FabSwingers.com forum: Scrolling through the Veri's

By (user no longer on site) OP
42 weeks ago

Just being curios.

I know there's been plenty of threads about getting veris, how, where, why, how many is too many etc etc etc.

I pose a different question.

Does anyone ever look at veris and "size themselves up" (pardon the word choice) to see if its worth taking a shot?

For example. If I look at a lady's profile, and the veris are all from Gym bunny 3 line profile types, personally I won't bother. I'm not "gym fit", so I'm clearly not their type?

If they say "gym fit only" in their profile, fair enough. But that's not always the case.

Anyway. Just a curiosity Monday question.

Feel free to answer or shout at me about preferences haha

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By *icecouple561Couple
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42 weeks ago

East Sussex

I don't think you can assume that you know someone's else's type really. Having said that if a guy contacts us and his verifications are all from much younger women and couples or people who describe him as able to 'go all night' and similar we know that we're probably not what he's after

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By *ealitybitesMan
42 weeks ago

Belfast

I've never seen fab as a competition so I don't compare myself to others through pics or veries.

I've never once based a decision to contact someone on a verification.

There are many other factors long before I get around to reading veries.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
42 weeks ago

Reading

yes i definitely check that they have at least one veri from a bigger girl.

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By *issmorganWoman
42 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I do this. I

f a man was meeting a type ie slim, younger women, I'd definitely question why he's messaging me.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Of course

All her veris are from huge black guys? I’ll skip this one

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By *luebell888Woman
42 weeks ago

Glasgowish

I'm more likely to check the age rather than the body type.

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By *olfandtazCouple
42 weeks ago

Bristol

We take verifications into account when looking at a meet but they aren't everything, there are other aspects to consider

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It's useful in as far as if you see a pattern from whom they've met and you're not it, then you know not to waste their time, unless there is something else in your favour.

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By *elix SightedMan
42 weeks ago

Cloud 8

No I couldn’t give a monkeys what other blokes on fab look like. If I spent time comparing myself to others I’d have a major insecurity complex. I am me, if you’re interested - great, if you’re not - fine.

In my (albeit very limited) experience, women are just as attracted to personality, humour, intellect etc.

Be yourself and go for it. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
42 weeks ago

wonderland.

"Just being curios.

I know there's been plenty of threads about getting veris, how, where, why, how many is too many etc etc etc.

I pose a different question.

Does anyone ever look at veris and "size themselves up" (pardon the word choice) to see if its worth taking a shot?

For example. If I look at a lady's profile, and the veris are all from Gym bunny 3 line profile types, personally I won't bother. I'm not "gym fit", so I'm clearly not their type?

If they say "gym fit only" in their profile, fair enough. But that's not always the case.

Anyway. Just a curiosity Monday question.

Feel free to answer or shout at me about preferences haha"

Actually funny story with veris.. mine on my singles profile attracted Mr... but I read his and figured I wasn't his type or good enough... this led to us being friends that couldn't see just how attracted we were to the other

Although it obviously all worked out eventually.

So yes I definitely sometimes read veries and think I'm not for them. Xz

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I’ve done this. And then someone changed my mind because I assumed I would never have been her type.

So I now just speak to who I want to, and not because I think I look like someone they used to talk to.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

"Of course

All her veris are from huge black guys? I’ll skip this one "

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By *quirtyndirty!Couple
42 weeks ago

Nottingham

It's always worth looking at veris to see if you are a match.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Yep! I’m guilty of this.

I’m trying to avoid the snooping now and accept that they wouldn’t be showing any interest if I wasn’t their type.

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By *ulfilthmentMan
42 weeks ago

Just around the corner

I do check when someone’s got an 18-99 age range. If they’re all under 30 or within a few years of the profile’s own age then I’d clearly be wasting their (and my) time.

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
42 weeks ago

Kent

Yes. If a guy messaging me only has verifications from size 10 ladies or much younger ladies, then I do wonder why he would message a fat old lady like me.

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By *etsseeifitsformeMan
42 weeks ago

Marlow

"I do check when someone’s got an 18-99 age range. If they’re all under 30 or within a few years of the profile’s own age then I’d clearly be wasting their (and my) time."

Yes, not being 25 anymore I do this so I don’t waste everyone’s time. But there again you never know so if they’re sounding and looking like you’d really want to meet them sometimes you just have to send a message. it could be they are looking for someone ‘our’ age. The bottom line is no hard and fast rule.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Yes I do.

If they’re all slim, tall older white women then I move on, I’m the complete opposite!

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
42 weeks ago

Essex

Body types, ages, looks etc I totally pay no attention too. So they’ve always seen tall, beautiful brunettes… variety is the spice of life. Maybe a short arse blonde is just what they need. They’ve messaged me for a reason…

I will look at the profiles of the other ladies though from a sexual preference point of view. If they are all into specific scenes/acts that I’m really not - then I think there is going to be more of an issue. Although having typed that out I’m doubting myself. It’s variety again.

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By *hriscooperMan
42 weeks ago

Warrington

I don't get why if some one has seen 2 or 3 slim ladies, why someone curvy would wonder why he's messaging you?

We don't all have one type and the beauty of FAB is you can spend time with whatever personality, size and shape you are attracted to at that time..

Sometimes I really fancy an older lady with curves for days, whereas sometimes I might see a younger slim lady.

But yes, I do read veris and my preference would be to meet someone with no more than a handful of meets over a while and not all in the same week.

Because I like some sort of connection and I'm not into a quick meaningless fuck.

But, that's just me and everyone is thankfully different or the world would be a very dull place indeed.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
42 weeks ago

London

"yes i definitely check that they have at least one veri from a bigger girl."

Same....We're not using 'bigger' in the same way are we?

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

It's one of the things I check when I look at veris, sure. But I have met gym-fit guys and they liked my body - they don't necessarily want a hard body like their own. So I don't assume.

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