FabSwingers.com forum: Maximum age gaps

By *ustylover98 OP Man
over a year ago

Warwickshire

What's your personal limit when it comes to age gaps?

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

I so want to answer 18-99.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've yet to determine mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older 40 years maybe. Those are my current feelings.

Younger I currently would not be with someone less than 5 years younger than me.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

I think my profile says about 10-15 years either way. Very much depends on the person of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No age gap limit here. Consenting adults

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

17 years younger probably 5 or 6 years older for casual sex.

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
over a year ago

Hell

Nobody under 30. Upper age limit maybe 50?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody under 30. Upper age limit maybe 50? "

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By *ougarsilkWoman
over a year ago

Pleasure heaven

Younger the rule of thumb normally is half your age plus 7

= lowest age limit 36. Upper set at 51

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"17 years younger probably 5 or 6 years older for casual sex."

*just* sneaks into the younger bracket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was 10 years either side of my age but someone older had me

I do like older but starting to go the other way as I'm not into the 'looks like my grandad' look or mid life crisis.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"17 years younger probably 5 or 6 years older for casual sex.

*just* sneaks into the younger bracket

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
over a year ago

Hell

"Nobody under 30. Upper age limit maybe 50?

CHRIS WHAT ARE YAS LAUGHIN FOR

AM BEIN SEEEEEEEERIOUS

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Nobody under 30. Upper age limit maybe 50? "

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By *olfandtazCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We have gone for 10 years older and 15 younger...we were getting messages from people younger than our kids

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

On here my age range was 36 to 50 when I was 56.

Yet in real life my partner was 22years older than me

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By *he_13th_ghostWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

No one under 30. I don't have a higher bracket? Still have own teeth though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on if they share a similar level of maturity, sensitivity, desire and humour. Compatibility shouldn't be confined by a number.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

5 years either side.

The mr

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By *undance_KidMan
over a year ago

London

23 to 63.

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By *undance_KidMan
over a year ago

London

22 at a push.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody under 30. Upper age limit maybe 50?

CHRIS WHAT ARE YAS LAUGHIN FOR

AM BEIN SEEEEEEEERIOUS

You do absolute right?

Like if your aunt had balls she’d be your uncle, but she doesn’t, so she’s not?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Older? Maybe twenty five years?

Younger? It's under review. I've realised that going solely for significantly older means I've potentially been missing out on a lot of fun. So yeah, I'll answer this later.

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

About 5. Otherwise, I might have competition from a mortician.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Finedon ,

Older Zero - Have you seen my age?

Younger 35 - Negotiable

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

normally over 30.but some people are worth breaking this rule. #youknowwhoyouare #annoyinghashtags

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

3rd Rock from the sun

"Younger the rule of thumb normally is half your age plus 7

= lowest age limit 36. Upper set at 51 "

By that rule of thumb 30 should be the lowest I'd go... but I say it all depends on the person ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"normally over 30.but some people are worth breaking this rule. #youknowwhoyouare #annoyinghashtags

I don’t know why I found these hashtags so funny

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Youngest 40 and oldest 65

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

39 to 50 I think. Can’t remember

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Lower limit is currently 25 but I could make an exception, depends on the person and their personality but I don’t think it’s ever going to be lower than 23. As for upper limit, I’m not attracted to men in my age or older, never been.

Interesting thing, this is completely different for women. I’m only bi playful but I like women around my age or older.

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By *aseylee324Couple
over a year ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

20 years younger (at a push) for men and he would have to be more mature than the average, older about 5 years. I tend not to engage with anyone admitting to being over 60 here, as it appears most are shaving at least 5 years off their real age.

Couples we tend to stay within 10 years of our own age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t have limits but have had someone 29 years younger and 22 years older

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By *emonochromeMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Purely for sex 21-59 for relationships I’d say 28-40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think I would want to fuck anyone who has just left school or a grandad with a zimmer frame, but I'm not over strict on ages. It's the person's attitude and personality that matters, unless in a club, then it can be more physical attraction.

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
over a year ago

Hell

"Nobody under 30. Upper age limit maybe 50?

CHRIS WHAT ARE YAS LAUGHIN FOR

AM BEIN SEEEEEEEERIOUS

You do absolute right?

Like if your aunt had balls she’d be your uncle, but she doesn’t, so she’s not?"

Do you know what I’m trying to say?

