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By *obilebottom OP   Man
43 weeks ago

All over

compliment a stranger in the street? Whilst out on lunch I passed this elderly lady, cetainly 75+ who was dressed realy stylish. She looked amazing so I told her so. She said first time anyone told her so in the street, thanked me and you could tell she loved the compliment. Not sure what made me do it but it felt good.

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By *a LunaWoman
43 weeks ago

South Wales

If someone had a haircut, hair colour or fashion style I may ask them where they got it but shyness tends to make me hesitant to engage with folk.

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By *stellaWoman
43 weeks ago

London

I compliment strangers a fair bit.

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
43 weeks ago

All over


"I compliment strangers a fair bit. "

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
43 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

If someone has fabulous shoes or amazing makeup or something that really appeals to me on a style level, I'll often compliment them on that.

If its just physical assets or overall attractiveness that draws me, I prefer not to. I know those sort of comments aren't welcome to me, so I wouldn't expect anyone else to appreciate them

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
43 weeks ago

London

Generally no but if I'm having some kind of interaction then I might if I like something. Like if a waitress has nice nails or something.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Yes, if I see a cashier with a nice jumper, new set of nails etc I say I like them.

I probably wouldn't dead out stop a stranger in the street though, no.

Miss S x

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
43 weeks ago

All over


"If someone has fabulous shoes or amazing makeup or something that really appeals to me on a style level, I'll often compliment them on that.

If its just physical assets or overall attractiveness that draws me, I prefer not to. I know those sort of comments aren't welcome to me, so I wouldn't expect anyone else to appreciate them "

It was the fact that she looked amazing for an older woman and even had a beautiful vivid colour hat on, could have been on a catwalk and I like it when elderly people don't give on such things as looking good. Anyway, the main thing is that she was obviously very happy to receive the compliment.

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
43 weeks ago

All over


"Yes, if I see a cashier with a nice jumper, new set of nails etc I say I like them.

I probably wouldn't dead out stop a stranger in the street though, no.

Miss S x"

It was not quite like that . I was looking at some clothes in a shop window, she came to look herself and stood next to me, she smiled and was then I said it. It was not a tap on the shoulder.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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43 weeks ago

East Sussex

I do. I saw a woman in a dress that was obviously crochet. She looked great and I told her, she told me she'd made it her self and had them in several colours. I have told other women they look good too.

I would never compliment a man I didn't know because, ya' know

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By *martin1001Man
43 weeks ago

Bromsgrove

Yes, if someone has cracking tits or even just a smashing blouse on, I will let them know. The judge said he was taking that into consideration!

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
43 weeks ago

All over


"Yes, if someone has cracking tits or even just a smashing blouse on, I will let them know. The judge said he was taking that into consideration!"

Now that is not what I meant at all

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
43 weeks ago

All over


"I do. I saw a woman in a dress that was obviously crochet. She looked great and I told her, she told me she'd made it her self and had them in several colours. I have told other women they look good too.

I would never compliment a man I didn't know because, ya' know "

I have complimented male colleagues before if they had a nice haircut or were wearing an unsual nice tie etc. Never a problem but obviously would not do that with just anyone.

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By *sWyldWoman
43 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I have many times and wlll again.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

43 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I do. I saw a woman in a dress that was obviously crochet. She looked great and I told her, she told me she'd made it her self and had them in several colours. I have told other women they look good too.

I would never compliment a man I didn't know because, ya' know

I have complimented male colleagues before if they had a nice haircut or were wearing an unsual nice tie etc. Never a problem but obviously would not do that with just anyone. "

A woman complimenting a man she doesn't know is not recommended because it's often misconstrued

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By *angerouslemaisonsMan
43 weeks ago

Peterborough

I do it regularly and people are always shocked and confused but happy

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By *erdyCurvyInkedPervyWoman
43 weeks ago

West Yorkshire

I try to because it's a nice thing to do, and usually makes people happy.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
43 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales

All the time, it’s good to make people smile.

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By *hunky GentMan
43 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"All the time, it’s good to make people smile. "

Smile and the world smiles with you.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

43 weeks ago

East Sussex

I went in to a charity shop last year dressed in chunky boots with chains, jeans and a leather biker jacket. The manager a guy, said "I love your look, you must stick out like a sore thumb round here" . I was happy that I'd obviously made an impression on him and also hugely amused

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By *hunky GentMan
43 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I went in to a charity shop last year dressed in chunky boots with chains, jeans and a leather biker jacket. The manager a guy, said "I love your look, you must stick out like a sore thumb round here" . I was happy that I'd obviously made an impression on him and also hugely amused "

I wondered where my boots went.

