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By *inger_Snap OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

So, January is probably the most popular time of year to get divorce proceedings started.

How long does it take these days, with those new no blame divorces in action?

When's the optional time to meet a freshly single man, who's moved out of the marital/family home? You know, when they're still maybe feeling a little bit vulnerable and wounded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My divorce was uncontested and from start of online process to end was 42 days. I dated afterward but took about 2 years to clear the past from affecting the new, after that I was ready to look to the future and met Penny.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Worcester


"

When's the optional time to meet a freshly single man, who's moved out of the marital/family home? You know, when they're still maybe feeling a little bit vulnerable and wounded."

This post made me laugh probably more than it should have done.

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By *inger_Snap OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"

When's the optional time to meet a freshly single man, who's moved out of the marital/family home? You know, when they're still maybe feeling a little bit vulnerable and wounded.

This post made me laugh probably more than it should have done. "

That was kind of the idea...

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By *inger_Snap OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"My divorce was uncontested and from start of online process to end was 42 days. I dated afterward but took about 2 years to clear the past from affecting the new, after that I was ready to look to the future and met Penny. "

Did you go through a rebound phase?

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By *ittle. BeaverWoman
over a year ago

Launceston

If both parties agreeing and being adult in replying to emails, then the online divorce process is really quick and easy. If you go on the gov website it shows you the whole process including the amount of weeks you wait in-between each stage. You get email confirmation throughout each stage. It's far better than the old way, and chasing solicitors!

As for dating again, you just have to use your instincts with what feels right

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

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By *ittle. BeaverWoman
over a year ago

Launceston


"

When's the optional time to meet a freshly single man, who's moved out of the marital/family home? You know, when they're still maybe feeling a little bit vulnerable and wounded.

This post made me laugh probably more than it should have done.

That was kind of the idea... "

Haha I missed that! I'd say get in quick, the more vulnerable the better....but be warned, the sex needs to be really really good to make up for the hours and hours of him wanting to talk about his ex wife!

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"So, January is probably the most popular time of year to get divorce proceedings started.

How long does it take these days, with those new no blame divorces in action?

When's the optional time to meet a freshly single man, who's moved out of the marital/family home? You know, when they're still maybe feeling a little bit vulnerable and wounded."

I can feel the heavy footsteps of the MRAs hotfooting it to this thread!

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By *uck-RogersMan
over a year ago

Oakhill


"

When's the optional time to meet a freshly single man, who's moved out of the marital/family home? You know, when they're still maybe feeling a little bit vulnerable and wounded.

This post made me laugh probably more than it should have done.

That was kind of the idea...

Haha I missed that! I'd say get in quick, the more vulnerable the better....but be warned, the sex needs to be really really good to make up for the hours and hours of him wanting to talk about his ex wife! "
What guy in there right mind would want to talk about their ex when they are with a cute ass like that C.J.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bookmarking

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
over a year ago

Hell

My ex won’t sign the financial order. We’ve been at loggerheads for over a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, January is probably the most popular time of year to get divorce proceedings started.

.."

…. Is it? This is uncanny.

How long a divorce takes? I got told 8 month could be the worst case scenario.

I don’t know how long before you let some rock your boat op. When you are ready ! And not when other people try to tell you when they think that should be.

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By *ee04Man
over a year ago

Essex

When I split with my ex it was January, as we were never married just together for 20 plus years. I moved out the following weekend I had a date through PoF. We had been going downhill for a long time beforehand. We knew it was going to happen before Christmas but kept it from the kids until after.

We had only had sex once in the 6 months before I moved out and that was on holiday and only occurred because a couple in the next room were being over vigorous and got us going.

She helped me move my stuff etc and actually stayed with me the first night I’d left. We had the best sex that night we’d had in years but we both knew it had run its course.

I left didn’t take anything but my clothes car and pension. She kept the house but can’t sell it as it is split equally to the kids.

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By *inger_Snap OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"

When's the optional time to meet a freshly single man, who's moved out of the marital/family home? You know, when they're still maybe feeling a little bit vulnerable and wounded.

This post made me laugh probably more than it should have done.

That was kind of the idea...

Haha I missed that! I'd say get in quick, the more vulnerable the better....but be warned, the sex needs to be really really good to make up for the hours and hours of him wanting to talk about his ex wife! "

Yeah, I'm not a therapist, this is half the problem. But a sympathetic smile and generally agreeing seems to work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had my mouth agape when I got to the end of the OP.

My ex started dating a month after we ended our (too) long relationship. A fucking MONTH. What a twat. So if you want a twat - get in there really fast!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had my mouth agape when I got to the end of the OP.

My ex started dating a month after we ended our (too) long relationship. A fucking MONTH. What a twat. So if you want a twat - get in there really fast! "

My ex was with her new guy within the week…..*true story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had my mouth agape when I got to the end of the OP.

My ex started dating a month after we ended our (too) long relationship. A fucking MONTH. What a twat. So if you want a twat - get in there really fast!

My ex was with her new guy within the week…..*true story. "

Can hear the bounce from here!

Took me a year and I didn't even miss my ex. Cos of the twattishness you understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had my mouth agape when I got to the end of the OP.

