FabSwingers.com forum: Winking etiquette

By *illy Idol OP Man
52 weeks ago

Midlands

What's the etiquette with winks

on here?

If someone sends you a wink and you wink back, do you grab the bull by the horns and make the first move? Or do you sit and wait?

If you came here to say you don't like/send winks, go away.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
52 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I don’t like/send winks

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
52 weeks ago

London

I never check the wink box

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

If you wink and they then wink back it’s now your move

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
52 weeks ago

Essex

First winker sends the winkee as message. Otherwise you’re a wanker and there’ll be no playing with winkie.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

If someone winks us, we tend to have a nose and if we like what we see we'll drop the first message

Miss S x

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By *illy Idol OP Man
52 weeks ago

Midlands

"First winker sends the winkee as message. Otherwise you’re a wanker and there’ll be no playing with winkie."

I think wanker is a bit strong, but that's your opinion. However I agree with you on the rest

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By *icecouple561Couple
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52 weeks ago

East Sussex

Countless times we've returned a wink and there's been radio silence. If someone returns a wink I think it's the green light to message

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By *aximus2589Man
52 weeks ago

st.helens

I wink all the time no one ever gets back so now I'm just a wanker that winks a lot

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By *ealitybitesMan
52 weeks ago

Belfast

Some people expect the person they are winking to carry the load and make the first move in regard to messaging.

I've had dozens of winks over the years that I've winked back and that's where the engagement ended.

I don't send first contact messages and haven't done for 4 years so I therefore don't wink at people either.

If they can't be arsed sending a message that's not on me

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By *orny-DJMan
52 weeks ago

Leigh-on-Sea

I've learned to ignore winks because whenever I've responded to one, I've been ignored or, in some cases, even blocked.

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By *illy Idol OP Man
52 weeks ago

Midlands

"I wink all the time no one ever gets back so now I'm just a wanker that winks a lot"

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By *illy Idol OP Man
52 weeks ago

Midlands

"Some people expect the person they are winking to carry the load and make the first move in regard to messaging.

I've had dozens of winks over the years that I've winked back and that's where the engagement ended.

I don't send first contact messages and haven't done for 4 years so I therefore don't wink at people either.

If they can't be arsed sending a message that's not on me

I hear you RB.

I've always said "lazy on the keyboard, lazy on the headboard"

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By *iss LovelyWoman
52 weeks ago

Here and There

If someone winks me, the most I’ll do is wink back. If they don’t message me then we’ll stay strangers.

Broadly I don’t check winks though. I like a forthright man and for me a wink is a little mild for my taste.

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By *illy Idol OP Man
52 weeks ago

Midlands

"I've learned to ignore winks because whenever I've responded to one, I've been ignored or, in some cases, even blocked."

Seems harsh on their behalf, DJ

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

I never send winks but I state in my profile that if you're interested to send a wink. That way there's no pressure for them to message and at least I know there's interest there to make first contact. I don't get why some women and couples will send a wink, and still not reply to the first message though

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By *illy Idol OP Man
52 weeks ago

Midlands

"I never send winks but I state in my profile that if you're interested to send a wink. That way there's no pressure for them to message and at least I know there's interest there to make first contact. I don't get why some women and couples will send a wink, and still not reply to the first message though

They're toying with you, Joe

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By *hriscooperMan
52 weeks ago

Warrington

It seems most ladies either never look at the winks or see them as a lazy attempt to get in touch.

If I'm honest, that's a bit hippocritical if they expect you to write a decent message for them to just either hit delete or block as most do. But that's fab for you I guess. I understand that the ladies get bombarded with winks and messages in the hundreds though. It is what it is.

I think I've only had 2 or 3 respinses to winks, luckily one of them is now my fb.. So they do work..

So they can work if you wink at someone that understands what they're for and aren't just a lazy attempt to contact them.

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By *atermelodyMan
52 weeks ago

"First winker sends the winkee as message. Otherwise you’re a wanker and there’ll be no playing with winkie."

