer OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Thank you all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Breath smells

Tongue tastes of nicotine

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By *ickinNottsMan
over a year ago

Hucknall

I love kissing and it is a real turn on for me. I am disappointed when people don't want to kiss.

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By *ynergyMan
4 weeks ago

Manchester

"A cock is a cock. I can happily ride a dildo without emotional connection as long as its the right shape to hit the right spots.

Kissing something I'm not into? Weirdly intimate."

I agree. My wife wasn't a fan of kissing when we had our meet at the weekend she said would been better without it as she felt like it's too intimate. She said she loved his cock but she felt like that was too of emotional thing for her.

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By *acey_RedWoman
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

Maybe he has bad breath

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By *punk n gushCouple
4 weeks ago

deal

Not into kissing much even my husband gets very little kisses from me

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By *viatrixWoman
4 weeks ago

Redhill

I can’t fuck anyone I wouldn’t want to kiss.

But each to their own. 🤷‍♀️

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By *hickthighs25Woman
4 weeks ago

Stockton

"I can’t fuck anyone I wouldn’t want to kiss.

But each to their own. 🤷‍♀️ "

This 👌

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By *illabongboy1971Man
4 weeks ago

Penicuik

"I can’t fuck anyone I wouldn’t want to kiss.

But each to their own. 🤷‍♀️

This 👌"

Absolutely agree 100%

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By *hil most chillMan
4 weeks ago

London, South East & Europe

"I can’t fuck anyone I wouldn’t want to kiss.

But each to their own. 🤷‍♀️

This 👌

Absolutely agree 100%"

I agree 200%

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By *utoftheBluexWoman
4 weeks ago

London

Kissing is mandatory for me

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
4 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire

Kissing is the most arousing thing for me. You can't beat a good kisser.

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By *y_journeyMan
4 weeks ago

newark

If you don’t crave the lip then you ain’t gettin the tip

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By *vaRoseWoman
4 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Kissing and being kissed thoroughly with passion are mandatory for me

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By *ora the explorerWoman
4 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

If someone didn’t want to kiss me there’d be nowt else happening!

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By *a LunaWoman
4 weeks ago

o o OO o o

I don’t like doing either if they’re not done well. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *eardedguy83Man
4 weeks ago

Worcestershire

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By *eardedguy83Man
4 weeks ago

Worcestershire

Kissing is a must for me. No passion without kissing 😘

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By *andb69Couple
4 weeks ago

leeds

"A question for the women. Why some of you would rather have sex straight away but not kissing? What's the difference between a kiss and a penetration?"

To me a kiss is romantic. I don't swing for romance. I kiss women, but I have no romantic attachments to women.

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By *rtickle1Man
4 weeks ago

nuneaton

"I love kissing x"

Same here

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By *andb69Couple
4 weeks ago

leeds

"A question for the women. Why some of you would rather have sex straight away but not kissing? What's the difference between a kiss and a penetration?

To me a kiss is romantic. I don't swing for romance. I kiss women, but I have no romantic attachments to women. "

Interestingly many people here say kissing is a must but in over a decade of swinging no one has every objected to me not kissing and almost all want to come back for more. Perhaps honesty isn't what it was

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By *odgerMooreMan
4 weeks ago

Rummage Up The Jumper

If a woman doesn’t want to kiss me - she’s probably mental and id send her packing without a second thought… after I fucked her

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
4 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

If there's no kissing, it ain't gonna happen!

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By *hunky GentMan
4 weeks ago

Stamford

Gizza snog.

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By *enda83Man
4 weeks ago

newcastle

Kissing is one of the best parts, kissing during sex is an amazing feeling I wouldn’t fuck without kissing ever

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By *hickthighs25Woman
4 weeks ago

Stockton

"If a woman doesn’t want to kiss me - she’s probably mental and id send her packing without a second thought… after I fucked her

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 howling

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By *rHotNottsMan
4 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’ve known women in couples who don’t want to kiss me because it’s too intimate and only for their partner.

They are scared they will catch ‘the love’, obviously

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
4 weeks ago

Niche

It's been said 100 times above, some will have an aversion to it full stop. For others it's going to keep separate the basic functional fucking and itch scratching done with randoms and ons. Maybe that has an eww factor for them.

Or does it keep kissing 'special' for the love making and intimate connection of real partners?

I'm not going to fuck anyone I'd not be happy to kiss. But then I don't fuck randoms or have ONS either.

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By *eardedguy83Man
4 weeks ago

Worcestershire

"If there's no kissing, it ain't gonna happen! "

Too right

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By *ophie199Couple
4 weeks ago

Leeds

I fucking love kissing, found it most bizarre when I was playing with a 2 French guys and one wasn’t a kisser but each to their own I guess!!

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
4 weeks ago

Norwich

I like kissing but if it's not good I can go without as long as everything else is good. I love foreplay but kissing isn't essential foreplay.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
4 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Kissing is the fucking before the fucking. No kissing, no fucking for me 😘

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By *eardedguy83Man
4 weeks ago

Worcestershire

"Kissing is the fucking before the fucking. No kissing, no fucking for me 😘"

💯😘

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
4 weeks ago

Niche

"Kissing is the fucking before the fucking. No kissing, no fucking for me 😘"

I actually call kissing mouth-sex 🫡🤷🏼‍♀️😈

It's what it is

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By *r.nobody7Man
4 weeks ago

Sandbach

You can tell by the kiss if the sex will be good or not! No kisses its like a pizza with no cheese… wi fi without signal… something is missing…

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
4 weeks ago

wonderland.

"I’ve known women in couples who don’t want to kiss me because it’s too intimate and only for their partner.

They are scared they will catch ‘the love’, obviously

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For me its nothing to do with catching feelings. As a single girl I didnt want to kiss other men either. I didn't even kiss my former husband... I do kiss on occasion but its very rare I feel the want or need to. Ive also found its rare anyone even notices I avoid it... but then I dont really do intimate meets, its all more group stuff.. with couples I'll kiss the lady.

It has worked for me for over 30 years swinging.

Cali

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By *p2norfolkngoodMan
4 weeks ago

Norwich

I’ve seen this before as some couples have decided it’s too intimate but happy to have sex

I met a couple and we had fun but there was no kissing and after they split up I met her again and we kissed and it was amazing but each to their own

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By *uri00620Woman
4 weeks ago

Croydon

Kissing is more intimate, it's right in your face. Penetration can be very disconnected if that's what you're after. Hypothetically if I were to be intimate with someone I'm not attracted to I'd choose the latter over kissing.

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By *cottyl1983Man
4 weeks ago

Tyne and Wear

100% need kissing involved

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
4 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

"Kissing is more intimate, it's right in your face. Penetration can be very disconnected if that's what you're after. Hypothetically if I were to be intimate with someone I'm not attracted to I'd choose the latter over kissing. "

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By *2000ManMan
4 weeks ago

Worthing

Their favourite Hollywood actor - 100% women kiss straight away. It really depends who the gent is!

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
4 weeks ago

Niche

What would be the reason to be intimate if you're not attracted to them?

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By *estructionDollyWoman
4 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

I don't enjoy sex without kissing, unless it's with someone I know very well and we have been winding eachother up all day and just need to get at it in the moment. Or I'm being "used" as part of a roleplay.

I adore kissing. If I don't *want* to kiss someone then I don't want to have sex with them.

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By *ife NinjaMan
4 weeks ago

Dunfermline

If I'm spooning, I'm kissing 😘 🤓

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