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By *omersetsmithy OP Man
43 weeks ago

Horfield

I confused about mistress and BDSM rules . Payment for favours sounds like a scam any one out the can help me

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
43 weeks ago

Reading

"I confused about mistress and BDSM rules . Payment for favours sounds like a scam any one out the can help me"

there are paid services. female doms are fairly rare.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
43 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I'm most cases, Pro Dommes are paid for their services, and most men who use them are happy to do so.

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By *ssex_tomMan
43 weeks ago

Chelmsford

The best scam is the Mistresses who take the piggy bank gifts. In return the client gets pretty much.... 0% of sod all.. to be fair.. if that floats your boat then donate away...

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By *olfandtazCouple
43 weeks ago

Bristol

There is another website which is kink based, if you know, you know.

Plenty of female Dommes on there looking for a sub.

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By *ycanNightsMan
43 weeks ago

Workington

Pro dommes generally want paid for their services.

Lifestyle dommes are rarer...but i suspect want to be treated as a whole person...no just dispenser of your kinks.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
43 weeks ago

Southampton

"The best scam is the Mistresses who take the piggy bank gifts. In return the client gets pretty much.... 0% of sod all.. to be fair.. if that floats your boat then donate away...

That's called FinDom.... financial domination. . Its a thing...

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
43 weeks ago

Southampton

"Pro dommes generally want paid for their services.

Lifestyle dommes are rarer...but i suspect want to be treated as a whole person...no just dispenser of your kinks."

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By *gent CoulsonMan
43 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"There is another website which is kink based, if you know, you know.

Plenty of female Dommes on there looking for a sub. "
I have pointed him in that direction

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
43 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"Pro dommes generally want paid for their services.

Lifestyle dommes are rarer...but i suspect want to be treated as a whole person...no just dispenser of your kinks."

This one.

If you approach someone like they're a fetish vending machine, expect to be charged for the services

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By *ee VianteWoman
43 weeks ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Pro dommes generally want paid for their services.

Lifestyle dommes are rarer...but i suspect want to be treated as a whole person...no just dispenser of your kinks."

Exactly this.

If men insist on treating me like a kink dispenser, according to their whims, I'll treat them like clients and send them a bill.

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By *ee VianteWoman
43 weeks ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

And certainly don't expect most Mistresses to provide sex, (except, perhaps, pegging, or facesitting, if those are things they are into), paid or otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Pro Dom(mes) they are called.

Do you get the same from being in a full time dynamic? Probably not

Does everyone want and need a full time dynamic? Probably not

Do you get the physical aspect that you want and need from a Pro? Probably yes

As long as they are honest and upfront about what they are offering and that meets your needs then go for it

However, buying something off a “wish list” before any meet, for me…no chance

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By *gent CoulsonMan
43 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"Pro dommes generally want paid for their services.

Lifestyle dommes are rarer...but i suspect want to be treated as a whole person...no just dispenser of your kinks.

Exactly this.

If men insist on treating me like a kink dispenser, according to their whims, I'll treat them like clients and send them a bill."

As a Dom, I have no objection to topping be it impact play or rope, but only with people I know, as said above, I am not a kink dispenser, however it is very rare that a Dom charges for things like that as we are in the majority, the Pro Domme is rare by comparison and can therefore command a fee for services

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By *omersetsmithy OP Man
43 weeks ago

Horfield

Thanks everyone and the ones who message much appreciated.

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By *ack 500Man
43 weeks ago

stafford

I have a friend who is killing the findom seen , it’s crazy that men are willing to hand over money for absolutely nothing and they get off on it , win win

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By *ssex_tomMan
43 weeks ago

Chelmsford

"I have a friend who is killing the findom seen , it’s crazy that men are willing to hand over money for absolutely nothing and they get off on it , win win "

I have a friend who sells videos on a paysite of her bare feet and although she cannot retire on it she earns a few bob for all her family holidays etc...

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By *ssex_tomMan
43 weeks ago

Chelmsford

On a serious note. Does anyone think Tom could make a good living off his feet

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By *hirley147TV/TS
43 weeks ago

Blackpool

What about finding a woman in to cuckolding, what site would they be on?

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By *ccasional_LoversCouple
42 weeks ago

Peterborough

"I have a friend who is killing the findom seen , it’s crazy that men are willing to hand over money for absolutely nothing and they get off on it , win win

I have a friend who sells videos on a paysite of her bare feet and although she cannot retire on it she earns a few bob for all her family holidays etc... "

It is a very lucrative business if you can find the niche.

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By *makepeaceMan
42 weeks ago

Bristol

"There is another website which is kink based, if you know, you know.

Plenty of female Dommes on there looking for a sub. "

Could you please let me know too?

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