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By *zms OP   Man
44 weeks ago

London

1. Cuming through self love hand or toy?

2. Cuming through oral sex?

3. Cuming through penetration?

I have heard many answers over the years, what's your view and why?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
44 weeks ago

Reading

1 and 3

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By *naswingdressWoman
44 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Penetration. Others barely scratch the itch (although don't worry, if there's an itch, I won't try to share!)

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By *iscean_dreamMan
44 weeks ago

Llanelli

3 as wanking isn't on the same level at all and bj's suck

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By *ackFromTheDead2Man
44 weeks ago

London/Surrey

231

Cumming from Oral sex is a complete different feeling but it's rare to find skilled people who can get you there

Penetrating sex when with the right person & connection can be as intense & pleasurable as oral

Hand I just try to get it done as fast as I can it's more of a chore than enjoying it

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By *ellaboo400Couple
44 weeks ago

Gorebridge

3 although it can take a while and some blood sweat and tears some days

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
44 weeks ago

Leeds

3 Mrs

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By *ornycougaWoman
44 weeks ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

Oral every day of the week (or anal with a bullet on my clit)

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By *lfa RomeoMan
44 weeks ago

southeast , Herts, Beds

No 3, it's just the best feeling.

No.2, I've never managed to cum when been given a BJ. If there's a woman out there that would like to try and get me to cum by a BJ please step forward

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Depends on the moment really. Had some amazing blowjobs, also some amazing self edging. I founf nothing beats a fuck tho

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

I've only ever come from 1.

So...I choose number 1!

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By *ad NannaWoman
44 weeks ago

East London

Penetration for me.

I don't self-love,and as much as I love it when a man can give me really amazing orgasms from giving me oral, I love having a warm body next to mine while coming.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago


"Penetration for me.

I don't self-love,and as much as I love it when a man can give me really amazing orgasms from giving me oral, I love having a warm body next to mine while coming."

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By *ileyandOhCouple
44 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

2 and 3 together normal sets me off a couple of times

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
44 weeks ago

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3, just feels the best. 2 I find very boring

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

3,2,1 in that order

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By *olfandtazCouple
44 weeks ago

Bristol

2 or 3 work, number 1 barely scratches the itch

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By *ellaboo400Couple
44 weeks ago

Gorebridge


"Oral every day of the week (or anal with a bullet on my clit) "

Butt stuff with the clit suction toy too omg

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

There's note ways to control and manipulate an orgasm through self pleasure, so there's probably more variety there.

What actually feels the best , is penetration, but only in relationships where I've used no condom.

Condom orgasms are crap. There's no denying they reduce tactile sensation. I've yet to find a brand that really gives a good sensation.

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By *imply DeeWoman
44 weeks ago

Wherever

1 for me.

Very rarely 2, but nothing ever comes close since I’ve had a mind blowing experience with someone a couple of years ago.

3 is a no.

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By *imber wolfMan
44 weeks ago

Aycliffe


"1. Cuming through self love hand or toy?

2. Cuming through oral sex?

3. Cuming through penetration?

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1. Always great, it’s my own body so obviously I know how to guarantee the best pleasure but it’s very genital centric so lacks a little satisfaction.

2. I love oral any which way round you like but I rarely orgasm from it.

3. Not always the strongest climaxes but the shared experience both physical and emotional more than makes up for that.

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By *ust want fun 888Man
44 weeks ago

nearby

Number one because I’ve been doing it so long and it’s personal to me number two because I always come when my cock is sucked number three mainly because it’s rare

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

2 & 3.

Using toys is great and always leads to orgasm but the feeling of a tongue against your clit prolonged makes an orgasm super intense.

Orgasms from penetration are number 1 for me!

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By *zms OP   Man
44 weeks ago

London

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By *zms OP   Man
44 weeks ago

London


"1 and 3"

Why is it the internal stimulation or hitting those spots etc. ? or it isn't being done right?

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By *zms OP   Man
44 weeks ago

London


"Penetration. Others barely scratch the itch (although don't worry, if there's an itch, I won't try to share!)"
LOL the itch comment..lol only funny until someone starts scratching...lol

I would have thought toys would have been a close second?

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By *naswingdressWoman
44 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Penetration. Others barely scratch the itch (although don't worry, if there's an itch, I won't try to share!) LOL the itch comment..lol only funny until someone starts scratching...lol

I would have thought toys would have been a close second?"

Different women are different.

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By *zms OP   Man
44 weeks ago

London


"3 although it can take a while and some blood sweat and tears some days "

Tears of Joy I hope...lol but sweat is always good.

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By *zms OP   Man
44 weeks ago

London


"Oral every day of the week (or anal with a bullet on my clit) "

Anal over normal penetration? interesting...lol hmmmm What about normal penetration with the bullet on your clit?

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By *zms OP   Man
44 weeks ago

London


"No 3, it's just the best feeling.

No.2, I've never managed to cum when been given a BJ. If there's a woman out there that would like to try and get me to cum by a BJ please step forward "

LOL let me know how you get mate with the request out to the ladies..lmao

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By *ellhungvweMan
44 weeks ago

Cheltenham

3 after a good long session - to finally release inside her as she is cumming as well is the best!

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By *zms OP   Man
44 weeks ago

London


"I've only ever come from 1.

