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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
52 weeks ago

Somewhere else

What are some qualities a profile can have that will make you possibly want to get to know that person?

My green flags are specific and rare.

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By *TG3Man
52 weeks ago

Dorchester

I like a woman to be robust with nice knees that stands out for me

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By *ensuallover1000Man
52 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Sexualised descriptions of the sensual consumption of cheesecake will invariably cause the blood to rush to my phallus.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
52 weeks ago

kent

When the subtext of the profile evokes a sense of empathy, kindness and playfulness Xx

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
52 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"What are some qualities a profile can have that will make you possibly want to get to know that person?

My green flags are specific and rare. "

Aside from nice, creative photos and a good bio?

For me it's forum activity.

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By *stellaWoman
52 weeks ago

London

I love it when a profile makes me laugh. And shows kindness/compassion and that being important to them in how they operate in the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Mine are even rarer’er.

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By *r_PinkMan
52 weeks ago

london stratford


"Mine are even rarer’er. "

someone who is humble and not up their own bumhole!

also, someone who does not take this swinging lark to seriously.

I also have a think about seeing women smile, so a nice smile makes me look a lot more.

These things and of course, a banging body!

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Are they born on a Tuesday?

Will they let me lick their eyeballs?

Can they juggle three different fruits?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
52 weeks ago

Leeds

Couples with pics of both.

Ladies that have a nice polite profile.

I don't really look at men so no idea on that front.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

I have specific things I look for but shy it’s my secret

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By *cunnylassCouple
52 weeks ago

Exeter

We just look for people who might share their chips.

M and M

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By *a LunaWoman
52 weeks ago

South Wales

Humour mostly.

But my kind of humour.

Any whiff of a written “hehehe” and that attraction is gone!

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By *eliWoman
52 weeks ago

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I'm not sure what they are. It's more a general vibe I get on reading, rather than particular green flags. If that makes sense.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
52 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

I like choosy men, one that fucks anything that moves Is one to avoid

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

I don’t think there is a one stop shop answer. You can meet someone and still misread green flags.

There are very clever wordsmiths who can write a succinct profile, pose the photos, say the things they think they want you to hear rather than they actually feel. They could be having multiple chats and tell you they are not.

A few years ago from here I met someone who I totally fell for and she said she did me. She told me it was just me and her, this was over a period of a year. Due to location I only saw her weekends and things were great. Until she told me I was 1 of 14 she was seeing, not all regularly but 1 of 14.

I never spotted it, stupidly naive, most probably, so even with all perceived green flags they aren’t always who they say they are

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
52 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"I don’t think there is a one stop shop answer. You can meet someone and still misread green flags.

There are very clever wordsmiths who can write a succinct profile, pose the photos, say the things they think they want you to hear rather than they actually feel. They could be having multiple chats and tell you they are not.

A few years ago from here I met someone who I totally fell for and she said she did me. She told me it was just me and her, this was over a period of a year. Due to location I only saw her weekends and things were great. Until she told me I was 1 of 14 she was seeing, not all regularly but 1 of 14.

I never spotted it, stupidly naive, most probably, so even with all perceived green flags they aren’t always who they say they are "

Ouch. She lied to you for a year? And you met here? I’d be inconsolable.

Ethical non monogamy = green flag for me.

Cheating? Lying? That red flag is so big that it’s a fucking carnival tent.

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
52 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"I like choosy men, one that fucks anything that moves Is one to avoid"

That’s a nice point. I don’t want to feel like any hole is a goal for the person I’m interested in.

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
52 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"I'm not sure what they are. It's more a general vibe I get on reading, rather than particular green flags. If that makes sense. "

Ish? My neurons are extra spicy today.

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By *aizyWoman
52 weeks ago

west midlands


"I'm not sure what they are. It's more a general vibe I get on reading, rather than particular green flags. If that makes sense. "

It makes perfect sense Meli, it is what I was going to say, but as usual you have put it better than I could have, so I'll just agree with you

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
52 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"Are they born on a Tuesday?

Will they let me lick their eyeballs?

Can they juggle three different fruits? "

EYEBALL licking! I need to get myself off RIGHT NOW.

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
52 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"Couples with pics of both.

Ladies that have a nice polite profile.

I don't really look at men so no idea on that front.

Mrs "

If the couple doesn’t have pix of both, I often suspect it’s not a couple. I have trust issues

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
52 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"What are some qualities a profile can have that will make you possibly want to get to know that person?

My green flags are specific and rare.

Aside from nice, creative photos and a good bio?

For me it's forum activity.

"

I have had most of the people in the forum… maybe

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By *rHotNottsMan
52 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Not up their own arse….. it’s rare but lovely

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By *eroLondonMan
52 weeks ago

Mayfair

Oh, it's not easy to pinpoint — anything that comes across as compelling and makes my ears prick up with interest, leaving me thirsty to know more about that unconventional person and their non-conformist photographs.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
52 weeks ago

Leicester

Plenty of red flags, but green flags not so much, a person has a certain je ne sais quoi

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By *eliWoman
52 weeks ago

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"I'm not sure what they are. It's more a general vibe I get on reading, rather than particular green flags. If that makes sense.

It makes perfect sense Meli, it is what I was going to say, but as usual you have put it better than I could have, so I'll just agree with you "

I like you, Daizy.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago


"Plenty of red flags, but green flags not so much, a person has a certain je ne sais quoi "

This is it. It’s just hard to explain. And it won’t be the same thing someone else sees. That’s why we are not all attracted to the same people.

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By *ealitybitesMan
52 weeks ago

Belfast

The first thing I look for is consistency in pics, bio, veries and forum contributions.

If they are consistently consistent I will then look for signs that they don't take themselves too seriously and that being on here isn't a lifestyle choice.

If they tick all those boxes I might consider tickling theirs.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Kebabs, all things kebab.

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