FabSwingers.com forum: Good with words

By *mall.sausage OP Man
46 weeks ago

Rochdale

Im terrible with words and sometimes get paranoid,that some people look down on you because im dyslexic and also have no clue about add verbs , adjectives , only just learnt about pro nouns etc . Does that stuff really matter to you ?

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By *bi HaiveMan
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46 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

As long as I can read a message I'm not fussed by spelling.

Text speak however..........

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By *illy IdolMan
46 weeks ago

Midlands

No, not really

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
46 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

It looks like you can string a sentence together, so I wouldn't worry too much.

I couldn't tell you what most of those things are. This isn't mensa

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By *icecouple561Couple
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46 weeks ago

East Sussex

It doesn't bother me. I asked for information on grammar in a thread recently. People were kind enough to advise me.

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By *allandathleticMan
46 weeks ago

Asgard

As long as there isn't any LA /south london style gang language "bruv, fam, home boy....."

Eughh I just vomited a little bit.

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
46 weeks ago

City Centre

OP I think anyone worth their salt will appreciate your efforts.

You'll gain more confidence as time goes on. You just gotta grab the bull by the horns and write what you'd like to say.

We all make mistakes. Big deal.

Just read back and if it makes good sense, hit that send button.

All the best x

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By *nsatiable n baldCouple
46 weeks ago

somewhere only we know

"Im terrible with words and sometimes get paranoid,that some people look down on you because im dyslexic and also have no clue about add verbs , adjectives , only just learnt about pro nouns etc . Does that stuff really matter to you ? "
I find it hard to articulate myself with words as well as punctuations does it hold me back yeah sometimes it does

But I’m trying to improve and learn and that’s growth so if people are unwilling to converse because of it it’s a them problem I believe

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By *hrimper36Couple
46 weeks ago

Central France dept 36

Op I’m Autistic and dyslexic and ugly and I also have no clue about anything and believe it or not I’m an online English teacher and I love it so very much and I’ve bragged my whole life so if people look down on you then fuck them because they are not worth knowing.

Know your flaws and deal with them as best as you can.

Don’t let conditions dictate how you live and enjoy life.

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By *aizyWoman
46 weeks ago

west midlands

It doesn't OP not to me, I am not the best at spelling I make mistakes all the time, as long as I can read and understand what is being said thats all that matters to me. As someone above said though, don't get me started on text speak!!

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By *mall.sausage OP Man
46 weeks ago

Rochdale

Thank you all . You've all been so kind x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
46 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I just don’t like acronyms.

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By *TG3Man
46 weeks ago

Dorchester

I don't like piccalilli

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By *mall.sausage OP Man
46 weeks ago

Rochdale

"I just don’t like acronyms. "
ive no idea what a aconym is

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By *TG3Man
46 weeks ago

Dorchester

"I just don’t like acronyms. ive no idea what a aconym is "
Abbreviations i don't either to be fair you either know them or you dont

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
46 weeks ago

Central

You're fine OP, as decent people accept you for who you are and accept what you say, if they grasp what you mean. You don't need an extensive educational understanding of the language, if you mean well and communicate so that you are engaging with others

. It's not just the words and structure but your intentions, your tone and more.

Relax and let yourself flow as you can. Your communication is unique and says a lot. Anyone who is critical you'll do well to have lost from your life

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By *andPextraCouple
46 weeks ago

North West

We do like a well written message and use it as a filter.

But let’s not forget many use a phone and its very easy to mis-type.

What matters much more is a) its not an obvious cut and paste and b) a 14yr old hasn’t written it- “ hey baby gurl dem’s peng pics” etc

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
46 weeks ago

Worcester

I really enjoy chatting to and getting to know people online, so that does mean that if they struggle to communicate then it's probably going to stall before it gets going.

But not all dyslexic people struggle to write, and you don't need a big fancy education to have a great conversation.

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By *allandathleticMan
46 weeks ago

Asgard

"Puts gun to temple and pulls trigger"

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Also be careful of the “wordsmith” those that say what they think you want to hear rather than what they are actually thinking

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By *a LunaWoman
46 weeks ago

South Wales

I’d like to think I have a bit more patience as my youngest has autism and reading his homework notes when he needs help can be ……..challenging!

We all have our strengths and weaknesses (mine is maths!) so I try not to judge.

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