Love that

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
52 weeks ago

tf1

Don’t even look at winks or friend requests.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
52 weeks ago

Leeds

We have had some good meets that started with a wink, however I don't bother much these days when I've winked back we hear nothing & it baffles me

Mrs

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By *cnugatugMan
52 weeks ago

Chatham

I wink to show interest and if I get a wink back then I'll take the first shot and message

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By *aizyWoman
52 weeks ago

west midlands

Wink, wink back, first person who winked send's a msg, thats how I use them anyway.

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By *JandJJCouple
52 weeks ago

Nuneaton

"What's the etiquette with winks

on here?

If someone sends you a wink and you wink back, do you grab the bull by the horns and make the first move? Or do you sit and wait?

If you came here to say you don't like/send winks, go away."

First thing to do is to have the manners to check if they like winks or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

They're toying with you, Joe"

It's a bloody liberty is what it is!

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By *illy Idol OP Man
52 weeks ago

Midlands

"What's the etiquette with winks

on here?

If someone sends you a wink and you wink back, do you grab the bull by the horns and make the first move? Or do you sit and wait?

If you came here to say you don't like/send winks, go away.

First thing to do is to have the manners to check if they like winks or not."

Absolutely, PJandJJ

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
52 weeks ago

Maidstone

Try me

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By *illy Idol OP Man
52 weeks ago

Midlands

They're toying with you, Joe

It's a bloody liberty is what it is!"

Either that or your first messages are terrible. Food for thought

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Do guys get noticed if they wink?

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By *illy Idol OP Man
52 weeks ago

Midlands

"Try me

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By *illy Idol OP Man
52 weeks ago

Midlands

"Do guys get noticed if they wink?

Some do, some don't. Those are the rules

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
52 weeks ago

Maidstone

"Try me

Ps I could do this all day...

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

I do enjoy a wink or 2…. I guess it’s a quick way of seeing if potential is reciprocated … if a wink response is given then I’ll send a message ….

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Fucks sake. I was thinking of winking back a couple of winks I've had but I am just bamboozled now with the etiquette.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
52 weeks ago

Maidstone

"I do enjoy a wink or 2…. I guess it’s a quick way of seeing if potential is reciprocated … if a wink response is given then I’ll send a message ….

Testing, testing

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"I do enjoy a wink or 2…. I guess it’s a quick way of seeing if potential is reciprocated … if a wink response is given then I’ll send a message ….

Testing, testing

One , two…. Message

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By *TG3Man
52 weeks ago

Dorchester

If they wink me i let them send a message

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"Fucks sake. I was thinking of winking back a couple of winks I've had but I am just bamboozled now with the etiquette.

Bull by the horns is what I heard

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"Fucks sake. I was thinking of winking back a couple of winks I've had but I am just bamboozled now with the etiquette.

Bull by the horns is what I heard

I am a retiring wallflower..

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"Fucks sake. I was thinking of winking back a couple of winks I've had but I am just bamboozled now with the etiquette.

Bull by the horns is what I heard

I am a retiring wallflower..

Well snap out of that buttercup…. Cease the day hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"Fucks sake. I was thinking of winking back a couple of winks I've had but I am just bamboozled now with the etiquette.

Bull by the horns is what I heard

I am a retiring wallflower..

Well snap out of that buttercup…. Cease the day hehe

Seize it? Buttercup?

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"Fucks sake. I was thinking of winking back a couple of winks I've had but I am just bamboozled now with the etiquette.

Bull by the horns is what I heard

I am a retiring wallflower..

Well snap out of that buttercup…. Cease the day hehe

Seize it? Buttercup?

Oh god damn even my pretend authoritative approach failed

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"Fucks sake. I was thinking of winking back a couple of winks I've had but I am just bamboozled now with the etiquette.

Bull by the horns is what I heard

I am a retiring wallflower..

Well snap out of that buttercup…. Cease the day hehe

Seize it? Buttercup?

