FabSwingers.com forum: Intimate acts

By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

Would you wash your partner’s hair? Bathe them? Make them a little packed lunch for work?

What caring intimate acts aside from sex do you do for a partner? What are ones they do/have done for you that stand out? What do you wish someone would do, if they haven’t already?

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over a year ago

When my partner (occasionally) washes, blow dries and plaits my hair I literally want to die of happiness.

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"When my partner (occasionally) washes, blow dries and plaits my hair I literally want to die of happiness. "

That’s lovely! Hope it happens again soon

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By *illan-KillashMan
over a year ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

"Would you wash your partner’s hair? Bathe them? Make them a little packed lunch for work?

What caring intimate acts aside from sex do you do for a partner? What are ones they do/have done for you that stand out? What do you wish someone would do, if they haven’t already? "

I have a ladyfriend who stays for long weekends now and again.

Often give her a soaky bath. Always make her a food parcel for the journey home.

Head massage, back rubs, the little things.

#theresmoretolifethansex

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

We quite often shower together and wash each other.

Give her a massage everyone and then

Sunday's I make a late bed breakfast or a bed picnic

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Would you wash your partner’s hair? Bathe them? Make them a little packed lunch for work?

What caring intimate acts aside from sex do you do for a partner? What are ones they do/have done for you that stand out? What do you wish someone would do, if they haven’t already?

I have a ladyfriend who stays for long weekends now and again.

Often give her a soaky bath. Always make her a food parcel for the journey home.

Head massage, back rubs, the little things.

#theresmoretolifethansex

Ummmm, can I come and stay? This sounds like my bliss.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Blimey we do loads of stuff like that, we always have. We don't do the bathing and hair washing thing specifically though.

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"We quite often shower together and wash each other.

Give her a massage everyone and then

Sunday's I make a late bed breakfast or a bed picnic "

I adore that people rate these things. People are awesome.

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Blimey we do loads of stuff like that, we always have. We don't do the bathing and hair washing thing specifically though.

Couple goals. That’s you two.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I am very caring, soft, gentle person, constantly looking for a little touch, and will give you massages regularly, play with your hair, etc. Cook, clean, keep a comfortable home. I'll be your rock when you need someone to support you. I'll help you solve problems. I will listen without judgement.

I will do all the things to show you I appreciate you.

But I don’t have a partner, and probably never will, by a conscious decision.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I suck his cock when he's having a shit day (obviously not every shit day or hed never have a good one).

I kitchen dance with him.

I cuddle lots.

I buy his favourite treats.

Even when he's a prick I make his coffee with his favourite spoon.

Every night before we sleep we cuddle and say I love you.

Mrs

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"I am very caring, soft, gentle person, constantly looking for a little touch, and will give you massages regularly, play with your hair, etc. Cook, clean, keep a comfortable home. I'll be your rock when you need someone to support you. I'll help you solve problems. I will listen without judgement.

I will do all the things to show you I appreciate you.

But I don’t have a partner, and probably never will, by a conscious decision.

My heart hurt a bit reading that.

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

Massage...anyone willing to give me one is an angel..I'll take care of everything else for one

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Blimey we do loads of stuff like that, we always have. We don't do the bathing and hair washing thing specifically though.

Couple goals. That’s you two. "

It's not so much the physical stuff more the practical caring.

I was telling a friend once about something Mr N had done for me. She was taken back and said "you don't know how lucky you are".

He's making me a cup of coffee just how I like it as I type

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"I suck his cock when he's having a shit day (obviously not every shit day or hed never have a good one).

I kitchen dance with him.

I cuddle lots.

I buy his favourite treats.

Even when he's a prick I make his coffee with his favourite spoon.

Every night before we sleep we cuddle and say I love you.

Mrs

Beautiful!

A favourite spoon tho? Say what?!

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Massage...anyone willing to give me one is an angel..I'll take care of everything else for one "

I love to massage.

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over a year ago

Run them a candlelit bath

Massages

Buy them things you kmow they like.

Hide stuff in the house with clues on how to find them.

Cook them new things they've never tried.

Support and finance new things they want to try.

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

"I suck his cock when he's having a shit day (obviously not every shit day or hed never have a good one).

I kitchen dance with him.

I cuddle lots.

I buy his favourite treats.

Even when he's a prick I make his coffee with his favourite spoon.

