FabSwingers.com forum: Regain my faith in women

By *nknownBadboy2022 OP Man
44 weeks ago

Bradford

Seeing someone on and off for couple years more on than anything. found out she was checking someone else that she’s only known for a week! She promised me the stars and the moon clearly it was bullshit!!

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By *obilebottomMan
44 weeks ago

All over

I am sorry to hear and hopefull will all turn out well for you in the end. Those things can often be in the small print that usually nobody reads. All the best to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Maybe she is in to swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Sucks mate. … grab a chair.

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By *ickey ThumbWoman
44 weeks ago

South Down

You're here over a year, nothing in your profile to say you're NOT actively looking to meet, soooo... *shrug*

Ok for you, but not for her?

As a poster above said, these things are often in the small print and perhaps you both had a different perception of the T&Cs

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By *estarossa.Woman
44 weeks ago

Flagrante

"Seeing someone on and off for couple years more on than anything. found out she was checking someone else that she’s only known for a week! She promised me the stars and the moon clearly it was bullshit!!"

Perhaps you answered your own question there- seeing someone on and off? Suggests player to me, possibly both of you. Did you ever have an honest conversation about being monogomous?

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

I never put eggs in one basket.

Talk to her

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By *tticusukMan
44 weeks ago

Formby

Get over it, get under it.

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By *layfullsamMan
44 weeks ago

Solihull

Was it an open relationship?

I’m sure there’s a good explanation but it looks like you joined fab over a year ago maybe it was when you weren’t with her

Did she find out from a friend who saw your profile and thought if you can, so can I ?

Boobies of a new partner should ease your pain

Good luck time will heal

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
44 weeks ago

Sheffield

I think this generation is fooked. People are always looking for a better offer or that the grass is greener. Phones and social media play a massive part.

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By *nknownBadboy2022 OP Man
44 weeks ago

Bradford

Tbh I made the profile when we where on a break but I haven’t been on it actively just recently to be honest

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By *ellinever70Woman
44 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Is it possible she wanted to know a good man instead?

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By *nknownBadboy2022 OP Man
44 weeks ago

Bradford

"I think this generation is fooked. People are always looking for a better offer or that the grass is greener. Phones and social media play a massive part."

Yea tell me about it!! Now I don’t know what to do

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By *nknownBadboy2022 OP Man
44 weeks ago

Bradford

Was it an open relationship?

I’m sure there’s a good explanation but it looks like you joined fab over a year ago maybe it was when you weren’t with her

Did she find out from a friend who saw your profile and thought if you can, so can I ?

Boobies of a new partner should ease your pain

Good luck time will heal "

Ye so joined when I wasn’t with her but haven’t been actively really. No it wasn’t open I suggest swinging and an open relationship she didn’t want it

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
44 weeks ago

Hell

"Tbh I made the profile when we where on a break but I haven’t been on it actively just recently to be honest "

Every time I’ve started dating someone (monogamously) I have deleted my profile. If I found out the person I was seeing had kept their profile either just in case or to keep their verifications in case we split up, I would log in and delete it for him and then dump his ass

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By *layfullsamMan
44 weeks ago

Solihull

Was it an open relationship?

I’m sure there’s a good explanation but it looks like you joined fab over a year ago maybe it was when you weren’t with her

Did she find out from a friend who saw your profile and thought if you can, so can I ?

Boobies of a new partner should ease your pain

Good luck time will heal

Ye so joined when I wasn’t with her but haven’t been actively really. No it wasn’t open I suggest swinging and an open relationship she didn’t want it"

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By *nknownBadboy2022 OP Man
44 weeks ago

Bradford

"Is it possible she wanted to know a good man instead?"

I don’t have a clue!

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By *nknownBadboy2022 OP Man
44 weeks ago

Bradford

"Tbh I made the profile when we where on a break but I haven’t been on it actively just recently to be honest

Yea maybe I suppose that’s true but in true. Fashion your a bad b haha

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
44 weeks ago

Cumbria

I mean it’s not like you’re on a swingers site saying that you do have standards and won’t just fuck anyone, so you’ve definitely got a right to feel aggrieved.

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By *ittle. BeaverWoman
44 weeks ago

Launceston

I'm going with, either you both didn't have any clear boundaries as to how you both would behave, within whatever type of relationship you had?

Or, she was sadly doing the whole...the grass is always greener thing!

Sorry its happened. You're not on your own, it's happened to most of us.

Get back out there, the next person helps to soften the hurt from the previous person!

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By *nknownBadboy2022 OP Man
44 weeks ago

Bradford

I mean it’s not like you’re on a swingers site saying that you do have standards and won’t just fuck anyone, so you’ve definitely got a right to feel aggrieved."

Well what can I do now! Shit happens life goes on but yes I’m livid. I appreciate the message

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By *nknownBadboy2022 OP Man
44 weeks ago

Bradford

"I'm going with, either you both didn't have any clear boundaries as to how you both would behave, within whatever type of relationship you had?

