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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

Somewhere else

… not getting what you want?

Do you persist?

Do you throw a strop?

Do you try to change their mind?

I’ll start: I move on. I find something - or somebody - else to want. And I leave the person who didn’t want me to live their best life, while I live mine.

(Except Them. I’m obsessed and I just can’t let go. I just keep waiting for them to notice I’m The One who’s gonna change Their life…. Maybe )

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

I am not an object to be picked up and played with.

If they don’t want me then it’s end of.

People who one minute want you and then don’t are, in my opinion, narcissistic or game playing.

The hard thing is if you infatuate on them, but then that stops you noticing other sometimes amazing people around you

Too little is talked about the mental harm that people can cause to others.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
44 weeks ago

Leeds

Last time I checked I resembled an adult, so I try to act like one and realise that you can’t have everything you want.

Failing that I cry in a corner or throw myself of the ground fake screaming until some randomer shows me fake affection and then I feel better about not being a worthless piece of shit.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Depends what it is and what the situation is. If it’s a person I’m walking

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

I pretend I never wanted it anyway. And then sulk.

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

Somewhere else

https://youtu.be/b6YKXCwVIQ4?si=P9fk0eLfaTvMD3Vc

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

Somewhere else

Now that’s stuck in my head…

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By *ean counterMan
44 weeks ago

Market Harborough / Kettering

Read message, delete message, move on

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
44 weeks ago

1127 walnut avenue

I make a doll in their image and stick pins in it..

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

Somewhere else


"I make a doll in their image and stick pins in it.. "

I used some of his hair last time… for authenticity

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By *rivervaderMan
44 weeks ago

bolton

Send message no reply move on. God loves a tryer hopefully one day somebody else will

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