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"For those it could apply to - have you ever gushed/squirted? For everyone else - would you find it a turn on or turn off? And a general question - can a woman be too wet during sex?" Yes and yes xx What are your thought OP? Can you, do you and is there such thing as too much of a good thing? | |||
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"N/A (well I guess men do squirt) Turn on for sure. Yes, things can be too slippery. Nothing a little mopping up can't fix " A little mopping up? I now have visions of a towel being used liberally.  | |||
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"For those it could apply to - have you ever gushed/squirted? For everyone else - would you find it a turn on or turn off? And a general question - can a woman be too wet during sex? Yes and yes xx What are your thought OP? Can you, do you and is there such thing as too much of a good thing?" So, I'm not sure if I can. I've definitely got rather wet before. I think I can. But I have a habit of pulling away when it feels like I can because I'm worried the other person wouldn't be in to it and I'm already quite wet and it might be *too* much. It's weird because I love when women are aroused and I can feel how wet they are. Taste them more easily. On myself though? I think there could be too much of a good thing. | |||
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then the time after I was eating her she nearly drowned me haha and I loved it
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 . She doesn’t have to gush or anything, but a woman’s body amazes me everytime im honoured for her to surrender it to me. As long as I see moments of her unable to keep her eyes open and she falls back in excitement, or she loses control and cums/squirts/ creams all over my hands/mouth/cock…..I’m going to feel wonderful inside, and she will feel how much she turns me in. She’ll feel it deep inside her. | |||
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"I’ve never squirted. I think you can be too wet for sex. I once had a guy stop mid shag to go and get a towel to wipe me and then his cock down before recommencing the sex."See, I've experienced the pat down - let's call it that. And an ex would tell me I was too wet for him a lot(I was a lot younger and far more impressionable!) so I sort of learnt that I should hold back a little bit? Not be as in to something as I am.
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"Yes I have and I find it a turn off." Squirting or a woman being "too" wet? I've not had coffee so stating the obvious is a help. | |||
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"For those it could apply to - have you ever gushed/squirted? For everyone else - would you find it a turn on or turn off? And a general question - can a woman be too wet during sex?" I did it a little bit once and was mortified. Certainly not something I'd want to regularly do. It also makes me  that someone might have done it in the bed I'm paying to stay in  | |||
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"For those it could apply to - have you ever gushed/squirted? For everyone else - would you find it a turn on or turn off? And a general question - can a woman be too wet during sex?" Massive turn on. I used to have a FWB who squirted repeatedly like a fountain every time she came over (and, indeed, came) to the point that I had to buy a waterproof mattress cover to save my bed as towels were not able to cope. Could she be too wet? Well, let me put it this way, I encouraged her to sit on my face and not to hold back. I happily nearly drowned on a few occasions  | |||
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Tl;dr - it's often there if you allow it to happen (even if it hasn't happened before), it's odd the first few times for you, it does (mostly) take female pleasure/experience to different levels, and if you manage "when" everyone can be very happy.
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"I love it! It’s a huge turn on when a woman gets super wet for me or hushes all over me! Drives me wild. Especially if they’re sat on my face at the time "Yeah, that's hot. Really fucking hot. Looking at it from the outsider pov, I'm all for it. | |||
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"Yes I have and I find it a turn off. Squirting or a woman being "too" wet? I've not had coffee so stating the obvious is a help." ‘Squirting’ is something I can do, and I find it a turn off both if I do it or if another woman does it. | |||
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"I've gushed a few times with penis penetration. I can feel it coming, so if we haven't prepared I stop him and change position. Excess lubrication has been the norm, since I was fitted with the coil. It's a common side effect of it and for me, balances out the vaginal dryness from menopause "Ah I didn't know that was a common side effect, thank you for sharing that. What do you do/say to stop him? I'm thinking jumping up and saying whatever gobbledygook I come out with isn't quite the answer. | |||
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"For those it could apply to - have you ever gushed/squirted? For everyone else - would you find it a turn on or turn off? And a general question - can a woman be too wet during sex?" I would have a guess that everyone Is different what turns 1 person on turns another off yes squirting is messy but if you have towels placed and on hand can clean up quickly and continue  | |||
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"First time it happened was a few yrs ago with a guy I was dating at the time, he jumped back and shouted 'what the hell was that?'! Although, he was an arse and soon after an ex! I have since realised it is just something my body does quite naturally.. sometimes it does, sometimes it doesn't.. and I have also discovered don't try to force it as you may 'let out a little wind' instead!! "That's a win-win for me | |||
