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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

Leeds

Who is the first person you turn too if you receive bad news?

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I don’t have anyone. I deal with everything myself now.

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By *zeroMan
42 weeks ago

Glasgow

My mum usually.

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By *affron40Woman
42 weeks ago

manchester

My best mate of 44 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"I don’t have anyone. I deal with everything myself now. "

Or i wait for a Thursday rant thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

My best friend, been friends since we were 16

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By *obilebottomMan
42 weeks ago

All over

The pillow

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
42 weeks ago

kent

If it will have no impact on my family, then I keep it to myself. Ailsa has enough shit to contend with already and I’m not really close enough to anyone else.

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By *acksparrow99Man
42 weeks ago

London

Nobody but me.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
42 weeks ago

little house on the praire

My mum

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By *emidemiWoman
42 weeks ago

basingstoke

My fiancé.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

My sister

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By *imi_RougeWoman
42 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Either my 2 friends I chat to every day, or my other mate who I can tell anything.

Depends what it is really.

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By *alcon77Man
42 weeks ago

under the sun & the moon

Usually it's the doctor of late, giving bad health news.. So I usually have a philosophical chat with them about it, albeit brief.

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By *ddie1966Man
42 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

Just me, myself and I now.

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By *eaAndBiscuit1989Man
42 weeks ago

Burnley

My mum or my neighbour (best friend)

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

unfortunately no one …. Sucks tbh

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By *ellroseWoman
42 weeks ago

Brum

My mom

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By *izzy.Woman
42 weeks ago

Stoke area

It depends what it's about, I did have someone special I shared everything with; but sadly thats no longer the case. In future I'll just have to get on with things alone.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
42 weeks ago

North West

Each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

My best friend usually.

I don't have family etc

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Myself to begin with, then to help me make sense with whatever I'm contending with, depending on what it is, I will talk to one of a couple of people.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
42 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

It was my mum

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By *ir SupremacyMan
42 weeks ago

Bolton

Myself...all my family are in Ireland.

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By *illy IdolMan
42 weeks ago

Midlands

I guess it would depend on the particular news, but usually family

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By *edeWoman
42 weeks ago

the abyss

It depends on the news really. If it's something that won't affect anyone else then I just deal with it myself. If it's something that I will have to share with others then I usually try and just tell the necessary people straight away to get it over with. I can deal with my own emotions, having to upset others with the bad news is harder to me

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By *ynecplCouple
42 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

My wife, who is my lover, best friend and my confidant.

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By *agnar73Man
42 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Internalise it.

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By *mf123Man
42 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Myself i share my real news with nobody if i can help it

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Hubster. He's my best friend, lover and soul mate

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By *inkylipsWoman
42 weeks ago

Debauchery

I generally deal with it myself

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
42 weeks ago

Leeds

Myself, it’s nobody else’s business.

The mr

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By *ris GrayMan
42 weeks ago

Dorchester


"Who is the first person you turn too if you receive bad news? "
you

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
42 weeks ago

Southampton


"I don’t have anyone. I deal with everything myself now. "

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
42 weeks ago

Southampton


"It was my mum "

Hugsxx

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
42 weeks ago

Southampton


"unfortunately no one …. Sucks tbh "

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
42 weeks ago

Reading

fsmily

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By *hrista BellendWoman
42 weeks ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Myself first as I need to process it, then its my inner circle

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"I don’t have anyone. I deal with everything myself now. "

This makes me sad

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
42 weeks ago

London or Bedford


"Who is the first person you turn too if you receive bad news? "

Oliver...

OLIVEEEERRRR!

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Work it out for myself first and then go to mum

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By *sWyldWoman
42 weeks ago

Edinburgh

My bestie

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By *arkus1812Man
42 weeks ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

My Sister

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By *a LunaWoman
42 weeks ago

South Wales

My mum

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By *orthern StarsCouple
42 weeks ago

Durham

Each other, goes without saying.

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By *heitaliandreamerMan
42 weeks ago

Northampton

My mum, brother and my two daughters

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By *rgasmicChemistryCouple
42 weeks ago

east coast

H we have had a lot over the last 3 years

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
42 weeks ago

ashford

Depends what it is! Alot of the time my best friend! Used to b my first mother inlaw even though my own mum was still around those days! X

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
42 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

Myself, possibly a particular friend , depending on the severity of the bad news.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

My cat.. She does not answer back but she senses things are not good

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

My partner and my mum

Miss S x

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
42 weeks ago

My Own Little World

Used to be my mum or my best friend my wife both unfortunately passed years ago

Now just deal with it myself

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
42 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Well the good news is at least no one has said Mr Jack Daniels etc

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
42 weeks ago

Coventry

My Girl, she is my closest confidant and always there for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I just deal with it myself, I was brought up not to burden others with my problems and be stoic. It works very well for me.

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