So...I choose number 1!"

Wow...is it about the partner or the way you are built...? or just not relaxed enough?

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By *zms OP   Man
44 weeks ago

London


"Penetration for me.

I don't self-love,and as much as I love it when a man can give me really amazing orgasms from giving me oral, I love having a warm body next to mine while coming."

Yeah I would agree that skin to skin contact can be insatiable, completely understood.

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By *eyeYCouple
44 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Err.. They all physically feel the same, it's the grey matter that determines which you prefer. #blindfoldandguess

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By *parkle1974Woman
44 weeks ago

Leeds

1 and 3 for me x

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By *zms OP   Man
44 weeks ago

London


"Oral every day of the week (or anal with a bullet on my clit)

Butt stuff with the clit suction toy too omg"

I have used that combo on a woman too, had to lick the sweat of her body afterwards killa combo!

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By *zms OP   Man
44 weeks ago

London


"1 and 3 for me x"

In that order I take it?...lol

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By *zms OP   Man
44 weeks ago

London


"Err.. They all physically feel the same, it's the grey matter that determines which you prefer. #blindfoldandguess "

I like it (naughty...)

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By *he KinkysCouple
44 weeks ago

Edinburgh

That would be 3 x

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By *aizyWoman
44 weeks ago

west midlands

3,2,1 for me.

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By *rispyDuckMan
44 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

No 3 ofcourse

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By *zms OP   Man
44 weeks ago

London


"2 & 3.

Using toys is great and always leads to orgasm but the feeling of a tongue against your clit prolonged makes an orgasm super intense.

Orgasms from penetration are number 1 for me! "

Yeah, I think this favourable to most... Something about the touch.. connections

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By *alm_one4Man
44 weeks ago

RM16

3 and 2.

1 isn’t anywhere near as good, and seems a bit of a waste of time to me, only to be used in extreme circumstances!

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By *damxxMan
44 weeks ago

London

For me nothing beats penetration.

Very rarely cum during oral sex no matter whos on the end of it! And well hand is good but just not as good

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago


"231

Cumming from Oral sex is a complete different feeling but it's rare to find skilled people who can get you there

Penetrating sex when with the right person & connection can be as intense & pleasurable as oral

Hand I just try to get it done as fast as I can it's more of a chore than enjoying it"

I love a long wank and intense cum. The other two are better though

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By *2000ManMan
44 weeks ago

Worthing

2. But only with the person I know who does it the best.

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By *ornycougaWoman
44 weeks ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat


"Oral every day of the week (or anal with a bullet on my clit)

Anal over normal penetration? interesting...lol hmmmm What about normal penetration with the bullet on your clit?"

Good but my orgasm is nowhere near as intense as rear entry

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago


"Oral every day of the week (or anal with a bullet on my clit)

Anal over normal penetration? interesting...lol hmmmm What about normal penetration with the bullet on your clit?

Good but my orgasm is nowhere near as intense as rear entry"

Well that's certainly interesting...

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By *ornycougaWoman
44 weeks ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat


"Oral every day of the week (or anal with a bullet on my clit)

Anal over normal penetration? interesting...lol hmmmm What about normal penetration with the bullet on your clit?

Good but my orgasm is nowhere near as intense as rear entry

Well that's certainly interesting... "

I'd like to qualify that... *usually* nowhere near as intense

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago


"Oral every day of the week (or anal with a bullet on my clit)

Anal over normal penetration? interesting...lol hmmmm What about normal penetration with the bullet on your clit?

Good but my orgasm is nowhere near as intense as rear entry

Well that's certainly interesting...

I'd like to qualify that... *usually* nowhere near as intense "

Always good to compare and contrast though. You know, for science

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By *weet6Woman
44 weeks ago

East Riding

2.

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By *empest2KMan
44 weeks ago

Derby

In my experience, option 3 has usually been the most pleasurable, but I have experienced a couple of occasions where it just hasn't hit the spot, for one reason or another.

Option 1 is a safe bet, albeit somewhat mundane, especially having been single for many, many years when I was younger, and had no opportunities for anything else at the time.

Option 2 has been the least pleasurable, somewhat surprisingly. Sadly, I think a few lacklustre experiences during my early sex life (especially as a late starter, I regret to say) probably tarnished this sex act for me, and I've yet to experience an occasion that has been truly mind-blowing. But if a lady would like to prove otherwise, I'm welcome to offers

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By *enelope2UWoman
44 weeks ago

Fife

2

1

3

Sometimes 1 and 2 cross but three is never first pick ever

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By *xfordjohnMan
44 weeks ago

Oxford

3 if we both cum together; more intimate and fully engaged

2 if done well. I was spoilt by my first wife who could do this expertly.I haven't met anyone as good since.

1 as the last resort

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By *ittleMizzNaughty88.Woman
44 weeks ago

Renfrewshire

1 & 2

Never picked 3 as I prefer anal!

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By *oopy Lou 666Woman
44 weeks ago

Heaven.....………. I came down from Heaven

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By *mcheshireMan
44 weeks ago

Cheshire

1 and 3.

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By *oopy Lou 666Woman
44 weeks ago

Heaven.....………. I came down from Heaven

In order

1 3 2

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By *zms OP   Man
44 weeks ago

London


" In order

1 3 2

"

Oh I like that order...;)

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