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"Anything a woman does on my fingers is a turn on . She doesn’t have to gush or anything, but a woman’s body amazes me everytime im honoured for her to surrender it to me. As long as I see moments of her unable to keep her eyes open and she falls back in excitement, or she loses control and cums/squirts/ creams all over my hands/mouth/cock…..I’m going to feel wonderful inside, and she will feel how much she turns me in. She’ll feel it deep inside her. "Oh Woody! I love the way you've described it - honoured and surrendering. There's a lot to be said for truly enjoying watching someone lose their inhibitions, that control in the best of ways. It links back to that desire feedback loop - the more aroused someone is by you, the more aroused you are by them. | |||
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"For those it could apply to - have you ever gushed/squirted? For everyone else - would you find it a turn on or turn off? And a general question - can a woman be too wet during sex? I did it a little bit once and was mortified. Certainly not something I'd want to regularly do. It also makes me that someone might have done it in the bed I'm paying to stay in "Why were you mortified? Because of the fact you had or the actual act of doing it? Yes, sleeping in the same bed isn't the nicest thought is it? | |||
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"I don't think you can be "too wet" in terms of gushing amd squirting - it is an incredible release of pleasure, often takes a while to come back down to earth, and there's usually more inside that wants to come out to leave you pretty ach(e)y around thighs and hips with "wow...that was nice". The extreme wetness works fine with fingers/hands etc, works mostly well with oral (can be a little intrusive but not so much the person using their mouth is put off their thing too much), BUT it can be a major issue for penetrative sex after. Because the wetness drives away lubrication, the feeling on a cock is very different and can be unpleasurable. So the best way I've discovered to make it work for both (more, feasibly) parties is to make sure that different parts of the whole "drama" are acted in a sequence to bring most yum at the best times. My handbook "Optimal Gushing For Hotel Bed Ruination" (soz Midnight - they will be because they can be - best not to think too much and take extra linen to "feel" you're not on top of someone else's gush ) is available on Audible next never
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Tl;dr - it's often there if you allow it to happen (even if it hasn't happened before), it's odd the first few times for you, it does (mostly) take female pleasure/experience to different levels, and if you manage "when" everyone can be very happy.
And it makes an almighty mess - so plan properly x."I really hope you release that Audible soon, can't wait to listen to it. My slight teasing aside, thank you. Yes, I think penetration after would be very different - surely a bit of mopping up would be needed? Maybe planning in case of the possibility of it. Or maybe not overthinking it and just going with it works. | |||
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"Or maybe not overthinking it and just going with it works. "Definitely not overthink when you're with someone new - neither of you would have any real idea if the way you work together would lead to squirting or gushing. There are a lot of things that need to fall into place before it even becomes a possibility usually. If it becomes clear that you and they find squirting/gushing becomes part of where you get to, that's where the planning really makes a positive difference. Padded protectors make the whole bed less unpleasant after, if you have two or more the bed can be re-made, and there are some pretty ones that can be bought. So, if it becomes a thing, then that "thing" can become forward-planned to allow real and enjoyable spontaneity to enter. But, to be clear, not everyone will squirt/gush, not everyone will want to who can, it's not an end in itself (competitive squirting? No ta ), but it can really be something that leaves a wonderful halo too x | |||
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"For those it could apply to - have you ever gushed/squirted? For everyone else - would you find it a turn on or turn off? And a general question - can a woman be too wet during sex? I did it a little bit once and was mortified. Certainly not something I'd want to regularly do. It also makes me that someone might have done it in the bed I'm paying to stay in
Why were you mortified? Because of the fact you had or the actual act of doing it?
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"Errr yes I do squirt and most times I do feel embarrassed. Even though I know I shouldn't as it's my bodies natural reaction, but I am getting my head round it. As for being too wet, I think probably yes. I think you can and it renders less friction etc. However, it's knowing the person and changing things up a bit or 'mopping' up a little so sex can resume and enjoyable for everyone again. As I know I want friction too.both partners take it as a compliment as ladies it's your body showing you and your partner you're having a great time and gents it's showing you in one of the many ways that's youre doing a very good job "I don't think it's anything to be embarrassed by, not in the slightest. Not when other women do it. But it's always different when applied to yourself.
Reframing it as a compliment is a good way of doing it - you have to feel relaxed enough around a person and whatever level of arousal/wetness you have must surely be a good thing. If you've got that compatibility obviously. | |||
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"Anything a woman does on my fingers is a turn on . She doesn’t have to gush or anything, but a woman’s body amazes me everytime im honoured for her to surrender it to me. As long as I see moments of her unable to keep her eyes open and she falls back in excitement, or she loses control and cums/squirts/ creams all over my hands/mouth/cock…..I’m going to feel wonderful inside, and she will feel how much she turns me in. She’ll feel it deep inside her.