Every night before we sleep we cuddle and say I love you.

Mrs

That's lovely, I hope I can find that one day, he's a lucky MR

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Blimey we do loads of stuff like that, we always have. We don't do the bathing and hair washing thing specifically though.

Couple goals. That’s you two.

It's not so much the physical stuff more the practical caring.

I was telling a friend once about something Mr N had done for me. She was taken back and said "you don't know how lucky you are".

He's making me a cup of coffee just how I like it as I type

Mr N. Does he ever frequent the forum? Will we ever get to interact with the myth and legend himself?

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

Lots in my last rship. Used to trim his hair (everywhere!). I had a genital piercing i was never good at putting back in, he did that. That kind of stuff.

Plus he used to make me lunches for work (although he did draw little Hitler faces or the like on the boiled eggs)

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Run them a candlelit bath

Massages

Buy them things you kmow they like.

Hide stuff in the house with clues on how to find them.

Cook them new things they've never tried.

Support and finance new things they want to try."

Oh I love the hiding/clues idea!

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Lots in my last rship. Used to trim his hair (everywhere!). I had a genital piercing i was never good at putting back in, he did that. That kind of stuff.

Plus he used to make me lunches for work (although he did draw little Hitler faces or the like on the boiled eggs) "

Eggcellent!!

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By *illan-KillashMan
over a year ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

"Would you wash your partner’s hair? Bathe them? Make them a little packed lunch for work?

What caring intimate acts aside from sex do you do for a partner? What are ones they do/have done for you that stand out? What do you wish someone would do, if they haven’t already?

I have a ladyfriend who stays for long weekends now and again.

Often give her a soaky bath. Always make her a food parcel for the journey home.

Head massage, back rubs, the little things.

#theresmoretolifethansex

Ummmm, can I come and stay? This sounds like my bliss. "

Maybe, long as you dont starfish.

Also, making sure her side of the leccie blanket is so it's toasties when she gets in.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I am actually very soft, caring and loving believe it or not. Fucked if I’m washing someone’s hair or bathing them though.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I will do all the things to show you I appreciate you.

But I don’t have a partner, and probably never will, by a conscious decision.

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this brought a tear to my eye, you deserve a good man who will appreciate all that you do, and repay it in kind

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Blimey we do loads of stuff like that, we always have. We don't do the bathing and hair washing thing specifically though.

Couple goals. That’s you two.

It's not so much the physical stuff more the practical caring.

I was telling a friend once about something Mr N had done for me. She was taken back and said "you don't know how lucky you are".

He's making me a cup of coffee just how I like it as I type

Mr N. Does he ever frequent the forum? Will we ever get to interact with the myth and legend himself? "

He reads them, tells me when to stfu and when I'm being daft but he prefers to be behind the scenes

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

I love having my hair washed and being bathed.

I am a little pampered though, I get coffee in bed every morning, tucked in with a hot drink each night. Cool foot spray before I go to sleep, coz well, I’m a menopausal woman.

My favourite thing that I do is shave his head, I always find that particularly intimate

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Blimey we do loads of stuff like that, we always have. We don't do the bathing and hair washing thing specifically though.

Couple goals. That’s you two.

It's not so much the physical stuff more the practical caring.

I was telling a friend once about something Mr N had done for me. She was taken back and said "you don't know how lucky you are".

He's making me a cup of coffee just how I like it as I type

Mr N. Does he ever frequent the forum? Will we ever get to interact with the myth and legend himself?

He reads them, tells me when to stfu and when I'm being daft but he prefers to be behind the scenes

*waves to Mr N.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Anything but using each others toothbrush

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Surely those kind of things are part of every relationship. I wouldn't hang around for long if these small intimate acts weren't present.

But, to answer your question, we both do them regularly. Perhaps one of my favourites is to bake while he's at work...he can usually smell it as he comes in, and he rushes into the kitchen like an excited kid to see what treats I've made.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Anything but using each others toothbrush

Oh I don't know, what else are you going to use to clean round the base of the taps?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"I suck his cock when he's having a shit day (obviously not every shit day or hed never have a good one).

I kitchen dance with him.

I cuddle lots.

I buy his favourite treats.

Even when he's a prick I make his coffee with his favourite spoon.

Every night before we sleep we cuddle and say I love you.

Mrs

Beautiful!

A favourite spoon tho? Say what?!"

