FabSwingers.com forum: Feeling sorry for Katherine Ryan? What’s your annual tally?

By *pankingNorfolk OP Couple
44 weeks ago

Norwichish

In an interview on the weekend Katherine Ryan said that her and her husband have sex twice a month. 24 times a year.

This was followed by an opinion piece saying 24 was quite a lot according to others in a relationship!

Can’t help but be a little shocked by that…

We have been together for well over a year and still have sex at least two or three times a week….plus lots of other bedroom activity that probably should also be counted. Reckon we are easily over 100 times per year. What’s your count?

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By *ellinever70Woman
44 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Why do you feel sorry for her?

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
44 weeks ago

Hell

Once so far this year

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By *pankingNorfolk OP Couple
44 weeks ago

Norwichish

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By *pankingNorfolk OP Couple
44 weeks ago

Norwichish

"Why do you feel sorry for her?"

In a relationship and only having sex 24 times a year with her partner seems a bit low

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"Once so far this year

Lucky *****

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By *viatrixWoman
44 weeks ago

Redhill

Pfffft…

Up to a year ago, possibly once a week.

Now… last time was well before Christmas. No signs of anymore coming anytime soon… married 20 years.

Thank goodness for my extracurricular activities

(yes, he knows)

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By *estarossa.Woman
44 weeks ago

Flagrante

"In an interview on the weekend Katherine Ryan said that her and her husband have sex twice a month. 24 times a year.

This was followed by an opinion piece saying 24 was quite a lot according to others in a relationship!

Can’t help but be a little shocked by that…

You are still relatively new then, maybe as time goes on, that plateaus xx

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

All the good relationships I’ve had it’s been minimum, every day we’re together. Sometimes twice if I’ve been doing my cardio and3 times if it’s a holiday/special occasion

However, I can respect why that would go down over the course of a really long relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Don't like her so don't care how much she gets

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Is it really any of our business?

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By *stwo2023Couple
44 weeks ago

Worcester

I think this might be a slightly biased audience lol

Having said that, when I was living with someone the sex was very infrequent. When seeing someone once or twice a week it was obviously more and we wanted to make the most of it.

Evie.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
44 weeks ago

1127 walnut avenue

Reminds me of that old joke..I only have sex once a year...so why do you look so happy... it's tonight..

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By *stwo2023Couple
44 weeks ago

Worcester

"Is it really any of our business? "

It doesn't have to be any of your business if you simply ignore it but, as ever, those with an opportunity to bring topics to the masses help to open up conversations where perhaps people feel too shy to. Some people may be in a similar situation and this may make them realise it's pretty common. That in turn can lead to better mental health and less pressure to 'do better'.

Evie

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By *ostindreamsMan
44 weeks ago

London

"Why do you feel sorry for her?

In a relationship and only having sex 24 times a year with her partner seems a bit low"

It depends on whether they are happy with it. Some people just don't have enough sex drive like the ones on fab. For them, twice a month is more than enough and are happy with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

I dislike this. Fab revolves around sex. The real world doesn't and there's no need to feel sorry for Katherine Ryan.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
44 weeks ago

London or Bedford

I’ve only been in two LTRs in my life & that number seems fine, especially if you have a job & children

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
44 weeks ago

Hell

"Sex?"

Joeyjojo Shabadoo?

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By *zeroMan
44 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Sex?

Joeyjojo Shabadoo?"

That's the worst name I've ever heard.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"Sex?

Joeyjojo Shabadoo?

That's the worst name I've ever heard."

Ohhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
44 weeks ago

Hell

"Sex?

Joeyjojo Shabadoo?

That's the worst name I've ever heard.

Ohhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!

WAIT JOEYJOJO

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"Once so far this year

HMU babe

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By *parkle1974Woman
44 weeks ago

Leeds

Anyone else think she may be happy with that amount. Sex is not the be all and end all!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
44 weeks ago

Leeds

She maybe happy with that amount?

People have different drives.

We are 7 years in and anywhere between 2-5 times a week depending on life stuff.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Lots of functioning long term relationships aren’t reliant on sex. Plus she’s got young kids I am pretty sure? It’s not that deep.

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
44 weeks ago

Norwich

Probably about the same here.

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By *issmorganWoman
44 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

If they're both happy with that, I don't see an issue.

When you've been in a relationship for a long time, the frequency will die down. It becomes an issue when one wants it more or not at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"Once so far this year

Same, and an incompatible meet too

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By *aseylee324Couple
44 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

If they're both happy with the frequency and quality of sex in their relationship, then good for them. Either way, what anyone here thinks of it is irrelevant.

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By *pandjMan
44 weeks ago

Sparkford

Depends on my partners hormones which depends where she is in her cycle. Can be every day or every other at least.

Got it twice a day with my ex. (But that was only for one day every two years hence why she's my ex)

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By *adCherriesCouple
44 weeks ago

Cheshire/Northwest

"Why do you feel sorry for her?

In a relationship and only having sex 24 times a year with her partner seems a bit low"

I think its unnecessary to judge her sex life.

Most women juggle the majority of household responsibilities especially with children and working.

Even though we have sex more, I haven't got the busy schedule that I assume she has being on TV/ doing shows / podcasts etc. I think female solidarity is important and really think it's distasteful.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
44 weeks ago

East Sussex

Thank goodness it's not a competition.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
44 weeks ago

Central

I think she's said before about the high quality of her relationship, so I'm guessing that she's happy. And that they'd change things, if not.

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By *elvet RopeMan
44 weeks ago

by the big field

I feel sorry for her husband, he has a really annoying wife and he doesn’t even get much action to make up for it

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By *assy69Man
44 weeks ago

West Sussex and Wales

"In an interview on the weekend Katherine Ryan said that her and her husband have sex twice a month. 24 times a year.

This was followed by an opinion piece saying 24 was quite a lot according to others in a relationship!

Can’t help but be a little shocked by that…

Am not sure what the issue is? They are still in their relationship, so maybe this is what works for them in, what I assume, will be their busy lives. Libido differs from person to person, not everyone is at it like rabbits day and night, seven days a week ….

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By *ean counterMan
44 weeks ago

Market Harborough / Kettering

Who??

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

If they are happy with twice a month then there is no issue. My husband and I can sometimes go 3 weeks without sex, sometimes life takes over. Work, family, stress, tiredness all have a part to play. I don't know how some people have the time or energy to be at it 34/7. It's not realistic or sustainable for us, what's more I wouldn't want it to be. Too much of a good thing and all that.

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By *a LunaWoman
44 weeks ago

South Wales

She’s not long had a baby and she has an older child. I think they’re doing alright considering!

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By *ornyguyMan
44 weeks ago

Hillsborough, NI

am in LTR and our tally was two last year which was a good run compared to the previous two years before that.

At my current rate, I'd be very happy with twice a month.

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By *orny PTMan
44 weeks ago

Peterborough

I don't know who she is, but has anyone asked if work gets in the way, especially if it involves working away from home on a regular basis? That alone could count for a lot.

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