Oh god damn even my pretend authoritative approach failed

It will stay between us, don't worry

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By *entlemanFoxMan
52 weeks ago

North East / London

"Countless times we've returned a wink and there's been radio silence. If someone returns a wink I think it's the green light to message "

Yes, I agree, this is how it should work.

Equally, I have had a similar experience, having winked back to an initial wink then nothing. If the initiator cannot be bothered to message having had a positive response, they are hardly likely to meet so nothing lost.

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By *essaMayWoman
52 weeks ago

Fairytale Wood

Just delete - don't accept winks or unsolicited friend requests - it say's so in profile. Shows they haven't read it

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
52 weeks ago

Somewhere else

I read this as “wanking etiquette”

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
52 weeks ago

Somewhere else

"If they wink me i let them send a message

It’s true, I had to send the first message because Fred plays hard to get.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"Fucks sake. I was thinking of winking back a couple of winks I've had but I am just bamboozled now with the etiquette.

Bull by the horns is what I heard

I am a retiring wallflower..

Well snap out of that buttercup…. Cease the day hehe

Seize it? Buttercup?

Oh god damn even my pretend authoritative approach failed

It will stay between us, don't worry

Good … I wouldn’t want to look stupid in front of a whole room full of strangers

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By *TG3Man
52 weeks ago

Dorchester

"If they wink me i let them send a message

It’s true, I had to send the first message because Fred plays hard to get."
Hey stop giving my secrets Away

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
52 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales

If I wink and I get one back that’s basically an open invitation into my vagina. I very rarely wink. I’m too scared.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"Fucks sake. I was thinking of winking back a couple of winks I've had but I am just bamboozled now with the etiquette.

Bull by the horns is what I heard

I am a retiring wallflower..

Well snap out of that buttercup…. Cease the day hehe

Seize it? Buttercup?

Oh god damn even my pretend authoritative approach failed

It will stay between us, don't worry

Good … I wouldn’t want to look stupid in front of a whole room full of strangers

God no. Can you imagine?

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"If I wink and I get one back that’s basically an open invitation into my vagina. I very rarely wink. I’m too scared. "

I'm scared too now.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
52 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I delete all winks

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"I delete all winks "

Men across Fab weep with frustration!

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"I delete all winks

Men across Fab weep with frustration! "

I know I was going to send one.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"Fucks sake. I was thinking of winking back a couple of winks I've had but I am just bamboozled now with the etiquette.

Bull by the horns is what I heard

I am a retiring wallflower..

Well snap out of that buttercup…. Cease the day hehe

Seize it? Buttercup?

Oh god damn even my pretend authoritative approach failed

It will stay between us, don't worry

Good … I wouldn’t want to look stupid in front of a whole room full of strangers

God no. Can you imagine?

My winks would be ignored …. My messages would receive no response …I’d be outcast ….

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"I delete all winks

Men across Fab weep with frustration!

I know I was going to send one.

Poor woody

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"Fucks sake. I was thinking of winking back a couple of winks I've had but I am just bamboozled now with the etiquette.

Bull by the horns is what I heard

I am a retiring wallflower..

Well snap out of that buttercup…. Cease the day hehe

Seize it? Buttercup?

Oh god damn even my pretend authoritative approach failed

It will stay between us, don't worry

Good … I wouldn’t want to look stupid in front of a whole room full of strangers

God no. Can you imagine?

My winks would be ignored …. My messages would receive no response …I’d be outcast ….

Thanks for the Fabs though

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By *iscean_dreamMan
52 weeks ago

Llanelli

Winks seem mostly pointless, I get winks and if interested I wink back and sometimes send a message as well to say thank you for the wink etc and then usually get nothing back

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By *iscean_dreamMan
52 weeks ago

Llanelli

"I delete all winks "

I lose a mm in lenth every time this happens

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"I delete all winks

Men across Fab weep with frustration!

I know I was going to send one.