Yep apparently said spoon makes the best coffees.

Mrs

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By *emidemiWoman
over a year ago

basingstoke

My partner popped into my work the other day about 10 minutes before I finished, and said he would go and bring the car around from the car park so I wouldn’t have to walk in the rain

It was such a little thing but really meant a lot

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I do many little things to bring joy to the people I care about. The people I care about do many little things to bring joy to me.

It wouldn't be much of a partnership without those things

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By *sWyldWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

There's been lots of little things for people over the years. Cards, mirror notes, silly gifts, planning adventures, and even some hair washing too.

I'm yet to find someone who wants to do these things for me

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

Love it when he runs a bath for me, washes my hair, dries me with warm towel then gives me wine while he gives me me a long slow massage. Very sensual and sexy without any sexual intentions from him

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By *f.I.Like.It.I.Do.ItCouple
over a year ago

Keighley

Mr brings me tea and breakfast when I’m getting ready, regularly buys me flowers, de ices my car for me, makes my packed lunch. Many many things. Trying to think what I do for him…..I did give him a blow job before work the other day. May need to up my game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doing things that bring my partner joy...makes me happy....

It's all part of the feedback loop

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I used to really enjoy combing my ex partners wet hair. She used to sit between my legs and I used to happily comb it after she came out the shower. She would idly stroke my legs. Casual intimacy

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By *erdyCurvyInkedPervyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

When I was at my lowest, I was waiting to die, and he took me into his home.

He gave me the time and space I needed to grieve for my loss, and he just loved me. Some days I couldn't stand up, some days all I could do was lie on the sofa. I remember this one day, when I was curled up on the settee, I awoke at one point to find myself covered in a blanket, and there was a delicious smell. He brought me a plate of home made scones, fresh out of the oven, with butter melting into them.

It was then, dear readers, that I knew I would marry this man. And two years later, I did.

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"When I was at my lowest, I was waiting to die, and he took me into his home.

It was then, dear readers, that I knew I would marry this man. And two years later, I did. "

Gosh. This is heartwarming.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

While I was in hospital having surgery on my spine Mr N arranged for a t.v. to be installed in the bedroom, an easy chair to be placed by the bed and ensured that everything I needed for my recovery was on hand.

He knew I love mango so when he visited me after the operation he hand fed me small, bite sized pieces (I wasn't allowed to sit up)

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

We used to do all the little romantic things but my favourite was clues before a birthday. We had to keep giving each other clues until we guessed it.

I had a long term gentlemen friend I used to bath, do his hair and dry him. Like a big fat baby

Although he wasn't fat

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Also Jay used to buy me flowers every other week and get up and make me a coffee

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By *weetCherryWoman
over a year ago

London

Estella you have made miss human contact

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

Can't read this thread, makes me want what I haven't got and likely never have

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"We used to do all the little romantic things but my favourite was clues before a birthday. We had to keep giving each other clues until we guessed it.

I had a long term gentlemen friend I used to bath, do his hair and dry him. Like a big fat baby

Although he wasn't fat

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Estella you have made miss human contact

I’m sorry. I don’t have anyone doing this for me, I just wanted to live vicariously through others. I’m leaning into loving love rather than missing love.

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Can't read this thread, makes me want what I haven't got and likely never have

I get it. I do feel the same but am framing it as how nice that there is this in the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend to do nice little things like that for eachother, differs from day to day.

Make a packed lunch for him, give him a massage.

Strokes my hair and back at nighttime, always brings me a drink up to bed.

Etc.

Miss S x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Have done and would do again x

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By *illan-KillashMan
over a year ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

"When I was at my lowest, I was waiting to die, and he took me into his home.

It was then, dear readers, that I knew I would marry this man. And two years later, I did. "

There's a very simple, poignant beauty to this. I cannot

it enough.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

He does many things to show me he cares, there's one that still stands out in my mind as it only happened couple weeks ago.

I was having a stressful day at work and told L about it during the day. When he came to pick me up later, my fluffy sloth hot water bottle was strapped to a passenger seat waiting for me. It immediately made me smile and still does whenever I think about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy sharing a bath and washing one another and brushing her hair afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending little things on the post, sending stupid photos, stuff like that.