Oh Woody! I love the way you've described it - honoured and surrendering. There's a lot to be said for truly enjoying watching someone lose their inhibitions, that control in the best of ways. It links back to that desire feedback loop - the more aroused someone is by you, the more aroused you are by them."That’s right. Being in the moment and just going with the ‘flow’ so to speak. | |||
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"For those it could apply to - have you ever gushed/squirted? For everyone else - would you find it a turn on or turn off? And a general question - can a woman be too wet during sex?" Find it a turn on as long as its long in my mouth. Never ever can someone be too wet, my ex used to get so wet I could feel it running down my cock and balls when she was riding me. Absolutely loved it. Not to mention it sounds fantastic when your fucking. | |||
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"… I hate it and the way men see it as some sort of trophy. " ^This^ Squirting is just a sexy label for a woman losing control of her bladder. Don’t bother getting worked up into a froth trying to repeat the tired old arguments that have been refuted by anybody with a basic knowledge of human female anatomy… It’s the problem with some men, spurred on by the porn industry mostly, that see this as the holy grail of female sexual gratification, pumping their fingers like they’re possessed, beads of sweat on their brow, tongue out in desperate concentration, trying to ignore the arm muscles burning with lactic acid.. so they get some external signal that the woman ‘climaxed’ and had a good time… Just. Fucking. Don’t. Mate, she’s had 3 kids the hard way and never had time for the Kegels and you’re just stimulating her bladder… Many times I’ve been on the receiving end of a masterful display of my oral skills whilst in a 69 and the orgasm being so good that bladders have let go. Yass! Go you! And go me! I’ll play along and be all appreciative and dressing it up as a sexy event to avoid the truth of it… but really, you’ve just nearly drowned me in piss and I’m looking for the triple layer quilted, 20p a sheet, kitchen roll and thinking about that £800 mattress and why didn’t we put a towel down and also based on the acrid taste in my mouth and the sharp odour that I now know for sure you’re dehydrated. Glass of water? | |||
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"Squirting has only happened to me a couple of times and I felt a bit "is that it? What's all the fuss about?". It didn't happen because I orgasmed, or because I was extra turned on. This was my face at the time "That emote? So easy to imagine your face doing that. Sure I've seen it before.
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"Errr yes I do squirt and most times I do feel embarrassed. Even though I know I shouldn't as it's my bodies natural reaction, but I am getting my head round it. As for being too wet, I think probably yes. I think you can and it renders less friction etc. However, it's knowing the person and changing things up a bit or 'mopping' up a little so sex can resume and enjoyable for everyone again. As I know I want friction too.both partners take it as a compliment as ladies it's your body showing you and your partner you're having a great time and gents it's showing you in one of the many ways that's youre doing a very good job
I don't think it's anything to be embarrassed by, not in the slightest. Not when other women do it. But it's always different when applied to yourself.
Reframing it as a compliment is a good way of doing it - you have to feel relaxed enough around a person and whatever level of arousal/wetness you have must surely be a good thing. If you've got that compatibility obviously."Yep! Definitely for me, if I have that trust in a partner then it helps giving myself a bit of leeway when it does happen. If I trust the partner too I can actually squirt and I won't stop midway because I am embarrassed of what is about to happen. As you can see like many women, I haven't had many good experiences when squirting in the past. | |||
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"… I hate it and the way men see it as some sort of trophy. ^This^ Squirting is just a sexy label for a woman losing control of her bladder. Don’t bother getting worked up into a froth trying to repeat the tired old arguments that have been refuted by anybody with a basic knowledge of human female anatomy… It’s the problem with some men, spurred on by the porn industry mostly, that see this as the holy grail of female sexual gratification, pumping their fingers like they’re possessed, beads of sweat on their brow, tongue out in desperate concentration, trying to ignore the arm muscles burning with lactic acid.. so they get some external signal that the woman ‘climaxed’ and had a good time… Just. Fucking. Don’t. Mate, she’s had 3 kids the hard way and never had time for the Kegels and you’re just stimulating her bladder… Many times I’ve been on the receiving end of a masterful display of my oral skills whilst in a 69 and the orgasm being so good that bladders have let go. Yass! Go you! And go me! I’ll play along and be all appreciative and dressing it up as a sexy event to avoid the truth of it… but really, you’ve just nearly drowned me in piss and I’m looking for the triple layer quilted, 20p a sheet, kitchen roll and thinking about that £800 mattress and why didn’t we put a towel down and also based on the acrid taste in my mouth and the sharp odour that I now know for sure you’re dehydrated. Glass of water?" Yeah all of this except I've not had kids and don't need keegles. Like, if you fingerblast me, all you're doing is repeatedly thumping my bladder. Eventually even my excellent bladder won't be able to cope, and you're going to force it out. And I won't realise it's going to happen until it's too late, because it's not particularly pleasurable and I don't orgasm with it. And it also only even happens if I need a piss. Now, if a guy took the time to find out, he'd know that I have a very sensitive g spot on the front wall of my vag. And if you just give it a little tickle I'll be orgasming in ten seconds flat. I won't 'squirt' though as a result. | |||