Poor woody

Ouch. I’m sending it to you instead then now.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"Fucks sake. I was thinking of winking back a couple of winks I've had but I am just bamboozled now with the etiquette.

Bull by the horns is what I heard

I am a retiring wallflower..

Well snap out of that buttercup…. Cease the day hehe

Seize it? Buttercup?

Oh god damn even my pretend authoritative approach failed

It will stay between us, don't worry

Good … I wouldn’t want to look stupid in front of a whole room full of strangers

God no. Can you imagine?

My winks would be ignored …. My messages would receive no response …I’d be outcast ….

Thanks for the Fabs though

Well appreciation where it’s due

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By *inger_SnapWoman
52 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"I delete all winks

Men across Fab weep with frustration! "

Well they should read the prof... Oh wait, they CBA

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By *inger_SnapWoman
52 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"I delete all winks

Men across Fab weep with frustration!

I know I was going to send one.

I mean you still can... But you'll be wasting your valuable time

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"I delete all winks

Men across Fab weep with frustration!

I know I was going to send one.

Poor woody

Ouch. I’m sending it to you instead then now.

I don't feel second best not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"If you wink and they then wink back it’s now your move"

This. I hope.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"I delete all winks

Men across Fab weep with frustration!

I know I was going to send one.

I mean you still can... But you'll be wasting your valuable time

I still can’t!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"I delete all winks

Men across Fab weep with frustration!

I know I was going to send one.

Poor woody

Ouch. I’m sending it to you instead then now.

I don't feel second best not at all

That took me a lot of work to get that to you….

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
52 weeks ago

Somewhere else

"If they wink me i let them send a message

It’s true, I had to send the first message because Fred plays hard to get.Hey stop giving my secrets Away

Oh forgot to say…

Maybe

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By *inger_SnapWoman
52 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"I delete all winks

Men across Fab weep with frustration!

I know I was going to send one.

Poor woody

Ouch. I’m sending it to you instead then now.

I don't feel second best not at all

What's for you, won't pass you by...

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By *oberto7Man
52 weeks ago

Greenock

Plenty of wankers on here Oops ment winkers lol

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
52 weeks ago

Somewhere else

"What's the etiquette with winks

on here?

If someone sends you a wink and you wink back, do you grab the bull by the horns and make the first move? Or do you sit and wait?

If you came here to say you don't like/send winks, go away."

Everyone has their own etiquette for this, I would imagine.

My filters are closed so if I want someone to be able to message me I will sometimes send a wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

I don't send winks and don't respond to them.

At least a little bit of effort in a message is required to get a response...

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
52 weeks ago

Somewhere else

"I don't send winks and don't respond to them.

At least a little bit of effort in a message is required to get a response..."

*sends you a wink so I can moan about your lack of response*

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By *olfandtazCouple
52 weeks ago

Bristol

Wink and if we like back then we start a conversation.

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By *illy Idol OP Man
52 weeks ago

Midlands

Can I just say thank you ladies, for the increase in winks today

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By *ewcatWoman
52 weeks ago

Berkshire

I was meant to wink? Eek, sorry I just dived right in with messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"I delete all winks

Men across Fab weep with frustration!

I know I was going to send one.

Poor woody

Ouch. I’m sending it to you instead then now.

I don't feel second best not at all

That took me a lot of work to get that to you….

And I'm suitably grateful

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
52 weeks ago

Central

"Wink, wink back, first person who winked send's a msg, thats how I use them anyway."

I'm the same. They have been useful to me, over the years used in this way

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By *obilebottomMan
52 weeks ago

All over

They are nice and are a good icebreaker. I sometimes don't notice them. I wish they were all yellow like the inbox.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
52 weeks ago

London

I keep reading this as 'wanking etiquette'

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By *orbidden eastMan
52 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

"If you wink and they then wink back it’s now your move"

Simple as that

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By *eliWoman
52 weeks ago

I don't think too much about it. If I want to wink, which is rare, I do. If they wink me? I might see it, I might not. I might message them, I might not. It's quite simple. :D

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By *irmhandmancMan
52 weeks ago

Bolton

"First winker sends the winkee as message. Otherwise you’re a wanker and there’ll be no playing with winkie."

lol

I like this version!!!

