FabSwingers.com forum: Telling a lady

By *iHungMike OP Man
43 weeks ago

Shaw

I always tell a lady if she looks good even if I don't know them it always brings a smile to their faces if she's taken time to do her hair and makeup etc why not, just wondering what ladies or guys think about it

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
43 weeks ago

Leeds

I don't like compliments from strangers.

Mrs

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By *he Silver FuxMan
43 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

Creepy harassment from random men always gets a smile.

If you’re about to argue that:

A. It’s not creepy, I’m not creepy.

B. It’s not harassment

Just shake your head and check yourself… and leave women alone

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Am not into compliments, I dont need anyone to tell me I look good

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
43 weeks ago

Reading

we don't like it from strangers. . We smile because we are polite.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
43 weeks ago

Next Door

I find compliments from strange gents a bit creepy, but I do say thank you and pass it off. Probably because of the world we live in and where compliments aren't really given anymore or used with other motives

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By *eliWoman
43 weeks ago

I think you know your audience and whether it's a good idea or not.

I think you can give a compliment to a stranger without being a creep but it's a fine line to tread.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
43 weeks ago

Southampton

"I always tell a lady if she looks good even if I don't know them it always brings a smile to their faces if she's taken time to do her hair and makeup etc why not, just wondering what ladies or guys think about it"

I like it

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
43 weeks ago

Worcester

If you mean in your everyday life, I think you shouldn’t make that kind of comment to women you don’t know well (like work colleagues) unless you would also routinely give an identical comment to the men you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Me too. I go even further and honk their bezonders because they enjoy that. Then give them a little slap on the ass before seeing them go off on their dainty little ways.

Women are such cute little things.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

I always make sure to avoid any and all contact with women I don’t know, seeing as they are lesser than men, in multiple different ways, I don’t want to intimidate or scare them.

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
43 weeks ago

Farnborough

Very occasionally when out shopping, and being served in shops, have very kind ladies said, just to let you know, I think you look fabulous and very elegant.

A couple of times when browsing, I have also been stopped by young ladies, who have also commented on how good I look.

I will be honest, I find such comments soooo uplifting … it really does mean such a lot!

R xx

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By *onameyet2Man
43 weeks ago

chorley

"I think you know your audience and whether it's a good idea or not.

I think you can give a compliment to a stranger without being a creep but it's a fine line to tread."

Well said Meli, and it would be a shit world if you couldn’t compliment someone without being labelled a creep?

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By *aving_great_funMan
43 weeks ago

London

"I find compliments from strange gents a bit creepy, but I do say thank you and pass it off. Probably because of the world we live in and where compliments aren't really given anymore or used with other motives "

Your photos look lovely...

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
43 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I'm not a fan of compliments from random men in general

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
43 weeks ago

Staffordshire

At which point I'd reply:

"I didn't ask"

- D x

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By *essaMayWoman
43 weeks ago

Fairytale Wood

Complements on here are empty, without any kind of sincerity and meaningless. They are simply words used by guys thinking it will get them a shag. They simply think they are magic words to open your legs.

Again complements from stranger outside 95% of the time are sexually orientated. Only Complements i accept are from people i know and know they are genuine.

But there are many that need complements and go out if their way to get them however shallow, empty or insincere.

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By *mf123Man
43 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

I always tell ladies to pick up that pen behind em but thats for different reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Bit like the old wolf whistle

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By *mf123Man
43 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

"Bit like the old wolf whistle

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its ok they cant hear it its too high pitched

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

I would be flattered if someone paid me a nice compliment. I wouldn't find it offensive unless they were crude.

It's a very sad world when someone can't tell someone else they look lovely without causing offence.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
43 weeks ago

Merseyside

I always try to compliment people it’s nice to make people feel nice

and makes you feel good when they smile

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By *moothstaffspeepsCouple
43 weeks ago

Stafford

We always compliment

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By *adCherriesCouple
43 weeks ago

Cheshire/Northwest

"I would be flattered if someone paid me a nice compliment. I wouldn't find it offensive unless they were crude.

It's a very sad world when someone can't tell someone else they look lovely without causing offence."

Agreed... I miss wolf whistling

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
43 weeks ago

East Sussex

A genuine, off the cuff compliment from anyone, with no agenda other than you think they look good is nice.

Men I don't know never compliment me nowadays but when I was younger it was rarely 'just because ' and usually had a sexual undertone eg 'i love your dress it makes your tits look great '. Women I don't know fairly often compliment my hair or clothes

For tips on how to genuinely compliment strangers of all genders see Troy Hawke.

