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"And then it all goes nowhere and you have to start all over again. It’s exhausting "The best and worst part of poly is this ^ | |||
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"I prefer dating apps to fab  "I think dating apps should have a forum section like here. A good way to get to know people before taking it direct. I’d enjoy that. I mean how else did I work out that you should be avoided?! | |||
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"I'm awful at dating. Like, truly terrible at it " I second this  | |||
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"And then it all goes nowhere and you have to start all over again. It’s exhausting "This! I started internet dating (again) at Christmas and, while I never have problems matching online, getting someone to agree to a date is a task and a half. And then being on my best behaviour and hiding all the weird, trying to make a connection with her, hoping she feels the same if I like her. Exhausting. | |||
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"And then it all goes nowhere and you have to start all over again. It’s exhausting "Yeah I love the excitement of meeting new people but the practicality of it *is* absolutely exhausting as it can be a bad investment if it burns out/nose dives etc. I’d be fine if friendship came out of it rather than romance etc as that is worth investing in, but the stop-start of it is draining! Perhaps I’m just a shit date!  | |||
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"I'm awful at dating. Like, truly terrible at it " How so? | |||
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"Dating is so much harder than being on here. My face probably puts people off. I swipe and match but rarely get a reply so I must have bad chat too. I think I'm not pretty enough for tinder, too fussy for Pof too lazy for bumble and I'll never do Facebook dating again. I'm probably just going to be single forever! " I’ll date you. | |||
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"I've never been on a dating app apart from the fish site I went on for a nosey it's not for me" Keep away! For your own health! | |||
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"I prefer dating apps to fab
I think dating apps should have a forum section like here. A good way to get to know people before taking it direct. I’d enjoy that. I mean how else did I work out that you should be avoided?! "After we had sex I think you did? | |||
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"I prefer dating apps to fab
I think dating apps should have a forum section like here. A good way to get to know people before taking it direct. I’d enjoy that. I mean how else did I work out that you should be avoided?!
After we had sex I think you did?"In. Your. Dreams. Pickle. | |||
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"I'm awful at dating. Like, truly terrible at it I second this "Is that because I came second behind you in the World's Worst Dater competition? | |||
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"I'm awful at dating. Like, truly terrible at it I second this
Is that because I came second behind you in the World's Worst Dater competition? "Listen I’ll admit to being a social hand grenade
I had good intentions | |||
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too much like hard work. I’m going to go back to that once I’m more mobile. | |||
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"I'm awful at dating. Like, truly terrible at it " I'm out of practice lol | |||
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"I prefer dating apps to fab
I think dating apps should have a forum section like here. A good way to get to know people before taking it direct. I’d enjoy that. I mean how else did I work out that you should be avoided?!
After we had sex I think you did?
In. Your. Dreams. Pickle. "I still dream about the times we had sex, Yes. | |||
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"Oh I love dating. The getting to know each other, the playful flirting, the first kisses etc. But I think more importantly, I love how I feel about myself on a date. Like it’s a different person that doesn’t get to come out often "All of this. Dating is fun. | |||
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"Oh I love dating. The getting to know each other, the playful flirting, the first kisses etc. But I think more importantly, I love how I feel about myself on a date. Like it’s a different person that doesn’t get to come out often
All of this.
Dating is fun."Let’s go on a date. | |||
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"Why is dating so much angst? All that having to get to know someone from scratch. Is there a word for that? The dread of the small talk to get to know someone…? What do you write in the bio, what pics to choose that aren’t just thirst-trappin’ drill me now pics? The opening message. The where to go on the date. Ahhh it’s almost like being on here. " Date from here. It's much easier.  | |||
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"Oh I love dating. The getting to know each other, the playful flirting, the first kisses etc. But I think more importantly, I love how I feel about myself on a date. Like it’s a different person that doesn’t get to come out often
All of this.
Dating is fun.
Let’s go on a date. "Fuck it.  | |||
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"I prefer dating apps to fab
I think dating apps should have a forum section like here. A good way to get to know people before taking it direct. I’d enjoy that. I mean how else did I work out that you should be avoided?!
After we had sex I think you did?
In. Your. Dreams. Pickle.
I still dream about the times we had sex, Yes. "Oh let me know how I was, what we did, was it good for me, in your fantasy? Sounds intriguing. | |||
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"I prefer dating apps to fab
I think dating apps should have a forum section like here. A good way to get to know people before taking it direct. I’d enjoy that. I mean how else did I work out that you should be avoided?!
After we had sex I think you did?
In. Your. Dreams. Pickle.
I still dream about the times we had sex, Yes.
