FabSwingers.com forum: Struggling conversations on here

By *amale1 OP Man
43 weeks ago

london

Just to see if it’s only me or not. As I do know I am a bit discreet on here (send face pics in message) and on the younger age range. It seems not a lot of people have conversations in messages here ? (I understand women’s pov they probably get 100’s or messages so it’s overwhelming) so I guess some of the men might have better answers ?

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

There’s a bloke who posted about this earlier. He can’t get replies but is spoilt for choice in clubs. Read his analysis if you dare.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
43 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

^^ this is the thread OP

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1564275

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By *amale1 OP Man
43 weeks ago

london

"There’s a bloke who posted about this earlier. He can’t get replies but is spoilt for choice in clubs. Read his analysis if you dare. "

Thanks I really want to have some genuine conversations here so anyway to improve that helps

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By *amale1 OP Man
43 weeks ago

london

"^^ this is the thread OP

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1564275"

Thank you I will definitely take a look at this

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By *bi HaiveMan
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43 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Just to see if it’s only me or not. As I do know I am a bit discreet on here (send face pics in message) and on the younger age range. It seems not a lot of people have conversations in messages here ? (I understand women’s pov they probably get 100’s or messages so it’s overwhelming) so I guess some of the men might have better answers ?"

Speaking as a guy.......

Generally people will view a profile before reading a message. They'll then decide whether to bother reading it or not based on whether there's anything in the profile text or images to spark interest.

It's not about the message. Its about generating enough interest using your profile 'shop window' before whatever you've written is even looked at.

Do that and you'll improve the chances of a conversation happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Same with my GF, wanted a girl experience yet no girls messaged her here. In the clubs she always had interest and snogged girls most clubs we went to.

I think most people here don't meet but just use it for wanking. The worst ones are the men who masquerade as women and couples.

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By *bwgirlygirlWoman
43 weeks ago

Glasgow

Any time I've chatted to females it's always 1 word replies. It's pathetic. I don't chat to females now. If you can't have a 2 way conversation with someone move on

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

"Any time I've chatted to females it's always 1 word replies. It's pathetic. I don't chat to females now. If you can't have a 2 way conversation with someone move on"

MOST women under 30 just aren't worth bothering with. Sooner talk to a wall. Different mindset.

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