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"I do squirt or gush most of the time and every guy except one I have ever been with absolutely loves it. They seem to be fascinated by it. It can be a pain if you’re not prepared. I usually used a waterproof mattress protector, but have also recently bought one of the blankets that’s targeted to squirters that works just as well. With regards to women’s wetness I was always under the impression that wetter was better, it definitely is for me. I have never been told I was too wet. I’m not sure how I would feel about that "I'm just imagining the market research going into blankets targeted towards squirters  | |||
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"… I hate it and the way men see it as some sort of trophy. ^This^ Squirting is just a sexy label for a woman losing control of her bladder. Don’t bother getting worked up into a froth trying to repeat the tired old arguments that have been refuted by anybody with a basic knowledge of human female anatomy… It’s the problem with some men, spurred on by the porn industry mostly, that see this as the holy grail of female sexual gratification, pumping their fingers like they’re possessed, beads of sweat on their brow, tongue out in desperate concentration, trying to ignore the arm muscles burning with lactic acid.. so they get some external signal that the woman ‘climaxed’ and had a good time… Just. Fucking. Don’t. Mate, she’s had 3 kids the hard way and never had time for the Kegels and you’re just stimulating her bladder… Many times I’ve been on the receiving end of a masterful display of my oral skills whilst in a 69 and the orgasm being so good that bladders have let go. Yass! Go you! And go me! I’ll play along and be all appreciative and dressing it up as a sexy event to avoid the truth of it… but really, you’ve just nearly drowned me in piss and I’m looking for the triple layer quilted, 20p a sheet, kitchen roll and thinking about that £800 mattress and why didn’t we put a towel down and also based on the acrid taste in my mouth and the sharp odour that I now know for sure you’re dehydrated. Glass of water?" So, what I'm getting from this is the general vibe that Village Hotels are going to be free from squirt juice? Good to know. I'm not really here to discuss or get in to a debate about what it is as such - it's not looking at the composition of it, the anatomical facts behind it. It's more how people view it. And as an aside, if there's such a thing as too wet for a woman to be (with or without squirting). I think it's interesting finding out how other women view it, what they feel like after etc. How men really feel when (sometimes literally) faced with it. I don't think there's a right or wrong way of feeling about it - if you're in to it, great, the same applies if you're not. I like the differing opinions shared, I appreciate the honesty in posts like yours. | |||
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"… I hate it and the way men see it as some sort of trophy. ^This^ Squirting is just a sexy label for a woman losing control of her bladder. Don’t bother getting worked up into a froth trying to repeat the tired old arguments that have been refuted by anybody with a basic knowledge of human female anatomy… It’s the problem with some men, spurred on by the porn industry mostly, that see this as the holy grail of female sexual gratification, pumping their fingers like they’re possessed, beads of sweat on their brow, tongue out in desperate concentration, trying to ignore the arm muscles burning with lactic acid.. so they get some external signal that the woman ‘climaxed’ and had a good time… Just. Fucking. Don’t. Mate, she’s had 3 kids the hard way and never had time for the Kegels and you’re just stimulating her bladder… Many times I’ve been on the receiving end of a masterful display of my oral skills whilst in a 69 and the orgasm being so good that bladders have let go. Yass! Go you! And go me! I’ll play along and be all appreciative and dressing it up as a sexy event to avoid the truth of it… but really, you’ve just nearly drowned me in piss and I’m looking for the triple layer quilted, 20p a sheet, kitchen roll and thinking about that £800 mattress and why didn’t we put a towel down and also based on the acrid taste in my mouth and the sharp odour that I now know for sure you’re dehydrated. Glass of water? Yeah all of this except I've not had kids and don't need keegles. Like, if you fingerblast me, all you're doing is repeatedly thumping my bladder. Eventually even my excellent bladder won't be able to cope, and you're going to force it out. And I won't realise it's going to happen until it's too late, because it's not particularly pleasurable and I don't orgasm with it. And it also only even happens if I need a piss. Now, if a guy took the time to find out, he'd know that I have a very sensitive g spot on the front wall of my vag. And if you just give it a little tickle I'll be orgasming in ten seconds flat. I won't 'squirt' though as a result." I’m in lurve with your ‘excellent bladder’
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" Yeah all of this except I've not had kids and don't need keegles. Like, if you fingerblast me, all you're doing is repeatedly thumping my bladder. Eventually even my excellent bladder won't be able to cope, and you're going to force it out. And I won't realise it's going to happen until it's too late, because it's not particularly pleasurable and I don't orgasm with it. And it also only even happens if I need a piss. Now, if a guy took the time to find out, he'd know that I have a very sensitive g spot on the front wall of my vag. And if you just give it a little tickle I'll be orgasming in ten seconds flat. I won't 'squirt' though as a result. I’m in lurve with your ‘excellent bladder’
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…slight side note but who doesn’t like giving somebody pleasure, knowing what you are doing to them is making their body react, isn’t that what it’s all about?