Going to visit them for 5 mins just because that's all the time we have or alternatively leaving the house at stupid o'clock to sit for a few hours just letting them talk/vent and bring shit snacks

That's some of the things that I've done for the ones I that have been/are important to me

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

Love these

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By *erdyCurvyInkedPervyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"When I was at my lowest, I was waiting to die, and he took me into his home.

It was then, dear readers, that I knew I would marry this man. And two years later, I did.

There's a very simple, poignant beauty to this. I cannot

it enough."

He's a good man. I love him dearly.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"I suck his cock when he's having a shit day (obviously not every shit day or hed never have a good one).

I kitchen dance with him.

I cuddle lots.

I buy his favourite treats.

Even when he's a prick I make his coffee with his favourite spoon.

Every night before we sleep we cuddle and say I love you.

Mrs

Beautiful!

A favourite spoon tho? Say what?!"

My husband has a favourite spoon, and a favourite fork

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Acts of service is my

language

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Most days I make C a cup of tea and breakfast in bed.

We both work from home but C’s work is more intense and longer hours so I will make lunch, drinks through the day and then dinner.

If she needs a massage I do it.

I love doing the little things to make her day easier - that way when she’s finished work we have quality time for each other then.

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

When cuckold I obviously gave oral on demand I also cooked all the meals,and I bathed shaved moisturiserd and dressed my gfs before the bulls visited

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"I am actually very soft, caring and loving believe it or not. Fucked if I’m washing someone’s hair or bathing them though. "

Yeah I did enough of that raising a child, I'll be damned if I'm washing a grown man.

I'm a gift giver, and by that I mean silly little things. The last guy I was seeing, his skin was suffering due to the hard water down here and maybe the dust at work, so I got him some oat face wash/moisturiser. But he can wash his own face

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

"Would you wash your partner’s hair? Bathe them? Make them a little packed lunch for work? "

Of course to all the above. There isn’t much we haven’t done for each other. Xx

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"When I was at my lowest, I was waiting to die, and he took me into his home.

It was then, dear readers, that I knew I would marry this man. And two years later, I did. "

I've got something in my eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you wash your partner’s hair? Bathe them? Make them a little packed lunch for work?

What caring intimate acts aside from sex do you do for a partner? What are ones they do/have done for you that stand out? What do you wish someone would do, if they haven’t already? "

Washing hair, bathing, washing their back under shower... sexy as hell

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I also like my eyebrows stroked to send me to sleep

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By *eavilMan
over a year ago

Stalybridge

My ex partner used to love me sand the hard skin off her feet. Then bathe them and follow up with foot massage. I wasn't too keen at first but she loved it so much that I kept it up for over 10 years.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Blimey we do loads of stuff like that, we always have. We don't do the bathing and hair washing thing specifically though.

We do too. We sometimes shower together and wash each other. Sometimes, he washes my hair too.

He does shitloads of things to make my life easier. He packs the car with my bag & Child Bs bags of a morning. He puts together lunch stuff and makes me a brew in a travel mug. He sometimes has to help me with personal care.

I try to help him stay on an even keel. I know when he's struggling with sounds or feelings and I pick him up.

I feel like he does so much more for me, than I do for him these days.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

I sang to her as she slept on the last day maybe theres something in that

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

"I sang to her as she slept on the last day maybe theres something in that

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for clarity tho she wasnt my partner just my best friend and we boinked

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I just listen, no input or opinion, just listen.

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By *ackandJill1Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

I work away from home and when I get back I'm knackered and usually filthy!! Jack is so kind he sometimes cooks me dinner, brings it round to me and leaves without even coming in because he knows I'll never eat before climbing into bed

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

I regularly brush the wifes hair, ive a short back and sides so no need to brush mine but she's always on hand to scratch my back when I have an itch lol.

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By *hippy57Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I take wife cup of tea in bed every day,cook meals at least 5 times a week,share the shopping,trim and shave her pussy,if I home first ,a tea and snack waiting on table,don’t get much back but I don’t mind love to please

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Not much at all, in either direction. I pick stuff up off the floor and wash it, do the bins and fix stuff where I can, she does most of the shopping. We function.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots in my last rship. Used to trim his hair (everywhere!). I had a genital piercing i was never good at putting back in, he did that. That kind of stuff.

Plus he used to make me lunches for work (although he did draw little Hitler faces or the like on the boiled eggs) "

This is the best haha like here's true love but watch out the world can end any minute

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