Or, she was sadly doing the whole...the grass is always greener thing!

Sorry its happened. You're not on your own, it's happened to most of us.

Get back out there, the next person helps to soften the hurt from the previous person! "

It’s the grass is greener on the other side! But I do appreciate you taking time out to reply!! No more relationships for a while now!

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By *bi HaiveMan
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44 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Tbh I made the profile when we where on a break but I haven’t been on it actively just recently to be honest "

You know if you tap that green arrow next to your username it'll show all your forum posts.......

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By *onameyet2Man
44 weeks ago

chorley

"I think this generation is fooked. People are always looking for a better offer or that the grass is greener. Phones and social media play a massive part."

What an old person statement from a relatively young person?

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Ahh, also we get only one side of the story. That’s why I’m always aware what I say here about private stuff I try to figure out, they only get read my side.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
44 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Good job you kept your account on here open (without checking other women out of course) to come on and moan about your GF (that you don’t mention you have in your profile).

Welcome back to FAB after a year off…

*Columbo goes to leave but stops at the door

‘So tell me Mr Badboy….how did your 2 pics get put on your account, you’ve not used for over a year, in Aug and Oct 2023 then?

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
44 weeks ago

Cumbria

"Tbh I made the profile when we where on a break but I haven’t been on it actively just recently to be honest

You know if you tap that green arrow next to your username it'll show all your forum posts.......

BOOM!

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"Good job you kept your account on here open (without checking other women out of course) to come on and moan about your GF (that you don’t mention you have in your profile).

Welcome back to FAB after a year off…

*Columbo goes to leave but stops at the door

‘So tell me Mr Badboy….how did your 2 pics get put on your account, you’ve not used for over a year, in Aug and Oct 2023 then?

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hahaha. (I love Columbos ‘one more thing!’)

This is why I don’t need to read profiles op. People do it for me!!

The truth always comes out.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
44 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"Tbh I made the profile when we where on a break but I haven’t been on it actively just recently to be honest "

That's what they all say...

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Isn't that what people do on a swingers site

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By *usie pTV/TS
44 weeks ago

taunton

He has probably sent her a pic of a very big dick.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
44 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Sounds like some clear and concise communication was missing from your situationship OP.

Perhaps on both sides

Talk to her if it means something. Otherwise move on

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
44 weeks ago

Bradford

Im happily in love but on here for forums and chat not interested in any other woman on the planet sexually but always happy to chat .

If I'm here otherwise im with my new love or Maya .

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By *ittle. BeaverWoman
44 weeks ago

Launceston

"Tbh I made the profile when we where on a break but I haven’t been on it actively just recently to be honest

You know if you tap that green arrow next to your username it'll show all your forum posts.......

My my my!! 19 weeks ago eh! Lol. Good ole green tick!

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By *naswingdressWoman
44 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm sorry you've been hurt.

Like all things, trust and faith are about experience. You need to decide whether what you've had with this person is worth salvaging. Or, if not, go out and find some new experiences. And be someone that they find worthy of trust and faith as well.

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By *adCherriesCouple
44 weeks ago

Cheshire/Northwest

"Tbh I made the profile when we where on a break but I haven’t been on it actively just recently to be honest

Why would you do that? Thats controlling behaviour, if a man wrote that he would be crucified on here.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
44 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

When did she promise you the moon and stars in this on again off again relationship? Was monogamy confirmed as the goal for the period when she was seeing someone else?

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By *olden RatioWoman
44 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

"Good job you kept your account on here open (without checking other women out of course) to come on and moan about your GF (that you don’t mention you have in your profile).

Welcome back to FAB after a year off…

*Columbo goes to leave but stops at the door

‘So tell me Mr Badboy….how did your 2 pics get put on your account, you’ve not used for over a year, in Aug and Oct 2023 then?

hahaha. (I love Columbos ‘one more thing!’)

This is why I don’t need to read profiles op. People do it for me!!

The truth always comes out.

And the forum posts when you follow the all-telling green arrow...

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By *iscean_dreamMan
44 weeks ago

Llanelli

Have you thought about joining a swingers site and just having fun OP?

Life's a lot more simple when not getting your heart broken by people promising you the moon and stars or whatever it was and while they're talking to people behind your back

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Not all women amirite

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By *naswingdressWoman
44 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Not all women amirite "

Yes, men know it's not all women, but they just have to see some evidence! In their inboxes!

I know this game

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"Not all women amirite

Yes, men know it's not all women, but they just have to see some evidence! In their inboxes!

I know this game

#yesallwomen actually

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By *naswingdressWoman
44 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Not all women amirite

Yes, men know it's not all women, but they just have to see some evidence! In their inboxes!

I know this game

#yesallwomen actually"

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By *otuseater11Man
44 weeks ago

IRVINE

Sucks mate but move on and don't look back. what will be will be

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Carry on without them for a while. Get used to Rosie Palm and live your best life.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
44 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"Not all women amirite "

Wrong... We just like to lead you on until something better comes along. You're only ever a place holder.

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