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"… I hate it and the way men see it as some sort of trophy. ^This^ Squirting is just a sexy label for a woman losing control of her bladder. Don’t bother getting worked up into a froth trying to repeat the tired old arguments that have been refuted by anybody with a basic knowledge of human female anatomy… It’s the problem with some men, spurred on by the porn industry mostly, that see this as the holy grail of female sexual gratification, pumping their fingers like they’re possessed, beads of sweat on their brow, tongue out in desperate concentration, trying to ignore the arm muscles burning with lactic acid.. so they get some external signal that the woman ‘climaxed’ and had a good time… Just. Fucking. Don’t. Mate, she’s had 3 kids the hard way and never had time for the Kegels and you’re just stimulating her bladder… Many times I’ve been on the receiving end of a masterful display of my oral skills whilst in a 69 and the orgasm being so good that bladders have let go. Yass! Go you! And go me! I’ll play along and be all appreciative and dressing it up as a sexy event to avoid the truth of it… but really, you’ve just nearly drowned me in piss and I’m looking for the triple layer quilted, 20p a sheet, kitchen roll and thinking about that £800 mattress and why didn’t we put a towel down and also based on the acrid taste in my mouth and the sharp odour that I now know for sure you’re dehydrated. Glass of water? So, what I'm getting from this is the general vibe that Village Hotels are going to be free from squirt juice? Good to know. I'm not really here to discuss or get in to a debate about what it is as such - it's not looking at the composition of it, the anatomical facts behind it. It's more how people view it. And as an aside, if there's such a thing as too wet for a woman to be (with or without squirting). I think it's interesting finding out how other women view it, what they feel like after etc. How men really feel when (sometimes literally) faced with it. I don't think there's a right or wrong way of feeling about it - if you're in to it, great, the same applies if you're not. I like the differing opinions shared, I appreciate the honesty in posts like yours. " This is it Meli x rather than seeing ‘squirting’ as an objective, see as an incidental (and never something to be ashamed of) - one of the most powerful things I’ve seen is a friend of mine in restraints, legs wide open, in the midst of a non-stimulated orgasm, head thrown back, arched body tensed against cuffs, gritted teeth and just letting go and gushing.. A powerful ‘Sex so good’ moment… Oooof | |||
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When I first squirted it was a total surprise as I previously always stopped when the same feeling came about before that time. I’d come up with all sorts of silly excuses to stop too.
Finally, one day I decided to simply tell people I chose to sleep with in advance that I am extremely wet. If they reacted negatively it saved me the trouble of spending time with them naked in advance.
For me, squirting is intense. It can make me extremely knackered. It can happen more than once. It does make my already extreme wetness even more wet, of course; but I’m no longer embarrassed by it.
Is there such a thing as too wet? No, I don’t think so. I think my wetness is a reflection of my arousal and exactly what my body feels is needed. As for friction or loss of it from extreme wetness, changing positions even slightly can make al the difference but I’ve not had a complaint about my wetness causing less pleasure.
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"For those it could apply to - have you ever gushed/squirted? For everyone else - would you find it a turn on or turn off? And a general question - can a woman be too wet during sex?" I've never gushed/squirted, and I don't want to. I would find it a massive turn off/mood ruiner for myself. Anyone bringing up the subject before sex would turn me off. I don't want to lose my bladder control during sex. Too wet? Yes, sometimes. For me, it feels better with the more friction option. But a quick wipe with a tissue and we can keep going. Part of the reason the initial penis-in-vag bit feels amazing is that it's the bit with least wetness. Or at least usually is. It feels to me like there's an optimum amount of wetness - not too much, not too little. I don't like feeling soggy  | |||
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"I’ve always been self conscious of being extremely wet. I mean the type of too wet where I can feel my wetness through thick denim jeans. I once had someone tell me my wetness was gross and like the slime of a slug. Such a lovely comment that was.
When I first squirted it was a total surprise as I previously always stopped when the same feeling came about before that time. I’d come up with all sorts of silly excuses to stop too.
Finally, one day I decided to simply tell people I chose to sleep with in advance that I am extremely wet. If they reacted negatively it saved me the trouble of spending time with them naked in advance.
For me, squirting is intense. It can make me extremely knackered. It can happen more than once. It does make my already extreme wetness even more wet, of course; but I’m no longer embarrassed by it.
Is there such a thing as too wet? No, I don’t think so. I think my wetness is a reflection of my arousal and exactly what my body feels is needed. As for friction or loss of it from extreme wetness, changing positions even slightly can make al the difference but I’ve not had a complaint about my wetness causing less pleasure.
"You are 100% right nothing to be embarrassed about and I certainly would find it a huge turn knowing that it is an act or action of what I was doing to you that has made you wet. And I’ve never experienced a situation where a lady has been too wet…wetter the better x | |||
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Ahhh…..sexual juices. As I may have previously mentioned on here, I have a real thing for observing a ladies internal arousal as it coats my cock and tasting it directly on my lips and tongue….
I’ve been with a few ‘gushers’ in my time.
I personally love it although it is in no way a prerequisite to amazing sex and I’m certainly not one of those porn addled, noetically insalubrious morons who will either promise to make or else pressure a lady to squirt.
