FabSwingers.com forum: I still think about her

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I just saw her come up on feeld. Now I’m in my feels.

Do you have that person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little. Except she joined here and did a complete 180. So I feel for who she was, not who she is now

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No. Apart from my late partner

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

*Looks up Feeld*

No, I don't have that feeling.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"I just saw her come up on feeld. Now I’m in my feels.

Do you have that person?"

Yep, three of them. Although one is no longer with us so she won’t be popping up anywhere.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Nah. Unless someone is in my line of sight or regularly in my DMs then I don't think about them at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nada …

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I just saw her come up on feeld. Now I’m in my feels.

Do you have that person?

Yep, three of them. Although one is no longer with us so she won’t be popping up anywhere."

If she does that will be a miracle…

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Yes and no.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

No. I’ve often thought I found a person like that but they always disappoint me.

Now I have big walls so nobody can get in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

lol deep. Maybe she was one of my great ones

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By *ivlimestMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Absolutely, still madly in love after a few years of splitting up, my soulmate!

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW

"No. I’ve often thought I found a person like that but they always disappoint me.

Now I have big walls so nobody can get in. "

This ^^^^

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dGw3w_njQ4g

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God yes!!

And it’s annoying because I was over it and then bang….message sent and I’m behaving like a loved up school boy again to be taken for a fool once more!!

Why do we do this to ourselves

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No. I’ve often thought I found a person like that but they always disappoint me.

Now I have big walls so nobody can get in. "

I’m not with this person lol

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Yep its actually 4 years to the day since i last saw her that was the best day of my life but those days are gone now my only wish is that shes thriving wherever she is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss and think about her every day. And she thinks about me. I know because sometimes I’ll get a d*unk message telling me she misses me and loves me.

But when she’s sober the next day, she apologises for ‘being emotional’

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By *esire in SheffieldMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I was 12 years old I fall in love. When ever I see her I feel like I’m going to have heart attack. I haven’t seen her maybe for 6-7 years but when ever I hear something about love she comes into my mind and I feel shit

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No. I'm either cold hearted or pragmatic depending on your viewpoint. Once they're out of my life, they're out of my emotions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got an ex partner from like 20 years ago that crosses my mind, more so now because I was a dick in the way I ended us and I want to reach out and apologise.

But she looks happily married on fb with child, so I don't think me reaching out will resolve anything.

More my own selfish reasons really.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I think I'm just emotionless. Once they've gone they've gone

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Yes.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Yes, my first love

We’ve stayed in touch intermittently over the last 28 years, it’s just never been the right time

Popped up two weeks ago to tell me I was on his mind

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By *ecretescapeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Yep

The great Meet that got away

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I used to have people like this... But then I realised they were mostly quite toxic and no good for me, so those thoughts and feelings weren't genuine.

I don't think there's anyone I feel like that about anymore, and it's actually quite nice.

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By *rT25Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Yes, not from here though.

Ended up back at a good friend's house after a few drinks.

Now she won't speak to me even after we've tried to clear the air.

Always bump into her at the same class at the gym so very awkward

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I don't just stop caring for people who were important to me once.

I can compartmentalise that off in general when someone is no longer a part of my life. But the care is still there. A little contact or reminder can spike it easily enough.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I just saw her come up on feeld. Now I’m in my feels.

Do you have that person?"

I did.

I don't anymore. Time changes that.

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

"No. Apart from my late partner"

Same, I absolutely know she’s gone, but still feel her about at times. Rationally I know it’s me and my mind but, that’s how it goes

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Occasionally I think about I person I once had feelings for but I try not to.. no use opening up old wounds

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By *oding1Man
over a year ago

marlow

Our affair ended 35 years ago, we remained friends till her death 7 years ago and I still dream about her...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, haven't seen her since July 2022 but I still think about her occasionally, time does help to lessen it though.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Not really. Once it’s done it’s done for me. Some I’m still friends with and care about their life and what they’re doing. But I don’t pine

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By *onningtonplumberMan
over a year ago

Donnington

Took me many years to get over my first wife. Now the only connection is our children. I have ex's I see because they live close by. One ex for whom the feeling are are will always be negative but never think of her unless like this thread someone asks about ex's and one ex i often think about fondly, she's with a guy and they have a child so I am happy for her. It's fondness not live though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can have moments. But then I realise why I wasn’t for them and then for me

It’s easy to look back with rose tinted glassss

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Yeah and it sucks.

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By *sWyldWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yup and it hurts a lot.

