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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That chat shit about other man or that lie about other man just to get in there with someone they’re interest. Have you had experience with them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been that man once

Still regret it to this day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would I know? I’m sure there’s some guys like that around. Have I come across them?

I’m probably doing well avoiding them people…

If they are chatting shit, let them get on with it, the truth always comes out. ALWAYS.

* experience.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've more experience of women who do this

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"That chat shit about other man or that lie about other man just to get in there with someone they’re interest. Have you had experience with them? "

I am sure they put down forum legends

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I never quite understand it. It comes from all genders at times.

It might be an attempt to make the person talking shit look better by comparison.

But comparison is a thief of joy.

The things that are good enough and bring me joy do so regardless of whether there are better or worse options out there. Same for the things that aren't or don't.

People who act like the only way they can keep you around is by making it look like you couldn't do any better, they're a fucking drain

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've more experience of women who do this"

Women do this too, yes. But that’s for another thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many men

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve been that man once

Still regret it to this day"

Oh, bro

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Many men "

Wish death pon me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How would I know? I’m sure there’s some guys like that around. Have I come across them?

I’m probably doing well avoiding them people…

If they are chatting shit, let them get on with it, the truth always comes out. ALWAYS.

* experience. "

That’s how you know man. The truth always comes out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men, men, men,

Real manly men, men, men.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

If we exclude post-conquest lamppost pissing, then no, not at all.

I've seen it with women however.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That chat shit about other man or that lie about other man just to get in there with someone they’re interest. Have you had experience with them?

I am sure they put down forum legends"

I bet there’s these people on the forums. I would bet millions on it if I had it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Men, men, men,

Real manly men, men, men."

Great show.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I never quite understand it. It comes from all genders at times.

It might be an attempt to make the person talking shit look better by comparison.

But comparison is a thief of joy.

The things that are good enough and bring me joy do so regardless of whether there are better or worse options out there. Same for the things that aren't or don't.

People who act like the only way they can keep you around is by making it look like you couldn't do any better, they're a fucking drain "

I’m talking about men specifically and I think that’s ok. I know women do it too.

But agree with your last paragraph so fucking much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If we exclude post-conquest lamppost pissing, then no, not at all.

I've seen it with women however."

There’s not enough non monogamous people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not something I've experienced before at all but loved Prey's comment about comparison being the thief of joy. I need to be more secure in what I bring to the table and if I am, what other men are doing wouldn't worry me as much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Btw this thread was inspired by love island

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Btw this thread was inspired by love island "

So the forumite I've decided to couple up with is....

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

Other men and what they do? No interest.

Old lyric in my head ‘I won’t take your hand and ask what he used to do.’

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Btw this thread was inspired by love island

So the forumite I've decided to couple up with is...."

We could be the first gay couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Btw this thread was inspired by love island

So the forumite I've decided to couple up with is....

We could be the first gay couple "

Have they not done that yet? Very disappointing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not just reserved to other men doing this.

Sadly I see a lot of it on here as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Btw this thread was inspired by love island "

You watch that pile of crap? That explains a lot.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Yeah but i tend not to be bothered anymore as iv already proven myself superior to all human males

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Btw this thread was inspired by love island

You watch that pile of crap? That explains a lot. "

Yeah I’m young Woody. I’m gen Z

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door


"Btw this thread was inspired by love island "
yeah but there only actors pretending to be men

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Btw this thread was inspired by love island

You watch that pile of crap? That explains a lot.

Yeah I’m young Woody. I’m gen Z "

Don't be making us millennials feel any worse

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By *aseylee324Couple
over a year ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

Lots of people who want to chat shit behind people's backs here - watch out particularly for the ones describing themselves as discreet and non- judgemental

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It's the age old story of sales techniques.

Some people don't have confidence in what they are selling so they resort to telling everyone how shit their competitors are in the belief that people will fall for it.

Unfortunately many do and then complain afterwards that they were fooled.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Btw this thread was inspired by love island

You watch that pile of crap? That explains a lot.

Yeah I’m young Woody. I’m gen Z

Don't be making us millennials feel any worse "

Last night, I watched that programme about the trial of a guy in Scotland, for murdering his ex wife in 1976. That's so millennial of me, I'm sure

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By *o_yeur_eyes_onlyMan
over a year ago

Londontown

I was thinking about this the other day Mr Pickle. I put it down to their insecurities and let them get on with it.....it's usually the thirsty ones

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Yeah. I'm not gonna post on this......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah. I'm not gonna post on this...... "

….. haha. You did. ..

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

It's a useful filter. Someone messaged me the other day running down someone I had met. I asked if his mother had never taught him "if you can't say anything nice then don't say anything at all" and blocked him

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I've had guys chat shit about me, to other guys, so they would lose interest.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

I can honestly say no.

Or at least not that I know of, accepting there will be lots of known unknowns!

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By *weetCherryWoman
over a year ago

London

One of the many reasons I don’t even try to talk to people nowadays. Done to me relatively recently by some people of the forum

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Yeah I’ve got mates in my group that do this to each other. It’s such a side of people I wish we could eradicate

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
over a year ago

London (She/Her)

I’ve come across guys who talk shit about other women to flatter me, you the ones who send a first message saying something like “my gf is a stupid, ugly dog and she wishes she looked like you”. I block them straight away

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve come across guys who talk shit about other women to flatter me, you the ones who send a first message saying something like “my gf is a stupid, ugly dog and she wishes she looked like you”. I block them straight away "

What

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah I’ve got mates in my group that do this to each other. It’s such a side of people I wish we could eradicate "

Honestly. It’s like a guy feels like they’re in there and they lose all their morals??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One of the many reasons I don’t even try to talk to people nowadays. Done to me relatively recently by some people of the forum "

Want me to have a word.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've had guys chat shit about me, to other guys, so they would lose interest. "

This. This is peak having no game.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's the age old story of sales techniques.

Some people don't have confidence in what they are selling so they resort to telling everyone how shit their competitors are in the belief that people will fall for it.

Unfortunately many do and then complain afterwards that they were fooled. "

It’s literally this! Agreed

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
over a year ago

London (She/Her)


"I’ve come across guys who talk shit about other women to flatter me, you the ones who send a first message saying something like “my gf is a stupid, ugly dog and she wishes she looked like you”. I block them straight away

What"

Yeah. I’m pretty sure the gfs are actually imaginary most of the time, but it’s guaranteed to make me hate the guy and not make me feel flattered he chose me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve come across guys who talk shit about other women to flatter me, you the ones who send a first message saying something like “my gf is a stupid, ugly dog and she wishes she looked like you”. I block them straight away

What

Yeah. I’m pretty sure the gfs are actually imaginary most of the time, but it’s guaranteed to make me hate the guy and not make me feel flattered he chose me "

That sounds like it would make me feel like the guy would just turn around and say that about me to someone else

No game

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford


"Yeah I’ve got mates in my group that do this to each other. It’s such a side of people I wish we could eradicate

Honestly. It’s like a guy feels like they’re in there and they lose all their morals??"

I think there’s an element of ‘the game is the game’ but at some stage you have to look yourself in the mirror.

I’m alarmed at the amount of time I spend each week calling mates out on random nonsense

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

Yep, been on the end of this quite a few times and had, subsequently, put me off the dating game.

But whatever shit they say about me, I just readjust and carry on. My actions will soon prove them wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty macs? Yeh, it's pretty shameful like. I used to work with 1 years ago who would slag me and a mate of behind our backs to all the new girls that started.

There was a fella on fab a few weeks back who was tryna slag my profile of to everyone on one of my posts actually

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