FabSwingers.com forum: Are you monogamous?

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over a year ago

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

ish

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Not by the dictionary definition, no. Although at the moment we are.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I could be, with the right man.

I'm getting on a bit and barely have enough energy for one commited relationship.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

When I’m in a relationship yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, ethically non monogamous.

I’ve never been in a monogamous relationship.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

No.

Neither sexually or emotionally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

With the right person yes.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"When I’m in a relationship yes

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This

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No.

Neither sexually or emotionally "

My people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, ethically non monogamous.

I’ve never been in a monogamous relationship."

Gold star ENM

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"ish"

The latest spinoff of Black-ish starting Nora the explorer- Monogam-ish

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not by the dictionary definition, no. Although at the moment we are. "

Emotionally are you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I could be, with the right man.

I'm getting on a bit and barely have enough energy for one commited relationship.

Fair enough

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

No.

I've only ever been ethically non-monogamous though. Feel like that deserves a little sticker saying good job.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When I’m in a relationship yes

One thing about, babe, she’s LOYAL.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"ish

The latest spinoff of Black-ish starting Nora the explorer- Monogam-ish"

Monogamish! Yes. That’s what I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if I'm in a relationship or dating someone exclusively

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"When I’m in a relationship yes

One thing about, babe, she’s LOYAL. "

Just the one thing?

But yes. I’m loyal. Even when the relationships were shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone asks, yes

In reality, only with the ones I want to be with

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By *KTim61Man
over a year ago

Tipton

I've got yo find 1 girl 1st

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

Not in a relationship currently. But when i am then yes.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Not by the dictionary definition, no. Although at the moment we are.

Emotionally are you?"

Yes. Most certainly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physically yes. Emotionally no.

Although currently I am neither

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Some days we are

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I am not.

I love who I love. I fuck who I fuck. I enjoy my freedom and don't ever want to give it up again for the sake of pointless social protocols

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Yes. I never have more than one wife at a time.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Sometimes I like to think I couldn’t be either emotionally or sexually monogamous but I’ve come to discover it’s ingrained in me that I am.

Shit, sometimes I’m both emotionally & sexually monogamous and incredibly loyal to those that don’t even deserve me, that’s how much it’s become part on my inner, deep dark, life values.

Not sure how or if I can change or even if I want to

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I am. Juggling ain’t for me

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I wouldn't go to KFC and have 1 piece of chicken, I'll leave it at that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My dick is in a monogamous relationship with my right hand.

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

In the past yes, now ENM

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By *olfandtazCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Not in the normal sense of it otherwise we wouldn't be on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No.

Neither sexually or emotionally "

Sexually I agree, emotionally though, for me that's a hard limit. I've been on the receiving end of a partner being emotionally non monogamous, and I was not wired that way, we were not compatible. I guess that's the beauty of different people liking different things though.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

In intent? No.

In practice? Somewhere between monogamous and celibate. lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sometimes I like to think I couldn’t be either emotionally or sexually monogamous but I’ve come to discover it’s ingrained in me that I am.

Shit, sometimes I’m both emotionally & sexually monogamous and incredibly loyal to those that don’t even deserve me, that’s how much it’s become part on my inner, deep dark, life values.

Not sure how or if I can change or even if I want to

It’s hard unlearning. Finding out about non monogamy was liberating for me and felt like it meant I could be who I feel like I am. If it didn’t feel right, it’s probably not for you. Being monogamous isn’t a bad thing. Just that it’s not for everyone like society teaches

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By *in and bare itCouple
over a year ago

kent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I describe myself as ambiamorous ...

But in answer to your question No.

I have a partner I love ..I like the freedom of knowing I can see others romantically or sexually if I want too and wether I choose to use that freedom is within my control.

With the obvious proviso of communication and it not adversely impacting my existing relationship etc

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"When I’m in a relationship yes

This for me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn’t when I was younger .., and then I was for 20+ years.

I’m not right now ….. but I guess I might find out again one day, who knows???

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By *ophie199Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Hell no!!

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I tried it once for a few years and I kept being overwhelmed with my emotions, I need many people to spread my love with, and I love them loving other people, its a love in I say, a love in

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

I absolutely couldn't be monogamous.