As regards extreme wetness; it admittedly, sadly can somewhat abate sensation around the glans (the reduction of internal friction due to the extra natural lubrication) although never enough (in my experience at least) to prevent me from cumming nor to dampen (if you’ll excuse the decidedly poor choice of words there) the overall intimate pleasure | |||
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"Great post Meli
Ahhh…..sexual juices. As I may have previously mentioned on here, I have a real thing for observing a ladies internal arousal as it coats my cock and tasting it directly on my lips and tongue….
I’ve been with a few ‘gushers’ in my time.
I personally love it although it is in no way a prerequisite to amazing sex and I’m certainly not one of those porn addled, noetically insalubrious morons who will either promise to make or else pressure a lady to squirt.
As regards extreme wetness; it admittedly, sadly can somewhat abate sensation around the glans (the reduction of internal friction due to the extra natural lubrication) although never enough (in my experience at least) to prevent me from cumming nor to dampen (if you’ll excuse the decidedly poor choice of words there) the overall intimate pleasure "Good lord. What are you trying to do to me | |||
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"I do squirt or gush most of the time and every guy except one I have ever been with absolutely loves it. They seem to be fascinated by it. It can be a pain if you’re not prepared. I usually used a waterproof mattress protector, but have also recently bought one of the blankets that’s targeted to squirters that works just as well. With regards to women’s wetness I was always under the impression that wetter was better, it definitely is for me. I have never been told I was too wet. I’m not sure how I would feel about that "Oh I've heard about those blankets! Hope it works for you. Yes, it's an odd thing to be told. Like a definitive, nope, this is too wet for me. I'd never even gushed with him but just my general excitement was too much. I was far more impressionable and since then I've been bordering on hyperalert alert about it... like being aroused should be within the acceptable range of wetness. But I've always loved seeing people really get in to something and be super turned on. It makes me feel good and in those moments I think they're at their most beautiful. People are complex. | |||
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"Great post Meli
Ahhh…..sexual juices. As I may have previously mentioned on here, I have a real thing for observing a ladies internal arousal as it coats my cock and tasting it directly on my lips and tongue….
I’ve been with a few ‘gushers’ in my time.
I personally love it although it is in no way a prerequisite to amazing sex and I’m certainly not one of those porn addled, noetically insalubrious morons who will either promise to make or else pressure a lady to squirt.
As regards extreme wetness; it admittedly, sadly can somewhat abate sensation around the glans (the reduction of internal friction due to the extra natural lubrication) although never enough (in my experience at least) to prevent me from cumming nor to dampen (if you’ll excuse the decidedly poor choice of words there) the overall intimate pleasure
Good lord. What are you trying to do to me "I know right? Dude, message me, I’ve abated my filters | |||
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"Great post Meli
Ahhh…..sexual juices. As I may have previously mentioned on here, I have a real thing for observing a ladies internal arousal as it coats my cock and tasting it directly on my lips and tongue….
I’ve been with a few ‘gushers’ in my time.
I personally love it although it is in no way a prerequisite to amazing sex and I’m certainly not one of those porn addled, noetically insalubrious morons who will either promise to make or else pressure a lady to squirt.
As regards extreme wetness; it admittedly, sadly can somewhat abate sensation around the glans (the reduction of internal friction due to the extra natural lubrication) although never enough (in my experience at least) to prevent me from cumming nor to dampen (if you’ll excuse the decidedly poor choice of words there) the overall intimate pleasure
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"Great post Meli
Ahhh…..sexual juices. As I may have previously mentioned on here, I have a real thing for observing a ladies internal arousal as it coats my cock and tasting it directly on my lips and tongue….
I’ve been with a few ‘gushers’ in my time.
I personally love it although it is in no way a prerequisite to amazing sex and I’m certainly not one of those porn addled, noetically insalubrious morons who will either promise to make or else pressure a lady to squirt.
As regards extreme wetness; it admittedly, sadly can somewhat abate sensation around the glans (the reduction of internal friction due to the extra natural lubrication) although never enough (in my experience at least) to prevent me from cumming nor to dampen (if you’ll excuse the decidedly poor choice of words there) the overall intimate pleasure
Good lord. What are you trying to do to me
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"Great post Meli
Ahhh…..sexual juices. As I may have previously mentioned on here, I have a real thing for observing a ladies internal arousal as it coats my cock and tasting it directly on my lips and tongue….
I’ve been with a few ‘gushers’ in my time.
I personally love it although it is in no way a prerequisite to amazing sex and I’m certainly not one of those porn addled, noetically insalubrious morons who will either promise to make or else pressure a lady to squirt.
As regards extreme wetness; it admittedly, sadly can somewhat abate sensation around the glans (the reduction of internal friction due to the extra natural lubrication) although never enough (in my experience at least) to prevent me from cumming nor to dampen (if you’ll excuse the decidedly poor choice of words there) the overall intimate pleasure "Hello Sensual, I don't believe we've ever spoken before. I also don't think I've ever told you just how much I really do enjoy reading your posts on this sort of topic. A long time ago my username featured Insalubrious. Don't ask.