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By *eyond PurityCouple
52 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

A wink is a ‘come and have a look at me’

So it’s strange when people wink and have absolutely nothing to view on their profile or just dick pics

Also when you wink back after receiving one and nothing happens it’s a bit weird

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By *sWyldWoman
52 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I never look at them and very rarely send them. For me they are a bit of a pointless feature

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By *erry bull1Man
52 weeks ago

doncaster

It’s a lazy way of saying hi

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"It’s a lazy way of saying hi "

I understand this sentiment exactly, it's the equivalent of somebody on tinder just messaging you "hi" I can't stand that and ignore those.

But.....

I don't agree with it being lazy in fab world.

And here is why..

I don't think it's fair that we accept that it's OK for women to not reply to the 100's messages a day they get from guys, and in the same breath tell guys that they have to write out a lengthy message to the 100's of women.

I know the response is "guys don't need to message 100 women" but realistically, with the ratio on here guys have to reach out to alot of women to get a response.

I've messaged maybe 10 women on locals, im always very polite, friendly, the first few I sent out when I first started admittedly were brief "hey how's it going, I liked your profile and just wanted to touch base to see if you fancied a chat, if not, take care"

After that, I spent quite a bit of time looking through profiles and putting together (what I thought) were good thoughtful messages.

To still get zero response.

So, I don't think a wink is lazy at all.

We are all adults, we are all busy, we all have responsibilities, your time isn't more precious than my time.

A wink for me is showing somebody that you are interested in their profile, if they wink back, then I know its worth me investing my time to initiate a conversation with them.

I'm no longer sending long, thortful messages to someone who might just look at my pics and go "nah" and not even read what I wrote.

And I'm not saying I have an issue with women not replying, I agree with them not replying, it's too time consuming, but surely it's fair to have the same respect for the guys time no?

A mutual wink saves everybody's time.

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By *weet6Woman
52 weeks ago

East Riding

"Do guys get noticed if they wink?

Some do, some don't. Those are the rules"

If they're worth noticing...

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
52 weeks ago

Somewhere else

The greatest fab love story never told… started with a wink.

Maybe

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By *agneto.Man
52 weeks ago

Bham

I notice winks after about 6 months and then it's to late to do anything with them.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
52 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

If someone winks me, I follow up with a message if I like them

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By *illy Idol OP Man
52 weeks ago

Midlands

"The greatest fab love story never told… started with a wink.

Maybe

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By *searchingMan
52 weeks ago

hmmm

If I receive a wink, then I will reply in kind and follow up with a message. Seems the right thing to do

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
52 weeks ago

Southampton

"If I receive a wink, then I will reply in kind and follow up with a message. Seems the right thing to do"

Testing this theory lol

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By *searchingMan
52 weeks ago

hmmm

"If I receive a wink, then I will reply in kind and follow up with a message. Seems the right thing to do

Testing this theory lol"

And?…

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
52 weeks ago

Southampton

"If I receive a wink, then I will reply in kind and follow up with a message. Seems the right thing to do

Testing this theory lol

And?…"

I works

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By *ake_or_deathMan
52 weeks ago

Manchester

I don't mind receiving Winks. They prompt me to check out the profile and if I like what I see I'll wink back or say hello.

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By *ornucopiaMan
52 weeks ago

Bexley

Watch out for groups of blokes who are incapable of engaging in conversation and who are always hanging around winking, often furtively under a towel.

They are known as 'The Winking Dead'.

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By *ougarsilkWoman
52 weeks ago

Pleasure heaven

Mm is there an etiquette? If I receive one I may check them out and message with a thanks. I wouldn't send a wink back. As for sending think I've only ever sent two. Far easier to fab one of their pics . It catches their eye too

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