FabSwingers.com forum: how to mention.... while w/ a new partner at a club

By *andF_fun OP Couple
over a year ago

Philly PA area

mention... the mrs. squirts.

According to the internet boards, some men seem to be still taken back by it, haven't had an experience w/ a female yet, others seem to want to, and have had experience.

How do you, as a female, let the guy know that you squirt?

I can mostly every time, and i mentioned to my husband if i'm with someone at a club, I told him to just nicely tap the guy on the shoulder and mention "looks like you might get her to squirt tonight", or something like that as a warning that it may happen.

do you just let it happen, and let the guy be surprised or anticipating it by mentioning it to him?

GUYS... Were you warned before hand, or did you just find out when it happened?

Just asking because we went to a club a few times, only happened the last trip with us being together. looking foreward to the first full swap and don't want to freak the guy out if it happens.