Yes, I think if it's the aim it kind of loses something. Well, must. Not had much experience in that area, at all. I like sex when it's a bit... messy. You know, spit, someone's natural lubricant. It enhances sensations, I adore hearing the sounds that come off the back of it - the best sort of accompaniment to a natural crescendo. Perhaps we're just pervs.
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"I've never been "subjected" to this. All the literature I can find says it's emissions (urine) from the bladder, with a minimal amount of vaginal secretion. can anybody prove me wrong? " Only through personal experiences and I don’t want you there with me when it happens | |||
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"For those it could apply to - have you ever gushed/squirted? For everyone else - would you find it a turn on or turn off? And a general question - can a woman be too wet during sex? Yes and yes xx What are your thought OP? Can you, do you and is there such thing as too much of a good thing? So, I'm not sure if I can. I've definitely got rather wet before. I think I can. But I have a habit of pulling away when it feels like I can because I'm worried the other person wouldn't be in to it and I'm already quite wet and it might be *too* much. It's weird because I love when women are aroused and I can feel how wet they are. Taste them more easily. On myself though? I think there could be too much of a good thing. " Louise had never before laying with another couple we’d chanced upon at a club. The other woman was in more of a dim mood and decided she was going to teach Louise how to squirt. She did and now can almost every time. She find it hugely enjoyable and empowering. As for too much, from my male perspective, I love it once or twice over my face, hands body but not more than that I can be a bit much. Thanks for sharing Meli xx | |||
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"I feel total embarrassment when it happens, but I’m sure it’s just because of a shitty reaction of someone with whom this has happened to me for the first time." That’s such a shame. I hope you work your way past that and learn to love it. I am sure learning your partner’s thought on it would help your comfort and confidence xx | |||
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Turn on for us especially Mr J!
No such thing as too wet, a WAP is the best 
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"I feel total embarrassment when it happens, but I’m sure it’s just because of a shitty reaction of someone with whom this has happened to me for the first time. That’s such a shame. I hope you work your way past that and learn to love it. I am sure learning your partner’s thought on it would help your comfort and confidence xx" Thank you. It does stop me in my tracks, if I’m being completely honest. But I’m hopeful one day I will find an appreciative partner. | |||
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"Great post Meli
Ahhh…..sexual juices. As I may have previously mentioned on here, I have a real thing for observing a ladies internal arousal as it coats my cock and tasting it directly on my lips and tongue….
I’ve been with a few ‘gushers’ in my time.
I personally love it although it is in no way a prerequisite to amazing sex and I’m certainly not one of those porn addled, noetically insalubrious morons who will either promise to make or else pressure a lady to squirt.
As regards extreme wetness; it admittedly, sadly can somewhat abate sensation around the glans (the reduction of internal friction due to the extra natural lubrication) although never enough (in my experience at least) to prevent me from cumming nor to dampen (if you’ll excuse the decidedly poor choice of words there) the overall intimate pleasure
Hello Sensual, I don't believe we've ever spoken before. I also don't think I've ever told you just how much I really do enjoy reading your posts on this sort of topic.
A long time ago my username featured Insalubrious. Don't ask.
Yes, I think if it's the aim it kind of loses something. Well, must. Not had much experience in that area, at all. I like sex when it's a bit... messy. You know, spit, someone's natural lubricant. It enhances sensations, I adore hearing the sounds that come off the back of it - the best sort of accompaniment to a natural crescendo. Perhaps we're just pervs.
Anyway, I'm off to abandon this thread in disgust/to fap over your post now." Perves united - I’ll wave my banner with pride
Oh yes! - The exquisite sounds of love juices in accordance with the penetrative motions.
I personally find said sounds to actually augment my arousal ten fold (a full on sensory overload when combined with the visuals in fact!) although have met many ladies who are sadly very self conscious when they occur
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"For those it could apply to - have you ever gushed/squirted? For everyone else - would you find it a turn on or turn off? And a general question - can a woman be too wet during sex?" Turn on .. totally... But Yes too wet during sex can be a problem. Less friction .. but not a big problem just get licking lol .. | |||
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"I feel total embarrassment when it happens, but I’m sure it’s just because of a shitty reaction of someone with whom this has happened to me for the first time." I don't care. I've soaked towels before and then laughed in the morning when he smelt them and made the ugh face. I did warn him, but he insisted on carrying on pummelling my bladder with his fingers.I don't let anyone do that now. They don't really need to, now my pelvic floor is fucked. | |||
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"I've never been "subjected" to this. All the literature I can find says it's emissions (urine) from the bladder, with a minimal amount of vaginal secretion. can anybody prove me wrong? Only through personal experiences and I don’t want you there with me when it happens " Tea! Brilliant.
To the poster who this is in reply to - I really do not care what it consists of. Not one jot. Not today.
This isn't the thread for a deconstruction of what it is and what it's not.
It's not saying everyone should like it nor that everyone should hate it - that would be absurd. Whatever it is, I want to know how people feel about the act, the results rather than the components of it as a fluid.