I've been in open relationships all my adult life, as long as everyone is happy with the arrangement then it's great.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

No. I was for a long time. Now we've discovered the joy of swinging.

I don't think I could be truly emotionally non-monogamous. I get a bit overwhelmed with all the feelings. Although I do like building connections with people, but my marriage will always be my priority.

Mrs TMN x

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

No.

I’m a relationship anarchist.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Emotionally, I consider myself poly minus. I love my friends deeply and fiercely and will move heaven and earth for my inner circle... but we're not making a habit of anyone staying here. Outta my house.

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

No I was untill my wife went off for a couple of weeks with another guy some years ago and since then have promised myself to take advantage of almost any opportunity, not sure if I have consumated that idea yet lol.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

If the right person was to come along then yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be happier with the freedom of an open relationship but I don't find men are very interested (at least the ones I'm interested in). I may have to choose.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
over a year ago

The last house on the left…

In a relationship, yes

The rest of the time....

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By *sWyldWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Ultimately I want to be.

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By *aseylee324Couple
over a year ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

Emotionally, yes

Physically, most of the time

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Yes I’m all or nothing.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We are definitely emotionally monogamous physically not so much

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Emotionally yes, sexually no.

However our relationship comes 1st if either wanted monogamy then that's what it would be, fabs just a bit of fun.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Emotionally yes, sexually no.

However our relationship comes 1st if either wanted monogamy then that's what it would be, fabs just a bit of fun.

Mrs "

I want this relationship^. Not, theirs, my own.

It’s like when you’re shopping, and you see someone has a box of doughnuts in the basket. And you can go and buy a box of doughnuts for yourself.

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

Given the opportunity with the right person, most definitely

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Not by the dictionary definition, no. Although at the moment we are. "

We could be kindred spirits

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No.

I’m a relationship anarchist. "

And an anarchist in general

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"No. I was for a long time. Now we've discovered the joy of swinging.

Mrs TMN x"

This puts it very well

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over a year ago

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

No. I was for twenty years of marriage. Now we're ENM.

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

Nope. Open and proud!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not important to us.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Was when I was with someone x

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By *ophie199Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I just love cock!!! (Soph)

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By *eronikapaulCouple
over a year ago

Reading

from Greek, from monogamos monogamous, from mon- + gamos marriage, from gamein to marry. Thank you dicipoedia.

We are each only married to one person,ergo we are monogamous and everything on here is just entertainment?

To head you off at the pass...the same could logically be said of a pair of cheaters on fab whose monogametes don't know. Suggestions please for an

alternative word to differentiate the two.

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By *eronikapaulCouple
over a year ago

Reading

plenty of other good fab relevant words in the dictionary.

APLANOGAMY

"can't travel"

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I've been married three times. The first and the last were ENM after a period of monogamy; the second was monogamous and, funnily, by far the least satisfactory.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Worcester

No. Haven’t been for over fifteen years and wouldn’t be ever again.

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By *mooth shaftMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

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On a sex site

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Fuck no , share and share alike I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I meet someone with a connection, who wants it, without a doubt I am all for it.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"from Greek, from monogamos monogamous, from mon- + gamos marriage, from gamein to marry. Thank you dicipoedia.

We are each only married to one person,ergo we are monogamous and everything on here is just entertainment?

To head you off at the pass...the same could logically be said of a pair of cheaters on fab whose monogametes don't know. Suggestions please for an

alternative word to differentiate the two.

This is where the E in ENM becomes important

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Emotionally yes, sexually no (otherwise we wouldn't be on here).

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I was, even when half of a swinging couple.

Now? Emotionally yes, physically no.

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By *erdyCurvyInkedPervyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Nope, not in the slightest.

I'm pansexual polyamorous. That's the official title. In reality, I just love everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a partnership, yes. I would want to focus wholly on the relationship and make it work and I hope the significant other would want to do the same also. But I would be open to exploring and seeing what we discover, in trying different dynamics that we're curious about.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

not even vaguely but I am ethical.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

E.n.m here

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield

No, I still eat chicken and fish.

Seriously tho, ENM I guess, if it has to be labelled.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
over a year ago

wonderland.

I didn't ever think I could ever be but Mr and I discussed it recently and agreed we could with each other... if the other wanted it

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