Oh let me know how I was, what we did, was it good for me, in your fantasy? Sounds intriguing. "No because then you’ll ruin it. Let me have this | |||
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"Why is dating so much angst? All that having to get to know someone from scratch. Is there a word for that? The dread of the small talk to get to know someone…? What do you write in the bio, what pics to choose that aren’t just thirst-trappin’ drill me now pics? The opening message. The where to go on the date. Ahhh it’s almost like being on here. Date from here. It's much easier. "I’M TRYING!! | |||
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"I prefer dating apps to fab
I think dating apps should have a forum section like here. A good way to get to know people before taking it direct. I’d enjoy that. I mean how else did I work out that you should be avoided?!
After we had sex I think you did?
In. Your. Dreams. Pickle.
I still dream about the times we had sex, Yes.
Oh let me know how I was, what we did, was it good for me, in your fantasy? Sounds intriguing.
No because then you’ll ruin it. Let me have this "I better be fucking awesome in it though. I need my ego fluffed.  | |||
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"Looking for a date is like looking for a job. The anxiety is the same, so is the excitement, when it goes well and rejection, when it doesn't. The only difference is getting told "...you're failing because you're trying too hard": funny how this never gets blurted out to desperate jobseekers "I might be better at dating if there was a potential for pay, I mean I’m great at interviews!! Maybe I’m just not motivated so much in the dating, or don’t believe in the product I’m selling! | |||
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"Dating is great If you don’t think it’s great, that’ll come through to others and you won’t do very well It’s about attitude " My ‘tude stinks | |||
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"I think I’m at a stage where I just want to cwtch up and watch a movie, snuggle fuck, snack, snuggle fuck, have a foot rub, sleep, morning sex, then maybe a hike or wild swim, throw in a couple of three suns/sex clubs etc. I can’t be arsed with the dating part. I want all the good stuff. "It's possible to do both you know....  | |||
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"Does anyone just date from normal life these days or is it all apps? My last relationship was my hairdresser. The apps are great, but nothing beats a natural thing just happening " I met one of my long term partners at work | |||
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"Does anyone just date from normal life these days or is it all apps? My last relationship was my hairdresser. The apps are great, but nothing beats a natural thing just happening " I find it easier to approach someone in person that I like the look of in person rather than the suspense buildup online and then meet - it’s like waiting for a launched firework to explode and see if it’s pretty or a damp squib online dating. | |||
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"I think I’m at a stage where I just want to cwtch up and watch a movie, snuggle fuck, snack, snuggle fuck, have a foot rub, sleep, morning sex, then maybe a hike or wild swim, throw in a couple of threesums/sex clubs etc. I can’t be arsed with the dating part. I want all the good stuff. "The best thing about FAB is "You're just using me for sex" isn't a default thought. I liked your hike and wild swim bits too, is it skinny dipping, that you're thinking of? Fancy a sensual all over spikey glove rub? | |||
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"Does anyone just date from normal life these days or is it all apps? My last relationship was my hairdresser. The apps are great, but nothing beats a natural thing just happening " I met my fiancé of 8 years at work | |||
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"Work seems like a place lots of people meet! I dunno about you lot, I keep a strict “don’t shit where you eat” policy So I avoid anything sexual/romantic from work or the gym or people in my close friend group " I fancy one of my line reports. They have no idea. I’m so fucking professional. | |||
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"Work seems like a place lots of people meet! I dunno about you lot, I keep a strict “don’t shit where you eat” policy So I avoid anything sexual/romantic from work or the gym or people in my close friend group " Yep, I have the same policy as you. | |||
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"Work seems like a place lots of people meet! I dunno about you lot, I keep a strict “don’t shit where you eat” policy So I avoid anything sexual/romantic from work or the gym or people in my close friend group " Nothing ventured, nothing gained
We had a great relationship and in the end an amicable split. | |||
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"Work seems like a place lots of people meet! I dunno about you lot, I keep a strict “don’t shit where you eat” policy So I avoid anything sexual/romantic from work or the gym or people in my close friend group Nothing ventured, nothing gained
We had a great relationship and in the end an amicable split."I think that’s a good mentality I just think there’s 1000 ways it could go bad or awkward so I don’t like to risk it Which is a shame because there’s some nice girls at my gym that seem interested but I just don’t want to make it weird when it goes bad | |||
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"Work seems like a place lots of people meet! I dunno about you lot, I keep a strict “don’t shit where you eat” policy So I avoid anything sexual/romantic from work or the gym or people in my close friend group Yep, I have the same policy as you." Yeah we spend ages around people we would date but don't ask out because we don't want it to be awkward if they yes or no | |||
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