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By *ensuallover1000 OP Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Good folks: Do you fall in love easily?

If your answer is no and perhaps you are more guarded now, would you say that you used to fall in love more easily?

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"Good folks: Do you fall in love easily?

If your answer is no and perhaps you are more guarded now, would you say that you used to fall in love more easily?

I have never and will never fall in love easily

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By *agic johnsonMan
over a year ago

morden

Used to definitely, but now since I got divorced I just can't take that step after feeling like I failed with the marriage x Took a long time to get over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Extremely easily all it takes is looking in the mirror in the morning

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Yeah probably. I love quite easily.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

No, I don't fall in love easily at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope never have found it easy...and don't see that changing.

Just my opinion...but if it came so easily...I'd question it's value.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

sure, that sounds like me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only ever fallen in love once, so no I don't think I find it easy.

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By *olfandtazCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

One of my previous relationships destroyed my mentally, emotionally and physically. It took me years to get to a point where I felt ready for a relationship.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Hmm.

No.

All connections come with some level of emotion, some a lot more than others. And I care deeply for the people I choose to keep close to me.

It's rare for anything to approach the emotional intensity of the L word for me, though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I don’t and never do. It takes a special woman to make it to the point where I trust her enough to love her.

I love the barmaid though, how was she puts a little Shamrock on my Guinness.

I can like people easily, and have a love for a friendship easily, but real romantic loving feelings come hard.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Fall in love? No. I've fallen in love with two people in my life, the last time was a few years ago now. I can love quite fiercely, deeply care about people but I don't "fall" in love easily.

I do care about people quite quickly once I let my guard down, that's good enough for me.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Falling in love? That doesn’t sound at all like me.

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By *ewcatWoman
over a year ago

Berkshire

No.

I form emotional and physical connections but the big L is not easily found.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I used to.

It’d take an army to break down my wall now.

Oh that doesn’t sound too bad actually

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

What's love got to do with it,

What's love but a second hand emotion....

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

I think I'm less guarded as i think falling in love is a great thing and realise that when it ends it's not the end of the world. I haven't had much love in my life so feel I want to embrace it whenever it surfaces.

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By *aximus74Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

No... when I trust someone whole heartedly then I will "love them to bits" in a caring kind of way.. but to "fall IN love" means letting all my walls down and letting somebody in and that is never going to happen (I don't think anyway) x

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By *sWyldWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

In some ways yes and in other ways no.

I love, love and I'm a big hopeful romantic (I refuse to believe it's hopeless)

I can get carried away in the moments and love the feelings they bring. I love all the feels in general and I guess in many ways being single really allows me the luxury to indulge in them.

I think I'm probably always going to be a little bit in love with someone at any given point in my life. I don't see that as a bad thing. Even if it is unrequited, sure that hurts but it's just who I am

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I’d say fairly easily? Or at least I’ve found people that I’ve fallen in love with recently. Maybe it’s because I’ve opened myself up to it and realised that the big L isn’t a taboo and should be welcomed, maybe it’s because I’ve been lucky enough to meet people that I’ve found that connection with

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By *lder.Woman
over a year ago

Not Local

Possibly yes. But Im not sure that what I fall into is love, even in long term things. I'll keep going and see what happens with the next one

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat

I used to. Not any more. My nomadic lifestyle and desire to remain single and fully independent is not conducive to a full on loving relationship so I don't allow myself to entertain that emotion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't.

Probably stems from psychological trust issues from childhood.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

I have fallen in love proper love anyway exactly 1 time and thats enough for me

I wont allow it again and dilute it

Im happy to just like someone

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