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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you have people in your hotlist, you've never contacted ? Maybe its a confidence thing, the fear of rejection or maybe you keep them there as something to aspire to in the future.

Maybe revealing who they are might lead to them seeing your attraction then who knows......if you risk nothing, you gain nothing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have anyone in mine

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By *hoosy_strumpetCouple
over a year ago

W S AREA

nope

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I keep guys that look like they might be my type but I stalk them for a while to see if they do something to turn me off - usually by something they say in the forums or on their status....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I keep guys that look like they might be my type but I stalk them for a while to see if they do something to turn me off - usually by something they say in the forums or on their status.... "

The classic...I like them, ill ignore them and see what happens approach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't have anyone in mine either !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't have anyone in mine either !! "

Lol I feel a thread flop coming on. Maybe its a man thing

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"I keep guys that look like they might be my type but I stalk them for a while to see if they do something to turn me off - usually by something they say in the forums or on their status....

The classic...I like them, ill ignore them and see what happens approach "

Is it? Didn't realise that.

But I don't ignore them. If I stalk them and they still seem interesting I send them a message. Is that part of the classic approach too?

If so I'm obviously a classic approach kinda gal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No the one I had my eye on didnt respond to my messages so hot list empty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I keep guys that look like they might be my type but I stalk them for a while to see if they do something to turn me off - usually by something they say in the forums or on their status....

The classic...I like them, ill ignore them and see what happens approach

Is it? Didn't realise that.

But I don't ignore them. If I stalk them and they still seem interesting I send them a message. Is that part of the classic approach too?

If so I'm obviously a classic approach kinda gal "

Ahh that's different. Gosh you actually engage in conversation ? Careful you'll be on a hotlist !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No the one I had my eye on didnt respond to my messages so hot list empty "

Mmm things not always as they first appear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few on my hotlist but purely for perv satisfaction

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Nope. I have spoken to all of the ones in mine.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

The ones' on my hotlist are just so I can read their status messages and it's not in a good way, I'm just a nosy biatch at times

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

The word is misspelt

It's hitlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No the one I had my eye on didnt respond to my messages so hot list empty

Mmm things not always as they first appear. "

Interesting point,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The ones' on my hotlist are just so I can read their status messages and it's not in a good way, I'm just a nosy biatch at times "

Lol I applaud your honesty.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The word is misspelt

It's hitlist"

Something tells me you don't lack the confidence to contact your hitlist !

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By *aguarsCouple
over a year ago

wolverhampton

We put people we met and had good meet there

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

WHat is a hotlist?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"WHat is a hotlist?"

Are we playing innocent or is that genuine question !

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

when i put someone on my hotlist i do tell them . only good manners isnt it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I treat my hotlist as a to do list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep guys that look like they might be my type but I stalk them for a while to see if they do something to turn me off - usually by something they say in the forums or on their status.... "

I do this!

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"when i put someone on my hotlist i do tell them . only good manners isnt it ."

why is it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have loads of people in my hot list or hitlist if you will but have never contacted any of them....maybe will get the courage up one day.

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By *ohn Wilson96Man
over a year ago

from inside your wardrobe


"I have a few on my hotlist but purely for perv satisfaction "

Is that another name for a wank bank lol

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

I just put guys there that I like to perv at...

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hotlist isn't secret, if anyone asked me if they were on it I'd tell them.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"My hotlist isn't secret, if anyone asked me if they were on it I'd tell them. "

Am I on your hotlist??

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"My hotlist isn't secret, if anyone asked me if they were on it I'd tell them.

Am I on your hotlist?? "

Beat me to it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My hotlist isn't secret, if anyone asked me if they were on it I'd tell them. "

Wouldn't that be a weird message?

Most on ours are people that have winked etc. and that we like the look of but haven't decided to contact..yet.

We also add people that take cool photos to help with future ideas for our own (and a good perv obviously)

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

Yes got a few on our Hotlist who look Hot + we had some form of contact with but not ready to plan a meet because they:

out of area(but in an area we sometimes travel to)....new to Fab(some of them no longer on site after the usual 4 weeks ) )....we waiting for malehalfs pic!....they go to the same Club as us so Hotlist status update....nothing better than meeting someone from your Hotlist @ last

(susie)

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