Not really but I’m loving the way you’re saying it

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

Someone's age is not my first consideration when looking at potential . I accept it's very important for others

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"What's your personal limit when it comes to age gaps? "

It's on my profile.

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By *onningtonplumberMan
over a year ago

Donnington

"Younger the rule of thumb normally is half your age plus 7

= lowest age limit 36. Upper set at 51 "

Didn't know there were rules lol

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Worcester

Down to about 30ish.

I used to sleep with men in their early twenties and then read a study about how the parts of the brain that help us with understanding long-term decision making, consequences, and critical thinking don’t finish developing until the mid-twenties. That, and reflecting on my own experiences of being a young person, made me quite uncomfortable.

Upper age? Probably about fifty.

I’m open to outliers, but they have to have something exceptionally interesting going on.

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By *onningtonplumberMan
over a year ago

Donnington

I'd be overly cautious of anyone under 30 upper limit I really don't know. In the past I have gone 20 years older and younger. Take it as it comes

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Biggest age gap has been 21 years younger, but it really depends on their maturity at that age.

Not really keen on anyone older than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody under 30. Upper age limit maybe 50?

CHRIS WHAT ARE YAS LAUGHIN FOR

AM BEIN SEEEEEEEERIOUS

You do absolute right?

Like if your aunt had balls she’d be your uncle, but she doesn’t, so she’s not?

Do you know what I’m trying to say?

Not really but I’m loving the way you’re saying it "

A great example of things being old but still funny. Like you

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

30 - 66

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the half your age plus 7 good guide. I hate to go with a lady then find out was friend of my kids or younger than them . There all early 30s. So half my plus 7 means 37 upwards.

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

"I think the half your age plus 7 good guide. I hate to go with a lady then find out was friend of my kids or younger than them . There all early 30s. So half my plus 7 means 37 upwards. "

33 upwards for me then

Have mine at 29-69 and think that’s fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are always exceptions but for me never anyone younger than me.Always felt off the times that ended up happening but there was an awkward time where I had to explain to someone older what a VHS was.Put me right off for some reason

Older I’d say up to 45 even though.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Max for me is 20years difference.

21 and over no go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the half your age plus 7 good guide. I hate to go with a lady then find out was friend of my kids or younger than them . There all early 30s. So half my plus 7 means 37 upwards. "

Who invented that I wonder? Why 7?

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By *aseylee324Couple
over a year ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

"I think the half your age plus 7 good guide. I hate to go with a lady then find out was friend of my kids or younger than them . There all early 30s. So half my plus 7 means 37 upwards. "

But should I round up or down when my age is an odd number?

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

40 - 70

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Max for me is 20years difference.

21 and over no go.

I know this ain’t who I think it is

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By *ockslutt28Man
over a year ago

Greenock

For me:-

25-65

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

18+ and as long as physical attraction to want to fuck it’s fine with me

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By *anno278Man
over a year ago

chester

20 years younger and older . Why not?

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield

Current local fwb is 31

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London

"Younger the rule of thumb normally is half your age plus 7

= lowest age limit 36. Upper set at 51 "

Who's rule of thumb?

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By *ntrigued888Woman
over a year ago

Beds

My age preference is 35-45

Got the bear in mind some people aren't truthful about their age

Definitely won't entertain anyone younger than my children

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My age preference is 35-45

Got the bear in mind some people aren't truthful about their age

Definitely won't entertain anyone younger than my children "

Does the bear attack the liars?

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By *ntrigued888Woman
over a year ago

Beds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To infinity and beyond!!!!….,

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By *ntrigued888Woman
over a year ago

Beds

"My age preference is 35-45

Got the bear in mind some people aren't truthful about their age

Definitely won't entertain anyone younger than my children

Does the bear attack the liars?"

Liars is a bit strong...just bending the truth

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield

Please keep it in the forum.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Worcester

"Younger the rule of thumb normally is half your age plus 7

= lowest age limit 36. Upper set at 51

Who's rule of thumb?"

This rule was actually originated by English aristocracy in the Victorian period.

It was actually the MAXIMUM acceptable age of a wife.

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By *ongandharderMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

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By *ongandharderMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

Well I'm 28 up to 55-56 is max

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Younger the rule of thumb normally is half your age plus 7

= lowest age limit 36. Upper set at 51

Who's rule of thumb?