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By *rosMan
43 weeks ago

Portugal Albufeira

I always compliment women on there outfits even something simple as a scarf men not so much lol don't think think I've ever complimented a random man

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
43 weeks ago

All over


"I went in to a charity shop last year dressed in chunky boots with chains, jeans and a leather biker jacket. The manager a guy, said "I love your look, you must stick out like a sore thumb round here" . I was happy that I'd obviously made an impression on him and also hugely amused "

And you are not even 75+ Hopefully you will still do then too

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

43 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I went in to a charity shop last year dressed in chunky boots with chains, jeans and a leather biker jacket. The manager a guy, said "I love your look, you must stick out like a sore thumb round here" . I was happy that I'd obviously made an impression on him and also hugely amused

I wondered where my boots went. "

Well they're very uncomfortable

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

43 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I went in to a charity shop last year dressed in chunky boots with chains, jeans and a leather biker jacket. The manager a guy, said "I love your look, you must stick out like a sore thumb round here" . I was happy that I'd obviously made an impression on him and also hugely amused

And you are not even 75+ Hopefully you will still do then too "

I intend to stick out like a sore thumb until they carry me out in my box

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
43 weeks ago

All over


"I went in to a charity shop last year dressed in chunky boots with chains, jeans and a leather biker jacket. The manager a guy, said "I love your look, you must stick out like a sore thumb round here" . I was happy that I'd obviously made an impression on him and also hugely amused

And you are not even 75+ Hopefully you will still do then too

I intend to stick out like a sore thumb until they carry me out in my box "

I was hoping you say that

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By *hunky GentMan
43 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I went in to a charity shop last year dressed in chunky boots with chains, jeans and a leather biker jacket. The manager a guy, said "I love your look, you must stick out like a sore thumb round here" . I was happy that I'd obviously made an impression on him and also hugely amused

I wondered where my boots went.

Well they're very uncomfortable "

Charming

Probably 5 sizes too big.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

43 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I went in to a charity shop last year dressed in chunky boots with chains, jeans and a leather biker jacket. The manager a guy, said "I love your look, you must stick out like a sore thumb round here" . I was happy that I'd obviously made an impression on him and also hugely amused

I wondered where my boots went.

Well they're very uncomfortable

Charming

Probably 5 sizes too big. "

I put loo roll in the toes

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By *hunky GentMan
43 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I went in to a charity shop last year dressed in chunky boots with chains, jeans and a leather biker jacket. The manager a guy, said "I love your look, you must stick out like a sore thumb round here" . I was happy that I'd obviously made an impression on him and also hugely amused

I wondered where my boots went.

Well they're very uncomfortable

Charming

Probably 5 sizes too big.

I put loo roll in the toes "

Kinky

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By *andy CanesWoman
43 weeks ago

south


"Yes, if someone has cracking tits or even just a smashing blouse on, I will let them know. The judge said he was taking that into consideration!"
have you had a slap in the face yet for saying “cracking tits” ?

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago


"Yes, if I see a cashier with a nice jumper, new set of nails etc I say I like them.

I probably wouldn't dead out stop a stranger in the street though, no.

Miss S x

It was not quite like that . I was looking at some clothes in a shop window, she came to look herself and stood next to me, she smiled and was then I said it. It was not a tap on the shoulder. "

See I was thinking and was going to explain if something like this was to happen I would, it makes more sense

Miss S x

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By *lder.Woman
43 weeks ago

Not Local

I dont think I do, but I would like too.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
43 weeks ago

Kidsgrove

Not often, but yes I do. More commonly I say ooooh, you smell nice, what perfume/aftershave are you wearing ? I love nice smells.

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By *weet6Woman
43 weeks ago

East Riding

As often as I can.

Makes me feel good to smile at and compliment someone.

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By *ister_EMan
43 weeks ago

Hayling Island

Something I do all the time. But always give it a moment of consideration before you speak!

Saying the right thing can brighten someone's day, but saying the wrong thing at the wrong time can easily come across as very creepy and even scare people....

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By *r_PinkMan
43 weeks ago

london stratford

I often do.

compliments are a nice thing to give as long as they are genuine

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
43 weeks ago

St Leonards

Yes I have and do.

I try to preface it by making sure I'm not in their personal space and always try to make it seem like they've genuinely brightened my day rather than I'm after something.

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By *he Gentleman 84Man
43 weeks ago

North East

I do this a lot not in the street but at work I notice small details & changes a lot so will throw a compliment as if I can make someone’s day a little brighter I will

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By *onameyet2Man
43 weeks ago

chorley

Quite a few guys in the gym have asked others what smellies they’re wearing, I’m old enough to remember when that would never have happened.

Change for the better me thinks

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
43 weeks ago

All over


"Yes I have and do.

I try to preface it by making sure I'm not in their personal space and always try to make it seem like they've genuinely brightened my day rather than I'm after something.

"

Indeed, and it was definately mutually happy faces

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
43 weeks ago

St Leonards


"Yes I have and do.

I try to preface it by making sure I'm not in their personal space and always try to make it seem like they've genuinely brightened my day rather than I'm after something.

Indeed, and it was definately mutually happy faces "

I love a good pair of mutually happy faces xxxx

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