I'll add a kiss because I feel like this might be a tad blunt.
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"For those it could apply to - have you ever gushed/squirted? For everyone else - would you find it a turn on or turn off? And a general question - can a woman be too wet during sex?" Love to find a lady with wet panties and she can gush on my anytime | |||
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"I've never been "subjected" to this. All the literature I can find says it's emissions (urine) from the bladder, with a minimal amount of vaginal secretion. can anybody prove me wrong? Only through personal experiences and I don’t want you there with me when it happens Tea! Brilliant.
To the poster who this is in reply to - I really do not care what it consists of. Not one jot. Not today.
This isn't the thread for a deconstruction of what it is and what it's not.
It's not saying everyone should like it nor that everyone should hate it - that would be absurd. Whatever it is, I want to know how people feel about the act, the results rather than the components of it as a fluid.
I'll add a kiss because I feel like this might be a tad blunt.
x"So I like it for a few reasons, by far the biggest of which is below. It's both about me and the women I've experienced it with. That is (and my "magic numbers" also aren't particularly high, because I'm a bit weird) the women have often had more partners but haven't found the squirt/gush place with them. So that's flattering, but ONLY because after squirting/gushing their faces have been noticeably radiant, their smiles have been expansive and "goofy", their eyes have been dreamy, they've been unbelievably relaxed, definitely not quite in the "normal world", and it's a really good place to be in for gentle touches and kisses and holding. Giggly and very soft are often in the room. Normal language isn't. Different way of "being". It's beyond "normal" orgasms, which are pretty nice anyway. So undoubtedly my ego gets a massive stroke, for many reasons, but that cannot be unlinked from how good a place they are in. It's never "hey - made you drown the duvet". So I like it (love it) because it can do that, and I think it takes "normal" people out of normality and places them closer to the different worlds I inhabit because I'm a weirdo. So I've connected more than the usual world gives me licence to connect in. My world isn't "peri-orgasmic" - it's just not that similar to most versions of "normal" (what a horrid term), and, although I don't know anyone who does being alone better than me, sometimes that extra connection, that "further world" is nice to have company in. But not too much or too often, because part of my weird is that I prefer being alone most of the time, and it's strangely not "lonely" for the overwhelming part of it. That's how it works for me. It mostly brings out a different way of being for the woman, and I inhabit those places so find a new friend for a while. Before needing "me" back, full throttle and alone, in my ongoing weird x. | |||
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"For those it could apply to - have you ever gushed/squirted? For everyone else - would you find it a turn on or turn off? And a general question - can a woman be too wet during sex?" My ex used to get VERY wet before and during sex....loved that she was turned on and enjoying herself....felt amazing | |||
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But being too wet? No. I don’t think you can be "Now this is Ooofftt! | |||
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"I do, and its a double edged sword, for me. On the one hand, the release is fantastic. But I can orgasm without, too. I can also squirt/gush without orgasming. Both together, fantastic! However. Drawbacks... In the early days, being self conscious about it meant that I couldn't just let go, and enjoy myself. I have come to terms with that though. The mess, its inconvenient. I am fairly adept at using a waterproof mattress cover and towels, these days though. When in relationships where sleepovers occur, changing the bed before sleep is a pain though. And then morning sex risks ruining the bed!! Also, the male obsession (on Fab) with making it happen, like I am a trick pony!! Grrrr, grinds my gears. Theres the assumption that if I squirt/gush, they have achieved my end goal, when I am only just getting started!! It can make things so wet that when I Do cum, I push them out, and theres the different kind of lubrication, its much thinner, which means sometimes it gets sore, so, somewhat bizzarely, additional lube is required! Then there is the age-old arguement which can make you feel defensive, of what it actually consists of. Feeling shame instead of enjoyment. Sorry for waffling, but I am trying to be more honest about my feelings. "That's too perfect a description to close this thread on, so I'll be the threadkiller. | |||
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"I do, and its a double edged sword, for me. On the one hand, the release is fantastic. But I can orgasm without, too. I can also squirt/gush without orgasming. Both together, fantastic! However. Drawbacks... In the early days, being self conscious about it meant that I couldn't just let go, and enjoy myself. I have come to terms with that though. The mess, its inconvenient. I am fairly adept at using a waterproof mattress cover and towels, these days though. When in relationships where sleepovers occur, changing the bed before sleep is a pain though. And then morning sex risks ruining the bed!! Also, the male obsession (on Fab) with making it happen, like I am a trick pony!! Grrrr, grinds my gears. Theres the assumption that if I squirt/gush, they have achieved my end goal, when I am only just getting started!! It can make things so wet that when I Do cum, I push them out, and theres the different kind of lubrication, its much thinner, which means sometimes it gets sore, so, somewhat bizzarely, additional lube is required! Then there is the age-old arguement which can make you feel defensive, of what it actually consists of. Feeling shame instead of enjoyment. Sorry for waffling, but I am trying to be more honest about my feelings. "Brilliantly explained. | |||
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