This rule was actually originated by English aristocracy in the Victorian period.

It was actually the MAXIMUM acceptable age of a wife."

Sounds about right

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"What's your personal limit when it comes to age gaps? "

Generally 20 years either way, but in clubs we've certainly had sex with people more than 20 years younger.

I'm not usually attracted to those old enough to be my parent or young enough to be my child.

Nita

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

"Younger the rule of thumb normally is half your age plus 7

= lowest age limit 36. Upper set at 51

Who's rule of thumb?

This rule was actually originated by English aristocracy in the Victorian period.

It was actually the MAXIMUM acceptable age of a wife."

Oooooh, interesting.

Don’t want one of those though

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By *reachersdaughterWoman
over a year ago

Someplace

Wouldn't go for anyone younger, but that's probably cos I'm young myself. Don't really have a limit on older

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

…

Wouldn’t go for anyone younger but would consider someone up to 15 years older

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"Max for me is 20years difference.

21 and over no go.

I know this ain’t who I think it is"

Ha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wouldn't go for anyone younger, but that's probably cos I'm young myself. Don't really have a limit on older "

Yeah at 22 saying you’d date younger is a dangerous game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My rule is anyone over 18 but no one older than 99

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

3rd Rock from the sun

"My rule is anyone over 18 but no one older than 99"

..about in the middle lol

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By *lueDressWoman
over a year ago

Bath

If it's a friendship, then no age gaps are an issue.

But with romance I prefer them to be older...but younger for casual fun.

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By *nnex888Man
33 weeks ago

east sussex

50-85 don’t judge just my preference

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By *ongandharderMan
33 weeks ago

Rotherham

Women around my age to 55

Men would have to be around my age

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
33 weeks ago

North Wessex Downs

Entirely depends on the person and their outlook. I've met girls in their 20s going on 60s and ladies in their 60s going on 20

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By *ealitybitesMan
33 weeks ago

Belfast

The smaller the better

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By *r_WeimaranerMan
33 weeks ago

Swaythling, Southampton

"What's your personal limit when it comes to age gaps? "

No real limits, per se...

But my record is

+22 years

-13 years

Can't see me going that much older again.

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By *eorgesdad69Man
33 weeks ago

Long Eaton

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By *eorgesdad69Man
33 weeks ago

Long Eaton

I had a 2 year sexual affair with a guy 45 years younger than me. We both enjoyed it for gaining and giving experience

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

I don't really have a limit around age as it's down to the person.

As a teen I had a Mrs Robinson fantasy so had a few dalliances of varying lengths with women 20 and 30 years older.

In my 30s I had a thing with a girl during her time at uni.

Now, knocking on the door if 50 I'm genuinely okay with 18-80. It's all down to the person and how we connect.

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By *wlmanMan
28 weeks ago

Rugby

I had,an age gap of 23 years, she was 17 I was 40

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By *orace99Man
28 weeks ago

York

"It's all down to the person and how we connect."

Definitely this.

Last was 24yrs younger than me.

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By *ornywife20Couple
28 weeks ago

North Cork

The age close to that of our children is our no go area. Seems just wrong to us.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
28 weeks ago

Ends

"Max for me is 20years difference.

21 and over no go.

I know this ain’t who I think it is

Ha!

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"The age close to that of our children is our no go area. Seems just wrong to us. "

Given mine are still at school I'd concur, definitely a no-go for me too.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
28 weeks ago

Ends

"The age close to that of our children is our no go area. Seems just wrong to us.

Given mine are still at school I'd concur, definitely a no-go for me too.

LOOOOOOOOOOL

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

No teenagers and no one older than my Mum

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"No teenagers and no one older than my Mum"

I should probably clarify that I mean 18/19

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By *heGateKeeperMan
28 weeks ago

Stratford

No one under 30 or older than 49

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By *hilledExplorerMan
28 weeks ago

Colchester

No one under 30, not that any would be interested anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"No teenagers and no one older than my Mum

I should probably clarify that I mean 18/19

Your first post covered that Joe

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By *cLovin2Man
28 weeks ago

Reading

I reckon women don't physically fully mature till around 27, hence starting point. I do prefer younger women not so keen on older women, though a previous lady I saw was a bit older. I reckon 27 to 50ish...

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
28 weeks ago

North Wessex Downs

Depends entirely on the lady....

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