My ex started dating a month after we ended our (too) long relationship. A fucking MONTH. What a twat. So if you want a twat - get in there really fast!

My ex was with her new guy within the week…..*true story. "

Sorry. I talked about my ex again. Sadly They don't go away.

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By *ntrigued888Woman
over a year ago

Beds

It takes me ages to get over anyone.

Even the 2 idiots that cheated on me

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"Had my mouth agape when I got to the end of the OP.

My ex started dating a month after we ended our (too) long relationship. A fucking MONTH. What a twat. So if you want a twat - get in there really fast! "

Its quite natural to want something good after something bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had my mouth agape when I got to the end of the OP.

My ex started dating a month after we ended our (too) long relationship. A fucking MONTH. What a twat. So if you want a twat - get in there really fast!

Its quite natural to want something good after something bad. "

Ooof. Burn.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Had my mouth agape when I got to the end of the OP.

My ex started dating a month after we ended our (too) long relationship. A fucking MONTH. What a twat. So if you want a twat - get in there really fast!

My ex was with her new guy within the week…..*true story. "

I’m not sure he was that ‘new’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 6 months. Free spirit.. Only took him over a decade to finally divorce me. He moved out 2 years of being married after trying to kill me. No joke

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By *hawn ScottMan
over a year ago

london Brixton

My separated wife and I are on very good terms and would use one of these DIY divorce kits.

Problem is the house is in joint names and even though I rent out a room and am paying the mortgage myself on paper I can't afford my own house.

So cannot get her off the mortgage and deeds. Dilly of a pickle

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By *sWyldWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

They really need a dating site for just these people!

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I really enjoyed both of my divorce parties

Anyway you can’t date my first ex. He’s under the patio

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

So how is it that I only ever seem to meet men who have been 'separated and living their own lives for many years, but still living in the marital home for the kids, and because they can't afford to change the living arrangements'

I know this is genuinely a challenge for many separating couples, but come on, years after the 'separation' and nothing has changed...?? I'm not THAT gullible

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"So how is it that I only ever seem to meet men who have been 'separated and living their own lives for many years, but still living in the marital home for the kids, and because they can't afford to change the living arrangements'

I know this is genuinely a challenge for many separating couples, but come on, years after the 'separation' and nothing has changed...?? I'm not THAT gullible "

No, but some are.

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling


"Had my mouth agape when I got to the end of the OP.

My ex started dating a month after we ended our (too) long relationship. A fucking MONTH. What a twat. So if you want a twat - get in there really fast!

My ex was with her new guy within the week…..*true story. "

My ex started dating a guy a months after she moved out (even before decree absolut). Three month after they started living together. That was the moment I was most vulnerable and in a huge need of rebound sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had my mouth agape when I got to the end of the OP.

My ex started dating a month after we ended our (too) long relationship. A fucking MONTH. What a twat. So if you want a twat - get in there really fast!

My ex was with her new guy within the week…..*true story.

I’m not sure he was that ‘new’."

Yep. During the time we were ‘trying’. It’s more complicated, but that’s a fact. I knew she was seeing someone. So I left.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Divorce proceedings started in April and it was over by November.

It took 9 months for me to sleep with someone else. Not because of my ex husband but because I was very poorly

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By *anManCoolMan
over a year ago

Camborne

Mine was about 4 months and hurt like hell, ......still pains me today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had my mouth agape when I got to the end of the OP.

My ex started dating a month after we ended our (too) long relationship. A fucking MONTH. What a twat. So if you want a twat - get in there really fast!

My ex was with her new guy within the week…..*true story.

My ex started dating a guy a months after she moved out (even before decree absolut). Three month after they started living together. That was the moment I was most vulnerable and in a huge need of rebound sex. "

You're giving Mimi the secrets!

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By *inger_Snap OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Had my mouth agape when I got to the end of the OP.

My ex started dating a month after we ended our (too) long relationship. A fucking MONTH. What a twat. So if you want a twat - get in there really fast! "

Majority of the time, men seem to move on very quickly.

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By *inger_Snap OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"So how is it that I only ever seem to meet men who have been 'separated and living their own lives for many years, but still living in the marital home for the kids, and because they can't afford to change the living arrangements'

I know this is genuinely a challenge for many separating couples, but come on, years after the 'separation' and nothing has changed...?? I'm not THAT gullible "

They haven't told their wife they're separated yet.

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By *inger_Snap OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Had my mouth agape when I got to the end of the OP.

My ex started dating a month after we ended our (too) long relationship. A fucking MONTH. What a twat. So if you want a twat - get in there really fast!

My ex was with her new guy within the week…..*true story.

My ex started dating a guy a months after she moved out (even before decree absolut). Three month after they started living together. That was the moment I was most vulnerable and in a huge need of rebound sex.

You're giving Mimi the secrets! "

April / May time then. Awesome, just as it's starting to warm up a bit...

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By *aughtyhub80Man
52 weeks ago

Wallasey

Something I need to address in my life

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By *icolasHidalgoDeCorazonMan
52 weeks ago

St Leonards

Well mine'll touch 14 years, I'm not going to bore anyone with the reasons, and did you say vulnerable?

Lol. That made me giggle a little bit xx

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Ive divorced fab many times like most. It is quick too then we come back for more punishment

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