He's still my first and last thought of every day (and many others in between)

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By *weetCherryWoman
over a year ago

London

I thought so, but I was sorely mistaken. The only other person that made me feel like that has now vanished from the face of the earth, not in a literal sense but more as I’m not able to find him anymore, not even sure which country he’s currently living at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep. Px

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Yup and it hurts a lot.

He's still my first and last thought of every day (and many others in between)

Hugs xx

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By *iz78Woman
over a year ago

wirral

"I just saw her come up on feeld. Now I’m in my feels.

Do you have that person?"

Like you were hit by a truck and it fucked you up!

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

There is nothing louder and more invasive to the brain then seeing them online on WhatsApp and receiving no message.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"There is nothing louder and more invasive to the brain then seeing them online on WhatsApp and receiving no message.

Don't I know that! ... he's blocked me now and I've deleted his number...less traumatic all round

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"There is nothing louder and more invasive to the brain then seeing them online on WhatsApp and receiving no message.

Don't I know that! ... he's blocked me now and I've deleted his number...less traumatic all round"

Mine is a good friend so there’s no escape!

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"There is nothing louder and more invasive to the brain then seeing them online on WhatsApp and receiving no message.

Don't I know that! ... he's blocked me now and I've deleted his number...less traumatic all round

Mine is a good friend so there’s no escape!

Ouch... we were friends but he met someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which girl are we talking about?

Everytime I hear the theme tune for 90210 I think of Shannon Docharty.

The last Women in my Dm I think of her

If I see a tattoo I have, she pops in my head

The last person I fell in love with

Or should I just check out one of the notches on my bed post?…

People pop in my head, and then they pop back out.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Nah, I only think about my wonderful husband and he's not on feeld at the moment

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I sometimes think of my favourite boss who I had a crush on for years. It was purely innocent as he was happily married and openly adored her. I think that is why I liked him.

I like men who aren’t closed off from showing their feelings and emotions to the world, particularly romantic feelings. You’d catch him watching her as she walked about the office and he’d have that gooey soft eyed look in his eyes and it was heart warming to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can feel things about different people in different ways and be very fond of them or the memories.

There are one or two I could spend time with again in a heartbeat because I enjoyed them and even get into bed with again.

My head knows in some cases I'd need to be stood up against and wall and shot in the head for it. Another I wouldn't but he'd never ever try or ask.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

No. I'd rather my spend time, on the people current in my life, who need me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. I'd rather my spend time, on the people current in my life, who need me

Someone once phrased - letting them live in your head rent free. Nobody lives in my head rent free, I evicted the ones I don’t need ages ago. I know I charge premium for the penthouse suite.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Not one person no. Much like Petite, different things can remind me of different people.

This morning I was dealing with one particular thing and it reminded me of someone - in a good way. I don't think it's a bad thing to remember people. Memories and feelings. I care quite deeply about people when I do care and I think they've all played a part in making me who I am today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup and it hurts a lot.

He's still my first and last thought of every day (and many others in between)

I feel that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nah, I only think about my wonderful husband and he's not on feeld at the moment

He’d clean up

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By *ames_HertsMan
over a year ago

North Hertfordshire

I have a few

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"I have a few

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Nah, I only think about my wonderful husband and he's not on feeld at the moment

He’d clean up "

Nah, I think he got bored of it (and so did I) because most women are either a couple looking for another woman for a threesome, or they just want BDSM.

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By *emidemiWoman
over a year ago

basingstoke

Yes.

He went travelling for 6 months, he’s home now and with someone new… his feeld account is paused

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Every person I've ever fallen in love with. Every one unique and special, and every one still has a place in my heart.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Yes.

He went travelling for 6 months, he’s home now and with someone new… his feeld account is paused "

Hugs x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes.

He went travelling for 6 months, he’s home now and with someone new… his feeld account is paused "
shall we fuck? To get over them?

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By *inklersMan
over a year ago

norwich

Yes

It sucks

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Maybe one, if he popped up somewhere, would give my heart a jolt.

I sometimes wonder if he's married with children now, and still playing in a band.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Yes

It sucks"

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Maybe one, if he popped up somewhere, would give my heart a jolt.

I sometimes wonder if he's married with children now, and still playing in a band.

I'm well and truly over him.

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By *emidemiWoman
over a year ago

basingstoke

"Yes.

He went travelling for 6 months, he’s home now and with someone new… his feeld account is paused shall we fuck? To get over them? "

Look we’ve been trying to plan for this months now

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