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By *mf123Man
43 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Asking if shes had the lips done on her camel toe does not count as a complement iv found

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By *kcouple1973Couple
43 weeks ago

colchester

"We always compliment "

Same here

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
43 weeks ago

Norwich

"Me too. I go even further and honk their bezonders because they enjoy that. Then give them a little slap on the ass before seeing them go off on their dainty little ways.

Women are such cute little things."

Hey Donald, how have you been?

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By *mf123Man
43 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Altho asking a guy if he was stung by a bee in the pants is taken as one

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By *imi_RougeWoman
43 weeks ago

Portsmouth

As long as it feels genuine and not creepy it's ok.

Like a compliment about something I'm wearing or my hair is completely acceptable.

Just not about body parts... It's definitely a fine line.

I like to compliment people too and make them smile.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
43 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"A genuine, off the cuff compliment from anyone, with no agenda other than you think they look good is nice.

For tips on how to genuinely compliment strangers of all genders see Troy Hawke. "

Yes!!! I love him, he's so funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

If I’m talking to them and know them fairly well, sure.

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By *TG3Man
43 weeks ago

Dorchester

I had a woman and her son compliment my dress sense the other day i appreciate a nice compliment

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By *andy CanesWoman
43 weeks ago

south

From a randomer creepy from people I know I say thank you that’s nice of you to say

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Well that went well eh op?

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By *iss My AxeMan
43 weeks ago

Durham

"I always make sure to avoid any and all contact with women I don’t know, seeing as they are lesser than men, in multiple different ways, I don’t want to intimidate or scare them. "

I'm curious what you mean by women being "lesser than men in multiple different ways"

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

You posted this exact same thread 2 weeks ago, I wasn’t sure what the point was then and I’m still not…

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/introductions/1559601

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

You shouldn't have to say anything , a nice bit of eye contact and a smile says it all ....not a full on " here's Johnny " stare ...that's just creepy

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By *1sexypairCouple
43 weeks ago

Retford

I once had a complement from a lady whilst getting my car park ticket from the machine all she said was you smell nice. I turned around looked at her and just said thank you

With a smile made my day.

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By *iHungMike OP Man
43 weeks ago

Shaw

I did mean not full on just a nice compliment I'm definitely not creepy just trying to be nice

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By *iHungMike OP Man
43 weeks ago

Shaw

"You posted this exact same thread 2 weeks ago, I wasn’t sure what the point was then and I’m still not…

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/introductions/1559601"

I do apologise didn't realise I had

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By *iHungMike OP Man
43 weeks ago

Shaw

"As long as it feels genuine and not creepy it's ok.

Like a compliment about something I'm wearing or my hair is completely acceptable.

Just not about body parts... It's definitely a fine line.

I like to compliment people too and make them smile."

That's what I meant definitely not body parts that's so wrong just how someone looks is what I meant

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

I think a nice compliment with no sexual sub-text is lovely.

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By *laytonAMan
43 weeks ago

Newport

I send compliments to people here all the time. With no intention other than to share my admiration. I suspect lots are read and ignored but I've had a few people say thanks and once someone even complimented me back. Karma I guess.

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By *umalotagainMan
43 weeks ago

a town called malice

Dear oh dear what kind of world do

We live in where a compliment is creepy

I got told I smelt great the other day, twice on the same day once by a friend and once by a complete stranger, I thanked them both and didn’t feel the need to fuck either ( although the friend would definitely be on my to do list) as others have said I think a lot is about tone and words used.

But above all people just be nice to each other when you can

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
43 weeks ago

Naughty Lane

I don't do compliments...

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By *essaMayWoman
43 weeks ago

Fairytale Wood

The question I would ask is - What would motivate you or why would you go to perfect stranger and give them a complement.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

"The question I would ask is - What would motivate you or why would you go to perfect stranger and give them a complement."

Because it's nice to be nice, and it could actually be the one and only thing that makes a person smile that day.

I really don't understand why so many people on here are cynical and doubtful and think there has to be an ulterior motive other than just being nice. It's a sad world we live in.

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By *ellinever70Woman
43 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I hate the assumption that women are often glum and just need some stranger commenting on how they look to cheer them up.

Why not try being a comedian for a day

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
43 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

I'm more interested in why you do this ?

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By *eroLondonMan
43 weeks ago

Covent Garden

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I think about it in my mind.

My lips remain sealed however, as I go about my business.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
43 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

"I always try to compliment people it’s nice to make people feel nice

and makes you feel good when they smile

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Agreed but the O.P. isn't complimenting people.

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